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1/8/2009 4:40:17 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

klassyklown
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,839)
Bakersfield, CA
age: 41


Alright, we all have some tricks of the trade in which we try to attract the opposite sex. Some people use charm, some people use humor, some people use sex appeal, some people use intelligence, some people use sarcasm, and I am sure there are more.

My question is which of those tricks work best for you, and which of those tricks don't work at all?

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1/8/2009 4:43:38 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 
slowhand31
South Pittsburg, TN
age: 32


A combo of charm (southern charm), intelligence, sarcasm and humor... sex appeal is a little subjective because everyone has a different view of what they find sexy, but I try to do what little I can there as well lol.

1/8/2009 4:47:43 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 
texas_okie
Laverne, OK
age: 43


My gift of gab!
I can carry on a conversation with anyone, and keep them
interested for hours!

1/8/2009 4:48:27 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 
kantc
Bullhead City, AZ
age: 51


dropping my pants and doing the twist to music?

1/8/2009 4:51:45 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 
countrysweet677
Over 2,000 Posts (2,975)
Waverly, NY
age: 49


i wouldn't say i have any tricks i'm always told that i'm liked because of the way i am, just me.

1/8/2009 4:54:03 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

klassyklown
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,839)
Bakersfield, CA
age: 41


Quote from countrysweet677:
i wouldn't say i have any tricks i'm always told that i'm liked because of the way i am, just me.


What is it about you that people like?

kantc, I would like a video of that in my inbox please.



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1/8/2009 4:59:28 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

angelleyess
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (16,097)
Middleboro, MA
age: 37


Quote from klassyklown:
Alright, we all have some tricks of the trade in which we try to attract the opposite sex. Some people use charm, some people use humor, some people use sex appeal, some people use intelligence, some people use sarcasm, and I am sure there are more.

My question is which of those tricks work best for you, and which of those tricks don't work at all?



I dont have any tricks
I need to learn something though



[Edited 1/8/2009 5:00:10 PM PST]

1/8/2009 5:09:32 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

missmmeoftheday
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,438)
Brooklyn, NY
age: 44


I think my humor and intelligence... and I bat my eyelashes...

Sarcasm tends to be a little bit more edgy, and can sometimes be a turn-off. Unless you know that someone is being sarcastic... but you have to know someone a little bit to realize that.

1/8/2009 5:13:48 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

klassyklown
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,839)
Bakersfield, CA
age: 41


Angel, you lie. You use sexappeal like it is going out of style. lol

And missmme, you are so right about sarcasm, being that I am well trained in the art. It can and does backfire. The funniest thing is people who are sarcastic often tend to resent sarcasm. Those are the people who can dish it out, but can't take it. Me, I love it. It shows a kind of level of higher thinking.

1/8/2009 5:18:39 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

khrystaleroxx
Over 2,000 Posts (2,806)
North Richland Hills, TX
age: 39


I try to use all of them. Sarcasm, is used only on a "it depends" basis.

1/8/2009 5:30:16 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

cbr929rr
Braintree, MA
age: 43


angelleyess wear that little black dress and that should do it for most people! Just a thought cbr929rr

1/8/2009 5:30:19 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 
usakindatheart
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,895)
Overton, TX
age: 49


tricks... hmmmm. not sure ...

i have been pretty open on this site.. so what you don't see is what you get..

1/8/2009 5:35:00 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 
junkyardhack
Ocala, FL
age: 40


Hand cuffs whipcream and leather chaps.

1/8/2009 5:36:28 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 
piscesbabe
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,686)
New Fairfield, CT
age: 42


humor and sarcasm

plus I'm a really big flirt

1/8/2009 5:36:59 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

countrycharmer
Over 2,000 Posts (2,167)
Litchfield, OH
age: 45


I can’t really say they are tricks, more comparable to skills that make me uniquely me. I have been told that I am charming and know it to be so, although it comes honestly from the heart. I think laughter is something that we all need to do each and every day and tend to get others to laugh with me about some of life’s most interesting challenges, occasionally brought out with sarcasm toward the situation. With my scholastic education and documented work history, I feel it is representative of my intelligence. Many of my other skills include, although not a comprehensive listing, are: diligence, patience, compassion, romantic, decisive, honest, genuine, hopeful, caring, committed, understanding, fair, humble and spiritual.


I do not know how to address the sex appeal, although I suppose I am at least average since individuals do not cross the street when they are approaching me on the sidewalk. Lol

My 2-cents

1/8/2009 6:42:08 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

klassyklown
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,839)
Bakersfield, CA
age: 41


Quote from countrycharmer:
I can’t really say they are tricks, more comparable to skills that make me uniquely me. I have been told that I am charming and know it to be so, although it comes honestly from the heart. I think laughter is something that we all need to do each and every day and tend to get others to laugh with me about some of life’s most interesting challenges, occasionally brought out with sarcasm toward the situation. With my scholastic education and documented work history, I feel it is representative of my intelligence. Many of my other skills include, although not a comprehensive listing, are: diligence, patience, compassion, romantic, decisive, honest, genuine, hopeful, caring, committed, understanding, fair, humble and spiritual.



I do not know how to address the sex appeal, although I suppose I am at least average since individuals do not cross the street when they are approaching me on the sidewalk. Lol

My 2-cents


The word tricks is just a label. I am not a hooker turning tricks. I was just asking what are your strengths. What part of your personality shines through when you are dealing with the opposite sex?

1/8/2009 6:48:46 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

clarity101
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,624)
Aurora, CO
age: 59


tricks of the trade???...lol

no trickery here...just openness and honesty, tell it like i see it or how it is for me.

1/8/2009 6:59:27 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 
dunitall
Over 2,000 Posts (2,295)
Seattle, WA
age: 45


Tricks are for kids!



But actually, the secret is being the rabbit!...Take her out for a few drinks!


Let her get ta know you! pretty soon she wont be able to keep her hands off you!



1/8/2009 7:01:41 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

barbaraajo
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,493)
Reston, VA
age: 53


.
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<---no tricks

1/8/2009 7:05:51 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 
ttex1969
Over 1,000 Posts (1,561)
Walker, LA
age: 41


I got nothin

1/8/2009 7:11:28 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 
milktogo
Vernal, UT
age: 54


Transparency

1/8/2009 7:25:25 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

klassyklown
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,839)
Bakersfield, CA
age: 41


Quote from dunitall:
Tricks are for kids!



But actually, the secret is being the rabbit!...Take her out for a few drinks!


Let her get ta know you! pretty soon she wont be able to keep her hands off you!



Hey ya silly wabbit, twicks are for twits. lol

1/8/2009 7:29:05 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

lakc
Batam
Indonesia
age: 49


Good ol' southern charm and a bit of flirting works for me!

1/8/2009 7:33:33 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

mojobat
Lightfoot, VA
age: 30


I keep balloons in my bag of tricks.

1/8/2009 7:40:04 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 
hzbabydoll
Park Rapids, MN
age: 47


Cattleprod!

1/8/2009 7:44:36 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 
ttex1969
Over 1,000 Posts (1,561)
Walker, LA
age: 41


Quote from hzbabydoll:
Cattleprod!


Men are not cattle! I take offence to this!
What about all the men who endure cattleproding each year!? NOT FUNNY!

1/8/2009 7:44:49 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

lord_anubis
Over 2,000 Posts (2,198)
Toms River, NJ
age: 40


Astraglide, pair of cuffs, Small Vibrator, silk strap, muzzle, duck tape, whip, surgical gloves, caffeeine pills...ummm...that's about it.


1/8/2009 7:47:06 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

newlife4me2
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,185)
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 45


Quote from lord_anubis:
Astraglide, pair of cuffs, Small Vibrator, silk strap, muzzle, duck tape, whip, surgical gloves, caffeeine pills...ummm...that's about it.


For that you deserve a place of honor in the smart a** thread

1/8/2009 7:49:24 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

lord_anubis
Over 2,000 Posts (2,198)
Toms River, NJ
age: 40


Nah...i'll pass, lol.



[Edited 1/8/2009 7:50:38 PM PST]

1/8/2009 7:50:59 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

maryg2
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (14,218)
Philadelphia, PA
age: 40


i would say for me i like to think of myself w/a little sex appeal but i really like to try to be humourous. i love when s/o else makes me laugh. that really stands out and i think i can be pretty funny too. i only let my sarcasm side out if im trying to be smart w s/o and its usually somebody i dont like. true sarcasm that is. i tend to stay away from the "charming" men cuz i think they r bad news, the ones that r always trying too hard to be likeable and when they hook u, they throw u back in instead of keep u.

1/8/2009 7:53:20 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 
usakindatheart
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,895)
Overton, TX
age: 49


Quote from hzbabydoll:
Cattleprod!



Quote from ttex1969:
Men are not cattle! I take offence to this!
What about all the men who endure cattleproding each year!? NOT FUNNY!



put it on low, it doesn't hurt much...

men whine about the silliest things...



[Edited 1/8/2009 7:54:22 PM PST]

1/8/2009 7:54:17 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

barbaraajo
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,493)
Reston, VA
age: 53


Yeah, if you turn mean I vanish!

1/8/2009 7:56:51 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 
rusty_shorts
Over 2,000 Posts (2,623)
West Palm Beach, FL
age: 37


Quote from klassyklown:
Alright, we all have some tricks of the trade in which we try to attract the opposite sex. Some people use charm, some people use humor, some people use sex appeal, some people use intelligence, some people use sarcasm, and I am sure there are more.

My question is which of those tricks work best for you, and which of those tricks don't work at all?


I just scare the b*tches into liking me......

1/8/2009 7:57:55 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

klassyklown
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,839)
Bakersfield, CA
age: 41


Quote from lord_anubis:Nah...i'll pass, lol.

Sorry, you don't have a choice. We are dragging your a** in there with the rest of us. Speaking of asses, don't you own me a picture?

Rusty, you are so not scary. I think it is those puppy dog eyes that do the trick everytime.



[Edited 1/8/2009 7:58:42 PM PST]

1/8/2009 7:58:18 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 
mike22304
Over 1,000 Posts (1,646)
Alexandria, VA
age: 45


I'm rich and handsome












































NOT

1/8/2009 7:59:06 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

lord_anubis
Over 2,000 Posts (2,198)
Toms River, NJ
age: 40


Quote from klassyklown:
Quote from lord_anubis:Nah...i'll pass, lol.

Sorry, you don't have a choice. We are dragging your a** in there with the rest of us. Speaking of asses, don't you own me a picture?


Oh yeah...shit i forgot...
I'll get on that right away!



1/8/2009 8:00:01 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

klassyklown
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,839)
Bakersfield, CA
age: 41


Thank you.

1/8/2009 10:07:07 PMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

moozie
Over 2,000 Posts (2,105)
Southfield, MI
age: 49


humor--just look at my pic

1/9/2009 4:20:11 AMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 
lilmissala1957
Over 2,000 Posts (3,484)
Hartselle, AL
age: 52


Gosh it has been so long I think I forgot! LOL Humor has always been a trick. I have actually told alot of guys you are so "purty I am going to take you home and put you on my shelf so I can look at you!" That always led to the question would I take them down and play with them sometimes and the conversation was started. And I have used other lines too just can't think off hand what they were. Being a waitress was sometimes pretty easy to flirt. I could tell which ones I could flirt with and which ones I couldn't. My favorite trick was when a guy came in and opened his newspaper to read when I brought him his coffee I would sit down opposite him and started rattling as if we were married. You didn't fix this or that,your kids did so and so, the roof is leaking etc. They would usually crack up and say reminds me so much of home! or the x! And conversation usually took place then. The paper temporarily forgotten.

1/9/2009 5:43:35 AMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 
ttex1969
Over 1,000 Posts (1,561)
Walker, LA
age: 41


Quote from usakindatheart:
put it on low, it doesn't hurt much...

men whine about the silliest things...


Of course she could have been just making a joke, but you never know. Cattleprod's, stun guns, and date rape drugs should be taken seriously! We cant joke around about those sort of things you know!

1/9/2009 5:53:39 AMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

klassyklown
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,839)
Bakersfield, CA
age: 41


Quote from ttex1969:
Of course she could have been just making a joke, but you never know. Cattleprod's, stun guns, and date rape drugs should be taken seriously! We cant joke around about those sort of things you know!


Bend over Tex- I am going to brank you with this: letters Pictures, Images and Photos

1/9/2009 5:57:30 AMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 
ttex1969
Over 1,000 Posts (1,561)
Walker, LA
age: 41


Quote from klassyklown:
Bend over Tex- I am going to brank you with this: letters Pictures, Images and Photos


Keep that away from me! What is that some sort of drug!? You women are evil!

1/9/2009 6:02:38 AMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

mojobat
Lightfoot, VA
age: 30


Purple K...sounds like a mixed drink. Or the name of some new aged speed metal punk rapper.

1/9/2009 6:12:06 AMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

noredneckhere
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,615)
Knoxville, TN
age: 49


Quote from ttex1969:
Keep that away from me! What is that some sort of drug!? You women are evil!


Dude, just wait till she comes after you with a Rhohypnol SUPPOSITORY.

1/9/2009 6:18:08 AMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 
willbgood4u
Summersville, WV
age: 52


I'd have to say humor, personality, charm, chivalry, & just being genuinely Trustworthy, Loyal, Helpful, Friendly, Courteous, Kind, Obedient, Cheerful, Thrifty, Brave, Clean, and Reverent...a true scout, with a big heart...as the profile says.



1/9/2009 6:22:43 AMWhat'cha got there in that bag of tricks? 

msbevzie
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,796)
Oregon, OH
age: 46


Quote from angelleyess:
I dont have any tricks
I need to learn something though



Girlfriend you got it going on, you need no tricks your beautiful in yourself, and I'd say your sex appeal, alone is enough.