| 10/23/2007 8:28:46 PM | pregnant at 17w/o a job,barely attends school,as bad as Ithink it is? | |
 rachelg Kenner, LA age: 20
| | 1. Yes | | 2. No | | 3. Maybe | | 4. none of my fucking business! |
READ THIS 2 ...... She is my best friend and my cousin! Her boyfriend hits her and she allways goes back to him. She is about 2 and a half weeks pregnant.I think she made a big mistake!
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| 10/23/2007 8:45:43 PM | pregnant at 17w/o a job,barely attends school,as bad as Ithink it is? | |
 stl1 Saint Louis, MO age: 54
| YAH THINK??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
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| 10/23/2007 8:46:28 PM | pregnant at 17w/o a job,barely attends school,as bad as Ithink it is? | |
 chopperbabe Overland Park, KS age: 47
| Yah, it's as bad you think it is but you can talk to her and she will still do the same thing. Obviously she has confidence issues and feels that this man (hard word to call him for a man doesn't hit a woman) is the only man that will love her. She will have to reach a point where she doesn't want to be his punching bag. But then there is the child that will come into the world. How sad to have a father as such to be a role model for his future. How far will he go if he decides to take out his frustrations on the child??? If he sees nothing wrong with hitting a woman then he will see nothing wrong with hitting a child. Only thing you can do for her is listen til she decides she's not going to take it anymore.
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| 10/23/2007 8:48:29 PM | pregnant at 17w/o a job,barely attends school,as bad as Ithink it is? | |
 rachelg Kenner, LA age: 20
| Well Yeah I Do Think ,,,,, I Just Wanted To See What Others Had To Say.... To Make Sure I Wasnt Beaing 2 Hard On Her! 
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| 10/23/2007 8:48:41 PM | pregnant at 17w/o a job,barely attends school,as bad as Ithink it is? | |
 lasttime4me Townsend, MT age: 63
| My girl friend was pregnant at 17 and we were married 32 years ,that were mostly wonderful. Tell me where her boyfriend is and he won't ever hit her again i promise. 
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| 10/23/2007 8:52:14 PM | pregnant at 17w/o a job,barely attends school,as bad as Ithink it is? | |
 rachelg Kenner, LA age: 20
| You deff hit the mark on that 1.. u see the worse part of it is he is nothin but a little b*tch ,, he never is n-e thing but as nice as can bee 2 her ,around me and the rest of her family! I personaly think that this baby was not a accident!!
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| 10/23/2007 8:54:33 PM | pregnant at 17w/o a job,barely attends school,as bad as Ithink it is? | |
 rachelg Kenner, LA age: 20
| LOL... He works for the gov. inspecting things that no 1 can kno about lol lol In Golf port Mississippi.. dont kno the address sorry... but thankx 4 careing!!
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| 10/24/2007 11:10:43 AM | pregnant at 17w/o a job,barely attends school,as bad as Ithink it is? | |
 air1medic Lakewood, WA age: 37
| Sounds like she is really screwing her life up..babies having babies is never a good thing
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| 10/24/2007 11:16:42 AM | pregnant at 17w/o a job,barely attends school,as bad as Ithink it is? | |
 trublu5ft2 Columbia, TN age: 51
| I agree.. It's a total mess at the moment... but it can be repaired with the right choices.. No one can do that for her but her.
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| 10/24/2007 12:02:40 PM | pregnant at 17w/o a job,barely attends school,as bad as Ithink it is? | |
 gamas Porterville, CA age: 41
| It's not as long as she gets rid of the guy who hits trust me he will hit her more and more. it's not good for her or the baby and that's who she needs to think about now is her baby my 21 year old got pregnant when she was 18 dropped out of school and is not employed my granddaughter is 2 years old and the love of my life but I want my daughter to get her Ged and go to college she has a boyfriend who is not the babys biological father but he is a dad to my granddaughter and that is very hard to find and he has a decent job good luck!!!
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| 10/24/2007 12:08:35 PM | pregnant at 17w/o a job,barely attends school,as bad as Ithink it is? | |
 air1medic Lakewood, WA age: 37
| yeah well tell that to most of the girls out there that are 16, 17 18 getting knocked up and have no job..and the rest of us that have well established careers have to pay for it when they go on welfare..its not my job to pay for someone elses kid
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| 10/24/2007 12:38:11 PM | pregnant at 17w/o a job,barely attends school,as bad as Ithink it is? | |
 brittianyann Meadowview, VA age: 19
| hunnie to be honest i got pregnant wen i was 16 and had my son when i was 17 i wasnt in school and i didnt have a job but alot of people respected me cause i got a job and was supporting myself and my child. its bad but she can get a job. tell her to get rid of her f*cking abusive boyfriend. cause he is going to hurt her the wrong way and make her lose that baby. she can study for her g.e.d or go to adult classes.
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| 10/24/2007 1:02:48 PM | pregnant at 17w/o a job,barely attends school,as bad as Ithink it is? | |
 slowtyper1953 Fort Wayne, IN age: 54
| my daughter was in the same situation, i had 3 cop friends, 1 outlaw biker dude, me numerous times,my daughter's mom, try to scare him away, reason with him,pleaded with him.
NOTHING I SAY NOTHING COULD EVER TEAR THEM APART.
She was 16-21 saw him even after he got out of prison moved into my apartment that is one of my duplexes, that i gave to her so she could go to school,boy did the shit hit the fan when i found out.
FINALLY,YES FINALLY She saw the light of who this guy was really........... now so was prengent, so i did get a wonderful grandbaby, and my daughter........
Goes school full-time works part-time and she is with a good man that treats her right,so going after sperm donar for child support,she will never see a dime, so to your answer good luck until she is ready to move on,until she is tried of being beaten and used, or taken feet first she is staying MOA, GOOD LUCK, AND JUST BE THERE FOR HER, CAUSE YOU'LL PROBABLY HEAR THE SAME OL' SHIT, OVER AND OVER    
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| 10/24/2007 4:09:00 PM | pregnant at 17w/o a job,barely attends school,as bad as Ithink it is? | |
 kenj45159 New Vienna, OH age: 48
| I think he will keep abusing her as long as he thinks he can get away with it.
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| 10/24/2007 4:19:19 PM | pregnant at 17w/o a job,barely attends school,as bad as Ithink it is? | |
 painter41 Scranton, PA age: 42
| If she has the courage to leave him she will be better off raising a child on her own. there is always welfare til she gets on her feet, but as long as she has the LOSER on her side she will always be a punching bag. Men like that will never change. JMO
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