| 10/25/2007 8:15:45 PM | yup i have issues tonight......sorry but iyts true! | |
dragonfly1970
Conyers, GA
age: 38
| Why is it that i break hearts and feel like shit doin it??!!!
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| 10/25/2007 8:19:30 PM | yup i have issues tonight......sorry but iyts true! | |
thepkk
Everton, MO
age: 53
| Because you know you did something wrong.
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| 10/25/2007 8:20:10 PM | yup i have issues tonight......sorry but iyts true! | |
joann1980
Roseburg, OR
age: 28
| If you feel like shit doing it than why do you do it.
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| 10/25/2007 8:33:41 PM | yup i have issues tonight......sorry but iyts true! | |
peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 41
| What feeling do you get that is so worth breaking another soul? 
Peaches.
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| 10/25/2007 8:41:48 PM | yup i have issues tonight......sorry but iyts true! | |
dragonfly1970
Conyers, GA
age: 38
| guess i should continue,even though its wrong!Sorry i am not that kinda person!!!I really do hate hurtin people!u may not like me....but i have to break it off after an 8.5 yr relationship tomorrow and i cant stand it!!I have become detached and i hate being the bad person.I respect all u guys here but i have had alot happen to me lately and i wish it on no one!! I know this is wrong but i have no proper discription of what i have to do and just needed to vent.I thank you for ur patience with me and mean u no ill effects.Thank u guys and girls for being urself,i have need and used u folks enuff and have not fullfilled my level of devotion and i feel bad for that but emotions generally phuk me up.I like u guys alot and i know this sounds like babble 2 u but i am in need of guidance with relationship breaking and dun know where else to turn.Sorry to tie up all this time but i have found someone.....so to speak.....yes here.....and i cannot pursue it without ending a looong one and she is sooooo emotional.Yes i have been drinkin and i know that doesnt help but it is where i am used to being when i have problems!Yeah i know this means babble to u guys but....u guys are speial for being able to read between the line an i respect that!Sorry just needed to vent against myself.TY for ur time........oppologies for tying u up(unless u wanted that).Take care and the me that u know will be back as soon as i get over this!
PS my son is ok from the crash!! Thanx for ur concern!! Dave....yup sincerely, ;0\
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| 10/25/2007 8:49:23 PM | yup i have issues tonight......sorry but iyts true! | |
sumbeach763
Raeford, NC
age: 45
| Damn do what you have to ......Its always so hard to say good bye.....I just hope this new woman doesn't give you a taste of your own medicine..... But best of luck to you .....Beach
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| 10/25/2007 8:50:31 PM | yup i have issues tonight......sorry but iyts true! | |
peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 41
| I have to agree with Beachy, I hope you know what your doing and all goes well.
xoxoPeaches.
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| 10/25/2007 8:51:32 PM | yup i have issues tonight......sorry but iyts true! | |
johnnybravo76
Mechanicsville, VA
age: 31
| peaches is gonna huuuuuuuuurl lol
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| 10/25/2007 9:01:15 PM | yup i have issues tonight......sorry but iyts true! | |
dragonfly1970
Conyers, GA
age: 38
| Ps i do not do this as a habit,Thats not who i am!!I have never been shallow nor do i evr plan to be that way!PLEASE dont think of me that way! I have never said anything derogatory about anyone here and i expect the same respect.I have met someone on hover spot and she makes me feel like a kid w/a crush again and i havent even been interrested in that way!!So,without giving a false impression i have decided to end an 8.6 yr relationship that has become somewhat unrecognizable,see the real problem is the kids......i have been and wish to always be daddy to them regardless of the circumstances and i am affraid she will move away once i do this!She is a really great person that u would all be proud to know but we dont click anymore......how do i do this?!!! Confused and concerned......me
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| 10/25/2007 9:04:45 PM | yup i have issues tonight......sorry but iyts true! | |
wonderturtle
Overland Park, KS
age: 41
| I'm not criticizing..I just wish to understand .. Did you have feelings of wanting to out yourself from the 8.5 year relationship before you met this other woman online?
If not, then maybe take a step back and re evaluate everything.
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| 10/25/2007 9:06:57 PM | yup i have issues tonight......sorry but iyts true! | |
dragonfly1970
Conyers, GA
age: 38
| yes i did and i felt like shit for it.....i havent been emotionally attached since my 2nd divorce until now.....i love this woman! And that is crazy to me! I didnt think i had it in me anymore
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| 10/25/2007 9:12:51 PM | yup i have issues tonight......sorry but iyts true! | |
dragonfly1970
Conyers, GA
age: 38
| its not neccesarily that i have cheated but i am feeling that i have been with the new baby long enuff in words that i feel like i am cheating(no hands on i swear to u guys)but i feel like the new woman and myself have been married for 50+ years! What i guess i am after is an idea for how i should end an 8.5 yr relationship without hurting anyone but me.......i can take it as a habit but she cannot.I hate this but it will only get worse in time! yup me ...the shit head
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| 10/25/2007 9:19:56 PM | yup i have issues tonight......sorry but iyts true! | |
julymorning07
Saint James, MO
age: 55
| Can I ask you why you continued in this 8+ yr relationship if you were not emotionally involved, which I translate to mean you LOVED HER but were not IN LOVE with her?
I am asking because I am on the receiving end of someone not emotionally involved, and am watching another friend, a male, doing the same thing to someone else.
I cannot buy this stuff about not wanting to hurt anyone or seeing a woman cry. The longer it goes on the worse it is gonna hurt.
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| 10/25/2007 9:27:51 PM | yup i have issues tonight......sorry but iyts true! | |
dragonfly1970
Conyers, GA
age: 38
| Part of the reason it continued is the kids....i know that is wrong....the other reason has some to do with her and me....she doesnt share the same feelings anymore as far as i can tell.......it is against my principals to cheat and i dont think i could....but i have thought about it alot lately and that bothers me....i really am a good guy and that is alot of the problem. I hate to hurt unsususpecting people....it has givin me health problems for 3 days now and i cant take that!I just wanna be happy with my life! Is that so bad?? I am lookin for help in how to end this without too much emotional damage to anyone.Thank you.
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| 10/25/2007 9:41:05 PM | yup i have issues tonight......sorry but iyts true! | |
julymorning07
Saint James, MO
age: 55
| Have the two of you sat down and talked about this? I think you both need to know where the other one stands.
Those with relationship credentials would probably suggest a trial seperation, without seeing each other AT ALL, or dating anyone else. A third party should facilitate your seeing the children during this time. What should happen during this seperation is true feelings one way or the other will become apparent.
Then, the 'experts' will suggest not getting involved with someone new for a minimum of a year.
Don't shoot me, I am just the messenger.
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