Forums: Chat Room: FRIENDS with benefits
10/26/2007 2:46:32 PMFRIENDS with benefits 

meetjoedirt
Chattanooga, TN
age: 41

I POSTED MY PROFILE AS LOOKING FOR A FRIEND WITH BENEFITS. IM NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP AND WORK 3 JOBS SO IT DOESNT LEAVE MUCH TIME FOR DATING.
NOW IM NOT LOOKING TO JUST SLEEP WITH ANY WOMAN THAT COMES ALONG AND SAYS OK!
IM LOOKING FOR 1 PERSON TO BE WITH , BUT I GET MANYYYYYYY REMARKS ON MY PROFILE LIKE IM SOME SEX CRAVED MANIAC. ANYONE HAVE A IDEA ON HOW TO WORD MY PROFILE TO REMOVE THE SEX CRAZED IMAGE IT IS PROJECTING?
ON AND I GET ALOT FROM THE NO PIC TOO..THERE IS A REASON FOR IT...MY JOB. IF THEY SEEN IT , IT COULD COST ME MY JOB AS A FIREFIGHTER.

10/26/2007 3:27:15 PMFRIENDS with benefits 

trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 51

How about just looking for friends to hang out with? You can always further explain once you get to chatting with someone.

10/26/2007 3:29:24 PMFRIENDS with benefits 

goldarnit
Saint Paul, MN
age: 48

just write what you wrote here...3 jobs,busy as hell,looking for someone to just hang out with periodically.i hate that friends with benefits saying...thats for the 18-20+ yr olds,that are still looking...ya know what im sayin??

10/26/2007 5:16:42 PMFRIENDS with benefits 

lazehorses
Fordyce, NE
age: 35

All of the above and let them know you'll email a photo. If you weren't in MI I'd let you email me a photo.

10/26/2007 5:30:08 PMFRIENDS with benefits 

tusko
Evansville, IN
age: 56

...hmmmmm, if friends with benefits belongs to the 20's , hang out belongs to 30's, uhhhhh........lemme see here, I'm 56, so that means............OMG !!

10/26/2007 5:31:55 PMFRIENDS with benefits 

goldarnit
Saint Paul, MN
age: 48

OMG..YOU JUST CRACKED ME UP..WHAT DO YOU CALL IT AFTER 50???

10/28/2007 11:13:00 AMFRIENDS with benefits 

tusko
Evansville, IN
age: 56

.....maybe refer to it as " Fantasy " ???

10/28/2007 7:49:04 PMFRIENDS with benefits 

mrc4u
Daytona Beach, FL
age: 58

All of you have good point as to friend would benefit. However in my opinion, a friend which will take you in when you're drunk, or a girlfriend kicks you out, you smash your car, or you need couple bucks so you can party. And he or she as a friend won't demand any answers from you. That what I would call friend with a benefits.HA!!!!!!!!!! HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

10/28/2007 8:02:06 PMFRIENDS with benefits 

candelicious2u
Norlina, NC
age: 41

i hate the term "friends with benefits" but i have to say i commend u on being honest..i would rather a man say it from the beginning than lead me on to thinking would be more and his whole intention of showing interest is to get me into bed...good luck to ya!!!

10/28/2007 8:06:21 PMFRIENDS with benefits 

cleezyweezy23
Decatur, IL
age: 23

im lookin for friends in central illinois.

10/29/2007 3:46:32 PMFRIENDS with benefits 

meetjoedirt
Chattanooga, TN
age: 41

thanks to everyone who had a GOOD idea for me i took them into concideration and hope it worked.
p.s. i took out firend with benefits phrase

10/29/2007 3:58:34 PMFRIENDS with benefits 

chinatown_girl
Oyster Bay, NY
age: 19

hey don't drag the 18-21 year olds into it that friends with benefits behavior was there before we got here

10/29/2007 3:59:06 PMFRIENDS with benefits 

chinatown_girl
Oyster Bay, NY
age: 19

and the firechief asked u to come to his office rite now.