Forums: Dating General Discussion: WHY
10/29/2007 9:06:53 PMWHY 

youpickone
Huron, SD
age: 63

WHY IS IT ALWAYS A MANS POSITION TO EMAIL FIRST I AN TIRED OF DOING THE PERSUEING I WANT TO BE THE PERSUEE FOR A CHANGE WHAT HAPPEN TO WOMEN'S RIGHTS AND ETC. IT ALL SEEMS TO ME ON MY SHOULDERS TO MAKE THE PLAYS AND THE URLES WHY!@!!

10/29/2007 9:30:59 PMWHY 

chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47

Hmmm I thought women's rights were to get paid the same for the same job no matter what gender or race.

I still like doors open for me as well as I let him relax as I cook the meals.

Just an FYI ... you might not wanna type all in caps ... people might think you are yelling.



[Edited 10/29/2007 9:31:20 PM]

10/29/2007 9:36:07 PMWHY 

lostinwyoming
Evanston, WY
age: 50

hey you,is that hat a stetson? it looks just like mine.good taste in hats. she's right about the caps thing,on the computer its considered yellin.

10/29/2007 9:57:15 PMWHY 

mmaru
Erie, PA
age: 24

Personally, I like a fair mix. Sometimes I e-mail first, but I like it when someone else e-mails me first, too. In a relationship itself, I prefer to sort of work out the "rules" together - focusing on each person's strengths. I have no problem doing the "man jobs" like mowing the lawn or fixing things (I hate taking out the trash, though...) but I also enjoy doing the domestic chores like washing dishes. Guess it just depends on the person, but if you'd rather have someone else make the rules, sit down with your lady and tell her that you'd rather discuss it together. Takes two in a relationship, after all!

10/29/2007 11:55:24 PMWHY 

stormygrl
Longmont, CO
age: 42 online now!

I like it 50/50
you do for me i will do for you.

10/30/2007 12:09:15 AMWHY 

knotreel
Belvidere, NC
age: 35

Okay stormy, lets do it.

10/30/2007 3:52:43 AMWHY 

ladykathryn0414
Denison, IA
age: 30

I sometimes initiate first contact by emailing. But, more likely then not, I enjoy the guy making first contact. This has nothing to do with female rights. I think the hippie dikes of the world ruined it for the rest of us women. Just becuase we want rights, that doesn't mean we don't want respect. We still want to be treated like a lady, loved, cherished,respected,etc. (ok well I do). There is nothing wrong with pursuing a lady by emailing first. Let em know you are interested. IF they don't respond back, then you are no worse off.

10/30/2007 6:38:06 AMWHY 

silkpanties52
Baytown, TX
age: 53

doesn't matter to me
i get so wraped up in the forums
that i then find someone to contact
if i want to talk to some one i
just do it, gotta have a reason
so give me one and i'll chat with
you.....

10/30/2007 6:46:59 AMWHY 

angelleyes
Plymouth, MA
age: 35

well i think 50/50 is great but how do u know if the person u want to persue u, is as interested in u, as u are in them? so if u dont email first, how would that person even know ur interested? "there has to be an attraction on both sides" IM CONFUSING MYSELF lol anyway... as i always say, if u see something u like go after it!!! that goes for men and women. jmo

10/30/2007 6:56:56 AMWHY 

hanover
Harrison, MI
age: 53


Don't forget your club,

can help you out some,if all else fails.

10/30/2007 11:18:19 AMWHY 

wanttodance
Big Rapids, MI
age: 51

i dont like it but i have been emailing first. i wish guys wopuld email me first sometimes but they dont know im looking i guess or maybe because i cant get a picture to down load here

10/30/2007 11:20:44 AMWHY 

nicksterdemus
Little Rock, AR
age: 50

Good luck w/that but I notice in nature that the males must persue n bug the hell outa the gals 2 have a shot...................

10/30/2007 7:34:53 PMWHY 

youpickone
Huron, SD
age: 63

sorry about the caps but i was having a moment this is like a big meat market everyone shopping and no one is purchasing or the product is to far a way

10/30/2007 7:37:49 PMWHY 

lo_sue
El Paso, TX
age: 34

I never emailed 1st but I guess I could change that

10/30/2007 8:17:29 PMWHY 

lawrence084
Honolulu, HI
age: 41

youpickone - I suggestion you should try taking a photo that gives women a reason to email you. Or write something in your essay that inspires them to ask you something.

Make it easy for them...Give them a reason too.

Just some friendly advice.



[Edited 10/30/2007 8:18:11 PM]