| 2/19/2009 7:46:49 PM | why do this? | |  fundad08 Harvest, AL age: 39
| I was wondering why people look at others who live so far away. I have had several messages from women lately and they live several hundred miles away. how do they expect to start any kind of relationship.
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| 2/19/2009 7:47:23 PM | why do this? | |
jazzyjasine49 Crossville, AL age: 49
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| 2/19/2009 7:53:47 PM | why do this? | |
 tomfreebird
 Brownsboro, AL age: 56
| I have no idea.  
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| 2/19/2009 7:54:53 PM | why do this? | |
 southernnurse2
 Opp, AL age: 50
| You never know, when or where you will find that special one.
Distance, should not be a barrier. They may be tired of where they
live and are wanting or willing to move. Or they might just think you
are cute, and someone they would like to know better.
youjusneverknow
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| 2/19/2009 7:57:24 PM | why do this? | |
tambo65
 Cullman, AL age: 44
| I drive two hours to see my honey and he is worth every bit of it.
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| 2/19/2009 7:59:30 PM | why do this? | |
 duchessa
 Yonkers, NY age: 58
| I received mails from people living in states as far as CA, FL and AL.
There are people that have retired -or are ready to retire- and can travel long distance and even relocate.
Duchessa
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| 2/19/2009 8:00:50 PM | why do this? | |
jazzyjasine49 Crossville, AL age: 49
| i say depends on who has to relocate
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| 2/19/2009 8:13:18 PM | why do this? | |
 whitelillies
 Tuscaloosa, AL age: 54
| I get them constantly from guys all over the U.S. and Canada. They aren't retiring. One of them was in Beverly Hills. LOLOL
Might load up my truck and move to Bev er ly.

[Edited 2/19/2009 8:14:18 PM PST]
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| 2/19/2009 8:15:34 PM | why do this? | |
thebear1954 Thorsby, AL age: 55
| im drivin 2 hours tomorrow to meet mine
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| 2/19/2009 8:15:54 PM | why do this? | |
 hot007
 Bryant, AL age: 50
| yeah I could settle for someone in my home town but why settle for less, nope not me my baby is a 120 miles from me and thats just it she's everything to me!
[Edited 2/19/2009 8:16:56 PM PST]
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| 2/19/2009 8:18:00 PM | why do this? | |
 tomfreebird
 Brownsboro, AL age: 56
| I traveled 1700 miles two different time to see kat. She has traveled here once, and is coming again soon.
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| 2/19/2009 8:19:48 PM | why do this? | |
 hot007
 Bryant, AL age: 50
| well lets hope so 
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| 2/19/2009 8:21:10 PM | why do this? | |
thebear1954 Thorsby, AL age: 55
| i cant seem to find one in my hometown,so distance aint no big deal
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| 2/19/2009 8:21:22 PM | why do this? | |
 tomfreebird
 Brownsboro, AL age: 56
| With my help, maybe, 
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| 2/19/2009 8:23:57 PM | why do this? | |
 hot007
 Bryant, AL age: 50
| you da man
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| 2/19/2009 8:25:38 PM | why do this? | |
 tomfreebird
 Brownsboro, AL age: 56
| Bear I got a used blow-up doll for sale.
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| 2/19/2009 8:26:35 PM | why do this? | |
jazzyjasine49 Crossville, AL age: 49
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| 2/19/2009 8:30:32 PM | why do this? | |
thebear1954 Thorsby, AL age: 55
| is she still usable? i may want to buy me a goat too
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| 2/19/2009 8:32:16 PM | why do this? | |
 tomfreebird
 Brownsboro, AL age: 56
| I'll throw in a goat. Ol Sexy Suzy has a few worn places, but nothing a patch can't fix.
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| 2/19/2009 8:34:00 PM | why do this? | |
thebear1954 Thorsby, AL age: 55
| sound like a plan to me.beets the hell out of what i got now
headed to bed guys ,have a good one
[Edited 2/19/2009 8:35:55 PM PST]
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| 2/19/2009 8:38:17 PM | why do this? | |
 tomfreebird
 Brownsboro, AL age: 56
| I've had her since i was a kid

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| 2/19/2009 8:38:25 PM | why do this? | |
bamabob
 Crane Hill, AL age: 57
| I've looked and dreamed about lots of 'em from anywhere but it usually comes down to a matter of convenience as well as matters of the heart....
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| 2/19/2009 8:41:48 PM | why do this? | |
 whitelillies
 Tuscaloosa, AL age: 54
| basic tenet of sociology is proximity Randy most of the time. Can't have all of those you never meet or who are so far away.
An armadillo told me that.

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| 2/19/2009 8:41:55 PM | why do this? | |
 tomfreebird
 Brownsboro, AL age: 56
| Oh hell BamaBob, I'll loan you mine, it aint that big of a deal
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| 2/19/2009 8:42:40 PM | why do this? | |
tambo65
 Cullman, AL age: 44
| yeah I could settle for someone in my home town but why settle for less, nope not me my baby is a 120 miles from me and thats just it she's everything to me!
I cant wait to see you honey.
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| 2/19/2009 8:42:55 PM | why do this? | |
 tomfreebird
 Brownsboro, AL age: 56
| I've looked and dreamed about lots of 'em from anywhere but it usually comes down to a matter of convenience as well as matters of the heart....
Quit dreaming and just order one.
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| 2/19/2009 8:44:18 PM | why do this? | |
bamabob
 Crane Hill, AL age: 57
| basic tenet of sociology is proximity Randy most of the time. Can't have all of those you never meet or who are so far away.
An armadillo told me that.

Are you sure you're talking about sociology or logistics of a conquest?
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| 2/19/2009 8:46:26 PM | why do this? | |
 tomfreebird
 Brownsboro, AL age: 56
| I'm talking about Sexy Suzy, What you talking about
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| 2/19/2009 9:13:35 PM | why do this? | |
bamabob
 Crane Hill, AL age: 57
| proximity.........
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| 2/19/2009 9:27:50 PM | why do this? | |
 yajusneverkno
 Oxford, AL age: 41
| I'm talking about Sexy Suzy, What you talking about 
Thats just a nasty thought sloppy seconds with sexy suzy 
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| 2/19/2009 9:31:40 PM | why do this? | |
care4afriend
 Cullman, AL age: 51
| @ yajus
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| 2/19/2009 9:32:23 PM | why do this? | |
 tomfreebird
 Brownsboro, AL age: 56
| So had you rather have thirds
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| 2/19/2009 9:33:02 PM | why do this? | |
bamabob
 Crane Hill, AL age: 57
| Thats just a nasty thought  sloppy seconds with sexy suzy 
I hope she cleans up good....
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| 2/19/2009 9:33:12 PM | why do this? | |
care4afriend
 Cullman, AL age: 51
| UGHHHHHH
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| 2/19/2009 9:34:35 PM | why do this? | |
 tomfreebird
 Brownsboro, AL age: 56
| a little soap and water and a occasional patch and she is good to go
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| 2/19/2009 9:36:21 PM | why do this? | |
 yajusneverkno
 Oxford, AL age: 41
| So had you rather have thirds 
H*ll lets just have a party train and do it rite
Ugggh I can't even believe I said that  
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| 2/19/2009 9:37:05 PM | why do this? | |
 whitelillies
 Tuscaloosa, AL age: 54
| I'm absolutely sure Randy. I always got A's in Sociology. You can't hook up with someone you never meet, vis a vis proximity. Check it out.

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| 2/19/2009 9:38:15 PM | why do this? | |
bamabob
 Crane Hill, AL age: 57
| virtual proximity???? then physical..... two step process....
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| 2/19/2009 9:39:02 PM | why do this? | |
 thagagirl
 Columbus, GA age: 28
| My honey is on the other side of the state but hell i dont mind i like road trips as long as he knows the road goes both ways
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| 2/19/2009 9:41:51 PM | why do this? | |
 whitelillies
 Tuscaloosa, AL age: 54
| virtual proximity???? then physical..... two step process....
You can have the last word, since i have the degree.
 
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| 2/19/2009 9:48:01 PM | why do this? | |
music_iz_back
 Huntsville, AL age: 49
| I get alot of e-mails from woman from 300 to 2200 miles away wanting to know if we could date. Hmmmmm! How do I respond to this? Oh! How about.... are you out of your mind or just having a outter mind experience? Sure I'll pick you up at 7:00 p.m. sharp! 
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| 2/19/2009 9:48:06 PM | why do this? | |
bamabob
 Crane Hill, AL age: 57
| that would make 2 of us, I have a minor in social sciences.
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| 2/19/2009 9:56:13 PM | why do this? | |
 yajusneverkno
 Oxford, AL age: 41
| LMAO... Gary I think the same thing, drive 600 miles to meet for coffee
Although I did receive a nice message the other day from a lady that visits here often. Didn't mind that one. But I'm not driving 600 miles for coffee with someone I don't know a thing about
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| 2/19/2009 10:00:46 PM | why do this? | |
 yajusneverkno
 Oxford, AL age: 41
| that would make 2 of us, I have a minor in social sciences.
Well theres all kinds of smarts. Book smarts/street smarts... Y'all spent all that time and money on school, I jus google it and in 5 min print off the same certificates 
[Edited 2/19/2009 10:02:26 PM PST]
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| 2/19/2009 10:00:57 PM | why do this? | |
bamabob
 Crane Hill, AL age: 57
| I totally agree...but it is amazing how much you can get to know a person by phone and internet alone. I would not travel hundreds of miles thinking only a cup of coffee was possible, but then I would have to go in with a very open mind and discuss expectations up front too. If I were going to drive more than a couple of hours I would want to already know her well enough that I would be open to staying a couple of days/weekend. Too much time just traveling would have me too tired to really be good company without some rest.
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| 2/19/2009 10:05:23 PM | why do this? | |
 duchessa
 Yonkers, NY age: 58
| I was in LDR for two years (I married him after)......and we drove -alternate weekends- two hrs. each way to be together. Is possible.
Yes, proximity is a basic tenet of Sociology....but unaware that the heart doesn't come with a yardstick.
Duchessa
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| 2/19/2009 10:07:23 PM | why do this? | |
 joy617
 Scottsboro, AL age: 46
| Aww... come on guys! I get e-mails from guys who "supposedly" lives in Michigan, Indiana, or Illinois and then after the second or third e-mail I find out they work in Africa. What do they do CAR POOL to work every morning??? GET REAL!!!
I tell them I am not willing to relocate out side of AL with the exception of living in Boise, ID near my son.
Then they tell me "Well, Momma and my brothers and sisters will be living with us."
Makes ya wonder if they have read "Of Mice and Men" by John Steinbeck cause there must be a mouse in their pocket!!!
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| 2/19/2009 10:09:10 PM | why do this? | |
 yajusneverkno
 Oxford, AL age: 41
| That wouldn't be so bad Duchessa, but for me personally, I drive 2hrs one way to work every day. Don't want to spend my off days on the hwy too. I get so tired of that drive every day.
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| 2/19/2009 10:10:15 PM | why do this? | |
care4afriend
 Cullman, AL age: 51
| I am with you, I drive a hour one way each day, that driving will get to you
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| 2/19/2009 10:10:58 PM | why do this? | |
 duchessa
 Yonkers, NY age: 58
| I totally agree...but it is amazing how much you can get to know a person by phone and internet alone...
Randy,
What you say has been my experience in couple of instances...As a "second party" in a family of Ham Radio operators, I had the chance to talk and meet people from different places. Believe me when I say that the feeling of "knowing" the person in front of you is a very strong / real one.
Duchessa
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| 2/19/2009 10:11:51 PM | why do this? | |
 yajusneverkno
 Oxford, AL age: 41
| It gets old fast don't it. And I been doing it a loooooooong time
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| 2/19/2009 10:13:41 PM | why do this? | |
care4afriend
 Cullman, AL age: 51
| Same here I have never worked in Cullman. But if the Lord is willing I will be out of school in December and will then be able to work from home, but going back to school to finish up another degree. Why do I put myself through this
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| 2/19/2009 10:16:19 PM | why do this? | |
 yajusneverkno
 Oxford, AL age: 41
| I totally agree...but it is amazing how much you can get to know a person by phone and internet alone...
Ditto
True, but it's equally amaizing how mislead and fake the real person on the other end can sometimes be. I've met all kinds, some I was surprised that they were a lot nicer than I had expected, others was like...Where's your sister, you aren't the person I've been talking to... Really, you just never know 
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| 2/19/2009 10:18:19 PM | why do this? | |
music_iz_back
 Huntsville, AL age: 49
| Well I will admit there's one lady who is wanting to come here to meet me from Ohio! Actually 2 from Ohio. I'm thinking, maybe they can carpool!  
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| 2/19/2009 10:22:03 PM | why do this? | |
 yajusneverkno
 Oxford, AL age: 41
| LOL
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| 2/19/2009 10:22:07 PM | why do this? | |
 taytaybyb
 Guntersville, AL age: 47
| Gary there seems to be a lot of people from Ohio for some reason. Wonder why?
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| 2/19/2009 10:22:15 PM | why do this? | |
 joy617
 Scottsboro, AL age: 46
| True, but it's equally amaizing how mislead and fake the real person on the other end can sometimes be. I've met all kinds, some I was surprised that they were a lot nicer than I had expected, others was like...Where's your sister, you aren't the person I've been talking to... Really, you just never know 
and I've dated their brothers! OMG... who ARE THESE people??? After meeting them in person I wonder, "Did you borrow that profile?" 
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| 2/19/2009 10:23:38 PM | why do this? | |
 duchessa
 Yonkers, NY age: 58
| yajus
Since we are dealing with human beings I don't deny what you say can be the case....fortunately it has not been my experience.
Duchessa
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| 2/19/2009 10:24:45 PM | why do this? | |
bamabob
 Crane Hill, AL age: 57
| Absolutely nothing wrong with that Gary... it's always worth it to know for sure and just to find out. We never know where the next true love may be. I came into this wide open and will not limit myself when it comes to finding the one I can be happy with. She's gonna be rare for sure because I am one of those who does not do heated arguments or listen to any b*tching... I just don't do that. Kinda hard to find one who can just sit and calmly talk about disagreements or other problems without it becoming a heated argument. So, I just about have to search the world over to find one I can communicate with on my level.
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| 2/19/2009 10:25:35 PM | why do this? | |
music_iz_back
 Huntsville, AL age: 49
| Gary there seems to be a lot of people from Ohio for some reason. Wonder why? 
You got me! But I definantly wouldn't mind one of the two making the trip. The other, I'm still looking for rocks to throw at her. She's talking marriage already!  Any of you guy's want a woman pre-programmed for marriage?
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