2/19/2009 7:46:49 PMwhy do this? 

fundad08
Harvest, AL
age: 39


I was wondering why people look at others who live so far away. I have had several messages from women lately and they live several hundred miles away. how do they expect to start any kind of relationship.

2/19/2009 7:47:23 PMwhy do this? 
jazzyjasine49
Crossville, AL
age: 49




2/19/2009 7:53:47 PMwhy do this? 

tomfreebird
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,751)
Brownsboro, AL
age: 56


I have no idea.

2/19/2009 7:54:53 PMwhy do this? 

southernnurse2
Over 1,000 Posts (1,799)
Opp, AL
age: 50


You never know, when or where you will find that special one.
Distance, should not be a barrier. They may be tired of where they
live and are wanting or willing to move. Or they might just think you
are cute, and someone they would like to know better.
youjusneverknow

2/19/2009 7:57:24 PMwhy do this? 
tambo65
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,565)
Cullman, AL
age: 44


I drive two hours to see my honey and he is worth every bit of it.

2/19/2009 7:59:30 PMwhy do this? 

duchessa
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,673)
Yonkers, NY
age: 58


I received mails from people living in states as far as CA, FL and AL.
There are people that have retired -or are ready to retire- and can travel long distance and even relocate.

Duchessa

2/19/2009 8:00:50 PMwhy do this? 
jazzyjasine49
Crossville, AL
age: 49


i say depends on who has to relocate

2/19/2009 8:13:18 PMwhy do this? 

whitelillies
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,740)
Tuscaloosa, AL
age: 54


I get them constantly from guys all over the U.S. and Canada. They aren't retiring. One of them was in Beverly Hills. LOLOL


Might load up my truck and move to Bev er ly.






[Edited 2/19/2009 8:14:18 PM PST]

2/19/2009 8:15:34 PMwhy do this? 
thebear1954
Thorsby, AL
age: 55


im drivin 2 hours tomorrow to meet mine

2/19/2009 8:15:54 PMwhy do this? 

hot007
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,205)
Bryant, AL
age: 50


yeah I could settle for someone in my home town but why settle for less, nope not me my baby is a 120 miles from me and thats just it she's everything to me!






[Edited 2/19/2009 8:16:56 PM PST]

2/19/2009 8:18:00 PMwhy do this? 

tomfreebird
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,751)
Brownsboro, AL
age: 56


I traveled 1700 miles two different time to see kat. She has traveled here once, and is coming again soon.

2/19/2009 8:19:48 PMwhy do this? 

hot007
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,205)
Bryant, AL
age: 50


well lets hope so

2/19/2009 8:21:10 PMwhy do this? 
thebear1954
Thorsby, AL
age: 55


i cant seem to find one in my hometown,so distance aint no big deal

2/19/2009 8:21:22 PMwhy do this? 

tomfreebird
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,751)
Brownsboro, AL
age: 56


With my help, maybe,

2/19/2009 8:23:57 PMwhy do this? 

hot007
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,205)
Bryant, AL
age: 50


you da man

2/19/2009 8:25:38 PMwhy do this? 

tomfreebird
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,751)
Brownsboro, AL
age: 56


Bear I got a used blow-up doll for sale.

2/19/2009 8:26:35 PMwhy do this? 
jazzyjasine49
Crossville, AL
age: 49




2/19/2009 8:30:32 PMwhy do this? 
thebear1954
Thorsby, AL
age: 55


is she still usable? i may want to buy me a goat too

2/19/2009 8:32:16 PMwhy do this? 

tomfreebird
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,751)
Brownsboro, AL
age: 56


I'll throw in a goat. Ol Sexy Suzy has a few worn places, but nothing a patch can't fix.



[Edited 2/19/2009 8:32:51 PM PST]

2/19/2009 8:34:00 PMwhy do this? 
thebear1954
Thorsby, AL
age: 55


sound like a plan to me.beets the hell out of what i got now

headed to bed guys ,have a good one



[Edited 2/19/2009 8:35:55 PM PST]

2/19/2009 8:38:17 PMwhy do this? 

tomfreebird
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,751)
Brownsboro, AL
age: 56


I've had her since i was a kid

blow up dolls Pictures, Images and Photos

2/19/2009 8:38:25 PMwhy do this? 
bamabob
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,106)
Crane Hill, AL
age: 57


I've looked and dreamed about lots of 'em from anywhere but it usually comes down to a matter of convenience as well as matters of the heart....

2/19/2009 8:41:48 PMwhy do this? 

whitelillies
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,740)
Tuscaloosa, AL
age: 54


basic tenet of sociology is proximity Randy most of the time. Can't have all of those you never meet or who are so far away.

An armadillo told me that.



2/19/2009 8:41:55 PMwhy do this? 

tomfreebird
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,751)
Brownsboro, AL
age: 56


Oh hell BamaBob, I'll loan you mine, it aint that big of a deal

2/19/2009 8:42:40 PMwhy do this? 
tambo65
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,565)
Cullman, AL
age: 44


Quote from hot007:
yeah I could settle for someone in my home town but why settle for less, nope not me my baby is a 120 miles from me and thats just it she's everything to me!





I cant wait to see you honey.

2/19/2009 8:42:55 PMwhy do this? 

tomfreebird
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,751)
Brownsboro, AL
age: 56


Quote from bamabob:
I've looked and dreamed about lots of 'em from anywhere but it usually comes down to a matter of convenience as well as matters of the heart....


Quit dreaming and just order one.

2/19/2009 8:44:18 PMwhy do this? 
bamabob
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,106)
Crane Hill, AL
age: 57


Quote from whitelillies:
basic tenet of sociology is proximity Randy most of the time. Can't have all of those you never meet or who are so far away.

An armadillo told me that.


Are you sure you're talking about sociology or logistics of a conquest?

2/19/2009 8:46:26 PMwhy do this? 

tomfreebird
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,751)
Brownsboro, AL
age: 56


I'm talking about Sexy Suzy, What you talking about

2/19/2009 9:13:35 PMwhy do this? 
bamabob
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,106)
Crane Hill, AL
age: 57


proximity.........

2/19/2009 9:27:50 PMwhy do this? 

yajusneverkno
Over 2,000 Posts (2,874)
Oxford, AL
age: 41


Quote from tomfreebird:
I'm talking about Sexy Suzy, What you talking about


Thats just a nasty thought sloppy seconds with sexy suzy

2/19/2009 9:31:40 PMwhy do this? 
care4afriend
Over 1,000 Posts (1,352)
Cullman, AL
age: 51


@ yajus

2/19/2009 9:32:23 PMwhy do this? 

tomfreebird
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,751)
Brownsboro, AL
age: 56


So had you rather have thirds

2/19/2009 9:33:02 PMwhy do this? 
bamabob
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,106)
Crane Hill, AL
age: 57


Quote from yajusneverkno:
Thats just a nasty thought sloppy seconds with sexy suzy

I hope she cleans up good....

2/19/2009 9:33:12 PMwhy do this? 
care4afriend
Over 1,000 Posts (1,352)
Cullman, AL
age: 51


UGHHHHHH

2/19/2009 9:34:35 PMwhy do this? 

tomfreebird
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,751)
Brownsboro, AL
age: 56


a little soap and water and a occasional patch and she is good to go

2/19/2009 9:36:21 PMwhy do this? 

yajusneverkno
Over 2,000 Posts (2,874)
Oxford, AL
age: 41


Quote from tomfreebird:
So had you rather have thirds


H*ll lets just have a party train and do it rite

Ugggh I can't even believe I said that

2/19/2009 9:37:05 PMwhy do this? 

whitelillies
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,740)
Tuscaloosa, AL
age: 54


I'm absolutely sure Randy. I always got A's in Sociology. You can't hook up with someone you never meet, vis a vis proximity. Check it out.



2/19/2009 9:38:15 PMwhy do this? 
bamabob
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,106)
Crane Hill, AL
age: 57


virtual proximity???? then physical..... two step process....

2/19/2009 9:39:02 PMwhy do this? 

thagagirl
Over 2,000 Posts (3,293)
Columbus, GA
age: 28


My honey is on the other side of the state but hell i dont mind i like road trips as long as he knows the road goes both ways

2/19/2009 9:41:51 PMwhy do this? 

whitelillies
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,740)
Tuscaloosa, AL
age: 54


Quote from bamabob:
virtual proximity???? then physical..... two step process....


You can have the last word, since i have the degree.



2/19/2009 9:48:01 PMwhy do this? 
music_iz_back
Over 2,000 Posts (3,763)
Huntsville, AL
age: 49


I get alot of e-mails from woman from 300 to 2200 miles away wanting to know if we could date. Hmmmmm! How do I respond to this? Oh! How about.... are you out of your mind or just having a outter mind experience? Sure I'll pick you up at 7:00 p.m. sharp!



[Edited 2/19/2009 10:15:09 PM PST]

2/19/2009 9:48:06 PMwhy do this? 
bamabob
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,106)
Crane Hill, AL
age: 57


that would make 2 of us, I have a minor in social sciences.

2/19/2009 9:56:13 PMwhy do this? 

yajusneverkno
Over 2,000 Posts (2,874)
Oxford, AL
age: 41


LMAO... Gary I think the same thing, drive 600 miles to meet for coffee

Although I did receive a nice message the other day from a lady that visits here often. Didn't mind that one. But I'm not driving 600 miles for coffee with someone I don't know a thing about

2/19/2009 10:00:46 PMwhy do this? 

yajusneverkno
Over 2,000 Posts (2,874)
Oxford, AL
age: 41


Quote from bamabob:
that would make 2 of us, I have a minor in social sciences.


Well theres all kinds of smarts. Book smarts/street smarts... Y'all spent all that time and money on school, I jus google it and in 5 min print off the same certificates



[Edited 2/19/2009 10:02:26 PM PST]

2/19/2009 10:00:57 PMwhy do this? 
bamabob
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,106)
Crane Hill, AL
age: 57


I totally agree...but it is amazing how much you can get to know a person by phone and internet alone. I would not travel hundreds of miles thinking only a cup of coffee was possible, but then I would have to go in with a very open mind and discuss expectations up front too. If I were going to drive more than a couple of hours I would want to already know her well enough that I would be open to staying a couple of days/weekend. Too much time just traveling would have me too tired to really be good company without some rest.

2/19/2009 10:05:23 PMwhy do this? 

duchessa
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,673)
Yonkers, NY
age: 58


I was in LDR for two years (I married him after)......and we drove -alternate weekends- two hrs. each way to be together. Is possible.
Yes, proximity is a basic tenet of Sociology....but unaware that the heart doesn't come with a yardstick.

Duchessa

2/19/2009 10:07:23 PMwhy do this? 

joy617
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (17,751)
Scottsboro, AL
age: 46


Aww... come on guys! I get e-mails from guys who "supposedly" lives in Michigan, Indiana, or Illinois and then after the second or third e-mail I find out they work in Africa. What do they do CAR POOL to work every morning??? GET REAL!!!

I tell them I am not willing to relocate out side of AL with the exception of living in Boise, ID near my son.

Then they tell me "Well, Momma and my brothers and sisters will be living with us."

Makes ya wonder if they have read "Of Mice and Men" by John Steinbeck cause there must be a mouse in their pocket!!!

2/19/2009 10:09:10 PMwhy do this? 

yajusneverkno
Over 2,000 Posts (2,874)
Oxford, AL
age: 41


That wouldn't be so bad Duchessa, but for me personally, I drive 2hrs one way to work every day. Don't want to spend my off days on the hwy too. I get so tired of that drive every day.



[Edited 2/19/2009 10:10:44 PM PST]

2/19/2009 10:10:15 PMwhy do this? 
care4afriend
Over 1,000 Posts (1,352)
Cullman, AL
age: 51


I am with you, I drive a hour one way each day, that driving will get to you

2/19/2009 10:10:58 PMwhy do this? 

duchessa
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,673)
Yonkers, NY
age: 58


I totally agree...but it is amazing how much you can get to know a person by phone and internet alone...

Randy,

What you say has been my experience in couple of instances...As a "second party" in a family of Ham Radio operators, I had the chance to talk and meet people from different places. Believe me when I say that the feeling of "knowing" the person in front of you is a very strong / real one.

Duchessa



[Edited 2/19/2009 10:19:44 PM PST]

2/19/2009 10:11:51 PMwhy do this? 

yajusneverkno
Over 2,000 Posts (2,874)
Oxford, AL
age: 41


It gets old fast don't it. And I been doing it a loooooooong time

2/19/2009 10:13:41 PMwhy do this? 
care4afriend
Over 1,000 Posts (1,352)
Cullman, AL
age: 51


Same here I have never worked in Cullman. But if the Lord is willing I will be out of school in December and will then be able to work from home, but going back to school to finish up another degree. Why do I put myself through this

2/19/2009 10:16:19 PMwhy do this? 

yajusneverkno
Over 2,000 Posts (2,874)
Oxford, AL
age: 41


Quote from duchessa:
I totally agree...but it is amazing how much you can get to know a person by phone and internet alone...

Ditto


True, but it's equally amaizing how mislead and fake the real person on the other end can sometimes be. I've met all kinds, some I was surprised that they were a lot nicer than I had expected, others was like...Where's your sister, you aren't the person I've been talking to... Really, you just never know

2/19/2009 10:18:19 PMwhy do this? 
music_iz_back
Over 2,000 Posts (3,763)
Huntsville, AL
age: 49


Well I will admit there's one lady who is wanting to come here to meet me from Ohio! Actually 2 from Ohio. I'm thinking, maybe they can carpool!

2/19/2009 10:22:03 PMwhy do this? 

yajusneverkno
Over 2,000 Posts (2,874)
Oxford, AL
age: 41


LOL

2/19/2009 10:22:07 PMwhy do this? 

taytaybyb
Over 1,000 Posts (1,341)
Guntersville, AL
age: 47


Gary there seems to be a lot of people from Ohio for some reason. Wonder why?

2/19/2009 10:22:15 PMwhy do this? 

joy617
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (17,751)
Scottsboro, AL
age: 46


Quote from yajusneverkno:
True, but it's equally amaizing how mislead and fake the real person on the other end can sometimes be. I've met all kinds, some I was surprised that they were a lot nicer than I had expected, others was like...Where's your sister, you aren't the person I've been talking to... Really, you just never know


and I've dated their brothers! OMG... who ARE THESE people??? After meeting them in person I wonder, "Did you borrow that profile?"

2/19/2009 10:23:38 PMwhy do this? 

duchessa
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,673)
Yonkers, NY
age: 58


yajus

Since we are dealing with human beings I don't deny what you say can be the case....fortunately it has not been my experience.

Duchessa

2/19/2009 10:24:45 PMwhy do this? 
bamabob
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,106)
Crane Hill, AL
age: 57


Absolutely nothing wrong with that Gary... it's always worth it to know for sure and just to find out. We never know where the next true love may be. I came into this wide open and will not limit myself when it comes to finding the one I can be happy with. She's gonna be rare for sure because I am one of those who does not do heated arguments or listen to any b*tching... I just don't do that. Kinda hard to find one who can just sit and calmly talk about disagreements or other problems without it becoming a heated argument. So, I just about have to search the world over to find one I can communicate with on my level.

2/19/2009 10:25:35 PMwhy do this? 
music_iz_back
Over 2,000 Posts (3,763)
Huntsville, AL
age: 49


Quote from taytaybyb:
Gary there seems to be a lot of people from Ohio for some reason. Wonder why?


You got me! But I definantly wouldn't mind one of the two making the trip. The other, I'm still looking for rocks to throw at her. She's talking marriage already! Any of you guy's want a woman pre-programmed for marriage?