11/2/2007 8:25:19 AMneed so advice 

wanttodance
Big Rapids, MI
age: 51


im thinking about going to a single party this weekend the friend i usually go with is out of town and im a little nervous about going by myself should i take the chance

11/2/2007 8:27:06 AMneed so advice 

malicai
Edmonton, AB
age: 33


Yup. When you fear something, rush it head on, You'll be glad you did, even if nothing comes out of it, you will feel better with yourself.

Go, have fun, talk, don't try to 'pick' anyomne up, just be yourself and enjoy the company.

11/2/2007 8:27:16 AMneed so advice 

johnpal
Great Lakes, IL
age: 32


yes, but know that you can leave at any time. is the party sexul in natch?

11/2/2007 8:30:11 AMneed so advice 

wanttodance
Big Rapids, MI
age: 51


no my problem is its at a bar and i have never when in to a bar alone before

11/2/2007 8:32:50 AMneed so advice 

stormygrl
Longmont, CO
age: 42


well once you walk through the doors you will no longer be alone - you have nothing to lose by going - you might even meet someone. go for it!!

11/2/2007 8:34:19 AMneed so advice 

wanttodance
Big Rapids, MI
age: 51


thank you all still not sure but it helps

11/2/2007 8:34:37 AMneed so advice 

wonderturtle
Overland Park, KS
age: 41


Just pretend you're Mae West..strut in like ya own the place ---

seriously though..the bar crowd is just like the crowd at the grocery store..just more relaxed and a little more booze flowing through their veins..
People are the same wherever you meet them...just be yourself..

11/2/2007 9:27:26 AMneed so advice 

ladykathryn0414
Denison, IA
age: 30


I know how you feel, I don't like to go out to social gatherings alone either. But, it is an experience you might enjoy. Take a chance. IF you aren't having a good time.. you can always leave.

11/2/2007 9:30:53 AMneed so advice 

gator59
Las Vegas, NV
age: 49


If you ready for the step take it I agree with kathryn you dont have chains on you you dont like it you can leave anytime you want

11/2/2007 9:32:32 AMneed so advice 

johnpal
Great Lakes, IL
age: 32


go have fun when you are not having fun go home.

11/2/2007 9:32:49 AMneed so advice 

tnkrbll731
Central Point, OR
age: 45


i agree with everyone else... you must take a deep breath and dive in ... just act like you know what your doing, and keep a smile on your face, and you'll have a great time... if not? Then you can always walk right back out the way you came in.... i hope you give yourself a break and go and have a great time!!...