| 11/4/2007 10:30:08 PM | I am going to meet a girl I met here | |
wildmongo
Sweet Home, OR
age: 52
| | 1. do I take flowers | | 2. do I hug her when we meet |
I am going to go meet a woman I met on this site...we are meeting in a public place...It has been so long since I dated...so do any of you have any advice....like I need to ask,,,lol 
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| 11/5/2007 3:57:53 AM | I am going to meet a girl I met here | |
endlessly2
Pamplin, VA
age: 89
| Depends on what you have been talking about before the meeting. You could do either or neither. Does she like flowers? Does she like hugs? For me, either or both would be nice, but I am not she.... so I didn't vote
[Edited 11/5/2007 3:58:34 AM]
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| 11/5/2007 6:02:24 AM | I am going to meet a girl I met here | |
deann50
Fritch, TX
age: 58
| If you take flowers, just a small bunch or a single rose. It would be awkward to have to stand there with a big bunch. A hug might be too much for the first time. Just ask her if you can give her one, then keep it simple.
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| 11/5/2007 6:07:47 AM | I am going to meet a girl I met here | |
copterdriver
Saint Matthews, SC
age: 56
| Be yourself... if ya like hugs try to give her one, if ya think she might like flowers, wait til ya see her again. Meantime find out what kind of flowers she hates so you don't buy those... lol
good luck!
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| 11/5/2007 6:29:08 AM | I am going to meet a girl I met here | |
butterfly58
Arcadia, MO
age: 59
| Flowers are always a nice touch. And the hug if you think its going to be accepted and you'll know when you see her. Just be yourself but bring some humor and give her some compliments to make her at ease also. Talk with your eyes.
[Edited 11/5/2007 6:29:47 AM]
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| 11/5/2007 7:23:02 AM | I am going to meet a girl I met here | |
copterdriver
Saint Matthews, SC
age: 56
| The eye thing, hmmm just don't look where your mind is wnating ya too... keep it chin evel and above... lol
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| 11/5/2007 9:02:27 AM | I am going to meet a girl I met here | |
cottagebithec
Utica, NY
age: 60
| Agree with deann... keep it simple and butterfly know what she's talking about.. try to put her at ease and you'll find that you are more comfortable because you'll stop thinking about how you are feeling... you know, nervous, tense, awkward. You'll do fine.
good luck.
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| 11/5/2007 9:14:15 AM | I am going to meet a girl I met here | |
butterfly58
Arcadia, MO
age: 59
| Don't get dirty with the eyes- ---what I meant was show her with your eyes that you're glad you're finally meeting with her and like to get to know her better
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| 11/5/2007 9:17:12 AM | I am going to meet a girl I met here | |
cottagebithec
Utica, NY
age: 60
| yea... no dirty eyes
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| 11/5/2007 10:55:40 AM | I am going to meet a girl I met here | |
elfiegirl
Port Charlotte, FL
age: 54
| Yep!
I agree with everyone...maybe a single rose...and do ask if you can give her a hug.
I am put off by someone who is too touchy-feely when I don't even know them.
A sense of humor will always keep my attention, but it has to be easy and not forced.
Always look her in the eyes, but of course try not staring...just be easy-going and friendly, and be yourself...you are gonna do great! Good luck!
[Edited 11/5/2007 10:56:43 AM]
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| 11/5/2007 11:45:51 AM | I am going to meet a girl I met here | |
thepkk
Everton, MO
age: 53
| If a man brought flower even cheap ones from Wal Mart I would be very impressed by the thought of it. Let her hug you if she wants to. Just be your self and have a good time.
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| 11/5/2007 12:04:29 PM | I am going to meet a girl I met here | |
lawvixen
Oldsmar, FL
age: 52
| Flowers definitely....hug after the date, if things went well....
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| 11/5/2007 12:19:38 PM | I am going to meet a girl I met here | |
shezakeepher
Columbia, SC
age: 54
| I'm agreeing with endless, it depends on the conversations you have had before the meeting.
Some guys it would be welcomed and others it might freak me out.
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| 11/5/2007 12:40:56 PM | I am going to meet a girl I met here | |
lawvixen
Oldsmar, FL
age: 52
| I have been known to give flowers to a date, if I was the one who asked HIM out....
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| 11/5/2007 1:01:37 PM | I am going to meet a girl I met here | |
lotsafuninpa
Tioga, PA
age: 67
| I think I would not take flowers the 1st. meeting,and save the hug for later if you think she likes you. And yes,keep it humorous,but not dirty---lol-----eyes above the waist---lmao---lotsafuninpa.   
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