4/2/2009 8:38:47 AMRespite Tree 

rhondadazed
Portland, OH
age: 46


is hopeing that the people in her life are very blessed and are always happy. and hoping she finds a job soon.

4/2/2009 6:31:53 PMRespite Tree 
funtoday4us
Mentor, OH
age: 45


It was a much needed respite today~ feeling like myself again~

4/3/2009 2:53:28 AMRespite Tree 
marqeye
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,941)
Kent, OH
age: 33


Fun when I hang with you all my worries are gone



4/3/2009 2:57:56 AMRespite Tree 
funtoday4us
Mentor, OH
age: 45


Quote from marqeye:
Fun when I hang with you all my worries are gone



as are mine ~ soft places to land...makes life so much sweeter

4/3/2009 2:58:54 AMRespite Tree 
marqeye
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,941)
Kent, OH
age: 33


Cavs lost, I had to go to bed I was exhausted from working



4/3/2009 3:02:14 AMRespite Tree 
funtoday4us
Mentor, OH
age: 45


Quote from marqeye:
Cavs lost, I had to go to bed I was exhausted from working



Ahhhh I missed it too~ they still are the hottest!!!

Have a good day at work sweetie~

4/3/2009 3:03:47 AMRespite Tree 
marqeye
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,941)
Kent, OH
age: 33


You know I will, thinking about you



4/3/2009 5:41:53 PMRespite Tree 

stacie03
Dayton, OH
age: 35


Hope it's ok but I have 2 worries I'd like to leave under here. 1. Worried about Love past , present and future. 2. Dealing with the stress of being a single mom and doing right by my kids. Thanks for letting me leave these thoughts here.

4/3/2009 8:10:57 PMRespite Tree 

bones6684
Over 1,000 Posts (1,017)
Cincinnati, OH
age: 43


just remember u have me as a friend u can always talk to.

4/4/2009 4:57:42 AMRespite Tree 
funtoday4us
Mentor, OH
age: 45


Quote from stacie03:
Hope it's ok but I have 2 worries I'd like to leave under here. 1. Worried about Love past , present and future. 2. Dealing with the stress of being a single mom and doing right by my kids. Thanks for letting me leave these thoughts here.


Stacie....leave these worries anytime you need~ let them go for a moment in time and just be encouraged that you are doing right by your kids...with giving your love to them...even when we possibly make an error or two along this journey of motherhood~

4/4/2009 5:52:43 AMRespite Tree 

sxybdgrl4u
Over 2,000 Posts (2,209)
Warren, OH
age: 44


I would like to place something under the tree this morning. Im worried about my daughter I love her so much she means the world to me. I lost my son on Feb 15th he was a great young man 23 years old and my daughter was the one that found him. She is going though a really hard time dealing with the lose of her brother. I would like to ask all you friends from DH to please continue to keep Beth...aka pinkdiamond89 and myself in your prayers. I know in my heart we will make it though this tough time in our lifes and Jeremy will be in our hearts forever. Thank you all hugs Kris ....

4/6/2009 3:18:12 AMRespite Tree 
funtoday4us
Mentor, OH
age: 45


Quote from sxybdgrl4u:
I would like to place something under the tree this morning. Im worried about my daughter I love her so much she means the world to me. I lost my son on Feb 15th he was a great young man 23 years old and my daughter was the one that found him. She is going though a really hard time dealing with the lose of her brother. I would like to ask all you friends from DH to please continue to keep Beth...aka pinkdiamond89 and myself in your prayers. I know in my heart we will make it though this tough time in our lifes and Jeremy will be in our hearts forever. Thank you all hugs Kris ....

Kris...I struggle to know the words to share with you...I have lost so many dear people in my life..quite recently...but the loss of my child .... well you know....

I will be sending up prayers, thoughts and sending hugs for your daughter... tell her the DH friends are here~

4/6/2009 3:19:50 AMRespite Tree 
funtoday4us
Mentor, OH
age: 45


I am under my respite tree again....

4/6/2009 6:25:35 AMRespite Tree 

derbydriver4evr
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,149)
Cincinnati, OH
age: 42


I'm setting free all the negativety in my soul right now,
to make room for more to grow, to set free another time.

4/8/2009 4:06:25 PMRespite Tree 
funtoday4us
Mentor, OH
age: 45


Quote from derbydriver4evr:
I'm setting free all the negativety in my soul right now,
to make room for more to grow, to set free another time.


Hope that negativity has blown away there my friend~


I am still dealing with some crazy crap that needs to be rectified by August 2009~ I think all I need to say with this is ..... *sigh* ex husband ~

4/8/2009 4:20:31 PMRespite Tree 

minmin24
Over 1,000 Posts (1,037)
Grove City, OH
age: 24


hunnie im havin gall kinds of issues lol so im just gonna lay here under this tree and someone please wake me at the start of 2010 lol

4/8/2009 4:24:39 PMRespite Tree 
funtoday4us
Mentor, OH
age: 45


We can keep eachother company baby girl..

4/8/2009 8:50:20 PMRespite Tree 

bones6684
Over 1,000 Posts (1,017)
Cincinnati, OH
age: 43


I am setting loose the hurt I experienced this evening by a lady from this site.
I thought things were well with us til she dropped the bomb. I'm asking my friends here in DH to help me move past this and move fwd.
Thanks in advance y'all.

Bones

4/9/2009 3:07:37 AMRespite Tree 
marqeye
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,941)
Kent, OH
age: 33


It's ok Bones that's what online dating is about, jealousy, spite, he said she said FAKE profiles, lies deceit back stabbing, and then they act like nothing is wrong they are your friend, hahah beginners!



4/9/2009 3:19:24 AMRespite Tree 
funtoday4us
Mentor, OH
age: 45


Quote from bones6684:
I am setting loose the hurt I experienced this evening by a lady from this site.
I thought things were well with us til she dropped the bomb. I'm asking my friends here in DH to help me move past this and move fwd.
Thanks in advance y'all.

Bones



Special morning hugs for you Bones... (hugs) .....your friends are here for you anytime you need us~

4/9/2009 5:17:23 AMRespite Tree 
armyvet101st
Lexington, KY
age: 30


I will leave my chronic pain under the tree and hope it blows away and never returns.

4/9/2009 5:53:55 AMRespite Tree 

bones6684
Over 1,000 Posts (1,017)
Cincinnati, OH
age: 43


thanx for the support marqeye n fun.
Thank you for your service, Army101st. I'm ex-Navy.

4/9/2009 2:30:18 PMRespite Tree 
funtoday4us
Mentor, OH
age: 45


Plenty of room under here for whatever you need~

Your welcome Bones...you know how to get ahold of me if you need to chat (hugs)~

4/9/2009 3:33:30 PMRespite Tree 

sxybdgrl4u
Over 2,000 Posts (2,209)
Warren, OH
age: 44


placeing all my worries under the tree and hoe the breeze takes them away and they never retrun.....

4/10/2009 3:16:51 AMRespite Tree 
wiz333
Lakewood, OH
age: 52


Going to leave a very disappointing person under here, and a word of caution: Be very careful friends, while it's always nice to have some faith and get your hopes up, sometimes people will smash that faith. I guess what they don't realize is that they've made the other person's heart just a little bit harder for the next one to open.

4/10/2009 7:14:54 AMRespite Tree 
armyvet101st
Lexington, KY
age: 30


Quote from wiz333:
Going to leave a very disappointing person under here, and a word of caution: Be very careful friends, while it's always nice to have some faith and get your hopes up, sometimes people will smash that faith. I guess what they don't realize is that they've made the other person's heart just a little bit harder for the next one to open.


I like the last sentence in your response. Ive been trying to figure a way to put it how I feel after going through bad relationships.. That really hits the nail on the head without a doubt. Kudos to you good sir!

4/10/2009 9:40:49 AMRespite Tree 
wiz333
Lakewood, OH
age: 52


Quote from armyvet101st:
I like the last sentence in your response. Ive been trying to figure a way to put it how I feel after going through bad relationships.. That really hits the nail on the head without a doubt. Kudos to you good sir!



Glad there's something you can use in there. And thank you for the kinds words as well. But especially, thank you for your service to our great country.

4/10/2009 2:10:03 PMRespite Tree 
whamback
Over 2,000 Posts (2,158)
Columbus, OH
age: 60





As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will.

You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time.

You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken.

You'll fight with your best friend.

You'll blame a new love for things an old one did.

You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love.

So, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back.


Don't be afraid that your life will end, be afraid that it will never begin.

Jmho
wham


4/10/2009 2:59:48 PMRespite Tree 
armyvet101st
Lexington, KY
age: 30


Hey whamback,

Sounds like you just layed the smack down! lol! If only it was easy to put that into practice. I think we all to some extent carry a little emotional baggage around. We have all been hurt and some of us deal with better than others. But none the less your poem was a good goal to work towards. I wont go into another relationship if im not able to open my heart to that person. I would feel horrible to have them completely open up to me only to learn I got issues (more like subscriptions!) and end up hurting them with my own personal BS. I guess I just know how it feels to be on the receiving end and would never want to inflict that upon someone.. Even accidentally. Peace



[Edited 4/10/2009 3:01:29 PM PST]

4/11/2009 4:52:06 AMRespite Tree 
funtoday4us
Mentor, OH
age: 45


Bruce...I am sending warm hugs for you...you are a sweet man and remember that there will be someone special that will help you knock those walls down (a little at a time)...I am not negating the pain you are feeling....I know that feeling all too well...very fresh in my memory...but there is a special friend who is helping me realize that ....with friendship, compassion, patience, unconditional understanding, acceptance and tenderness....those walls are an obstacle that two people can overcome~ and the wounds begin to heal~

(hugs) and whoever has hurt your heart....she is the one that has lost~

4/11/2009 8:16:07 AMRespite Tree 
wiz333
Lakewood, OH
age: 52


Barbara, thank you very much. While it's not the end of the world, it does really make me question human nature. By the same token, your tender response helps with equal measure, to restore that faith. You are a wonderful woman. God bless you.

4/12/2009 2:16:14 PMRespite Tree 
funtoday4us
Mentor, OH
age: 45


Such kind words Bruce~

I am going to leave a few things under this tree today~

Old hurts that resurface at holidays especially~
Mail that I received yesterday that made me not behave like a lady~


and a special hug for those that seemed to be in my path when I wasn't behaving as I should (hug)

4/12/2009 3:54:36 PMRespite Tree 
whamback
Over 2,000 Posts (2,158)
Columbus, OH
age: 60


Hey just thought I would rest a spell, another Holiday without my Girl Child. Just the routine of the last 8 years.

So I would like to leave this feeling. Just a thought for my ex...hmmmmmmmmm





Dam that was intense, hope no one else got hit.

Pheeeewwwwwwww I feel Better

guess I will mosey along now

But what the hell do I know, I am just a man

wham


4/12/2009 3:55:33 PMRespite Tree 

stacie03
Dayton, OH
age: 35


Hurts, frustrations and worries past, present and future. Just need a soft quiet place to be when things start to overwhelm me and I want to either snap at people in my path(which I try not to , but not always succesful) or cry . I'm thankful for family and friends that are there and put up with me through everything. I love you and you know who you are!

4/12/2009 8:22:01 PMRespite Tree 

bones6684
Over 1,000 Posts (1,017)
Cincinnati, OH
age: 43


I'm sure thats not me.

4/12/2009 8:26:58 PMRespite Tree 

newdirection6
Wellsville, OH
age: 55


I want to Hide here so no one finds me.

4/12/2009 8:28:19 PMRespite Tree 

bones6684
Over 1,000 Posts (1,017)
Cincinnati, OH
age: 43


You've been found!

4/13/2009 6:36:51 AMRespite Tree 
marqeye
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,941)
Kent, OH
age: 33


Quote from funtoday4us:
Such kind words Bruce~

I am going to leave a few things under this tree today~

Old hurts that resurface at holidays especially~
Mail that I received yesterday that made me not behave like a lady~


and a special hug for those that seemed to be in my path when I wasn't behaving as I should (hug)




Marqeye:
I'm here for you in real life and on this site so all you have to do is step back and look at the puzzle, then the pieces will align





[Edited 4/13/2009 6:37:13 AM PST]

4/13/2009 8:38:44 AMRespite Tree 

minmin24
Over 1,000 Posts (1,037)
Grove City, OH
age: 24


Quote from funtoday4us:
Such kind words Bruce~

I am going to leave a few things under this tree today~

Old hurts that resurface at holidays especially~
Mail that I received yesterday that made me not behave like a lady~


and a special hug for those that seemed to be in my path when I wasn't behaving as I should (hug)



ill always be here for you fun!!!!

4/13/2009 9:36:52 AMRespite Tree 

derbydriver4evr
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,149)
Cincinnati, OH
age: 42


Thought that I met a person for me, but when I let my walls down,to let her get a glimpse
of what is inside me, it is going downhill fast. I must be better off just being superficial. To hell with trying to get to know someone on a deeper basis. Think I'll just hang out under this tree for awhile,and hope that the wind will blow these feelings away !

4/13/2009 9:40:44 AMRespite Tree 

sxybdgrl4u
Over 2,000 Posts (2,209)
Warren, OH
age: 44


Hun it happens to the best of us all the time. U are a great person with great values and morals. If no one can see that in you there out of there minds. Dont go building back up them walls and not letting love in cause when you least expect it to happen it will...

4/13/2009 9:42:45 AMRespite Tree 

minmin24
Over 1,000 Posts (1,037)
Grove City, OH
age: 24


Quote from sxybdgrl4u:
Hun it happens to the best of us all the time. U are a great person with great values and morals. If no one can see that in you there out of there minds. Dont go building back up them walls and not letting love in cause when you least expect it to happen it will...



thats exactly right!!!!

4/13/2009 9:43:31 AMRespite Tree 

derbydriver4evr
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,149)
Cincinnati, OH
age: 42


I just ate another ton of concrete, bound enuff not to break my heart again !

4/13/2009 9:46:03 AMRespite Tree 

minmin24
Over 1,000 Posts (1,037)
Grove City, OH
age: 24


well thats good, broken hearts hurt

4/13/2009 9:46:40 AMRespite Tree 

sxybdgrl4u
Over 2,000 Posts (2,209)
Warren, OH
age: 44


I know what you need hun you need a good cup of shine to wash way them blues ....and remember we have a campout comming up to party our asses off for some shine and well you know...

4/13/2009 9:47:02 AMRespite Tree 

derbydriver4evr
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,149)
Cincinnati, OH
age: 42


no room for feelings either !

4/13/2009 9:48:13 AMRespite Tree 

minmin24
Over 1,000 Posts (1,037)
Grove City, OH
age: 24


anything that will make you feel better derby????

4/13/2009 9:51:27 AMRespite Tree 

derbydriver4evr
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,149)
Cincinnati, OH
age: 42


maybe a gallon of Beam, or a bottle of Yagi !

4/13/2009 9:52:57 AMRespite Tree 

sxybdgrl4u
Over 2,000 Posts (2,209)
Warren, OH
age: 44


Will I got the Shine and a bottle of Turkey....and some homemake blackberry wine take your pick...

4/13/2009 9:58:53 AMRespite Tree 

derbydriver4evr
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,149)
Cincinnati, OH
age: 42


I'd take you up on that, but I'm safer in my own backyard,
for the mood I'm in !

4/13/2009 10:02:04 AMRespite Tree 

sxybdgrl4u
Over 2,000 Posts (2,209)
Warren, OH
age: 44


I gotta get you out of this Funk you are in. Dont make me come down there cause if I do im going to spank you a** whenI get there....

4/13/2009 12:46:36 PMRespite Tree 
funtoday4us
Mentor, OH
age: 45


Quote from marqeye:
Marqeye:
I'm here for you in real life and on this site so all you have to do is step back and look at the puzzle, then the pieces will align



I know you are baby~


Min...I luv ya girlfriend....



This tree is big enough to shelter anyone that needs a bit of shelter when life gets you down~

4/14/2009 2:51:40 AMRespite Tree 
marqeye
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,941)
Kent, OH
age: 33


Marqeye grabs Fun and kisses her passionately under the tree





4/14/2009 2:57:03 AMRespite Tree 
wiz333
Lakewood, OH
age: 52


I'm gonna sit under the tree and watch Marqeye & Fun......this could get better than...well, never mind.

4/14/2009 3:28:40 AMRespite Tree 
funtoday4us
Mentor, OH
age: 45


Quote from marqeye:
Marqeye grabs Fun and kisses her passionately under the tree





And Fun is going to cuddle up into the safe sexy arms of this wonderful man~ thank you baby...such a sweet way to start my day~


I am worried Bruce may need to have the forest ranger on call...fire could start and get out of control

4/14/2009 12:29:48 PMRespite Tree 
marqeye
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,941)
Kent, OH
age: 33


Won't be the 1st time we made fire





[Edited 4/14/2009 12:29:59 PM PST]

4/14/2009 8:14:00 PMRespite Tree 

bones6684
Over 1,000 Posts (1,017)
Cincinnati, OH
age: 43


That oughta b fun, u 2

4/14/2009 8:28:37 PMRespite Tree 

bones6684
Over 1,000 Posts (1,017)
Cincinnati, OH
age: 43


My problems I listed on an earlier post, have been resolved with the 2 gals I pissed off.
A thousand roses to both of them.

4/14/2009 8:30:58 PMRespite Tree 

sxybdgrl4u
Over 2,000 Posts (2,209)
Warren, OH
age: 44


Stop pissing off the ladies...

4/14/2009 8:32:29 PMRespite Tree 

bones6684
Over 1,000 Posts (1,017)
Cincinnati, OH
age: 43


All is well, Bones back in form,look out