| 11/11/2007 2:07:39 PM | What to do when they want to be just friends | |
 dstrike222 Eastlake, OH age: 51
| I have been going out with this woman for a while. I care for her, but she just wants to just be friends. should I just give up or what?
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| 11/11/2007 2:09:23 PM | What to do when they want to be just friends | |
 nicksterdemus Little Rock, AR age: 50
| Send her packin' n check your package 4 askin' in the 1st place..........
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| 11/11/2007 2:09:35 PM | What to do when they want to be just friends | |
 endlessly2 Pamplin, VA age: 88
| need more info.... how long has she been feeling that way? how did she tell you that? do you feel there is a connection between you? do you think she feels it too? Is friendship something that is acceptable to you?
need more info to give thoughts
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| 11/11/2007 2:10:16 PM | What to do when they want to be just friends | |
 leila123 Liberty Hill, TX age: 60
| Sounds like she's giving you a pretty clear message. If you just want companionship, keep seeing her. If you're looking for a romantic relationship, you may have to find it with someone else. JMO
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| 11/11/2007 2:12:29 PM | What to do when they want to be just friends | |
 viktoriya75 Brooklyn, NY age: 33
| Unfortunately, yes...If a woman puts you in a "friends only" zone, it is almost impossible to move into a "lovers" zone...(not saying that it will NEVER happen...however, the chances are very slim....)
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| 11/11/2007 2:13:11 PM | What to do when they want to be just friends | |
 endlessly2 Pamplin, VA age: 88
| agree... pretty slim
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| 11/11/2007 2:21:36 PM | What to do when they want to be just friends | |
 roundhouse Phoenix, AZ age: 43
| That's a drag when it happens and it has happened to me. It takes a little while to Accept things as they are and not as you wish they would be. Keep a good thought about her and the times you had and be willing to move forward. I make it a point to find out early on by making that first move of interest so that the rules of the engagement are clearly established. If she passes on my first pass, I know to step back and keep on looking elsewhere. Saves a great deal of time, effort and finances. Odds are you will meet that special lady who will accept your first advance and you know what you gotta do after that! Like the one lady said, women rarely change their minds once they see you as a platonic friend.
Roundhouse in Phoenix, Arizona
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| 11/11/2007 2:24:22 PM | What to do when they want to be just friends | |
 peachess El Reno, OK age: 41
| Where you friends first? If so, Than chances of staying friends are good but, I have to agree with everyone else, If you were dating first and She's moved you in the "Friend Zone".....Move on..Good Luck!
xoxoPeaches.
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| 11/11/2007 2:29:23 PM | What to do when they want to be just friends | |
 chopperbabe Overland Park, KS age: 47
| Sounds like she's not into you. Friends is good if you can move on to that and not let emotions get in the way if she dates someone else. I can't do that. That is why either you are a friend (no benes tho strictly friends) or you're with me for the long haul.
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| 11/11/2007 2:34:20 PM | What to do when they want to be just friends | |
 rocknrolllvr448 Springfield, MO age: 48
| Roundhouse, If you make a first move too fast...like you might be doing...just because you don't want to waste time or money Then you probably will strike out and have to come back for another try but your chance might be ruined by going too fast. I don't like a forward man whom I don't know at all!
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| 11/11/2007 2:35:01 PM | What to do when they want to be just friends | |
 skunkbreath Saint James, MO age: 89
| If you have tried all of the usual things, bribery, crying, tantrums, extortion, voodo dolls, etc., and they didn't work, then it looks like a limp future. Buy a new voodo doll and potion and start anew.
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| 11/11/2007 2:36:03 PM | What to do when they want to be just friends | |
 chopperbabe Overland Park, KS age: 47
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| 11/11/2007 2:44:37 PM | What to do when they want to be just friends | |
 trublu5ft2 Columbia, TN age: 51
| Depends if she is worth losing altogether.
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| 11/11/2007 2:46:42 PM | What to do when they want to be just friends | |
 nicksterdemus Little Rock, AR age: 50
| Pack 'er up n put 'er back on the bus....w/1 dolla in 'er pocket.....1 way ticket...drop 'er off halfway 2 the stop......
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| 11/11/2007 2:48:33 PM | What to do when they want to be just friends | |
 nicrkitty36 Lake Worth, FL age: 37
| move on.....
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