5/31/2009 7:11:43 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

angelfire65
Over 1,000 Posts (1,364)
Mountain Home, AR
age: 44


Because they are men....'nuff said??

5/31/2009 7:20:47 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

jamesbro
Walnut Creek, CA
age: 52


Put it this way

What if he didn't wana ?

I always wana

but I am man

5/31/2009 7:24:41 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
cocopuffs375
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,152)
Suffern, NY
age: 22


It doesn't have to happen that way..but if you give off signals.of wanting something more..depending on how you dress or act..then yes.. thoughts may go down that road......Keep it fun..and just relax..and have a good time ......every one is different..its a huge turn off to me if thats one of the subjects he brings up after a few dates....everyone is different I guess....

5/31/2009 9:36:02 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
pleasurepirate
Over 1,000 Posts (1,736)
Shreveport, LA
age: 48


Didn't your mama ever tell you, "There's no sense puttin' off what you can do today?"

5/31/2009 9:45:35 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
rhonda49
Saint Paul, MN
age: 49


They want it before the first date

5/31/2009 9:56:59 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

scottiscool
Over 2,000 Posts (3,126)
Mayville, WI
age: 50 online now!


Gosh Rhonda, you read my mind. I think we are soul mates. Yeah let's skip the dating.!!...LOL

6/1/2009 8:48:28 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

babiegothika
Hialeah, FL
age: 23


men and women think diferent, completly, most of the time, we need to feel ourselves loved and love that person to go to bed with him, but they dont care about that, they wanna to have sex and thats all.

6/1/2009 8:56:06 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

alkv26
Over 1,000 Posts (1,470)
Morrisburg, ON
age: 32


probably cause alot of me think with the wrong head... and when you are with a beautiful woman it is sometimes very hard not to think with that head

6/1/2009 9:51:35 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
camarocraig
Georgetown, TX
age: 23


I dont care if I have sex for the first month, the longer you wait the more it builds up. it just seems that they end up wanting it by the 1st or 2nd night. But I guess that says alot about who I date. All I know is, I just got out of a 2 year relationship and I was engaged. But the first night we hung out, it was all her choice, she told me to unzip my jeans and she sucked me till i popped. and to my surprise ... swallowed.

6/1/2009 10:56:35 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

dateshybecca
Corpus Christi, TX
age: 26


simple,there horny

6/1/2009 10:57:17 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
marqeye
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,941)
Kent, OH
age: 33


To see if the p*ssy is worth the headache!



6/1/2009 11:18:37 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

bigdakad
Glendale, CA
age: 23


Quote from marqeye:
To see if the p*ssy is worth the headache!




thats 1 way to put it

6/1/2009 1:13:55 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
goodfiregreen
Lake Worth, FL
age: 24


because its something all guys expext i guess lol

6/1/2009 8:38:52 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

bamaboy3397
Over 1,000 Posts (1,600)
Van Nuys, CA
age: 46


I never expect that on the first date. Can wait till the time is right.

6/2/2009 9:27:21 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
tommyboi1965
Staten Island, NY
age: 44


We try to get some on the first date to see if your worth a second date

6/2/2009 9:29:01 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

lkn4honey
Over 2,000 Posts (3,915)
Las Vegas, NV
age: 31


what a stupid thread.

6/2/2009 11:54:58 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

iamhere1970
Over 1,000 Posts (1,120)
Trenton, NJ
age: 39


Because most men love sex.....

6/2/2009 2:10:54 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
dwsquared
Over 2,000 Posts (2,383)
Santa Fe, NM
age: 40


The answer's in the question.

6/2/2009 7:06:31 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
congowolf
Herndon, VA
age: 27


Quote from victorres:
i agree that we all want to f**k, but at the same time i agree with the guy who said that if it was just about sex, u can go to craiglist, go to the erotic section, pick an asian, blonde, ebony, or latina chick to come visit u at a hotel, ask them if they are cops and then pay them money in exchange for sex and feel dirty afterwards, because u think u might've contracted an std. if u want sex devoid of chemistry and intimacy, then u could always go that route. but if ure looking for someone that u can call a friend and have sex with, and have a relationship, then that's special until she cheats and leaves u for her ex.



suspiciously sounds like you've done this before?

6/3/2009 5:56:48 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

sasha027
Forest City, NC
age: 65


A man can go out on a first date and he is willing to have sex with a perfect stranger.That tells me a lot about him. he would sleep with anybody. Then they tell you girls they wouldn't have you if you do that. THAT YOU WOULD BE A WH*RE OR SLUT AND NOT WORTHY OF THEM HA, THE OLD DOUBLE STANDARD AND THEY ARE STILL GETTING AWAY WITH THIS CRAP IN 2009. i AS A WOMAN DONT WANT A MAN WHO WOULD SLEEP WITH A WOMAN ON THE FIRST DATE.

6/3/2009 7:06:50 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
sportsguy17
Phoenix, AZ
age: 20


Thats easy...So we can figure out if we want to ask her on a second date or not!haha

(kidding) ......

6/3/2009 7:09:19 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
cassandra27
Elyria, OH
age: 28


'sports' ur not kidding. its [blocked site]. if he hits it on the 1st date hes gonna call u again but if he dosnt he'll call u for a 2nd date

6/3/2009 7:10:55 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
sportsguy17
Phoenix, AZ
age: 20


true, well i cant speak for myself in that situation but.. youre right

6/3/2009 7:11:40 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

rinnz
Over 2,000 Posts (3,783)
Brattleboro, VT
age: 21


i gotta say, i know as many women that are the same way.... maybe so many others will they expect it of you as well

6/4/2009 11:25:37 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

kwietkptkatie
Over 1,000 Posts (1,454)
Las Vegas, NV
age: 40


why not.

6/4/2009 11:27:03 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

alkv26
Over 1,000 Posts (1,470)
Morrisburg, ON
age: 32


nothing wrong with it if there is chemestry and you both want to do it

6/4/2009 11:28:53 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
evileddy
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,709)
Ottawa, ON
age: 36


Quote from sasha027:
A man can go out on a first date and he is willing to have sex with a perfect stranger.That tells me a lot about him. he would sleep with anybody. Then they tell you girls they wouldn't have you if you do that. THAT YOU WOULD BE A WH*RE OR SLUT AND NOT WORTHY OF THEM HA, THE OLD DOUBLE STANDARD AND THEY ARE STILL GETTING AWAY WITH THIS CRAP IN 2009. i AS A WOMAN DONT WANT A MAN WHO WOULD SLEEP WITH A WOMAN ON THE FIRST DATE.



It's not a double standard.

Obtaining sex as a man takes effort.

Obtaining sex as a woman doesn't.

6/4/2009 11:31:42 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
jamie1414
Gadsden, AL
age: 40


quit dating boys and start dating men there is a big difference. some of us do know how to be gentlemen

6/4/2009 6:38:20 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

letsplay54143
Marinette, WI
age: 62


May be this is stupid, but if I didn't think I would eventually want to sleep with the lady why would I want to go on a first date with her? I am not here to see how many women I can date, I want to find the right one that will last me the rest of my life and I do not intend to spend it sexless. So if we hit it off and she is of a like mind I would certainlly ablige her.

6/5/2009 12:30:55 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
tristen01
Over 1,000 Posts (1,048)
Minot, ND
age: 43


to me they ars players and only want one thing

6/5/2009 5:14:35 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

heathepwatyawho
Cullman, AL
age: 46


Because it feels good maybe?

6/5/2009 5:24:11 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

dkdeckmann
Taylorsville, KY
age: 50


In this day and time it might be a good idea to verify the sex of the person you are dating before you get too "attached". People have been rudely surprized before...

It's something fun that you can do together.

Maybe your attitude is a reflection of your opinion of your own self-worth. If you feel than ALL men want from you is sex then maybe deep down inside you feel that is the most valuable thing you have to offer them.

6/5/2009 8:51:09 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

glitteryheather
Springville, UT
age: 26


I get that all the time too. They tell like sorry i cant help myself look so good. OK I know I look hot but that doesnt mean I want jump every guy that comes my way.

6/5/2009 8:57:36 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
budman84
Warwick, RI
age: 25


i guess for me it depends on the impression you give during the date. if you start talking all sexy like, then yea im gonna probably try. if you keep the convo down to earth and normal then i tend to behave

6/5/2009 5:32:03 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
nausr51
Virginia Beach, VA
age: 21


i would have to say because some guys wnat to have that notch on their bedpost and plus they need that story to tell their buddies. i agree with the guy above me if the girl doesnt hint at it then we really dont think about it that much and i empahize that much because we have testerone and are males sex never leaves our mind

6/5/2009 6:45:34 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

jamaican_choc
Brooklyn, NY
age: 25


only two things, their either really interested in you, or they want prove they can get it that easily.

6/5/2009 6:50:45 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

barbaraajo
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,590)
Reston, VA
age: 53


because they are men

6/5/2009 6:55:37 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

imrich29
Over 1,000 Posts (1,066)
Wessington Springs, SD
age: 60


Quote from barbaraajo:
because they are men


hey a t lest give some of us a little lea way

6/5/2009 11:37:39 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

margar
Poplar Bluff, MO
age: 63


Yes, never have been on a date that I didn't have to fight them off. (Laughing) Guess they think they are doing me a favor. Or.....do I seduce them? Me to know and you to wonder.

6/6/2009 1:15:49 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
tristen01
Over 1,000 Posts (1,048)
Minot, ND
age: 43


Quote from heathepwatyawho:
Because it feels good maybe?[/ just because the hormones are raging dont make it right start slow i guess it all depends if you want a quick f**k or a real woman!

6/6/2009 2:04:15 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
tristen01
Over 1,000 Posts (1,048)
Minot, ND
age: 43


Quote from heathepwatyawho:
Because it feels good maybe?
but it only feels good for the moment wouldnt you want that moment to last forever or are you a player?

6/6/2009 3:22:19 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

rele1
Memphis, TN
age: 34


I think most guys want to have sex so fast because really...thats all alot of you women really have to offer.I dont see what the big deal is??Alot of yall arent virgins,have kids,have done oral,anal,threesomes and all types of shit with many different partners.Because this is our first outing,all that history is just irrelevant???And on our date you probably got some tight shit on your ass,boobs hangin out and gettin hella drunk???None of this represents a respectable woman to me.Gone bend that a** over like a real bytch is suppose!!!Just tellin it like it is!!!

6/7/2009 6:53:56 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

iamalwaysjustme
Over 2,000 Posts (3,020)
Olathe, KS
age: 50


To me what ever feels right at the time Most men and women my age are really not into the dating scene sometimes , and just want to find some one to have fun with and to make us laugh We are grown adults so if it feels like the right thing to do , hell yea

6/7/2009 12:10:49 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
juicedude
Blacksburg, VA
age: 27


Probably guys can't resist a beautiful like yourself.LOL JK

6/7/2009 1:14:20 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
pleasurepirate
Over 1,000 Posts (1,736)
Shreveport, LA
age: 48


Hell, we just like to have sex. Unlike women who turned The Rules into some kind of bible, many of us who still have our balls don't stress over the number of dates instead of the chemistry.



6/7/2009 5:55:56 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
teck6959
Prospect, KY
age: 46


most guys want to have sex on the first date?

I am just glad she said Most guys!

Not all guys, I really hate being but in a box.

6/9/2009 10:31:17 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

1mrgoodguy
Clayton, NC
age: 37


you are dating the rong guys not 1mrgoodguys and not just guys i have been on 3 dates in this site and it was the girls on the first date 1 of them ask me why i was pulling away i told her i have only been with you 45 mins and your hand is in my pants

6/10/2009 11:22:57 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

quartetman
Davenport, IA
age: 50


Not all guys want sex on the first date. I don't, unless I've known that person for a long time as a friend first. I prefer to get to know the person before I get in bed with them.

6/10/2009 11:33:22 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

raydawg300
Bedford, OH
age: 28


Just had a thought...yea amazing I know. Well, first of all why do guys try to have sex on the first date. Thats easy...Guys like sex Also.. maybe thats a good idea, I mean, you try to get the girl in to bed quickly.. and if she does, you still have a good time, and you can cancel her out for a serious relationship.... I mean, every girl I've dated that had sex real quick turned out to be a slut pretty much.

6/10/2009 11:45:21 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
celticpixie
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,400)
Suwanee, GA
age: 27


guys are going to try, regardless. it's human nature to procreate. some guys are more blunt and shallow and won't put the time and effort into it, and some are satisfied with making a girl happy before they try and get in her pants. don't be fooled, just because a guy doesn't bend you over on the first date doesn't mean he didn't want to.
it's not like he would turn down a chance to get laid either.

6/10/2009 12:29:38 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
evileddy
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,709)
Ottawa, ON
age: 36


Quote from celticpixie:
guys are going to try, regardless. it's human nature to procreate. some guys are more blunt and shallow and won't put the time and effort into it, and some are satisfied with making a girl happy before they try and get in her pants. don't be fooled, just because a guy doesn't bend you over on the first date doesn't mean he didn't want to.
it's not like he would turn down a chance to get laid either.


Also don't think that women don't want to be bent over and plowed.

6/10/2009 1:34:38 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
celticpixie
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,400)
Suwanee, GA
age: 27


but how easy you give it defines who you are (self restraint people, self restraint)

6/10/2009 1:39:47 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
jodi1234
Bronx, NY
age: 19


they want sex because they never date a real woman before, all of those girl they date make it hard for us good girls to be in a good relationship, because those B*TCHES left a bad expression making it seem like that all a women want.and that's you can't wonder why girl date girls because it very hard to find a man that doesn't want sex or is a player, so why not date the same sex, because the opposite sex only want one thing and that is SEX.(i lile man don't get me wrong)

6/10/2009 10:28:22 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

longlocks40
Des Moines, IA
age: 44


I recieve emails who guys who says you want to f*ck, i email them back and ask them to have some class and then block the jerks!

6/10/2009 10:46:07 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
gdgghgf
Macomb, MI
age: 23


because pus sy mmm mmm ggggoooooddddd

6/10/2009 10:48:02 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
victorres
Over 1,000 Posts (1,174)
Chicago, IL
age: 24


Quote from longlocks40:
I recieve emails who guys who says you want to f*ck, i email them back and ask them to have some class and then block the jerks!



so that's why my emails always get deleted...interesting...well better delete these last five i was about to send. do you think if i do a mass mailing, eventually i'll find one to say yes?



[Edited 6/10/2009 10:48:45 PM PST]

6/11/2009 11:48:48 AMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 
mustangdan34
Louisville, KY
age: 36


As a guy..I should know the answer to this but I dont..I do not like to have sex on the first date..to me it ruins the momment. I believe a couple should wait..date a few weeks or months if they both agree and just let the chemistry of love and flirting bring them to the sexual momment.If you try that you might like it..theres no sense in jumping into sex unless that's all you care about.I do like sex a lot but I like the chemistry to be there. plus its good to show the women you have self control!

6/12/2009 2:18:57 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

erik18
West Jordan, UT
age: 19


cause alot of guys are pigs

6/12/2009 3:26:30 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

honesty75
Morristown, NJ
age: 34


because we want to have sex before the first date
actually we want to have sex before we've even met you

6/12/2009 6:02:01 PMy do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 

rrrsmile
Over 2,000 Posts (2,976)
York, PA
age: 49


same reason women want it....horny