| 6/29/2009 6:53:30 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | | 
mikey126541
Vancouver, WA
age: 54
| For me, it's not a "must have"
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| 7/1/2009 12:48:34 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
dhanus1
Warrensburg, MO
age: 33
| Because we're impatient for one thing... Also men equate sex with love etc... So then we know the woman either is really attracted to us or shes just a Hoe.
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| 7/1/2009 2:24:07 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
cloud21x
Los Fresnos, TX
age: 24
| because if you go out with the firl of your dreams then you take her to eat something then you go to a hotel or her house and then the magic or sex happens and because its cool to have sex on their 1st date
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| 7/1/2009 2:40:49 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
speedlimit30
Bluffton, SC
age: 50
| Because if they don't...they must be gay.
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| 7/1/2009 2:53:02 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
gattnypoo12
Cleburne, TX
age: 25
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Because men are preverted...they see nothing wrong with having sex on the first date.
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| 7/1/2009 3:08:51 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
elbabybhoo_89
Dallas, TX
age: 20
| hi i whant sex
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| 7/1/2009 6:12:16 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
josh_p
Los Angeles, CA
age: 23
| Hi, im a man and I hate sex, and it's disgusting; are you women f**king happy now? 
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| 7/3/2009 2:46:16 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
stlsxy760
Palm Springs, CA
age: 60
|  you say it like being a sex toy is a bad thing.....
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| 7/3/2009 2:47:43 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
max1261
Evansville, IN
age: 47
| NOW THAT'S FUNNY!
Because men are preverted...they see nothing wrong with having sex on the first date.
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| 7/3/2009 5:52:18 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
nicole18now
Buford, GA
age: 18
| I like the fruit but no seriously if they want sex on the first date I take it as they ar ejust too young in the head they need to grow up yet aspesholy if they push really they just need a kid to learn to keep it in there pants nothing says birth control more the child suport 
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| 7/4/2009 8:22:14 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
calisticky
Moreno Valley, CA
age: 32
| hellooo, your talking about men. we don't even need a first date.
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| 7/4/2009 9:45:58 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
abashfull
Uncasville, CT
age: 58
| This is a natural thing, this is what guys are, this is the way it is. Are you expecting change the natural state of things?
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| 7/4/2009 9:58:43 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55
| Hi, im a man and I hate sex, and it's disgusting; are you women f**king happy now?
sucks to be u!
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| 7/4/2009 10:28:20 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
celtics12
Holbrook, MA
age: 31
| I don't expect sex on the first date. Although I may take advantage of the oppurtunity if it comes up.
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| 7/7/2009 3:52:24 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
agirlnamedjerri
Blanchester, OH
age: 44
| they know there may not be another date, so they gotta try or they will regret it....and sometimes...thats what the woman wants also !!
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| 7/7/2009 5:51:53 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
cruise427
Los Angeles, CA
age: 41
| they know there may not be another date, so they gotta try or they will regret it....and sometimes...thats what the woman wants also !!
i agree..,
i was gonna say the same thing, but in differant words..
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| 7/7/2009 5:54:14 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
longlastingwife
Grand Rapids, MI
age: 35
|  you hit the nail on the head
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| 7/8/2009 4:54:13 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
archer77
Big Rapids, MI
age: 31
| No.
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| 7/8/2009 7:37:38 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
honestoyou
Jacksonville, FL
age: 51
| it's all how you present youself..some guys may want sex from you the first date because they may not want a second date..
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| 7/8/2009 11:03:01 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
wiseguy2009
Brooklyn, NY
age: 30
| Thank you! Sometimes its ok have sex on the first date.
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| 7/8/2009 11:10:15 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
helperbee
Fort Collins, CO
age: 47
| I think men don't have minds like woman. They want to f**k and woman want to find peace in a relationship and learn the art of sex. The beauty of it all is that a woman can indicate a gentleman by not getting hit on the first date. I myself have been hurt many times by a selfish man but if he has sex with me on the first date, I know he's not right for me. The thrill was nice but the mind game really hurts.
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| 7/8/2009 11:53:21 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 36
| I think men don't have minds like woman. They want to f**k and woman want to find peace in a relationship and learn the art of sex. The beauty of it all is that a woman can indicate a gentleman by not getting hit on the first date. I myself have been hurt many times by a selfish man but if he has sex with me on the first date, I know he's not right for me. The thrill was nice but the mind game really hurts.
LOL
Ya right.. if a dude is on a date with you and doesn't make a pass you think he's not interested.. get outta here.
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| 7/8/2009 11:58:57 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
rmb077
Silver Spring, MD
age: 57
| Not if their dateis STUPID or Ugly!!!  
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| 7/8/2009 12:01:16 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
hereasiam
Bourbonnais, IL
age: 19
| I know that no one will read this because it is so far back, but not all guys want sex on the first date. Some guys will think about it and not make any moves because they actually want to get to know a girl.
If you don't believe this, then oh well. If you don't know any, that's sad. I know that I don't want sex on a first date because I need to trust and feel comfortable around any girl. Heck, I might not even want a kiss.
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| 7/8/2009 4:02:19 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
byron1987
Compton, CA
age: 22
| I am not like that. I like to get to know the person a little bit more better. then when it happin she will aver forget
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| 7/8/2009 4:34:43 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
funnct1965
Groton, CT
age: 44
| Depends on the mood and the chemistry i guess.
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| 7/8/2009 8:14:39 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
niceguy4tlc
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 52
| We like to have sex.
I have reach a point that it means so much more to have that emotional connection.
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| 7/8/2009 8:47:27 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
mixtress
Muncie, IN
age: 38
| lmfao
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| 7/8/2009 10:13:45 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
jimbobo676
Abilene, TX
age: 24
| if u feel the connection on the first date i dont see anything wrong with it. but if either is just wanting to get laid that should be said b4 anything is even done or th\e date has started. ive said it many times im just looking for friends at the moment but would be nice to find someone to give some release to
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| 7/8/2009 10:20:15 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
shan888
San Antonio, TX
age: 23
| because most of them are pigs
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| 7/8/2009 10:23:04 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
colby2121
Biloxi, MS
age: 29
| is that a rhetorical question??
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| 7/9/2009 11:13:24 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
wiseguy2009
Brooklyn, NY
age: 30
| You only live once but not all time sometimes I think its ok but what do I no. 
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| 7/9/2009 11:36:08 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
misty12345
Daytona Beach, FL
age: 20
| because they are imature,jerks!with no morals.
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| 7/9/2009 11:40:55 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
twyzt
Markham, ON
age: 20
| I don't expect anything to happen, really. I'm pretty much just open to all outcomes, but attached to none. If it happens, cool. If not, then that's okay too.
And more often than not, sex does happen on the first date. Combine that with my "take it as it comes attitude", and I've come to the conclusion that as much as women would like men (and even themselves) to believe, women enjoy sex just as much (if not more) than men do. The only thing is that they're afraid to express themselves because society has conditioned them to feel like sluts if they partake in sexual activities too soon. Women on this thread are more than aware of the male/female "double standard" that has been engrained in you since you were kids.
While I don't believe in that double standard, I respect how a woman must feel. As such, I'm never judgemental, I'm completely accepting, and I never kiss and tell. Once my date understands that she can let loose and completely be herself around me without negative consequences, she's usually eager to jump into bed in the evening.
So don't make men out to be pigs. By condemning consensual sexual behaviour that both parties enjoy, you're only shooting yourself in the foot by furthering the very double standard that hinders your sex life in the first place.
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| 7/9/2009 7:22:50 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
clearlycasual
Peoria, IL
age: 37
| Why is it that men werent blessed with such the emotional achieving ways of a women ... ill tell u this much - women will never understand - just like men will never understand why woman arent so apt to 'sex on the first date' ... because woman werent blessed witha penis !!!. . . . 
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| 7/9/2009 7:25:31 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
devolt99
Los Angeles, CA
age: 25
| u know i have been on alot of first dates and about 60% of them the guy is always trying to get me in bed and for me i am not like that i dont like to have sex with just any guy who will take me out i want this guy to want to be with me and love me and try and spend a little time with me if he can not use me and then say well it did not work out.... men make me sick when they do that i wish that some day i will find a man who will want me... 4 me not a toy and not a sex buddy. .. WHY NOT??
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| 7/9/2009 7:33:20 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
johnwhitehorse
Manchester, CT
age: 43
| What the f**k kind of question is that?
you might as well ask why do females get b*tchy for three to seven days a month.
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| 7/9/2009 9:45:29 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
devolt99
Los Angeles, CA
age: 25
| What the f**k kind of question is that?
you might as well ask why do females get b*tchy for three to seven days a month. 
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| 7/9/2009 9:54:58 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
love509
Omaha, NE
age: 29
| i know that alot of boys are all over the girl but from my point of veiw having xxx is just showing that they want to have a higher relationship but one rule is never leave the man desperate or a girl myh old girl stalked me after i8 divorced her
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| 7/9/2009 10:08:42 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
afg007
Concord, CA
age: 45
| you just dating the wrong kind of men becouse i dont try on the first date i have to get to know the woman before i get them in to bed but i did do the first date one night stand once.
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| 7/9/2009 10:33:55 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
cj3805
De Leon Springs, FL
age: 26
| Men are like the weather...Nothing can be done to change either one of them.
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| 7/10/2009 10:42:11 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
2002redbird
Tacoma, WA
age: 45
| For some men they're just looking for that right now instead of the Miss Right!! Theres a few of that kind out there
Then they make the respectabile ones look bad!!!! Those ones with the right now attitude need to get a Blow-up doll!
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| 7/10/2009 10:46:16 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
bigcalm
New York, NY
age: 25
| On the first date keep your hands to yourself..
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| 7/10/2009 11:04:59 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
danielsjack07
Concord, NH
age: 26
| If I have to come pick you up, bring you to the movies, bring you to dinner, and pay for all this plus my gas... Damn right your gonna give me some!!!!
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| 7/11/2009 1:25:33 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
fineline69
Brockton, MA
age: 39
| it feels good
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| 7/11/2009 2:21:01 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
stocj
Garden City, MO
age: 29
| "Because their hand/arm is tired "
I think your the only one with a grasp on reality. Thanks for putting it straight.
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| 7/11/2009 3:09:12 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
stastas
Brooklyn, NY
age: 45
| because they don't know what else to do
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| 7/11/2009 4:19:57 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
skypatt
Austin, TX
age: 28
| Sex answers a lot of questions about a girl the you can't just ask. Plus where horny all the time.
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| 7/11/2009 4:57:35 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
concordeman
Quincy, MA
age: 77
| There must be a happy medium between a care-less c*ck and a sanctimonious p*ssy. Both sexes want sex, it's just a matter of "when." Respect your partner's wishes, that's rule number one. After one you two can make up the rules as you see fit.
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| 7/11/2009 6:15:34 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
kinkycapitalist
Atlanta, GA
age: 55
| We don't want to have sex on the first date, silly. IN HER! Just a few guys want to have sex on her.
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| 7/11/2009 6:29:29 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
devolt99
Los Angeles, CA
age: 25
| it's good !! and why the hell spend time??
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| 7/12/2009 12:44:52 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
booda320
Pittsburgh, PA
age: 42
| Because they're men? lol
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| 7/12/2009 12:51:46 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
xion1983
Tampa, FL
age: 25
| u sexy if u was not u wouldnt get a hug
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| 7/14/2009 10:14:32 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
yvette21
Austin, TX
age: 21
| Guys want to have sex on the first date cause they just want some ass.Newsflash
we have to respect our self.Have some standards.
If you dont a man will never respect you ,take you out,hell your just a sports fish to him.No rules,requirments,guidelines,and trust ladys they can
pick up our scent .Now a woman that has requirments can understands
her power and wields it like a samurai sword.
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| 7/14/2009 10:32:00 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
pattycake5
College Station, TX
age: 22
| I will not have sex with someone on the first date What is the point its better to be more familiar with some one before you take that step!
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| 7/14/2009 11:27:33 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
bigben1234
Pembroke, MA
age: 25
| well i would say for two reasons. #1 women can have sex when ever they want there is always a line of men that would sleep with them so men will always try because if they dont try they will never get any. #2 i would say because there are just as many women that do give in an sleep with them on the first date so blame you own kind 
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| 7/15/2009 1:23:18 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
moneyboy09
Portland, OR
age: 25
| hey i would love that
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| 7/15/2009 6:18:41 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
happyone46
Hillsborough, NJ
age: 46
| well said, its just two people having fun then if its good who knows no time to play guessing game after all sex is very important in any relationship, if the sex is horrible forget it i am out of there, thank god! i found out early before getting too attached.
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| 7/15/2009 6:21:49 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
happyone46
Hillsborough, NJ
age: 46
| i know if i want to be with a guy the first time i set my eyes on him, why not finish the process and grade him before the date is over?
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| 7/16/2009 5:49:10 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
icon42186
Marion, OH
age: 23
| the ? is why dont girls want to hump on the first date. u got to know if its worth comin back and spendin money on
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