| 4/12/2009 10:16:03 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | | 
scottt39
Ocean View, HI
age: 47
| The same reason they want it on the second and third dates. Because we want it we we want it!! And thats 24-7.
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| 4/12/2009 10:29:32 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
mschocolate78
Freeport, NY
age: 31
| its bcuz sex isnt as important to men as is us. good sex will determine where a relationship is gonna go anywhere with a man as with us we can spend yrs with a man who doesnt do anything for u sexual. so all in all i beleive u should make the choice if u want 1st nite sex n not worry about the stereotype and just have fun
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| 4/13/2009 4:15:52 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
buttsmaker
Montgomery, IL
age: 66
| It's in our genes to get in to YOUR jeans!!!   
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| 4/13/2009 3:16:43 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
sarah424242
Puyallup, WA
age: 25
| yea but if we give in too easy we are sluts and all you want to do is come cum and go but if we dont put out then we are a tease
I agree , its not a good idea, but sex on the first date, has ended up in a sirius relationship for me.
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| 4/13/2009 3:24:45 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
jrebel
Manly, IA
age: 36
| I go by the belief that women know if they want you or not on the first date, why not try
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| 4/13/2009 5:07:44 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
phoenix52
Milwaukee, WI
age: 57
| Not all men want it on the first date. Or at least, they don't convey it. They may want it, but realize that, in my opinion, the woman that succumbs to my charms (just kidding)on the first date most often did the same to the last and the one before that. Not always, but in general. The second date, well, that's different. And usually it leads to alot more dates. Thankfully!!
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| 4/13/2009 5:22:11 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
candyandy77
Hamilton, OH
age: 32
| Not all men want it on the first date. Or at least, they don't convey it. They may want it, but realize that, in my opinion, the woman that succumbs to my charms (just kidding)on the first date most often did the same to the last and the one before that. Not always, but in general. The second date, well, that's different. And usually it leads to alot more dates. Thankfully!!
I don't think you should have sex even on the second date. I had a guy call me on Sat. and it would have been our second time seeing eachother, he told me he wanted to come over and have sex and I had to tell him no. I need to know someone a little better befor sex is part of the relationship.
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| 4/14/2009 9:57:49 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
poe89
Arnold, MO
age: 20
| i dont i usally want a kiss though if it was a good date
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| 4/15/2009 12:37:29 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
mjw_6230
Louisville, KY
age: 32
| chics kill me with stupid questions. we want to sleep with you before we go on a first date. thats why we hit on you. and thats why we asked you out. now if you are on a first date and he doesnt try to sleep with you in most cases its because hes tryin to respect you and will like to see you again. but just because he does try to sleep with you doesnt mean he doesnt like you. he just wants to sleep with you and probably has no control and is lookin for a story to tell his buddys. and if you dont sleep with him you best believe he has a back up plan. so either way we come out on top. but what bothers me is that women post these sexy pics on here and dress sexy to attract men but then complain when a man comes at them sexually. yall complain if a guy tries to sleep with you too soon but if nobody tries to sleep with you, you wonder whats wrong with you that no guys are hitting on you like that. then all of a sudden he may be gay. which is just a cover up that women use cause they in denial that a man doesnt want them. lol
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| 4/15/2009 3:45:17 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
goodgato
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 45
| The same reason they want it on the second and third dates. Because we want it we we want it!! And thats 24-7.
God Bless You...and I'm not even religious, dude. 
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| 4/15/2009 4:36:10 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
comehither
Houston, TX
age: 38
| Males are typically only after one thing, sex. However, I would hope that women in general, can consider the following in regards to "y" men are typically focused on "sex" from day one:
a. in this nation how many women are focused on their appearance, in other words, how many women want to look the right way, at the right time?
b. in this nation how many women pump up their "b's", to comfort themselves in their appearance, to INCLUDE achieving the attraction they are "after?"
This is just a male perspective, and please consider that men and women have "animal" instincts. Therefore the hotter they are, the more the males are driven to sex. I hope that makes sense. If a large percentage of women are driven to "pump" it up, then guess what, you've created this "issue" yourselves. If you disagree, turn on the television. Women whom advertise, or market "anything" in this nation, tend to have a particular appearance.
I, myself have always preferred a woman whom is naturally attractive. It's just my opinion and what I prefer.
I can only assume, that I'm in big trouble for what I just stated, 
so be it, for ladies & gentlemen we all are allowed to have our, shall we say,
opinions 
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| 4/15/2009 6:17:38 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
barbaraajo
Reston, VA
age: 53
| It is because they are men
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| 4/15/2009 6:19:53 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
cob718
Picayune, MS
age: 63
| I don't expect sex on the first date, however I wouldn't necessarily turn it down
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| 4/15/2009 6:20:21 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 36
| Because we paid for everything.
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| 4/15/2009 9:03:59 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
sixfooteightman
Santa Clara, CA
age: 26
| u know i have been on alot of first dates and about 60% of them the guy is always trying to get me in bed and for me i am not like that i dont like to have sex with just any guy who will take me out i want this guy to want to be with me and love me and try and spend a little time with me if he can not use me and then say well it did not work out.... men make me sick when they do that i wish that some day i will find a man who will want me... 4 me not a toy and not a sex buddy.
Sex is intimate, see it as getting really close.
Males are programmed to want to blow their load inside someone, its genetic.
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| 4/15/2009 9:05:02 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
sixfooteightman
Santa Clara, CA
age: 26
| Because we paid for everything.
Damn straight.
Of course I don't pay for expensive drinks until AFTER i've gotten laid.
SUPPORT THE "POST COITAL DRINKS ONLY" MOVEMENT! STOP C*CK TEASES FROM DRAINING WALLETS!
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| 4/15/2009 9:58:22 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
mdd3rd
Miamisburg, OH
age: 38
| personally i do not believe in sex without love,i never understood the mentality of one night stands. wouldnt even those people who do , agree that being in love with the person you are having sex with, is possibly the greatest experience a human being can ever have , its spiritual and physical. but, to each his own, i am not in the business of judging others, for i am not perfect either.
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| 4/15/2009 10:15:21 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
sweetme4u
Hamilton, ON
age: 19
| what's wrong with that? if you don't want it, just say so!
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| 4/15/2009 10:18:36 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
justjelly
Cumberland, KY
age: 31
| immediate gradification .
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| 4/15/2009 11:15:45 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
mjw_6230
Louisville, KY
age: 32
| 
[Edited 4/15/2009 11:16:33 AM PST]
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| 4/16/2009 1:22:19 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
brettsirius
San Diego, CA
age: 31
| are you sending that kind of vibe out? i mean typically if i'm making a move that soon, there has to be some kind of mutual signal that that's where this is all heading, it's not that common to just take a girl out and try to bed her on the 1st date. so what is it you're doing? or is it your taste?
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| 4/16/2009 1:37:27 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
kinkycapitalist
Atlanta, GA
age: 55
| Easy, gets a bad rap. I love easy and I respect it. I will come back over and over again. I am egotistical and foolish enough to believe that she was EASY for me because, I was EASY for her. WOW, what a turn-on it is to have a woman want me. It happented, once. It was the Spring of 81. A Tuesday, as I recall. yeah baby
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| 4/18/2009 3:21:25 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
scottiscool
Mayville, WI
age: 50
| just trying to Propagate the Species...
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| 4/20/2009 6:19:33 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
nicefitguy
Norristown, PA
age: 40
| Some women do too!
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| 4/20/2009 6:29:16 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
rockhill29731
Rock Hill, SC
age: 52
| not all guys do...some men have ways of being friends first..but yes its a good thing after one another knows one another
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| 4/20/2009 6:30:19 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
kalnix
Milford, MA
age: 24
| simple were guys
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| 4/20/2009 7:48:48 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
brockr23
Chandler, AZ
age: 34
| Do you really want the guy that's not even trying to get laid on the first date? Seriously?
Boys, guys, men, whatever name you want to use, want some sex. It is just the way of things.
[Edited 4/20/2009 7:50:08 PM PST]
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| 4/20/2009 8:49:34 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
bowlove
Morristown, TN
age: 29
| 1... we are Animals
2.................You Ladies dress too sexXxy ! ! !
3......................................I've not had good loven in a Long Long time ! ! !
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| 4/20/2009 9:23:02 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
goodwithwood
Columbia, KY
age: 53
| Are we supposed to!?!?!? OMG-somebody forgot to tell me!!! Rules people, where are the damn rules? Seriously, I'm not a teenager anymore ( but the right look from across a crowded room can still be all the foreplay I need), sooooo ya ain't gittin' any uh muy 'til ya want sum. Ah kin wate. Besides, anticipation is sosososos sexy!
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| 4/24/2009 5:49:19 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
bill6675
Butler, PA
age: 43
| Its about respect,Me i never did that.My mother would kill me.
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| 4/24/2009 6:37:42 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
gjlonelyman
Grand Junction, CO
age: 51
| Now you know why body builders have such huge arms...lol...(to his woman he says, baby..c'mere..my arm's tired...lol)
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| 4/24/2009 6:40:02 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
msbevzie
Oregon, OH
age: 46
| Well don't give into them...
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| 4/24/2009 11:24:39 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
trikerider51
Chandler, TX
age: 58
| Its about respect,Me i never did that.My mother would kill me.
OMG!!!! Please tell me you don't tell your mother EVERYTHING!!!
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| 4/24/2009 12:14:45 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
sandrahall
Mc Kenzie, TN
age: 33
| Hmmm just a thought...So women dont want to have sex on the first date then? Now the key word is WANT. Wanting and doing are two different things. I think many women WANT to have sex. Its just we are not "supposed" to because it makes us look "bad".
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| 4/24/2009 12:21:56 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55
| Hmmm just a thought...So women dont want to have sex on the first date then? Now the key word is WANT. Wanting and doing are two different things. I think many women WANT to have sex. Its just we are not "supposed" to because it makes us look "bad".
yes, you're right too many women have had the heads screwed up because they've always been told that being sexually active is bad, if they have too many partners they're a wh*re, if the do a guy too quickly they're a slut.
then there are the women who have grown beyond that and are able to enjoy sex with whomever and whenever they feel like and moralists can be damned.
I am not saying which attitude is the right one or the best one, each person has to come to grips with that on their own.
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| 4/24/2009 12:23:43 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
cob718
Picayune, MS
age: 63
|  because there might be a second date
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| 4/24/2009 12:29:37 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55
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this is stupid, how does having sex on the first date affect a second date, unless of course one was completely inept in the sack
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| 4/24/2009 1:25:33 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 36
| this is stupid, how does having sex on the first date affect a second date, unless of course one was completely inept in the sack
Would you have sex with a guy who had a horrible personality?
Then why do you expect men to be ok with having bad sex with women?
I think the women that put out on the first date whom aren't very good at sex don't get the man to commit... and THAT is why they get so upset.
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| 4/24/2009 1:34:55 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
cowboy305
Rochester, WA
age: 58
| Men don't like to waste time.
When the whole object of hanging around with some one of the opposite sex is to have sex, why waste time?
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| 4/24/2009 2:10:41 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55
| Would you have sex with a guy who had a horrible personality?
Then why do you expect men to be ok with having bad sex with women?
I think the women that put out on the first date whom aren't very good at sex don't get the man to commit... and THAT is why they get so upset.
not good at sex? hahaha, I've never had complaints, most men can't even last long enough to get into having good sex!
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| 4/24/2009 2:12:17 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
milfmom
Kansas City, MO
age: 35
| cause there horn dogs
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| 4/24/2009 2:42:05 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
salvo5572
Garden City, NY
age: 22
| Woman are always trying to get me to have sex on the first date.I just put my foot down and said..I deserve better than that!Whatever happend to the good ole days when woman used to want to get to know a man first.Seriously ladies...keep it in your bra(wink,wink)!
[Edited 4/24/2009 2:42:21 PM PST]
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| 4/24/2009 4:00:25 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
lsl2
Anderson, SC
age: 38
| lol. hmmmm....bet your nose is growing. lol
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| 4/24/2009 4:24:10 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
steve5701
Alexandria, IN
age: 51
| Well I think alot of it has to do with their age,m ost young guys only wqnt a piece of tail,while the older ones(like myself),needs to get to know the lady before the act of sex ever comes into the picture. When it's just all about the sex,people do get hurt,and that's not right,well at least some do.
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| 4/24/2009 4:46:07 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
wizmom_00
Galatia, IL
age: 58
| u know i have been on alot of first dates and about 60% of them the guy is always trying to get me in bed and for me i am not like that i dont like to have sex with just any guy who will take me out i want this guy to want to be with me and love me and try and spend a little time with me if he can not use me and then say well it did not work out.... men make me sick when they do that i wish that some day i will find a man who will want me... 4 me not a toy and not a sex buddy.
Sorry sweetie, you have a long road ahead of you "kissing alot of frogs". It doesnt get any better with age, just hold on to your guns, your morals...you'll find your prince! (If it isnt worth working for, it isnt worth having.)
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| 4/24/2009 4:49:03 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
drace59
Ayer, MA
age: 50
| all guys are not like that.You have to find a gentleman
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| 4/24/2009 4:53:33 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
mezentiangate
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 57
| the girls I met here (and elsewhere) seem to expect it if they're attracted to me-- the others aren't keepers anyway
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| 4/24/2009 5:02:27 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
wizmom_00
Galatia, IL
age: 58
| OMG!!!! Please tell me you don't tell your mother EVERYTHING!!!
Geeesh....they dont have to tell ya!! "walking on air, hungry as a wolf, in a really super good mood, and the world is all well...lol!!" Heck, I was a "good" girl growing up...both my parents had radar...and geeeeesh, I lived 8 miles out in the country. Wouldn't be time for a swat team to get there, to save me!! I would of been a little muddie/bloodie puddle of goo!! LOL!!
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| 4/24/2009 5:39:17 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
b4urgone
Sherbrooke, NS
age: 41
| Cause they know they'll probably not get another chance?
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| 4/24/2009 10:55:52 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 43
| Because we spent 9 months trying to get out and the rest of our lives trying to get back in.
There is this sense of urgency
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| 4/25/2009 7:11:33 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
dont_panic
Parsonsfield, ME
age: 29
| <---WILL FIELD ALL QUESTIONS AND SHOOT STRAIGHT FROM THE HIP
News flash sweetheart... we want to f**k before the first date - that's why we asked you out in the first place... we think you're hot and want to see you naked. What, are you new to planet earth?
Men are visual, our initial attraction is superficial and physical... from that point on we want to f**k you. The factor that dictates the direction it will go depends on the physical and emotional connection.
I reiterate, we all want to f**k, why the hell else would we buy you dinner and want to show you a good time? What, we can't eat alone and/or masturbate?
Get a clue - Haley's Comet is less rare than two virgins on their honeymoon night.
This guy is right, and the fact of the matter is all humans are visually driven. As much as you ladies will deny it, the first thing you notice about someone is how they look. I'm not gonna retype everything he said but he is right on. So deal with it. Men have to play all the games that women want us to play, its all reciprocal.
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| 4/25/2009 7:12:51 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
dont_panic
Parsonsfield, ME
age: 29
| Cause they know they'll probably not get another chance?
Yeah she must be right cause all men are worthless, right? Makes me sick. So just sit home ladies and ponder these rediculous questions.
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| 4/26/2009 8:52:43 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
lonelylover69
Carleton, MI
age: 40
| it is not only guys , but some women too. somebody has to make the first move, generally it is left up to the guy.
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| 4/26/2009 9:37:35 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
gibby6117
Chattanooga, TN
age: 66
| bet you don't mind taking his money on the first date HUH
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| 4/26/2009 10:00:30 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
daffyihc
Negley, OH
age: 61 online now!
| when a man does not try to get in your pants on the first date you got trouble
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| 4/26/2009 10:44:27 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
tataman
Jacksonville, FL
age: 41
| u know i have been on alot of first dates and about 60% of them the guy is always trying to get me in bed and for me i am not like that i dont like to have sex with just any guy who will take me out i want this guy to want to be with me and love me and try and spend a little time with me if he can not use me and then say well it did not work out.... men make me sick when they do that i wish that some day i will find a man who will want me... 4 me not a toy and not a sex buddy.
not all men do this.. it's probably you...you are probably giving them the impression you are easy..LOL.. wham!!!!!
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| 4/26/2009 10:48:20 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
tataman
Jacksonville, FL
age: 41
| yes, you're right too many women have had the heads screwed up because they've always been told that being sexually active is bad, if they have too many partners they're a wh*re, if the do a guy too quickly they're a slut.
then there are the women who have grown beyond that and are able to enjoy sex with whomever and whenever they feel like and moralists can be damned.
they have been told that because it is true.. if a woman has had sex with too many men.. this makes her a wh*re.....any gentleman knows that, and so does any lady, if you don't agree, than you probably are not a lady and certainly won't be given a 2nd look by a gentleman...........
[Edited 4/26/2009 10:48:46 AM PST]
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| 4/26/2009 3:15:17 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
northphxhiker
Phoenix, AZ
age: 47
| i know its girl code to come out and whine when a guy tries to have sex with her on the first date,
however lots of women out there try to initiate sex on the first date too...
we just don't complain about it
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| 4/26/2009 4:34:19 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55
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they have been told that because it is true.. if a woman has had sex with too many men.. this makes her a wh*re.....any gentleman knows that, and so does any lady, if you don't agree, than you probably are not a lady and certainly won't be given a 2nd look by a gentleman...........
c'est la vie!
fortunately your world and my world will probably never intersect.
and while I've been with a fair share of men, and I am quite open about my sexuality, I am far from what you would label a wh*re/slut/tramp
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| 4/26/2009 5:13:20 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
max122961
Evansville, IN
age: 47
| too possibly figure out if your marriage material, if you sleep w/me on 1st, i figure your too easy,looking for a meal ticket, so why waste my time w/ this person.
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