| 7/16/2009 5:57:58 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | | shoott
Owensboro, KY
age: 38
| absolute ly.if we did'nt want to,we wouldnt be there
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| 7/16/2009 8:09:18 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
moneymikev
Rochester, NY
age: 25
| Im with you on that one for shure
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| 7/16/2009 8:29:47 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
juliet94
Durant, OK
age: 56
| Do not both men AND women make up the human race? Why do we keep this old double standard of it's alright for the man to have sex on the first date, but not the woman? A man can give out STDs just as easily as a woman. In this day and time, she may think he was too easy and not go out a second time. I don't think I would want to be with a man who was that easy. Guys, it works both ways. You are a manwh*re if you expect it right away, whether it is offered to you or not!! Grow up. We don't live in the good ol' days anymore. Men and women have equal rights now - to do it or not to do it. Get with the times.
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| 7/17/2009 2:40:45 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
gm3250
Columbia Falls, MT
age: 36
| for the same reason we want it on the 2nd, 3rd date and so on. men try to get as much as they can cause they know once they get married, they'll never get it again!!!!
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| 7/17/2009 3:25:11 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
me4_overit
Stanton, NE
age: 36 online now!
| Hell, I think and sometimes want to have sex on the first date............doesn't mean I am going to though.
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| 7/17/2009 3:46:36 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
johann657657
Toms River, NJ
age: 46
| you go girl
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| 7/17/2009 6:52:55 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
janekprefect
Mays Landing, NJ
age: 49
| It's a matter of age.
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| 7/18/2009 12:20:48 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
bristar
Portland, OR
age: 19
| okay it is not your fault that if a guy takes you to an expensive place and then wants to screw you after words... it guys hormones....there stupid and all they want is ...sex sex sex .... 
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| 7/18/2009 12:43:36 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
mjkittredge
Nashua, NH
age: 28
| okay it is not your fault that if a guy takes you to an expensive place and then wants to screw you after words... it guys hormones....there stupid and all they want is ...sex sex sex ....
Stupid huh?
Even Einstein wanted to get laid.
Stephen Hawking 'reads' Penthouse magazine.
Plato had his turn with local wh*res.
I could go on, but do you see where I'm going? Even the smartest in the world have a sexual appetite.
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| 7/18/2009 2:00:37 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
jesse862005
Carbondale, IL
age: 23
| i hate it cuz guys have sex on the first date and they are awesome cuz "they've got game" but a girl does it and she is a slut, wh*re, ho, easy, etc.... I think about sex constantly and yes...if i like a guy im goin to have sex with him whenever i want regardless of the time or which date.
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| 7/18/2009 2:25:51 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
sdwildcard
Walker, LA
age: 42
| because they have penis's, that is all.....
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| 7/18/2009 3:06:55 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
flowitt
West Yorkshire
United Kingdom
age: 51
| Its just a shame you have to have a date first
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| 7/18/2009 3:10:13 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
jesse862005
Carbondale, IL
age: 23
| Its just a shame you have to have a date first
lol...amen!!!
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| 7/19/2009 9:04:49 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
xyler
Lubbock, TX
age: 19
| well because guys want to know how easy you are and if you are a ho or not. or they just want some and you do to but you are to scared because you get attached to easy
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| 7/20/2009 11:55:17 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
ricki1951
Sun City, CA
age: 58
| Forget the sex niterider,I want to go to Disneyland, damit. Spare room, or master Bedrm, dosn't matter. Got cha. Ricki
[Edited 7/20/2009 11:55:37 PM PST]
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| 7/21/2009 4:09:19 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
iamhere1970
Trenton, NJ
age: 39
| ITs called human nature.......
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| 7/21/2009 9:37:53 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
ted30114
Saint Petersburg, FL
age: 68
| yes, you're right too many women have had the heads screwed up because they've always been told that being sexually active is bad, if they have too many partners they're a wh*re, if the do a guy too quickly they're a slut.
then there are the women who have grown beyond that and are able to enjoy sex with whomever and whenever they feel like and moralists can be damned.
I am not saying which attitude is the right one or the best one, each person has to come to grips with that on their own.
Which way to Jacksonville Beach 
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| 7/21/2009 10:12:45 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
kingzilla20
Orlando, FL
age: 20
| yo most guys want sex because they think it would detormand weather he calls u after. but for me it not like im going for it but if things happen to flow that way the so be it but i would never look for it the first time.
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| 7/21/2009 10:58:58 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
eddie11984
Denham Springs, LA
age: 19
| we want to get yall in bed because we see that yall are so cute or hot that we want to see how your body preforms in the bed that way we can judge jyour performance
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| 7/21/2009 5:32:35 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
kriskerr
Canoga Park, CA
age: 27
| i believe that if there is a connection nothing is wrong with sex on the first date. i date with the intention of marraige and haveing been married i know that i want a man that i can have a great sex life with not get married and then go oh well. i just dont like wasting time 
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| 7/22/2009 2:17:27 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
elmajimbe
Silver Spring, MD
age: 26
| We can only remember the first date by remembering the first nut.
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| 7/22/2009 2:36:21 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
cruise427
Los Angeles, CA
age: 41
| because there might not be a second date
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| 7/22/2009 9:48:44 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
jackhammer8
Pinckney, MI
age: 48
| Because its in our nature part of our dna.
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| 7/22/2009 11:02:03 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
califgirl1
Martinsville, VA
age: 63
| There must be a happy medium between a care-less c*ck and a sanctimonious p*ssy. Both sexes want sex, it's just a matter of "when." Respect your partner's wishes, that's rule number one. After one you two can make up the rules as you see fit.
Amen.....
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| 7/22/2009 12:27:06 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
hotnstinky
Diablo, CA
age: 38
| If you want them to take you serious hold out on them.Remember you are in charge of your own body and decide if you want to let them use you.Any man that wants sex on the first date is not looking at you as a long term relationship .So my advice to you is dont give it up for at least 8 months and if he stays he is worth your while..Plus at your young and you are in no hurry for a serious relationship.Have fun and enjoy your youth !
Good luck and god bless !
[Edited 7/22/2009 12:49:44 PM PST]
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| 7/22/2009 8:56:29 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
sweetiepieslove
Orange Park, FL
age: 32 online now!
| Men wanna have sex all the time, what's different about a first date?
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| 7/23/2009 12:12:33 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
cocoloco00
Waukegan, IL
age: 19
| well they always shoul rite
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| 7/23/2009 2:24:36 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
eugune72
Lemon Grove, CA
age: 37
| u know i have been on alot of first dates and about 60% of them the guy is always trying to get me in bed and for me i am not like that i dont like to have sex with just any guy who will take me out i want this guy to want to be with me and love me and try and spend a little time with me if he can not use me and then say well it did not work out.... men make me sick when they do that i wish that some day i will find a man who will want me... 4 me not a toy and not a sex buddy.
lady most men want sex a month before the first date
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| 7/23/2009 1:32:20 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
iamhere1970
Trenton, NJ
age: 39
| Its human nature
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| 7/23/2009 2:36:01 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
chasingshadows
Vernon, NJ
age: 28
| We have a penis and it feels good in a vagina.
For more tips from 5th grade Health class click here.
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| 7/23/2009 2:39:01 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
slappyforu
Saint Augustine, FL
age: 31
| Cause some times, when we look into ur eyes...or c that body...u take out breathe away. The only way we know as males is to so how agressive or %$%^$%&*ing passionate we r for u....some times misstaken for lust...but over all known as we cant control our instincts......
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| 7/23/2009 4:30:04 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
litbtkntry
Tacoma, WA
age: 21
| Look guys wanna hav sex first date or soon so they get the whole are we sexually compatable crap out of the way. Nothing on the girl. I'm a girl and I'd rather just have sex first get it out of the way and get to know someone. Getting to know someone means having sex to. Its really not gonna make a difference if its now or later. Stop being so uptight. Its 2009 already.
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| 7/23/2009 10:19:27 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
marie9601
Elizabethtown, KY
age: 60
| Girl get an imagination. If it's an honest request it's a compliment. But doesn't have to be agreed on.
But when the guy's second sentence is I bought you diner so now it's your turn, just offer to give him his diner back.
It works everytime. If he has a sense of humor and realizes he was thinking with his little brain and an idiot in his speech and calls you back with an appology he's worth a second date.
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| 7/23/2009 10:27:12 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
cruise427
Los Angeles, CA
age: 41
| If you want them to take you serious hold out on them.Remember you are in charge of your own body and decide if you want to let them use you.Any man that wants sex on the first date is not looking at you as a long term relationship .So my advice to you is dont give it up for at least 8 months and if he stays he is worth your while..Plus at your young and you are in no hurry for a serious relationship.Have fun and enjoy your youth !
Good luck and god bless !
8 months.. ??
just seems like a long time..
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| 7/23/2009 11:53:51 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
zaingi80
Jersey City, NJ
age: 29
| this is what we call is *****Opposite Sex Attraction*****
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| 7/24/2009 7:04:43 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
chocoman
London
United Kingdom
age: 22
| I like this one b.
Im like that and Im not like that if u get what i mean!!
For me its not to get her into bed, make magic then leave never to be seen or heard from again.. NO!!! If we're both up for it, Im feeling her sexually n shes feeling me sexually then it will happen but ill still be going back for more and more because I jus love women n having sex.
I know PLENTY of women that use men all the time for sex, one night stands, booty calls etc..
Im not saying its a good impression but if the date so far has been goin smoothly, i like you, you like me and flirting like there's no tommorow then giving you even more pleasure and assurance that I like you will be getting into bed and making tat magic.
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| 7/24/2009 3:52:36 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
iamhere1970
Trenton, NJ
age: 39
| ALso, they know 9 out of 10 times they will get it.....
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| 7/24/2009 3:55:42 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
warrenman
Warren, OH
age: 41
| ALso, they know 9 out of 10 times they will get it.....
You just answered the mystery........Like there was really one. If we didn't get sex on most of our dates the first night we wouldn't expect it.
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| 7/24/2009 4:12:30 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
mishkabacci
Duncansville, PA
age: 44
| Well maybe they just want to test drive before buying?
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| 7/24/2009 4:13:27 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55
| because it feels good?
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| 7/24/2009 4:17:08 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
mishkabacci
Duncansville, PA
age: 44
| maybe its just to get things heated up maybe a lil hot and heavy action or maybe its because the talk was getting sour and needed to know if its worth the time put in to the relationship...hmmm a lot of answers...
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| 7/24/2009 6:05:59 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
909neosoul
Pomona, CA
age: 37
| its the most expensive date
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| 7/25/2009 1:59:56 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
engine69
Portland, OR
age: 40
| I never read a thread with so much touchy feely BS. The bottom line is... They're just real guys. Not whipped. And guys don't wear their emotions on their c*cks. And unlike most mommas girls, guys and some woman can have sex what out all the emotional hangups. Sex is a good thing
Its not tool to get a boyfriend or husband. Sorry for any typo's I'm on my BB. Class dismissed. 
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| 7/25/2009 2:01:31 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
iamhere1970
Trenton, NJ
age: 39
| Lets face it ....we want it on the first date too
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| 7/25/2009 2:05:09 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
double_rr
Bybee, TN
age: 33
| either one you both want it and are to scared to go for it or there's no connection
i agree with iamhere
[Edited 7/25/2009 2:10:37 PM PST]
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| 7/25/2009 2:51:41 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
hesofresh
Orlando, FL
age: 34
| Sex on the first date aint a bad idea.Woman want it also but some just down play it to not appear to be a hoe or whatever but thats not always the case.I have been with some woman where sex is just not on my mind and when the night is over,she is no longer on my mind either.
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| 7/26/2009 5:21:42 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
iamhere1970
Trenton, NJ
age: 39
| If you have a connection then give it....dont stay with a man who is not good in bed...
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| 7/26/2009 5:29:08 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
henhen1
Drew, MS
age: 31
| now days i think it doesn't matter. if you wait ant have sex later he still might not like you. sometimes you have to see if you are compatible sexually also. i don't mind giving it up on the first day.
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| 7/26/2009 2:35:52 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
misterright007
North Hollywood, CA
age: 48
| Why to loose one day?
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| 7/26/2009 5:37:55 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
honeybee2000
Akron, OH
age: 47 online now!
| My personal opinion on this issue is its ok to have sex on a first date as long as the feelings are mutual.As long as the desire is there for both parties involved why not.But don't ever do it just because someone showed you a nice time out and they want to have sex and you don't feel the same desire for them.That can go both ways for the women or the men.
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| 7/26/2009 7:21:23 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
hunter12gauge
Bellaire, OH
age: 47
| That's easy...... To find out if there will be a second date.
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| 7/26/2009 7:22:03 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
rrushing
Lexington, KY
age: 21
| thats funny
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| 7/27/2009 7:17:11 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
maxelljay123
Schenectady, NY
age: 48
| mostly because they're guys and not interested in getting to know the woman more. Yes, first date sex can be wild, animalistic, but what about the romance and intrigue of waiting a date or two? Allowing yourselves to learn a little more about the other? Enjoying that first moment together as more than rutting, but actually making love?
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| 7/27/2009 7:38:25 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
ava_adore
Concord, CA
age: 19
| Probably because somewhere back in their history, one girl had sex with him on their first date, and now he's thinking it will happen every time again after that.
(I saw someone posting about expensive dates... I would be almost pissed if a guy or girl took me somewhere expensive on the first date knowing we may or may not work out from there. I'd feel like they were trying to hard to impress me instead of going on our chemistry and stuff... I'd rather do something low-key and expectation-free to be honest!)
[Edited 7/27/2009 7:38:33 PM PST]
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| 7/27/2009 7:45:34 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
jax3344
Kalamazoo, MI
age: 38 online now!
| i was there whwn i was younger, man are so horny that we will do and say what ever it takes to get what we want. being older i understand what you are saying, i'm a single dad and i dont have time for the games myself but i still have those needs i just control them.
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| 7/28/2009 1:25:11 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
lovestomassage
Fullerton, CA
age: 59
| I can top that. If the lady likes the guy, then why does she NOT want to have sex on the first date ? I've never understood that. Unless it has to do with her religious belief system, I have absolutely NO idea why the women DON'T want to do it on the first date IF they don't care about whether the thinks they'd have a bad reputation. That's what I love about Samantha Jones of "Sex and the City".
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| 7/28/2009 4:06:57 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
kalvinphil
Columbus, OH
age: 30
| Guys see sex for what it is....women see sex as having an inner connection and grouping love with sex. Naturally males want to reproduce as much as possible and by as many mates as possible.....its more evident in wild animals.
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| 7/28/2009 5:13:09 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
iamhere1970
Trenton, NJ
age: 39
| i was there whwn i was younger, man are so horny that we will do and say what ever it takes to get what we want. being older i understand what you are saying, i'm a single dad and i dont have time for the games myself but i still have those needs i just control them.
THats what we need to hear....a guy in control...
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| 7/28/2009 5:18:16 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
justwanttohug
Matthews, NC
age: 40
| If you respect the woman you are with and you respect yourself you wait. I don't think all guys want that.
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| 7/28/2009 5:55:37 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
crazyhorse327
Columbia, LA
age: 47
| usualy its been the women ive dated who wanted sex on the first date I had one that drove a 140 miles and show up in my yard when i didnt even know she was coming and she didnt drive that far just for a peck on the cheek and i had never met her,just talked on the phone for a couple of days
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