| 7/28/2009 10:58:21 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | | 
dadebaby
Opa Locka, FL
age: 23
| I mean when u go on a date with a female an the date goes good sometime a female be givin a man some mixed signals an maybe thats the reason why he might have the impression that maybe u wanna have sex its cool cuz thats happen to me b4 but i guess she was just a flirty chick but if u not gonna do nothing its not good to feel on a dudes meat.......
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| 7/28/2009 5:49:42 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
lovestomassage
Fullerton, CA
age: 59
| usualy its been the women ive dated who wanted sex on the first date  I had one that drove a 140 miles and show up in my yard when i didnt even know she was coming and she didnt drive that far just for a peck on the cheek and i had never met her,just talked on the phone for a couple of days 
I have one coming from Asia to see me for the second time & we agreed to have sex again like we did last time. So I'm not actively pursuing any new ones at the moment. Before she leaves, I'll either mention marriage which I HIGHLY doubt will happen OR I will help her find a man which I told her I would do. She knows that & she knows I'm a swinger which I wish I were not. I wish someone could talk me OUT of wanting to swing.
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| 7/28/2009 6:13:58 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
niceguy0359
Scranton, PA
age: 23
| I dunno about the first date, but it would depend on how horny I was    
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| 7/28/2009 6:16:04 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
alan88
Newburg, PA
age: 40
| wish i lived closer to you i dated my ex for 9 months before we did it. not all guys want it on 1 date
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| 7/28/2009 7:12:50 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
twok
Inglewood, CA
age: 60
| yeah, some are boys and not really men...but if the sex is good on the first date, maybe they'll stick around to get more...if not move on as they do...it is what it is for that moment. it's a chance for both of you to get an idea before things get tooo complicated for both parties.
there is also the messages that you're sending out..have you checked out your self esteem and compared it to theirs??? who's the lowest?
good luck
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| 7/28/2009 11:48:05 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
criscris
Hillside, NJ
age: 29
| Not. Really. Love. Too. Do. 
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| 7/29/2009 8:09:42 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
95north
Holbrook, MA
age: 31
| I don't expect sex on the first date. But I'm not opposed to it either.
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| 7/29/2009 10:35:08 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
summerfun2oo9
New Bern, NC
age: 29
| Lack of respect for the girl, founded or unfounded. If you dress sexy or talk sexy to him on or before the first date, expect it. You get what you're asking for, without actually saying anything. Male pride is another factor. That's just the nature of us...men are mostly prideful. And yes, we're visual creatures, which goes to point one. If you dress sexy or look sexy to us, expect us to want sex. And of course, we're horny by nature. There's good men out there, but we're mostly a bad breed in general.
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| 8/2/2009 6:01:52 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
twiztedmarvin
Fort Morgan, CO
age: 28
| not most guys do. If they do they are not very good,or keep up their exictment
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| 8/2/2009 7:51:02 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
peckpate
Clinton, AR
age: 56
| Well the key word is "want" do we want sex on the first date,,,,, I believe just about all guys want it... gettin it on the first date is a different story, lot of factors involed,, but YES most guys want sex , dont matter when, where, why, .. and most of us are dogs... lol.. its the truth...
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| 8/2/2009 8:04:10 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
london98
Wadsworth, OH
age: 54
| I belive you have to get to know the lady frist
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| 8/5/2009 1:29:58 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
steelerj2000
Sardis, MS
age: 34
| If 2 people are connecting and thats what ends up happening, then im cool with that. If it dont happen.Its all good as well. Just have to communicate with your partner and be smart about how you play the game. There is nothing set in the game where you cant have sex on the first date, or have to wait 6 months to get laid either. Women have higher sex drives then men, but like dood said, they dont want to come off as hoes and lose self dignity.
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| 8/5/2009 1:32:33 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
steelerj2000
Sardis, MS
age: 34
| Lack of respect for the girl, founded or unfounded. If you dress sexy or talk sexy to him on or before the first date, expect it. You get what you're asking for, without actually saying anything. Male pride is another factor. That's just the nature of us...men are mostly prideful. And yes, we're visual creatures, which goes to point one. If you dress sexy or look sexy to us, expect us to want sex. And of course, we're horny by nature. There's good men out there, but we're mostly a bad breed in general.
Men in general ( ARE ) not a bad breed. Please do not stereotype people like that. You dont have facts to support that claim.
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| 8/5/2009 11:39:17 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
clssylady
Oregon City, OR
age: 44
| men can be pigs... if were too easy they dont want us, and if we won't put out they dont want us.... dammed if we do and dammed if we don't... whats up with that guys????
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| 8/5/2009 11:43:19 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
buddha438
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 27
| Sum girls want it too on the 1st nite
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| 8/6/2009 6:22:15 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
freebird0721
Cameron, MO
age: 48
| You may not agree with my thinking but here it is:::: Why do you men and women put sooo much stock into a timeframe? If you feel like having sex - whether it is the first date or the 10th date - then by all means do it. Who cares what others think? Life is too short to worry about how you are going to look in the other person's eyes or in the general public's opinion poll. Heck - live life to the fullest with no regrets!!!
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| 8/6/2009 6:34:48 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
promgr_28
Salisbury, NC
age: 29
| Well not all men want to get a woman into bed on the first date. Those that do are on the date for just that reason. They are not interested in getting to know that person at all. Now a man that has reached a certin point in his life understands that there are more important things to know and understand about the person they are on the date with then how good they are in bed. Those men have a whole different agenda.
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| 8/7/2009 12:28:50 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
nicolaas469
Milpitas, CA
age: 43
| MM, aside from the fact that the man finds you attractive and desirable, its a territory thing Part of our genetic programming, Millions of years of evolution to insure that we pass on our genes to as wide a population (females) as possible.
Note the concept of romantic love and marriage is a relatively new one in human society. In some parts of the world marriages are still arranged for the purpose of financial and or political advantages. 
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| 8/7/2009 1:13:23 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
knight_101
Yuba City, CA
age: 28
| Most men are pieces of shit! But, it's funny if a woman wants sex on the first date it's just fine, I don't get that! Same thing goes for women living at mom and dads and it's not ok for a guy to live at mom and dad's!!
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| 8/7/2009 5:16:24 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
iamhere1970
Trenton, NJ
age: 39
| We are just as guilty as men.....we want it too if there is a connection
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| 8/7/2009 6:20:04 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 36
| Most men are pieces of shit! But, it's funny if a woman wants sex on the first date it's just fine, I don't get that! Same thing goes for women living at mom and dads and it's not ok for a guy to live at mom and dad's!!
Gender double standards.
Don't worry.. these will go away once women start acting equal.
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| 8/7/2009 6:35:51 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
insulting
Houston, TX
age: 42
| Because that is the point of dating....otherwise you are just going out with friends.
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| 8/7/2009 12:33:56 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
davryn
Phoenix, AZ
age: 53
| The reason men want sex on the first date is because most women aren't worth the time a second date would take
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| 8/7/2009 1:27:42 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
tarzan219
Reading, PA
age: 18
| not all guys r like that. is because u have not look enogh 
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| 8/7/2009 2:55:25 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
blondsmartarse
Redmond, OR
age: 30
| A lot of men are focused on sex as being the end result of any intimacy: this is obviously not the way to look at it. Most guys, before going on a first date, should really consider masturbating to alleviate that urge and so they can better focus on getting to know who their date is: you know, as opposed to trying to figure out what color her panties are.
Personally, I HAVE had sex on a first date. I don't believe in limiting what happens between two people; if we need it to happen, fine, if not, that's fine, too. Personally, I like to build the tension over time until we're ready to tear each other's clothes off the second we see each other again!
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| 8/7/2009 10:53:49 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
chrgers9
Bakersfield, CA
age: 24
| i know i know!!!! because most guys want a test drive before they buy it! kinda like a car you certainly wouldn't buy a car before you test drove it right? right?..... lol jk!
[Edited 8/7/2009 11:22:07 PM PST]
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| 8/7/2009 11:48:35 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
secretagentman9
Fort Gratiot, MI
age: 40
| It has nothing to do with self esteem. Men and women are wired differently, think differently, and PERCEIVE differently.
I bet if you tried an experiment I would be proven right. Put 10 average looking men and 10 average looking woman in a room and have them look at each other. Then seperate them and ask them each how many people of the opposite sex in the room that they would sleep with if they could, based solely on appearance.
I bet you, nearly all of the woman would say 1 or 2 of the 10 men, while nearly all of the men would say they would sleep with 8-9 of the woman.
Wanna bet? (I cheated because we did this experiment in college in Physcology class)
Men and woman are different animals. Just the way it is.
I would say that I wouldn't want a woman who gives it up on the first date. (Stop rolling your eyes guys) Maybe it is my age, but I do so love a challenge, and someone who is putting out regularly on first dates, probably has something you really don't want. 
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| 8/8/2009 7:20:54 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
mr_crowley
Aynor, SC
age: 41
| This is the easiest question I've ever answered, because the answers so simple MEN WANT SEX, case closed!
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| 8/8/2009 7:22:47 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
kinkycapitalist
Atlanta, GA
age: 55
| because it's better for us then refined sugar?
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| 8/8/2009 8:02:56 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
blessed22
Seaford, DE
age: 23
| there seems to be a misconception here. Not all of us want sex on the first date or even the 3nd, 3rd, or 4th. Wait until we are both ready
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| 8/8/2009 8:14:53 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
devolt99
Los Angeles, CA
age: 25
| stop dating boys and find better men to date YEA.. LIKE 80Y.O ONE THEY CAN'T DO IT.. ANY MORE..)
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| 8/8/2009 8:27:13 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
clounder
Swanzey, NH
age: 24
| the way I see it I thank if a man wants to get in your pants on the first date that is all he wants I thank if a man wont a relationship and cares and respects a woman like I do sex happens when you are both red e and if you respect your body like I do I thank sex is love sex should not just be sex because you don’t really no a person just on the first date and how do you no if that person is not a slut that f**k every man she meets
it all about respect
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| 8/10/2009 2:19:57 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
blahblahblah20
Mission Hills, CA
age: 20
| It's better to wait til ur with that special somebody, it shows completely disrespectful to u,ur body and the guy.
I really can't seem to find anyone that is willing to wait and be patient with me, i'm not in a hurry but it's just i want it to feel right and special not rushed and being forced
  
I wish people could understand that
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| 8/13/2009 11:36:42 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
helikestowatch
Little Rock, AR
age: 39
| Let me say this because I can and have no reason to lie, any and ever man that says he doesn't or didn't is either a lier, can't get it up anyway, has an STD they need to get your understanding on or something wrong with them that they need to fell more comfortable with before trying to have sex with the women, plain and simple. All of which can act like they are fine with waiting because as we all know nothing is stoping any man from getting it from another women except the other women themselves, I have known guys that have done this for years just to get that prized peice and then dump her like a rock. The amount of time between eye contact and sex ahve nothing to do with the odds of love, the only thing that really matters is true intentions and the faster you give it up, the faster you'll get to the truth, that's the reality, take it or leave it.
u know i have been on alot of first dates and about 60% of them the guy is always trying to get me in bed and for me i am not like that i dont like to have sex with just any guy who will take me out i want this guy to want to be with me and love me and try and spend a little time with me if he can not use me and then say well it did not work out.... men make me sick when they do that i wish that some day i will find a man who will want me... 4 me not a toy and not a sex buddy.
Now read your own post! Exactly my point, look around, your on a dating site, so as I said, that simply doesn't and isn't going to work, EVER, never has and never will, you'll never know until sometime after you've given it up if that's all they are after, you don't buy shoes without trying them on and you don't buy a car without a test drive and a complete inspection, why should a man spend all his hard earned cash on something he's unsure of.
[Edited 8/13/2009 11:42:38 AM PST]
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| 8/13/2009 12:22:32 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
love81
Sterling, VA
age: 51
| I think we always kind of hope it happens. But really if i l;ike the person i could care less. i just want to have a nice time
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| 8/13/2009 12:41:24 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
helikestowatch
Little Rock, AR
age: 39
| From everything life has shown me so far women use sex to get what they want and the majority of them could care less if they have sex or not, but they will to get a man to do what they want and they actually have the nerve to accuse men of being the users when it comes to sex, WTF is up with that?
Here's a video that explains the whole concept in great detail:
http://tinyurl.com/bqqrvx
[Edited 8/13/2009 12:43:05 PM PST]
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| 8/13/2009 12:48:19 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
teach87
Frontenac, KS
age: 46
| i have never expected sex on the first day.
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| 8/13/2009 1:08:36 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
helikestowatch
Little Rock, AR
age: 39
| Well, to be exact I guess few of us expect, but all of us would like.
Is there some tard that would actually like to claim that they wouldn't at least be thankful of the offer on the first date even if they didn't take the offer.
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| 8/13/2009 1:18:00 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
holdthefaith
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 21
| weather or not a girl give it up on the first date says alot about thing to come with that person. personally every girl that ever gave it up to me on the first date i knew off hand that i didnt want to b in a relationship with them, two weather or not they were gonna hear from me.....typically if a girl gives it up on the first date shes a lil fast and leaning on the slutty side.. however theyre are a few times where there was just alot of chemistry btween us and it jus happened
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| 8/13/2009 1:29:44 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
dreamcatcher696
Plainview, TX
age: 31
| i dont.. but it could be a numerous amount of thing: he might just be testing what kind of chick u are... or maybe he just doesnt get that much and is gonna act tha fool...
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| 8/13/2009 8:36:15 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
darklady09
San Jose, CA
age: 53
| Not only boys but old assed men too. More interested in getting thier satisfaction than getting to know you. Selfish, greedy, one thing on his mind. Ruff, ruff, Hooooowl! I want to be comfortable and will not be rushed. If he is in such an all fired hurry, that's a RED FLAG right there. What's the hurry, gotta get home to wifey? before any of you GUYS put me on BLAST, I don't mean all men, just some of you....Peace
[Edited 8/13/2009 8:55:49 PM PST]
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| 8/13/2009 11:29:20 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
hopefloats68
Riverview, FL
age: 41
| If you are in it for a relationship, and not for just a one night stand.
You must wait until you are emotionally connected, not just sexually connected. This is not a certain amount of dates, but when your ready to combine your heart and soul with that other person. XOXOXO
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| 8/14/2009 8:27:03 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
rockpillow
Grafton, ND
age: 46 online now!
| Animal instincts. Humanity is not nearly as civilized as it thinks it is. Actually I think all men would probably like to but a large percentage have enough self control to let things play out.
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| 8/14/2009 8:47:53 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
bbnice
Lawrenceville, GA
age: 38
| unlike women, most men dont need to be emotionally connected for sex. Sex on the first date has happened with me before and me and the girl was as tight as white on rice after. It all depends on how the feelings go. Most times sex on the first date ends up being a disaster Im sure. I dont ever go into a date expecting to get laid at the end of the night. Ive passed up a** before on a date so its not always on the guy.
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| 8/14/2009 10:01:34 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
puterdr
Marion, IA
age: 47
| Because until they get to know you you are a "piece of meat" and sadly many guys were taught to "not let their meat loaf" Get it? Meatloaf I kill me sometimes!
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| 8/14/2009 12:40:45 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
sweet0522
Leesport, PA
age: 35
| probably because they know there wont be a 2nd date
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| 8/14/2009 4:15:51 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
dorval
Harrington Park, NJ
age: 54
| of course, the nature of the beast..........up to the woman to keep him a gentlemen.....if the chemistry is good, you are having a great time, another date is definitely going to happen........sexual tension, flirting, soft, gentle kissing is all working and he is still a gentleman..........he knows it will happen soon enough and that he will be a happy man.....hey you just can't give it to them all........so it takes a few more dates.........that's my kind of man.
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| 8/14/2009 4:23:57 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
spunky6969
Paducah, KY
age: 22
| Because their hand/arm is tired 
i could not have said it better.
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| 8/14/2009 4:25:15 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
iamhere1970
Trenton, NJ
age: 39
| I hate to break the news.....but most woman want it on the first date too....
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| 8/14/2009 4:33:42 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
dorval
Harrington Park, NJ
age: 54
| I hate to break the news.....but most woman want it on the first date too....
Those Trenton New Jersey girls.........hey they got and know it all............what more can i say.
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| 8/14/2009 4:52:51 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
elm10
Amarillo, TX
age: 26
| It is biologically ingrained in male mammals, humans included, to attempt to procreate as much as possible with as many females as possible. Humans actually contradict their own biology because we have logical thought processes and have created a social etiquette system that consists of singular mates as opposed to the general animal mating process (most animals are like this, not all, mostly mammals) of the alpha male having multiple partners. On a personal note, I myself have different classes of sex: recreational sex and making love. For many men, and women, recreational sex may come about on the first date. Honestly, it's a personal preference, not a rule, that men want sex on the 1st date, but it's a good way to get to know someone very quickly, sex brings out the honesty in most and I find it a good way to really find out what kind of girl she is. People can lie, but in bed, you can usually analyze someone's reactions and really see what kind of person they are.
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| 8/14/2009 7:44:33 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
deepsouth51
Kansas City, KS
age: 45
| i have found out if u don't push just let the lady take the lead and just love on her she will be on top before the night is over then she won't feel like u pushed her into anything when u say good night the next thing u say is mercy baby good morning.
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| 8/14/2009 7:49:28 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
somethingrare
Abilene, TX
age: 46
| I've never had sex on a first date in my entire life. In fact 1 month was the earliest I ever had sex in a relationship.
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| 8/14/2009 8:44:22 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
dorval
Harrington Park, NJ
age: 54
| just do not understand why you have to be in such a rush to have sex (oral, penetration) -of course, if that is what you want, I am sure there are many who will accommodate. For those of us who do not run that race, are more than likely looking for a healthy relationship and the need for sex can wait......not too long, but long enough to create a special time for lovemaking..............sex is sex, lovemaking is special..........at least for some of us.
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| 8/14/2009 9:48:54 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
justice74
Mount Enterprise, TX
age: 35
| Because thier horn dogs and most will try to get out of you what ever they can..
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| 8/14/2009 11:03:03 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
kia_so_sweet
Saint Louis, MO
age: 34
| Guys will only do what u allow them . If u let them treat u like that they will.
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| 8/14/2009 11:25:13 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
heavymandc
Lamar, CO
age: 37
| most guys are out to get a piece when they go out
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| 8/15/2009 12:27:23 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
iamincs
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 35
| for some it's simply because they're men and hormone driven
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| 8/15/2009 6:00:24 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
ktykat1
Temple, GA
age: 53
| tjer...
got any idea where i can find those better men? i am so tired of meeting men here and on other sites that say one thing and then when you meet them they are only there for the "one night stand" they are like the military...woo you with all the "want to meet someone to share my life with, or want to spend quality time" BS then the first thing they do is jump into bed. where did the guys go that want to romance and get to know someone before it gets serious. my dad always said that the chase was almost as good as the sex. nowadays its like the sample stands at Sams, just walk around and test everything. is it because there are 10 women to every man?
looking for that someone special and sincere.
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| 8/15/2009 7:50:09 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
bblank7
Medina, OH
age: 25
| They are out there, sex can be alot of fun but some of us are looking for a relationship and we keep getting passed over.
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