| 8/15/2009 1:08:51 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | | steven200926
Hope, AR
age: 26
|  I would'nt mind having sex but me personally wouldn't break up after sex cause my principle is you have sex with someone you stay with them and marry them, I have had sex some of my ex's and they dumped me a couple weeks later and I'm a guy how pathetic is that.
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| 8/15/2009 1:24:01 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
thetheme
Los Angeles, CA
age: 31
| Its because that many women play a lot of games with chemistry, attraction, and try to change common sense and logic so it revolves around the fantasy that they want. There are men that do a lot for a women on dates and doesn't even get a kiss, sometimes not even a hug. Women usually know when they are going to have sex when they meet a man so don't play stupid about the situation. Between a man and a woman, besides sex what else is there? It is NOT about "getting to know someone" or "love", that's a load of crap. If that were the case, then why do you want to meet actors, singers, dancers, and many other people that are on TV or just famous? Women say they don't want liars or men that play games, but the famous people, especially actors, are PROFESSIONAL LIARS! Ok think about this... Intimacy is the one thing that draws the line between friends, and something more than that. There are many RELATIONSHIPS AND MARRIGES that have come out of a sex from a first date situation. If the sex is good, fun is had, there is no drama, and follow logic then the man will keep coming back to you. There are many women that don't do certain thing when it comes to sex, except if its with famous men... Men don't want to waist time with someone that doesn't even like sex, and that's the bigger issue. There are women that wear the clothes that will get the attention, but complain when they get the attention...  You can go out with the girls and it's the same as a date without the intimacy, but you have to pay your oun way and that's they catch. Not all men and women are the same. Sex is part of the fun and the great time, and it feels great. Men already have people they don't have sex with, and that's why men look for a women to have sex with. It's about the chemistry. If you have GREAT sex with a man on the first date, he's not going anywhere. Don't just lay there like a dead fish, that's a hidden message of how negative you are. A relationship is a friend with sexual intimacy, and of course it depends on the people...
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| 8/15/2009 1:34:24 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
angelofhonesty
San Antonio, TX
age: 40
| HELLO...because they are GUYS, what's the damn surprise here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| 8/15/2009 4:44:01 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
oceandive
Clonfert
Ireland
age: 52
| because they are HORNY....duhhhhhhhhhhhh....
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| 8/16/2009 7:27:48 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
amethystsoul
Cary, NC
age: 41
| Because we spent 9 months trying to get out and the rest of our lives trying to get back in.
There is this sense of urgency >>
makes perfect sense to me
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| 8/16/2009 7:58:58 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
elaurienne
Millis, MA
age: 25
| I don't know how they do it in LA but thank God I don't live there...sounds like a bunch of orgies all day...im all set with that! hunny I'll tell you why men expect sex on the first date, because of us! There are so many girls just giving it up like its nothing nothing at all. That the women and girls that have class are now being passed over as lame. Forgive me for having some sense. SEX IS NOT A TOY ITS MORE OF A WEAPON! and its not meant to be. Honestly if women would have self control men wouldn't even have the opportunity to be d*ckheads and just get it from another girl. What happened to making men work for it. Our game is wack we are just as bad as guys. I'd like to think there are people who still have morals out there. If your sleeping around with someone so early in the relationship it could be amazing sex ya with a psycho! a stalker a pervert you never know nowadays. So if you want some real advice. Keep your legs closed on the first second third fourth and fifth dates so don't give a man the satisfaction till you know he's only coming home to you ladies thats how you gain respect from these men out here.....can we take the control back NOW please!!!!
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| 8/16/2009 8:29:06 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
dvorak
Waterford, MI
age: 39
| sex is just sex. I have friends that slept with their wife on the first date and have been happily married for years.go figure
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| 8/17/2009 1:09:58 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
just4fun0808
Cypress, CA
age: 19
| its simple.. all guys are players. and girls are the game... if they f**k on the first date then they win!!..
but!!..
low key, girls are the same way. who dosnt love sex?
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| 8/17/2009 1:57:54 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
blondie2782
Tucson, AZ
age: 27
| You know what I think, maybe I'm wrong but : Sex is fun, and if you meet someone your really interested in either sexually or emotionally or both, sexual tension kicks in, and having sex with someone you dont know all that well but that you know you think is hot is really exciting. If you dont want to have sex on your first date dont, but there nothing wrong with those of us that do! Ive had less first dates that I didnt sleep with a man and I have no regrets about it. I had fun, and also by the way, met some men I was really compatible with emotionaly and SEXUALLY, and had meaningful relationships with.
For me, if Im not sexually compatible with them, it wont work. Shallow maybe, but lifes to short to settle for bad or boring sex, you know Im right. Lesson of the day: If you dont want sex your first date, dont, no one saying you have to. My experience tells me the younger the guy the higher the chance he'll try to get you in bed. Want more out of your dates? Date older men-when you do finally sleep with them they are usually better and more generous anwyay! sorry boys, its true.
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| 8/17/2009 2:04:02 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
blondie2782
Tucson, AZ
age: 27
| its simple.. all guys are players. and girls are the game... if they f**k on the first date then they win!!..
but!!..
low key, girls are the same way. who dosnt love sex?
P.s. NOT ALL GIRLS ARE THE PREY! I'm the dominant and forward one in my encounters. I play men anyway they wanna be played-men dont get to have all the fun you know! If I get f**ked good on a first date, I think that makes me a winner too doesn't it?
Man hunting is my favorite past time game-just remember your not the only ones out there hunting!
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| 8/17/2009 12:33:39 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
wiseguy2009
Brooklyn, NY
age: 30
| Why not sex is good  
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| 8/17/2009 12:35:07 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
ricoact
Atlanta, GA
age: 34
| To avoid uncomfortable moments on the second date?
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| 8/19/2009 12:18:18 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
lil_rabbit
Winnsboro, LA
age: 23
| Well its very easy o explain. Its like buying a new car. Your not going to buy car wihout test driving it. That's what it is. Its testing the females performance. If a guy is attracted to a girl. Most guys want to try it out. It does mean we are trying to make the girl feel like a piece of meat. But if the girl is bad in bed or she has a bad smell coming from downstairs then we won't waste any of our time.
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| 8/19/2009 12:20:18 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
jenamp88
Morris, MN
age: 25
| Well its very easy o explain. Its like buying a new car. Your not going to buy car wihout test driving it. That's what it is. Its testing the females performance. If a guy is attracted to a girl. Most guys want to try it out. It does mean we are trying to make the girl feel like a piece of meat. But if the girl is bad in bed or she has a bad smell coming from downstairs then we won't waste any of our time.
I think guys are the ones that need to be test driven... and most need to be sent back to the shop for some major improvements!
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| 8/19/2009 6:39:21 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
dorval
Harrington Park, NJ
age: 54
| Well its very easy o explain. Its like buying a new car. Your not going to buy car wihout test driving it. That's what it is. Its testing the females performance. If a guy is attracted to a girl. Most guys want to try it out. It does mean we are trying to make the girl feel like a piece of meat. But if the girl is bad in bed or she has a bad smell coming from downstairs then we won't waste any of our time.
Above is a man's point of view
Below is ONE woman's point of view (i do not speak for all women)
Well its very easy to explain. Its like buying a new car (and most woman do like a sexy car, no sedans may apply). You are not going to buy a car without test driving it. Its testing the male performance. If a woman is attracted to a guy, most woman want to try it out (but want to see how it idles first, don't want my new car to stall in a pinch, if you know what I mean). It does not mean we are trying to make the guy feel like a piece of meat (guys try to do that that with women). But if the guy is bad in bed or he has a bad smell coming from downstairs then women won't waste any time and will move on to the next sexy model...........what works for the guys, works for the girls.
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| 8/19/2009 7:41:11 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
marko23
Baltimore, MD
age: 39
| That's strange.... because I want to know why ladies want to have sex on the first date?
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| 8/19/2009 7:48:38 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
captureme4u
Rosedale, MD
age: 59
| Men of all ages are like that!
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| 8/19/2009 8:03:39 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
tyi101
Leesville, LA
age: 33
| most guys want sex on the first date.. its the nature of the beast i love those dirty bastards.. once you learn how to handle the sex attempts , its not an issue.
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| 8/19/2009 8:06:11 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
harddrive09
Climax, MI
age: 35
| how do you handle it ????
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| 8/19/2009 8:15:47 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
tyi101
Leesville, LA
age: 33
| how do you handle it ????
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| 8/19/2009 8:17:31 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 36
| If you don't make a move she will think you are gay or a wussy.
If you do make a move she will think you are pushy but might give in.
So might as well try.
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| 8/19/2009 9:26:35 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
lucky7708
Minneapolis, MN
age: 59
| It's always a good idea to sample the wine before you buy the bottle.
How much time should be wasted?
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| 8/19/2009 6:31:28 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
brainyredhead
Gainesville, FL
age: 37
| Guys who try to have sex on the first date do not realize that for many women, sex is not just physical. The majority of women desire some degree of emotional intimacy before they are ready to commit to something physical. On my last first date, I met the man (an M.D.) at a Starbucks for coffee and conversation. Things went pretty well, and he asked me to follow him back to his place. He shared an apartment with a fellow medical resident, which was surprising...but not as surprising as his next move. Instead of taking me to his apartment, he pulled into the parking lot of a cheap motel, expecting me to jump straight from having a cup of coffee to the sack. That was the end of the date. Now maybe if it had been an upscale hotel...
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| 8/19/2009 7:15:57 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
donnie2000
Johnson City, TN
age: 51
| i don't know about most guys but i can tell you this personally it will never match the excitement of the experience of knowing and having some kind of relationship with that person even on the friendship level
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| 8/19/2009 7:50:18 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
jacob808
Honolulu, HI
age: 26
| I don't see nothing wrong with having sex on the fist date. If it bothers you that much, then keep your legs closed. How hard can that be?
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| 8/20/2009 3:41:21 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
zengardens
Columbia, SC
age: 53
| Evolution drives men to procreate. Otherwise, he is ashamed of his small penis.
Astrologically, some women are predestined to give it up, like Taurus & Gemini. Beware of capricorn women .......
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| 8/20/2009 4:07:45 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
bjk123
Layton, UT
age: 52
| Evolution drives men to procreate. Otherwise, he is ashamed of his small penis.
Astrologically, some women are predestined to give it up, like Taurus & Gemini. Beware of capricorn women .......
What about LEO women
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| 8/20/2009 4:21:47 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
zengardens
Columbia, SC
age: 53
| What about LEO women
The sign of sexual expression, so more provocative photos are in order. She presents a challenge to the male of the species, requiring a guy to be so stable and commanding as to make her seem feral ....
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| 8/20/2009 10:03:45 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
arizonamike
Peoria, AZ
age: 44
| A little advice for guys. I saw it in a movie. Never go out with a loaded pistol. Unload it before you go out and then you will have a more relaxed date.
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| 8/20/2009 3:11:08 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
blizzard07
Castle Rock, CO
age: 25
| Everyone has a different view of that ! just like women they are like men (some of them) like to have one night stands.... Its just the way the world works i believe
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| 8/20/2009 3:51:44 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
tjmax65
Pensacola, FL
age: 44
| that means the guy is out for one thing only. if not the first date the second. hes not worth it. he will use u until somebody else comes along. some guys give us good guys bad names
tj
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| 8/20/2009 4:21:58 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
cdamico
Goshen, NY
age: 50
| You need to be yourself. If you don't want to hae sex with a guy on your first date. Than I applaude you, for sticking to your guns.
Most men are just horny dogs, myself included. Alot of times a guy wants to hae sex on the first date, to see if they want to hae a second date. Nothing like being with a women who is a dud in bed.
Or some guys want to know if you are a loose cannon when it comes to sex. If you hae sex with them on the first date, unless you are really good in bed. You will not hae a second date.
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| 8/20/2009 5:50:36 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
atlgarn2
Longwood, FL
age: 54
| Evolution drives men to procreate. Otherwise, he is ashamed of his small penis.
Astrologically, some women are predestined to give it up, like Taurus & Gemini. Beware of capricorn women .......
??? Beware of Capricorn women??? Is that because we would call a small penis a small penis instead of sugar coating it with "oh honey it's quality, not quantity?"
Just asking.
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| 8/20/2009 7:56:30 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
65guy
Niland, CA
age: 20
| Some guys are just go out mainly for that. I dont think sex matters.
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| 8/20/2009 7:59:04 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
saintlyfellow
Dade City, FL
age: 42
| Because its man rule #1. Get as far as possible on the first date.
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| 8/20/2009 9:09:31 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
alphalover
Elkhart, IN
age: 38
| Girls call me the...
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| 8/21/2009 4:21:02 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
zengardens
Columbia, SC
age: 53
| ??? Beware of Capricorn women???
the sign of sexual restraint, the least likely to give it up on the first date .......
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| 8/21/2009 4:22:36 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
bjk123
Layton, UT
age: 52
| The sign of sexual expression, so more provocative photos are in order. She presents a challenge to the male of the species, requiring a guy to be so stable and commanding as to make her seem feral ....
 I'll work on the photos! Catsuit maybe
[Edited 8/21/2009 4:22:55 AM PST]
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| 8/22/2009 9:50:18 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
jay8225
Fort Myers, FL
age: 27
| if she wants sex on the first date i aint tryin to sleep with her anyway!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| 8/22/2009 9:55:20 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
jlon
Drumright, OK
age: 33
| cant wait to try it out 
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| 8/22/2009 11:51:16 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
kwaito
Nelspruit
South Africa
age: 44
| If you hit it off on the first date, why not? I know it's wrong to push on the first date, but some things just happen naturally. I will not stop anything from happening if it has to.
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| 8/23/2009 12:16:00 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
ava_adore
Concord, CA
age: 19
| Quote from zengarden the sign of sexual restraint, the least likely to give it up on the first date .......
I'm a Capricorn and it's indeed true of me. I never heard that one before though.
We Capricorns are well worth the wait though.
[Edited 8/23/2009 12:16:41 AM PST]
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| 8/23/2009 1:47:05 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
leifs9
Goodyear, AZ
age: 47
| Y not?
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| 8/23/2009 3:16:22 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
shua0001
Oshkosh, WI
age: 27
| not me but most
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| 8/23/2009 6:30:06 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
hotasss
New Smyrna Beach, FL
age: 39
| put the money where your mouth is!!!
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| 8/23/2009 4:30:34 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
newmoon35
Chattanooga, TN
age: 35
| most guys are smarter than we think ladys. when i go to buy a car i test drive it first before i put any money into it. If it mets the standards then i will do what i have to do to get it. Most men wnt a jekyll and heid girl, freak in the dark and lady in the light. they could be testing you as well if you are so easy to give it up on the first date then how easy are you really and a man always wants to know he can trust his woman when he is not around.
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| 8/24/2009 6:25:58 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
susansheart839
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 61
| most guys are smarter than we think ladys. when i go to buy a car i test drive it first before i put any money into it. If it mets the standards then i will do what i have to do to get it. Most men wnt a jekyll and heid girl, freak in the dark and lady in the light. they could be testing you as well if you are so easy to give it up on the first date then how easy are you really and a man always wants to know he can trust his woman when he is not around.
Most men I know tell me if a girl has sex with them on the first date, they wonder who ELSE they had sex with on a first date. Then they drop em. Kind of a cake-and-eat-it-too attitude.
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| 8/24/2009 10:36:54 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
lexie28
Baltimore, MD
age: 28
| Men want sex on the first date because there are alot of women out there giving it up on the first date. If thats the type of relationship you want to have to each his own. I would rather a man try on the first date so I know what type of man I am dealing with then to find out he is hoe 2 or 3 months down the line.
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| 8/24/2009 12:41:09 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
andrewj1966
Butler, PA
age: 43
| i for one would rather wait till she was ready to have sex i guess thats why im not dating but i think it should be up to her not the guy. just how i feel when she is ready she will let you. and even if she does want it on the first date have a little respect for her say no. might be better for the relationship in the long term for both involved
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| 8/24/2009 8:03:33 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
imthe1_4u
Gobles, MI
age: 36
| I dont know either I was wondering that myself! They dont want a easy girl, but, they try to make it impossible to say no! They are soooo screwed up!!!
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| 8/24/2009 11:43:49 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
dwperry2778
Myrtle Beach, SC
age: 31
| Not all men try to have sex on the first date - I certainly don't; may explain why it's been 4 years (note - since my divorce over 4 years ago, I haven't had a second date with any woman).
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| 8/24/2009 11:58:37 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
rob_lpn
Cleveland, OH
age: 23
| simple cuz were genetically wired (women too) to do 2 things F!(k and eat its what got our ancestors through and where were at today is trying to keep a handle on the horny hungriness 
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| 8/25/2009 4:36:42 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
redmanz
Raleigh, NC
age: 26
| Its natural thing..Gotta test the waters..All she can do is say no..But pretty if a guy can read a women, he should be able to tell on whats gonna happen...
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| 8/25/2009 7:24:27 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
kountryboy87
Norfolk, VA
age: 22
| Hey u know I'm not the type who looks for sex on the first date I look to try and get to knw as much as possible about u than wonder what ur like in bed I think its disrespectful to try and get a girl in bed on the first date but that's just me
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| 8/25/2009 7:44:25 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
roostergal
Livermore, CA
age: 49
| Kudo's to you! Way to speak up....
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| 8/26/2009 1:07:27 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
spankie0206
Walden, NY
age: 21
| honestly i was talking to my friend about it the other day and he said its like buying a car before you have it for a long time and take the good with the bad you gotta test drive it and make sure ull like it... i dont really agree with him but i can somewhat understand where he is coming from
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| 8/26/2009 2:18:52 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
im_single_again
Saint Louis, MO
age: 78
| Because something about you makes them want to.
Doesn't mean you have to give in though.
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| 8/26/2009 2:31:17 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
doreen1111
Brenham, TX
age: 45
| Can't answer that question... but I can tell you ... kick their butts to the curb!! Take a look back and make sure you're not sending out the wrong signals! (just a thought)_
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| 8/28/2009 1:36:48 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
agirlnamedjerri
Blanchester, OH
age: 44
| the comments on here are very telling, if the guy wants sex right away he's normal, 8 months is insane, too much invested there to find out it may not be good. If I have sex it is cause I want to, I may not want to again with that dude- there's a reason, guys have the same thots. It is embarrassing to me that some of my gender still think it is some kinda game- sex is sex, should not be used to manipulate a guy into anything and vice versa.
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| 8/28/2009 2:11:21 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
scottiscool
Mayville, WI
age: 50 online now!
| Y so hard to figure out.? We are men , All you need to know.....
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