| 4/24/2009 6:37:42 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | | gjlonelyman
Grand Junction, CO
age: 51
| Now you know why body builders have such huge arms...lol...(to his woman he says, baby..c'mere..my arm's tired...lol)
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| 4/24/2009 6:40:02 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
msbevzie
Oregon, OH
age: 46 online now!
| Well don't give into them...
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| 4/24/2009 11:24:39 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
trikerider51
Chandler, TX
age: 58
| Its about respect,Me i never did that.My mother would kill me.
OMG!!!! Please tell me you don't tell your mother EVERYTHING!!! 
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| 4/24/2009 12:14:45 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
sandrahall
Mc Kenzie, TN
age: 33
| Hmmm just a thought...So women dont want to have sex on the first date then? Now the key word is WANT. Wanting and doing are two different things. I think many women WANT to have sex. Its just we are not "supposed" to because it makes us look "bad".
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| 4/24/2009 12:21:56 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55
| Hmmm just a thought...So women dont want to have sex on the first date then? Now the key word is WANT. Wanting and doing are two different things. I think many women WANT to have sex. Its just we are not "supposed" to because it makes us look "bad".
yes, you're right too many women have had the heads screwed up because they've always been told that being sexually active is bad, if they have too many partners they're a wh*re, if the do a guy too quickly they're a slut.
then there are the women who have grown beyond that and are able to enjoy sex with whomever and whenever they feel like and moralists can be damned.
I am not saying which attitude is the right one or the best one, each person has to come to grips with that on their own.
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| 4/24/2009 12:23:43 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
cob718
Picayune, MS
age: 63
|  because there might be a second date 
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| 4/24/2009 12:29:37 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55
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this is stupid, how does having sex on the first date affect a second date, unless of course one was completely inept in the sack
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| 4/24/2009 1:25:33 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 36
| this is stupid, how does having sex on the first date affect a second date, unless of course one was completely inept in the sack
Would you have sex with a guy who had a horrible personality?
Then why do you expect men to be ok with having bad sex with women?
I think the women that put out on the first date whom aren't very good at sex don't get the man to commit... and THAT is why they get so upset.
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| 4/24/2009 1:34:55 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
cowboy305
Rochester, WA
age: 58
| Men don't like to waste time.
When the whole object of hanging around with some one of the opposite sex is to have sex, why waste time?
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| 4/24/2009 2:10:41 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55
| Would you have sex with a guy who had a horrible personality?
Then why do you expect men to be ok with having bad sex with women?
I think the women that put out on the first date whom aren't very good at sex don't get the man to commit... and THAT is why they get so upset.
not good at sex? hahaha, I've never had complaints, most men can't even last long enough to get into having good sex!
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| 4/24/2009 2:12:17 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
milfmom
Kansas City, MO
age: 35
| cause there horn dogs
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| 4/24/2009 2:42:05 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
salvo5572
Garden City, NY
age: 22
| Woman are always trying to get me to have sex on the first date.I just put my foot down and said..I deserve better than that!Whatever happend to the good ole days when woman used to want to get to know a man first.Seriously ladies...keep it in your bra(wink,wink)!
[Edited 4/24/2009 2:42:21 PM PST]
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| 4/24/2009 4:00:25 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
lsl2
Anderson, SC
age: 38
| lol. hmmmm....bet your nose is growing. lol
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| 4/24/2009 4:24:10 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
steve5701
Alexandria, IN
age: 51
| Well I think alot of it has to do with their age,m ost young guys only wqnt a piece of tail,while the older ones(like myself),needs to get to know the lady before the act of sex ever comes into the picture. When it's just all about the sex,people do get hurt,and that's not right,well at least some do.
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| 4/24/2009 4:46:07 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
wizmom_00
Galatia, IL
age: 58
| u know i have been on alot of first dates and about 60% of them the guy is always trying to get me in bed and for me i am not like that i dont like to have sex with just any guy who will take me out i want this guy to want to be with me and love me and try and spend a little time with me if he can not use me and then say well it did not work out.... men make me sick when they do that i wish that some day i will find a man who will want me... 4 me not a toy and not a sex buddy.
Sorry sweetie, you have a long road ahead of you "kissing alot of frogs". It doesnt get any better with age, just hold on to your guns, your morals...you'll find your prince! (If it isnt worth working for, it isnt worth having.)
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| 4/24/2009 4:49:03 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
drace59
Ayer, MA
age: 50
| all guys are not like that.You have to find a gentleman
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| 4/24/2009 4:53:33 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
mezentiangate
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 57
| the girls I met here (and elsewhere) seem to expect it if they're attracted to me-- the others aren't keepers anyway
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| 4/24/2009 5:02:27 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
wizmom_00
Galatia, IL
age: 58
| OMG!!!! Please tell me you don't tell your mother EVERYTHING!!!
Geeesh....they dont have to tell ya!! "walking on air, hungry as a wolf, in a really super good mood, and the world is all well...lol!!" Heck, I was a "good" girl growing up...both my parents had radar...and geeeeesh, I lived 8 miles out in the country. Wouldn't be time for a swat team to get there, to save me!! I would of been a little muddie/bloodie puddle of goo!! LOL!!
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| 4/24/2009 5:39:17 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
b4urgone
Sherbrooke, NS
age: 41
| Cause they know they'll probably not get another chance?
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| 4/24/2009 10:55:52 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 43
| Because we spent 9 months trying to get out and the rest of our lives trying to get back in.
There is this sense of urgency 
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| 4/25/2009 7:11:33 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
dont_panic
Parsonsfield, ME
age: 29
| <---WILL FIELD ALL QUESTIONS AND SHOOT STRAIGHT FROM THE HIP
News flash sweetheart... we want to f**k before the first date - that's why we asked you out in the first place... we think you're hot and want to see you naked. What, are you new to planet earth?
Men are visual, our initial attraction is superficial and physical... from that point on we want to f**k you. The factor that dictates the direction it will go depends on the physical and emotional connection.
I reiterate, we all want to f**k, why the hell else would we buy you dinner and want to show you a good time? What, we can't eat alone and/or masturbate?
Get a clue - Haley's Comet is less rare than two virgins on their honeymoon night.
This guy is right, and the fact of the matter is all humans are visually driven. As much as you ladies will deny it, the first thing you notice about someone is how they look. I'm not gonna retype everything he said but he is right on. So deal with it. Men have to play all the games that women want us to play, its all reciprocal.
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| 4/25/2009 7:12:51 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
dont_panic
Parsonsfield, ME
age: 29
| Cause they know they'll probably not get another chance?
Yeah she must be right cause all men are worthless, right? Makes me sick. So just sit home ladies and ponder these rediculous questions.
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| 4/26/2009 8:52:43 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
lonelylover69
Carleton, MI
age: 40
| it is not only guys , but some women too. somebody has to make the first move, generally it is left up to the guy.
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| 4/26/2009 9:37:35 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
gibby6117
Chattanooga, TN
age: 66
| bet you don't mind taking his money on the first date HUH
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| 4/26/2009 10:00:30 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
daffyihc
Negley, OH
age: 61
| when a man does not try to get in your pants on the first date you got trouble
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| 4/26/2009 10:44:27 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
tataman
Jacksonville, FL
age: 41
| u know i have been on alot of first dates and about 60% of them the guy is always trying to get me in bed and for me i am not like that i dont like to have sex with just any guy who will take me out i want this guy to want to be with me and love me and try and spend a little time with me if he can not use me and then say well it did not work out.... men make me sick when they do that i wish that some day i will find a man who will want me... 4 me not a toy and not a sex buddy.
not all men do this.. it's probably you...you are probably giving them the impression you are easy..LOL.. wham!!!!!
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| 4/26/2009 10:48:20 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
tataman
Jacksonville, FL
age: 41
| yes, you're right too many women have had the heads screwed up because they've always been told that being sexually active is bad, if they have too many partners they're a wh*re, if the do a guy too quickly they're a slut.
then there are the women who have grown beyond that and are able to enjoy sex with whomever and whenever they feel like and moralists can be damned.
they have been told that because it is true.. if a woman has had sex with too many men.. this makes her a wh*re.....any gentleman knows that, and so does any lady, if you don't agree, than you probably are not a lady and certainly won't be given a 2nd look by a gentleman...........
[Edited 4/26/2009 10:48:46 AM PST]
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| 4/26/2009 3:15:17 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
northphxhiker
Phoenix, AZ
age: 47
| i know its girl code to come out and whine when a guy tries to have sex with her on the first date,
however lots of women out there try to initiate sex on the first date too...
we just don't complain about it 
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| 4/26/2009 4:34:19 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55
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they have been told that because it is true.. if a woman has had sex with too many men.. this makes her a wh*re.....any gentleman knows that, and so does any lady, if you don't agree, than you probably are not a lady and certainly won't be given a 2nd look by a gentleman...........
c'est la vie!
fortunately your world and my world will probably never intersect.
and while I've been with a fair share of men, and I am quite open about my sexuality, I am far from what you would label a wh*re/slut/tramp
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| 4/26/2009 5:13:20 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
max122961
Evansville, IN
age: 47
| too possibly figure out if your marriage material, if you sleep w/me on 1st, i figure your too easy,looking for a meal ticket, so why waste my time w/ this person.
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| 4/26/2009 5:48:06 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
mrj1959
Evansville, IN
age: 50
| As for me,it is kind of nice however it is also nice to wait to see if it is just love or lust.The way I see it,we are both adults and if the feelings are there and both agree,what is there to stop us.Taking time to know somwones mind and heart is time well spent,it makes the first time very special.This might make me sound kind of weird,but this usully works for me.
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| 4/27/2009 10:36:13 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
tataman
Jacksonville, FL
age: 41
| c'est la vie!
fortunately your world and my world will probably never intersect.
and while I've been with a fair share of men, and I am quite open about my sexuality, I am far from what you would label a wh*re/slut/tramp
just what any man wants to hear from a woman he wants to potentially date..."I have been with my fair share of men and am quite open about my sexuality"
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| 4/27/2009 10:45:44 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
edgeofsandias
Placitas, NM
age: 41
| just what any man wants to hear from a woman he wants to potentially date..."I have been with my fair share of men and am quite open about my sexuality"
Ahh, the old double standard rearing it's ugly head yet again. You want women to want sex, just not want it so much?
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| 4/27/2009 11:02:50 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
bigddykain
Elizabeth, NJ
age: 25
| maybe because to them your not good enuff to take it to a relationship level rather it be your looks your personality or whatever if you were a beyonce typa female then no dude would have a problem waiting to f**k you because its worth it in our eyes now if your more like monica lewinski then you get tha treatment
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| 4/27/2009 11:13:24 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
stealhorsehd
Lufkin, TX
age: 57
| Some want love, some want sex. Find one who wants both.
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| 4/27/2009 11:29:53 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
kinkycapitalist
Atlanta, GA
age: 55
| So that we can get that ugliness out of the way and get down to more spiritual things. We only do it for the ladies. We want them to feel wanted while we take the time to then explore their minds and souls.
 Sex is enjoyable and the reason adults want to date other adults is ultimately to be intimate, physically as well as emotionally. The sooner the better because then we can be intimate that much longer and that much better. If I have NO deisre to have sex with a woman why should there be even one date? Dating doesn't give rise to the desire for sex in a man. Dating gives rise for the need for intamacy which is different from sex. Sex comes first to a man where perhaps some women develop the desire to be intimate before the desire for pleasure in regards to their choice of partner.
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| 4/27/2009 11:31:27 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
ttid3
Riverdale, GA
age: 35
| Because they don't plan on sticking around for a long time. Just another piece of ass.
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| 4/27/2009 11:32:03 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
edgeofsandias
Placitas, NM
age: 41
| So that we can get that ugliness out of the way and get down to more spiritual things. We only do it for the ladies. We want them to feel wanted while we take the time to then explore their minds and souls.
Sex is enjoyable and the reason adults want to date other adults is ultimately to be intimate, physically as well as emotionally. The sooner the better because then we can be intimate that much longer and that much better. If I have NO deisre to have sex with a woman why should there be even one date? Dating doesn't give rise to the desire for sex in a man. Dating gives rise for the need for intamacy which is different from sex. Sex comes first to a man where perhaps some women develop the desire to be intimate before the desire for pleasure in regards to their choice of partner.
This is so well written that it just brought a tear to my eye. Let me wipe it so I can see you after I rip your clothes off!
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| 4/27/2009 12:24:42 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
kinkycapitalist
Atlanta, GA
age: 55
| THE 1st part or the 2nd?
BTW, for you, no ripping necessary. I will remove them before knocking on your door.
[Edited 4/27/2009 12:25:30 PM PST]
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| 4/27/2009 12:26:51 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55
| just what any man wants to hear from a woman he wants to potentially date..."I have been with my fair share of men and am quite open about my sexuality"
just what any woman would be attracted to, a complete f*cktard
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| 4/27/2009 12:28:05 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
afrolicious
Lawton, OK
age: 29
| Who doesnt want sex on the first date 
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| 4/27/2009 2:20:35 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
tataman
Jacksonville, FL
age: 41
| just what any woman would be attracted to, a complete f*cktard
nice language, something a lady would never use.
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| 4/27/2009 3:29:39 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
flirtylover20
Elizabeth, NJ
age: 20
| lol who doesnt wanna sex on the first date classic line love it lol sex isnt supposed to b an event u plan ahead of time aint it kinda the moments right thing
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| 4/27/2009 3:33:50 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
dont_panic
Parsonsfield, ME
age: 29
| Keep dreaming Dreamweaver. Wait till you get married and have kids. You will plan it everytime. Ok i dont really know that.
[Edited 4/27/2009 3:34:13 PM PST]
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| 4/27/2009 10:21:14 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
harriett
Homosassa, FL
age: 63
| Well duh, cause they're horny. 
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| 4/27/2009 10:31:00 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
justlovely09
Lexington, VA
age: 30
| WOW, I didn't read all the crap and don't want to! You are still young even though you don't think so now, don't give it up! Respect yourself and the real man will follow.
I could go on but don't need to cause ppl will think it's funny but "Steve Harvey" wrote a great book that all young woman should read! Act like a lady, Think like a man.. READ IT.
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| 4/27/2009 10:33:33 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
kuzzn43
Chicago, IL
age: 46
| u know i have been on alot of first dates and about 60% of them the guy is always trying to get me in bed and for me i am not like that i dont like to have sex with just any guy who will take me out i want this guy to want to be with me and love me and try and spend a little time with me if he can not use me and then say well it did not work out.... men make me sick when they do that i wish that some day i will find a man who will want me... 4 me not a toy and not a sex buddy.
i'm write here sweetie!!!!!!
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| 4/27/2009 11:29:17 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
wildlife2
Garden City, KS
age: 21
| I don't think its all guys I don't but some times I think alot of girls put them self out there and guys are guys if your showing half your body on hella flirtie on the date of course a guy is goin to try. But if it clear from the time he picks you up then its all gravy!!
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| 4/27/2009 11:40:41 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
wayo7
Miami, FL
age: 45
|  Well this is gentleman that's not the type of expecting sex on the first date.might sound corny but I want to be good friends first.and know what she likes ,what she wants ect.hey I'm old fasion,
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| 4/28/2009 2:23:31 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
lefty247
Swartz Creek, MI
age: 62
| It seems when I was in my younger years, sex came a lot easier than it does now. So maybe as I got older & uglier, the women lost the urge to merge altogether sometime after womenopause? And it's not about a woman being "easy" now. More like I'm grateful for any affection that comes my way. And if you need drinks & dinner to get you in the mood, no problem.
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| 4/28/2009 6:56:03 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
dreamcatcher696
Plainview, TX
age: 31
| i think that its our nature to know if we want to have sex with someone right off the bat... and as far as trying to carry that out.. well thats just not having any self control.... lots of men have that problem if they havent had it much
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| 4/28/2009 7:22:49 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
clueless_629
Byhalia, MS
age: 19
| Because their hand/arm is tired 
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| 4/28/2009 10:00:06 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
hldmetight
Swartz Creek, MI
age: 36
| testing the waters
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| 4/28/2009 10:41:27 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
unique14u
Roanoke, VA
age: 56
| because the little head won the argument with the big head !!!
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| 4/29/2009 10:11:33 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
bigdog198
Melbourne, FL
age: 57
| I have over the past 5yrs told the women I was out with no on the first date so it's not just men.
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| 4/30/2009 10:15:31 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
nibblediver
Monticello, MN
age: 46
| u know i have been on alot of first dates and about 60% of them the guy is always trying to get me in bed and for me i am not like that i dont like to have sex with just any guy who will take me out i want this guy to want to be with me and love me and try and spend a little time with me if he can not use me and then say well it did not work out.... men make me sick when they do that i wish that some day i will find a man who will want me... 4 me not a toy and not a sex buddy.
Once you turn about 35 you'll be eying cabana boys or cruising for fresh young meat to seduce hoping you "still have what it takes."
Until then it's your turn to feel like a piece of meat.
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| 5/1/2009 7:54:38 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
bigbri34
Anderson, IN
age: 34
| i really dont know why guys are like that to be honest hell maybe its because they are horny who knows what thier reason is
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| 5/1/2009 7:57:35 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
stacks87
Winchester, CA
age: 40
| Because it's there.....
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| 5/2/2009 3:30:25 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
midnightgambler
Memphis, TN
age: 32
| They're dumb, really.
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| 5/2/2009 4:19:25 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
abundance1961
Mesa, AZ
age: 48
| I think part of it is the age you're at. Many young men focus on sex only and don't care about you as a person. I looked at your profile which mentions you are looking for men 21-35, which may be a good idea. See if there are any characteristics that are common to the men who take this approach. Also see if there are any common characteristics in how you present yourself to them. I wish you good luck in finding someone who will treat you as you wish.
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