y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? 661

9/23/2009 5:15:33 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
ghaleon23 Jefferson City, MO age: 25	Lots of interesting comments going on peoples. Both entertaining and enlightening. The truth of the matter in my opinion is this. The guys who want sex on the first date want you enough to ask it. It doesnt make us immoral, just means were horny and want to spend a night be passionately flexible with you. ..We all have the need to screw. Some peopl stifle it well, others indulge in it healthily. To me a woman is not wh*re if she sleeps with you on the first date. Ths doesnt make her a bad person, shes just horny too. Doesnt mean shes not worth getting together with again to learn more about eachother. Morality aside, its the end result. Its the means to that end that gives you your own self defining niche. A woman who sleeps with you on the first secon, or third date, this says to me, shes horny like me and likes me enough in one way or another to keep seeing me. Not that thats the basis for the dating either. Just one possible aspect.
9/23/2009 7:48:38 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
36g Palm Coast, FL age: 23	to me its kinda like a stress reliever. after you have sex your not that nervous and you know from then on if its gonna work. also women present there self very well who wouldnt want to ?
9/23/2009 7:58:56 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
gfrio Eau Claire, WI age: 42	Well, to be honest.. most men live there lives between there leg's... But to answer your question maybe its his way to find out if your any good or not and his way to see afterwards if he wants to continue the relationship.. 15% of a relationship is based around sex its not everything but its part of it... just depends on what hia agenda is.. And if its a man.. Believe hes got it on his mind... From the Gate!!!lol Its all about your expectations in a relationship.. Make them chase you.. lol
9/23/2009 8:59:23 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
cgc67 Wallis, TX age: 41	Maybe its you that is giving him the impression that you want to....
9/23/2009 9:02:52 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
dunewolf Huntington, OR age: 64	It works out better than when you on the last date.
9/23/2009 9:02:58 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
alphalover Elkhart, IN age: 38	Because it's so damn easy to get on the first date..
9/23/2009 9:24:33 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
aceme Florence, KY age: 68	Give me a break.I seewhat these woman are wearing so you know nothing left to ones thoughts,So if you want a serious love life for a long time with me well lets see it all and quit playing like kids,lets get it on. But the last time i did that it lasted long long time.so i think the first time tells all..have a great time...
9/23/2009 11:15:21 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
taggedd Pasadena, MD age: 30	Wow!!!! What's wrong with those guys
9/23/2009 11:18:10 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
alphalover Elkhart, IN age: 38
9/23/2009 11:34:28 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
doreen1111 Brenham, TX age: 45	Because men weren't raised to respect women anymore and too many hookers out there give it to them!!! So, baiscally, they're gettin laid all the time!!!
9/23/2009 11:35:08 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
alphalover Elkhart, IN age: 38	I do...
9/23/2009 12:05:51 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
habmac Webster, TX age: 22	it seems to be a race who can get more in bed??? sick i know
9/23/2009 2:23:11 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
yassir718 New York, NY age: 22	well she just gave you the right response, the losers you been with all they look is a** not commitment....
9/23/2009 2:46:09 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
dougiem Brewer, ME age: 29	It's usually the women I meet who want to have sex on the first date. It sucks. Total turn-off to me.
9/23/2009 2:52:18 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
jrebel Manly, IA age: 36	Quote from doreen1111: Because men weren't raised to respect women anymore and too many hookers out there give it to them!!! So, baiscally, they're gettin laid all the time!!! I disagree "I was raised right I have respect for women and I have never been with a pro" but I still would like to have sex on the first date it must be in the DNA
10/1/2009 1:59:07 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
koolnkind4u Saint Peters, MO age: 43	Quote from jesse862005: i hate it cuz guys have sex on the first date and they are awesome cuz "they've got game"but a girl does it and she is a slut, whre, ho, easy, etc....I think about sex constantly and yes...if i like a guy im goin to have sex with him whenever i want regardless of the time or which date. yes you r totally Right on my first dates 90% I had sex very ist date and its awsome to me dont make them whre or slut its all good
10/1/2009 3:57:55 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
calli_in_durham Durham, NC age: 35	they just want to see how far they can go. If they can get you in the sac on the first date, you have just put yourself on the booty call list and shouldn't expect a real relationship from that dude.
10/1/2009 4:01:33 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
kinkycapitalist Atlanta, GA age: 55	Unless your good in the sack, in chich case, as Schwartzenager said, "I'll be back". We aren't seeing how far we can get, we're trying to have sex, all the time, on every date. It isn't personal and saying no, isn't personal. As far as I can tell,having sex on the 1st date doesn't increase or decrease the ptoential for LTRs. If both parties are comfortab le after the sex, there probably is the making of a really goode relationship.
10/7/2009 3:19:58 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
agirlnamedjerri Blanchester, OH age: 44	kinky always has great responses, all should listen to him!!!!! too bad he ain't in ohio...lol sex is sex, love is love, sometimes they travel together, sometimes not. Enjoy the ride!!! either way....
10/7/2009 6:31:35 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
shelli63 Greenbrier, AR age: 46	good guys are not like that they wait until its right for both of you, not on the first date''''
10/7/2009 9:24:34 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
mrjack13 Troy, MO age: 18	I usually dont pay attention to sex if they want it they can come and get it.
10/7/2009 9:38:39 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
mikewhite123 Grand Ledge, MI age: 20	cauxe baby thats all thats good nowa days!
10/7/2009 9:43:35 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
manyinches Wood Ridge, NJ age: 39	hell yes
10/7/2009 9:44:54 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
geldin Marble Falls, TX age: 21	you know I rely dont get it. it defets the perpis of the hunymoon. I wont hav sex intil im meryd. end of story.
10/7/2009 10:01:38 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
geldin Marble Falls, TX age: 21	Quote from vashtie: genetic inherited,having sexual fantasies constantly is a characteristic which is genetic inherited in the DNA of a man but not so much of a woman's DNA,a person that has these genes cannot resist the urge of fantasizing.When a man meet a pretty woman or women has little chat with her,he is already thinking how to get her in bed,or trying to imagine how she would be in bed.Some stimuli include breasts of a woman,,the beautiful legs,attractive eyes etc,since we live in a world with many beautiful females,the males are constantly stimulated by stimuli and therefore fantasizing about sex. wrong. Il have you know that I hav sum. But not very meny. I wus just rasd as a crishtin. thats all. SO STOP STERYO TYPING GYS.
10/7/2009 10:12:03 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
renae8302 Xenia, OH age: 25	Quote from kinkycapitalist: Unless your good in the sack, in chich case, as Schwartzenager said, "I'll be back". We aren't seeing how far we can get, we're trying to have sex, all the time, on every date. It isn't personal and saying no, isn't personal. As far as I can tell,having sex on the 1st date doesn't increase or decrease the ptoential for LTRs. If both parties are comfortab le after the sex, there probably is the making of a really goode relationship. yup
10/8/2009 3:50:41 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
donaldtimmons69 Gold Bar, WA age: 25	Because for most guys sex is not as special as it is for women sorry to burst your bubble but its the truth
10/8/2009 3:50:52 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
unleashedfr33ks Granite Falls, NC age: 44	If i am very attracted and want more from her. I will try, but it is just a test, and if she act's like she will. That will be the last date. Keep your respct, If he realy wants it on the first date he is a looser an is just out for a peace of ass....
10/8/2009 8:14:35 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
larz_marz El Cajon, CA age: 20	Most men are sex driven
10/8/2009 11:01:38 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
datniggadoc Fort Wayne, IN age: 23	it all depends if shes freak or not a real nigga will kno how far he can take it wit her if he can hit on da 1st night or wait 4 da 2nd. but we will damn near try da 1st night b/c we havent had none in a while or just b/c they might just be thirsty
10/8/2009 11:31:51 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
toyotapower Trussville, AL age: 18	hey now applebees is not cheap taco bell is cheap
10/8/2009 12:02:27 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
leemancuk Greater Manchester United Kingdom age: 28	Most guys dont just want sex on the first date, not all blokes are like that , i guess its all in the kinda guy ya pick really
10/8/2009 2:06:36 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
jhartleytx Aubrey, TX age: 37	I've never wanted sex on the first date and even if she was a freak I would never do that. If you are truly looking for that someone special then you have not even scratched the surface of that person. Pick better men I would say.
10/8/2009 3:39:52 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
nobs66 Racine, MN age: 43	I agree with clutterbuck. I'm a solo dad and I wouldn't want a woman around my kid that's would go to bed right away.
10/8/2009 7:48:25 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
l3l309 Fayetteville, NC age: 18	Because they want to either prove something, relieve stress, or is just pussi greedy [Edited 10/8/2009 7:48:43 PM PST]
10/8/2009 10:09:47 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
djskwerl Essex Fells, NJ age: 24	put simply, it's what we're genetically programmed to do. That being said, logic should over come animal instinct (since we are human) and if it can't in this situation it most likely won't in others. it's actually a good way to weed out the unworthy men.
10/8/2009 10:42:49 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
anjelz Tecumseh, OK age: 45	your right dj you know that is actually what I look for first the phone calls then if he has been courteous and polite not saying he cant be cute and flirty but with some class, dignity if you will then that first date I demand respect I am a lady I will be treated as such or you won't be back unfortunately alot of men and women on here are really just looking for a hot encounter and hope it may turn into something more go figure good luck to them though because to each his or her own what they do is not my business unless they try to do it to me.
10/8/2009 10:58:49 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
luly69 Salinas, CA age: 20	why dont they just come straight up n say.... honetly i just want to have sex what do you think... that makes it a lot easier insted of just playing games n making a girl feel stupid...
10/8/2009 11:28:38 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
willubewills Lancaster, PA age: 34	I dont ever expect a woman to do nething she dont want too..
10/9/2009 12:42:44 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
ladyladonna007 Tahlequah, OK age: 50	Yep seems to be they do...but I think that's just how their programed...of course they'll try...and of course if we feel sorry for them with those.'I haven't had sex in 2 yrs lines' they are gonna say whatever they have to at the time to get it...they think differently than we do...we just have to stick to our own rules to keep our own respect whatever we want to deal with...and WE HAVE TO STOP FEELIN SORRY FOR THEM after the 'I HAVEN'T HAD IT IN 2 YRS LINE....DAA
10/9/2009 2:31:00 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
chinzo Salem, NJ age: 22	we wanna have sex on the first date to test the goods foreal cause if u girls make us wait for months on and the sex wasn't good; such as a girl feelin loose, cant take the pipe, or just plain out go psycho afterwards it all would just be a waste of time so get that first round out da way then decide cause if ya dude pipe wrong u gone ditch him any way and be pissed he couldnt hang or wasnt swanging and if u get too deep in it now yall girlz stuck
10/10/2009 8:05:37 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
bmikeg Marion, IN age: 31	You know we are just wired different!I think boys want it rite now
10/10/2009 8:13:23 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
pleasureman561 West Palm Beach, FL age: 31	well hey they only can go as far as u let them. hey ladies sex is apart of a relationship and all adults enjoy the activity or should if your not im sorry. however i agree if u looking 4 more than sex hold out for 4 years if he's steal their he don't want u for sex he's a gay authority figure (lol).
10/10/2009 8:14:11 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
onehotman2008 Hooversville, PA age: 35	I AGREE . You dont need to take your cloths off to have fun. You take your cloths off to make love and fall deeper in love,and most men are looking for one of two things, a good piece or a one night stand,, SOME ARNT!!!!!! SOME ARE LOOKING FOR A TRUE HEART ,AND THEY ARE SO HARD TO FIND!opps sorry did i say that , must have came from my heart>.
10/10/2009 8:18:53 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
dominus1 Searcy, AR age: 28	Spending time , getting to know each other , bla bla bla . It is a waste of time when we only have our youth for such a short time. I want to get laid now and tonight and tomorrow morning, so on and so on. And the ladies that slow this proccess down will wake up one day with the so called perfect mate and say damn im forty and this is the only guy I ever had sex with. Hummmmm I wonder what the rest of the great big world would have been like. How much fun could I have had.
10/10/2009 8:49:38 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
pleasureman561 West Palm Beach, FL age: 31	some of u r full of it and some r being honest, women love sex 2 don't make it like u doing us a favorit's a mutual friendship
10/10/2009 9:49:24 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
kgmonkey68 Washougal, WA age: 41	You gotta try before you buy!
10/10/2009 11:23:31 AM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
mskat63 Peoria, IL age: 46 online now!	Girls,, this is why we should pay our own part on the first date,,no exspectations from either party. also, then the man isn't pissed off for spending their money and getting nothing in return. The second date however if they are a gentleman, should insist on paying for dinner. By then girls we know if we want to have sex with them or not. It's a win win situation.
10/10/2009 1:09:41 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
koolnkind4u Saint Peters, MO age: 43	Quote from mskat63: Girls,, this is why we should pay our own part on the first date,,no exspectations from either party. also, then the man isn't pissed off for spending their money and getting nothing in return. The second date however if they are a gentleman, should insist on paying for dinner. By then girls we know if we want to have sex with them or not. It's a win win situation. Very smart thinking. to me weather I get one first date or not I'll still pay for my date meal cuz I ask her out but most of the time I get lucky on first date with out any pressaure
10/10/2009 1:10:57 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
koolnkind4u Saint Peters, MO age: 43	this is for you miss above me from peoria IL
10/10/2009 1:20:14 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
d_freebird Cocoa, FL age: 49	Um, sweetie... we like to have sex every day. This is a day like any other, and you're the main attraction. What's the puzzle?
10/10/2009 1:47:21 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
1bigiron Stafford, KS age: 46	Quote from hotnstinky: Maybe cause they are horny and think you are easy. & or hope you are easy
10/11/2009 4:47:19 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
rikkothecat Louisville, KY age: 60	Would you pay for a pair of shoes before trying them on to see if they fit?
10/11/2009 5:03:11 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
jahma Atlanta, GA age: 29	well. i think that this is just the way that our instant gratification society is now. i have to add that i have had a few encounters where women were the protagonist in first date sex too. so i'll admit that yeah guys are trying to get into your pants, maybe get to know you and love you and all that good jazz too, but primarily to get at it. sorry love, this is just the way things are now.
10/11/2009 8:44:05 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
laidbackandfun Havelock, NC age: 43	you may want to refer back to the forum how long has it been. that may answer your question. i think its because they finaly have an opportunity and they don't want to miss out on it.
10/11/2009 8:59:54 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
wnt2knwu Charlotte, MI age: 29	Its a test to see if she has morals or not....
10/12/2009 6:28:29 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
laidbackandfun Havelock, NC age: 43	.
10/13/2009 7:06:02 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
gentleessence Elizabethton, TN age: 49	Interesting, so she needs to have morals and the guy doesn't. I love how women are always stuck with the double standard. It is not held against a man to have sex with whomever, whenever he pleases, but if a woman does she is immoral!
10/13/2009 7:29:44 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
jr504 Kenner, LA age: 25	Sometimes the chemestry is just there like woa! You cant help it. Not just men but women too!
10/13/2009 7:40:51 PM	y do most guys want to have sex on the first date?
gentleessence Elizabethton, TN age: 49	Exactly! Men are not the only ones with a sex drive! Yet if a woman acts on it she is immoral but when a man does it's his nature and it is acceptable.