| 4/9/2009 1:39:10 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | | dinesssia
Weatherford, TX
age: 22
| u know i have been on alot of first dates and about 60% of them the guy is always trying to get me in bed and for me i am not like that i dont like to have sex with just any guy who will take me out i want this guy to want to be with me and love me and try and spend a little time with me if he can not use me and then say well it did not work out.... men make me sick when they do that i wish that some day i will find a man who will want me... 4 me not a toy and not a sex buddy.
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| 4/9/2009 1:41:26 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
rooster2439
Murray, KY
age: 53
| u know i have been on alot of first dates and about 60% of them the guy is always trying to get me in bed and for me i am not like that i dont like to have sex with just any guy who will take me out i want this guy to want to be with me and love me and try and spend a little time with me if he can not use me and then say well it did not work out.... men make me sick when they do that i wish that some day i will find a man who will want me... 4 me not a toy and not a sex buddy. their just very horny   
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| 4/9/2009 1:47:38 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
dinesssia
Weatherford, TX
age: 22
| why are they like that it is just make me feel like a piece of meat
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| 4/9/2009 1:59:28 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55
| stop dating boys and find better men to date
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| 4/9/2009 2:05:22 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
jamiab123
Dudley, NC
age: 50
| The majority of the men do. It has to do with their self esteem, do they still have it and so on. But the majority of them are jsut lonely, or has some other agenda, or they are married, or staying with another woman they don't love or just for kiscks. But hold on to ur sewlf esteem some where there is the right man for us.
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| 4/9/2009 2:15:31 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
senobia
Beaumont, TX
age: 33
| Because their hand/arm is tired
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| 4/9/2009 2:17:48 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
bostonstud27
Pelham, AL
age: 26
| you just dating the wrong kind of men becouse i dont try on the first date i have to get to know the woman before i get them in to bed but i did do the first date one night stand once.
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| 4/9/2009 2:30:56 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
nitecaller
Edmonton, AB
age: 47
| u know i have been on alot of first dates and about 60% of them the guy is always trying to get me in bed and for me i am not like that i dont like to have sex with just any guy who will take me out i want this guy to want to be with me and love me and try and spend a little time with me if he can not use me and then say well it did not work out.... men make me sick when they do that i wish that some day i will find a man who will want me... 4 me not a toy and not a sex buddy. yeah right look i promised not to tell my buddies how hot
you were and here ya telling the world about are frist date
roflmao ok just kidding i go by 3rd date rule mostly just so i can get to know the gal
look with STDs and then belive it or not females can be just a f**king wacked jobs as men
i dont wanna die untill im an old angery preveted nasty mean grumpy old man ontop
of a young female in her late 30s 
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| 4/9/2009 2:32:45 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
bucksmx
Houston, TX
age: 30
| I want to date a girl from Houston
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| 4/9/2009 3:11:55 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
goodgato
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 45
| Because they're red-blooded males with both their coglioni intact and lots of testosterone.
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| 4/9/2009 3:15:47 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
marqeye
Kent, OH
age: 33
| u know i have been on alot of first dates and about 60% of them the guy is always trying to get me in bed and for me i am not like that i dont like to have sex with just any guy who will take me out i want this guy to want to be with me and love me and try and spend a little time with me if he can not use me and then say well it did not work out.... men make me sick when they do that i wish that some day i will find a man who will want me... 4 me not a toy and not a sex buddy.
Marqeye:
It's ok they just want to make sure everything works.
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| 4/9/2009 3:22:41 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
klutterbuck
Bono, AR
age: 63
| As I've been reading a lot of these posts the last couple of weeks, it seems that the younger men have a different moral standard than the older men. Now this is a very wide generalization as there have been conservative young men and horny old men.
But all in all the younger folks seem to be more for a "hook up" than a relationship.
I've said that if a woman wanted to have sex with me on the first date that I don't want to be just another notch on her bra strap. I don't consider myself to be all that irresistible.
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| 4/9/2009 3:26:27 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
mrphace
Austell, GA
age: 31
| The Reason men always want sex on the first date is because women don't know how to take it slow. I talked to a woman recently that said that on a first date she wanted s guy to show her a great time at a great place and so on and so forth and many say they don't want a man to take them on a cheap date like applebees ( i love applebees by the way) but my question is.......if you are just getting to know a person what's wrong with a burger and fried? what's wrong with just a walk in the park? we are just getting to know each other....that's it, so if i spend 100 dollars on you and you decide that you don't like me i just wasted 100 dollars i could have done something else with......and if i do that on the first date you are going to be expecting the same thing if not more next time...and that's how men get you.....we rent expensive cars and take you to expensive places and then once your feelings are in it we show you the real person and you want to get upset that we aren't really like that......it's your own fault 
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| 4/9/2009 4:09:58 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
septjan
Lake Benton, MN
age: 49
| i never expected sex on the first date but if they wanted me to sleep with them it was a different story. times have changed
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| 4/9/2009 4:24:35 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
bingbinger
Dubuque, IA
age: 35
| I expect it when I go pick up milk and bread by myself...we are just optomistic
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| 4/9/2009 4:39:08 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
gr8ful2b
Henderson, NV
age: 45
| <---WILL FIELD ALL QUESTIONS AND SHOOT STRAIGHT FROM THE HIP
News flash sweetheart... we want to f**k before the first date - that's why we asked you out in the first place... we think you're hot and want to see you naked. What, are you new to planet earth?
Men are visual, our initial attraction is superficial and physical... from that point on we want to f**k you. The factor that dictates the direction it will go depends on the physical and emotional connection.
I reiterate, we all want to f**k, why the hell else would we buy you dinner and want to show you a good time? What, we can't eat alone and/or masturbate?
Get a clue - Haley's Comet is less rare than two virgins on their honeymoon night.
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| 4/9/2009 5:28:31 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
forsakenknight
Denton, TX
age: 21
| two virgins i dont see that happenin anytime in the next 200 years haha not withouts some crazy bs behined it and in that case there probley not even all there nowadays but yeah men want sex way before the date unless they have givin up and just want to get to know you first meaning they dont realy want to date just hang and not have sex aka forgot they had a penis and are depressed dont worry honey that guy will rember probley the next day
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| 4/9/2009 5:45:03 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
barbaraajo
Reston, VA
age: 53
| testosterone
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| 4/9/2009 5:57:28 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
garyguitar
Franklin, NJ
age: 53
| testosterone
And women like Barbaraajo who get it all stirred UP!!!
Yes, men are much more visually stimulated than women and yes, we ONLY ask you out if the first thing we think when we see you is, "Yes, I'd like to screw her 'til we BOTH pass out!!"
That's why there are still men and women around, people. Your daddy saw your mama and wanted to f**k her senseless!! Human nature. Nothing like it.
We don't all need sex on the first date. At my age, I'm not throwing my penis into the wind and seeing which way it blows!! I need to get to know a woman and enjoy the whole chase, the flirting, the pre-foreplay foreplay. That whole thing where you can't wait to tear each other's clothes off because you've waited TOO long and can't stand it anymore!!
Oooohhhppphhh!! Baby!
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| 4/9/2009 7:50:04 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
tww_61
Chamois, MO
age: 48
| not this one
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| 4/9/2009 8:23:02 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
mrjasonb
Florence, SC
age: 26
| Because most men just want sex. I'm just saying I'm a man and I also love having sex. I guess we were programed that way, which is why single women looking for something real should be on their guard when dealing with all men (was gonna say the majority of men but who would I be kidding). Also know just because a man wants 2 or willing 2 have sex on the first date doesn't mean he is not possibly serious about being with you. I mean there probably has been plenty of one night stands that turned into serious relationships, just depends on the individuals. Well that's my opinion!
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| 4/9/2009 9:38:08 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
mmjtigercub
Elkhart, IN
age: 43
| yea but if we give in too easy we are sluts and all you want to do is come cum and go but if we dont put out then we are a tease
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| 4/9/2009 9:43:17 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
reedster02
North Myrtle Beach, SC
age: 20
| mostly it seems like the girls are the ones tryin to get me in bed, so i dont no what guys youre dating, but you need to upgrade. lol
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| 4/9/2009 10:00:13 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
lifetimeskier
Olympia, WA
age: 48
| Ok so I have been on dates where I wanted to have sex on the first date and did...It was what I was going to do at the time...It was some really hot sex...Am I a slut for it...NO...I was doing what I enjoyed in the moment...good for me...Be real and be true to yourself...Do it if it feels right...
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| 4/9/2009 10:23:06 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
ic2beyurs2
Kingman, AZ
age: 49
| because you show us all your goodies and we want them
what do you expect us to do with our wood?
your just mad cause they dont come back for more!
if you were a god lay they would never go away
they would want you forever and have you bear them children
but you get confused about your role in life
your a female,men choose females to have sex with and raise children
if we did not want sex and children we would never talk to you at all
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| 4/10/2009 1:42:56 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
gatornation69
Hiawassee, GA
age: 39
| THESE GUYS ANSWERS DONT SPEAK FOR ME, but at the same time,why do women give it up on the first date,we arent always the one making the first move,women do the same thing.i guess if the physical attraction is there,and that happens,then there cant be any complaining,because that is all the relationship is going to be based on.if u wait,then u can connect emotionally and the sex will be WAY FAR BETTER
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| 4/10/2009 1:46:50 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
shyforabit
Clearfield, UT
age: 38
| To skip all the crap and see if the sex is good.
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| 4/10/2009 4:57:16 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
strixvaria
Decatur, GA
age: 40
| Human females may get offended at dates who expect a little something extra after they buy a steak dinner, but for chimpanzees, the exchange may be a fair one, German researchers reported on Tuesday.
They found that female chimpanzees mate more frequently with males who often share meat with them.
"Our results strongly suggest that wild chimpanzees exchange meat for sex, and do so on a long-term basis," Cristina Gomes of the Max Planck Institute for Evolutionary Anthropology in Leipzig, Germany said in a statement.
"Males who shared meat with females doubled their mating success, whereas females, who had difficulty obtaining meat on their own, increased their caloric intake without suffering the energetic costs and potential risk of injury related to hunting."
Writing in the Public Library of Science journal PLoS ONE, Gomes and colleague Christophe Boesch said they watched chimps living in the Tai National Park in Ivory Coast.
"The meat for-sex hypothesis is a plausible explanation for male-female meat sharing in this species, as chimpanzees are highly promiscuous, they have a certain degree of female choice and hunters can usually control the sharing of their catch," they wrote in their report, published online at http://dx.plos.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0005116.
Males were more likely to share meat with females whose bodies showed they were in a fertile period, but even excluding these couplings, it was clear that mating behavior occurred more often between males and the females they were regularly sharing meat with.
"Our findings add to the ever-growing evidence suggesting that chimpanzees can think in the past and the future and that this influences their present behavior," Boesch said.
"These findings are bound to have an impact on our current knowledge about relationships between men and women; and similar studies will determine if the direct nutritional benefits that women receive from hunters in human hunter-gatherer societies could also be driving the relationship between reproductive success and good hunting skills," Gomes
added.
Hey, if it's true for Chimps....
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| 4/10/2009 5:46:34 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
4myheart09
Amherst, VA
age: 46
| <---WILL FIELD ALL QUESTIONS AND SHOOT STRAIGHT FROM THE HIP
News flash sweetheart... we want to f**k before the first date - that's why we asked you out in the first place... we think you're hot and want to see you naked. What, are you new to planet earth?
Men are visual, our initial attraction is superficial and physical... from that point on we want to f**k you. The factor that dictates the direction it will go depends on the physical and emotional connection.
I reiterate, we all want to f**k, why the hell else would we buy you dinner and want to show you a good time? What, we can't eat alone and/or masturbate?
Get a clue - Haley's Comet is less rare than two virgins on their honeymoon night.[ /quote]
I totally agree that men want to f**k before the first date...hence all the questions on the computer what are you wearing what do you like it is like a mental checklist of all he must accomplish before the big finish....that is if you can find a guy to LETS GET THIS PARTY STARTED  |
| 4/12/2009 10:12:40 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
danielmac
Mansfield, TX
age: 20
| Guys want to have sex because it's one of those can i do it things. It's like hey i wonder if she puts out and usually if it happens the guy drops the girl because its not the girl he wants to be with that puts out on the very first date and the reason most people have relationships is because the girl tugs the line for awhile plays the guy around for awhile.
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| 4/12/2009 10:16:03 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
scottt39
Ocean View, HI
age: 47
| The same reason they want it on the second and third dates. Because we want it we we want it!! And thats 24-7.
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| 4/12/2009 10:29:32 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
mschocolate78
Freeport, NY
age: 31
| its bcuz sex isnt as important to men as is us. good sex will determine where a relationship is gonna go anywhere with a man as with us we can spend yrs with a man who doesnt do anything for u sexual. so all in all i beleive u should make the choice if u want 1st nite sex n not worry about the stereotype and just have fun
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| 4/13/2009 4:15:52 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
buttsmaker
Montgomery, IL
age: 66
| It's in our genes to get in to YOUR jeans!!! 
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| 4/13/2009 3:16:43 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
sarah424242
Puyallup, WA
age: 25
| yea but if we give in too easy we are sluts and all you want to do is come cum and go but if we dont put out then we are a tease
I agree , its not a good idea, but sex on the first date, has ended up in a sirius relationship for me.
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| 4/13/2009 3:24:45 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
jrebel
Manly, IA
age: 36
| I go by the belief that women know if they want you or not on the first date, why not try
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| 4/13/2009 5:07:44 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
phoenix52
Milwaukee, WI
age: 57
| Not all men want it on the first date. Or at least, they don't convey it. They may want it, but realize that, in my opinion, the woman that succumbs to my charms (just kidding)on the first date most often did the same to the last and the one before that. Not always, but in general. The second date, well, that's different. And usually it leads to alot more dates. Thankfully!!
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| 4/13/2009 5:22:11 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
candyandy77
Hamilton, OH
age: 32
| Not all men want it on the first date. Or at least, they don't convey it. They may want it, but realize that, in my opinion, the woman that succumbs to my charms (just kidding)on the first date most often did the same to the last and the one before that. Not always, but in general. The second date, well, that's different. And usually it leads to alot more dates. Thankfully!!
I don't think you should have sex even on the second date. I had a guy call me on Sat. and it would have been our second time seeing eachother, he told me he wanted to come over and have sex and I had to tell him no. I need to know someone a little better befor sex is part of the relationship.
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| 4/14/2009 9:57:49 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
poe89
Arnold, MO
age: 20
| i dont i usally want a kiss though if it was a good date
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| 4/15/2009 12:37:29 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
mjw_6230
Louisville, KY
age: 32
| chics kill me with stupid questions. we want to sleep with you before we go on a first date. thats why we hit on you. and thats why we asked you out. now if you are on a first date and he doesnt try to sleep with you in most cases its because hes tryin to respect you and will like to see you again. but just because he does try to sleep with you doesnt mean he doesnt like you. he just wants to sleep with you and probably has no control and is lookin for a story to tell his buddys. and if you dont sleep with him you best believe he has a back up plan. so either way we come out on top. but what bothers me is that women post these sexy pics on here and dress sexy to attract men but then complain when a man comes at them sexually. yall complain if a guy tries to sleep with you too soon but if nobody tries to sleep with you, you wonder whats wrong with you that no guys are hitting on you like that. then all of a sudden he may be gay. which is just a cover up that women use cause they in denial that a man doesnt want them. lol
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| 4/15/2009 3:45:17 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
goodgato
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 45
| The same reason they want it on the second and third dates. Because we want it we we want it!! And thats 24-7.
God Bless You...and I'm not even religious, dude. 
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| 4/15/2009 4:36:10 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
comehither
Houston, TX
age: 38
| Males are typically only after one thing, sex. However, I would hope that women in general, can consider the following in regards to "y" men are typically focused on "sex" from day one:
a. in this nation how many women are focused on their appearance, in other words, how many women want to look the right way, at the right time?
b. in this nation how many women pump up their "b's", to comfort themselves in their appearance, to INCLUDE achieving the attraction they are "after?"
This is just a male perspective, and please consider that men and women have "animal" instincts. Therefore the hotter they are, the more the males are driven to sex. I hope that makes sense. If a large percentage of women are driven to "pump" it up, then guess what, you've created this "issue" yourselves. If you disagree, turn on the television. Women whom advertise, or market "anything" in this nation, tend to have a particular appearance.
I, myself have always preferred a woman whom is naturally attractive. It's just my opinion and what I prefer.
I can only assume, that I'm in big trouble for what I just stated,
so be it, for ladies & gentlemen we all are allowed to have our, shall we say,
opinions 
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| 4/15/2009 6:17:38 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
barbaraajo
Reston, VA
age: 53
| It is because they are men
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| 4/15/2009 6:19:53 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
cob718
Picayune, MS
age: 63
| I don't expect sex on the first date, however I wouldn't necessarily turn it down
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| 4/15/2009 6:20:21 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 36
| Because we paid for everything.
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| 4/15/2009 9:03:59 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
sixfooteightman
Santa Clara, CA
age: 26
| u know i have been on alot of first dates and about 60% of them the guy is always trying to get me in bed and for me i am not like that i dont like to have sex with just any guy who will take me out i want this guy to want to be with me and love me and try and spend a little time with me if he can not use me and then say well it did not work out.... men make me sick when they do that i wish that some day i will find a man who will want me... 4 me not a toy and not a sex buddy.
Sex is intimate, see it as getting really close.
Males are programmed to want to blow their load inside someone, its genetic.
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| 4/15/2009 9:05:02 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
sixfooteightman
Santa Clara, CA
age: 26
| Because we paid for everything.
Damn straight.
Of course I don't pay for expensive drinks until AFTER i've gotten laid.
SUPPORT THE "POST COITAL DRINKS ONLY" MOVEMENT! STOP C*CK TEASES FROM DRAINING WALLETS!
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| 4/15/2009 9:58:22 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
mdd3rd
Miamisburg, OH
age: 38
| personally i do not believe in sex without love,i never understood the mentality of one night stands. wouldnt even those people who do , agree that being in love with the person you are having sex with, is possibly the greatest experience a human being can ever have , its spiritual and physical. but, to each his own, i am not in the business of judging others, for i am not perfect either.
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| 4/15/2009 10:15:21 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
sweetme4u
Hamilton, ON
age: 19
| what's wrong with that? if you don't want it, just say so!
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| 4/15/2009 10:18:36 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
justjelly
Cumberland, KY
age: 31
| immediate gradification .
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| 4/15/2009 11:15:45 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
mjw_6230
Louisville, KY
age: 32
| 
[Edited 4/15/2009 11:16:33 AM PST]
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| 4/16/2009 1:22:19 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
brettsirius
San Diego, CA
age: 31
| are you sending that kind of vibe out? i mean typically if i'm making a move that soon, there has to be some kind of mutual signal that that's where this is all heading, it's not that common to just take a girl out and try to bed her on the 1st date. so what is it you're doing? or is it your taste?
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| 4/16/2009 1:37:27 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
kinkycapitalist
Atlanta, GA
age: 55
| Easy, gets a bad rap. I love easy and I respect it. I will come back over and over again. I am egotistical and foolish enough to believe that she was EASY for me because, I was EASY for her. WOW, what a turn-on it is to have a woman want me. It happented, once. It was the Spring of 81. A Tuesday, as I recall. yeah baby
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| 4/18/2009 3:21:25 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
scottiscool
Mayville, WI
age: 50
| just trying to Propagate the Species...
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| 4/20/2009 6:19:33 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
nicefitguy
Norristown, PA
age: 40
| Some women do too!
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| 4/20/2009 6:29:16 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
rockhill29731
Rock Hill, SC
age: 52
| not all guys do...some men have ways of being friends first..but yes its a good thing after one another knows one another
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| 4/20/2009 6:30:19 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
kalnix
Milford, MA
age: 24
| simple were guys
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| 4/20/2009 7:48:48 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
brockr23
Chandler, AZ
age: 34
| Do you really want the guy that's not even trying to get laid on the first date? Seriously?
Boys, guys, men, whatever name you want to use, want some sex. It is just the way of things.
[Edited 4/20/2009 7:50:08 PM PST]
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| 4/20/2009 8:49:34 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
bowlove
Morristown, TN
age: 29
| 1... we are Animals
2.................You Ladies dress too sexXxy ! ! !
3......................................I've not had good loven in a Long Long time ! ! !
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| 4/20/2009 9:23:02 PM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
goodwithwood
Columbia, KY
age: 53
| Are we supposed to!?!?!? OMG-somebody forgot to tell me!!! Rules people, where are the damn rules? Seriously, I'm not a teenager anymore ( but the right look from across a crowded room can still be all the foreplay I need), sooooo ya ain't gittin' any uh muy 'til ya want sum. Ah kin wate. Besides, anticipation is sosososos sexy!
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| 4/24/2009 5:49:19 AM | y do most guys want to have sex on the first date? | |
bill6675
Butler, PA
age: 43
| Its about respect,Me i never did that.My mother would kill me.
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