| 11/13/2007 8:02:06 AM | hypothetical scenario | |
sampowers420
Statesboro, GA
age: 20
| this can be answered by either guys or girls, but since i'm a guy, i'm going to use the male point of view:
you have a girlfriend who has a guy friend. she likes him only as a friend. he likes her as more than a friend and has told her as much. he invites her over to his house, where it will be just the two of them. how would you feel about that?
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| 11/13/2007 8:09:31 AM | hypothetical scenario | |
skunkbreath
Saint James, MO
age: 89
| No problem!!!!......girls can not be talked into doing something that they have decided not to do, and she has decided to be just friends. If she stays there more than three days you could phone and see if they need food, more movie dvd's, or anything.
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| 11/13/2007 8:11:08 AM | hypothetical scenario | |
klassykitten
Toccoa, GA
age: 51
| Well just open the door and let the fox in the hen house...
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| 11/13/2007 8:12:35 AM | hypothetical scenario | |
sunshinewm
Cleveland, TN
age: 44
| Hmm wouldn't feel comfortable with that at all. I see Red Flags!!! So if they are just 'friends" then you should be able to go with her right? If something doesn't seem right......it probably isn't. Jmo. Good luck
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| 11/13/2007 8:14:54 AM | hypothetical scenario | |
monroe67
Hendersonville, TN
age: 67
| oops sorry ~ wrong time for this
[Edited 11/13/2007 8:25:09 AM]
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| 11/13/2007 8:18:07 AM | hypothetical scenario | |
explorer11
Rolla, MO
age: 62
| I agree with skunk... turn it loose if it comes back..??...
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| 11/13/2007 8:20:37 AM | hypothetical scenario | |
skunkbreath
Saint James, MO
age: 89
| monro-, "I bet you did not know I was a Painter" lol
funny!,,,,off topic, but close enough!!!!..funny!!
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| 11/13/2007 8:22:17 AM | hypothetical scenario | |
norah01
Anchorage, AK
age: 49
| as usual Skunk breath speaks with wisdom!
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| 11/13/2007 8:26:02 AM | hypothetical scenario | |
pecanbrown61
Sharon Hill, PA
age: 47
| ...he's told her he likes her as more than a friend-and she's told you this info...yet she still goes over to his house....
this is her- ...this should be you-::
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| 11/13/2007 8:51:14 AM | hypothetical scenario | |
sampowers420
Statesboro, GA
age: 20
| well let's suppose that you aren't in the area to go with her, but she has invited you over to his house before.
[Edited 11/13/2007 8:51:31 AM]
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| 11/13/2007 9:07:33 AM | hypothetical scenario | |
ladykathryn0414
Denison, IA
age: 30
| I've actually been in this situation before. My ex and I are still friends... he wants to make it a go again... but I don't think so.. we see each other once a year (he lives couple hours away),,, anyways.. My boyfriend at the time was okay with me seeing my friend, becuase we had an open communication and trust. He knew I wasn't gonna do anything stupid to jeapordize the relationship. The more important thing to ask would be do you trust her? I think it is possible to have friends that are opposite sex even if one does want something with the other. Its more of a matter of trust and how much the relationship means to each person. If she values the relationship she won't cross the line.
Like someone said, if you love it let it go, if it comes back to ya....
You can't automatically say "I don't want you seeing this person" unless there is some reason to warrant it. Just because you know the other wants to jump her bones.. doens't mean it will happean. To say no now is premature and contoling. I don't know JMO. I would feel like a guy was controlling me if he said no this soon. We are after all our own person.
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| 11/13/2007 9:08:00 AM | hypothetical scenario | |
pallyboy
Ramona, CA
age: 48
| People are allowed to be friends with members of the opposite sex,..really! If you can't trust her, or if she can't trust you when you are with friends, no matter how that friend feels, then where is that relationship going to go? Trust is paramount in a relationship. You have to believe in and trust your "other" that you are the number one person in their life.
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| 11/13/2007 9:09:46 AM | hypothetical scenario | |
ladykathryn0414
Denison, IA
age: 30
| sam:
if she has invited you to go with.. then that is a clear sign that nothing is going on.. I would think anyways.
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| 11/13/2007 9:11:17 AM | hypothetical scenario | |
eroticartist
White Plains, NY
age: 49
| regardless if you trust her or not...will you let her be with someone who's always hitting on her??
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| 11/13/2007 9:12:13 AM | hypothetical scenario | |
elfiegirl
Port Charlotte, FL
age: 54
| Are you able to talk with this guy? You might want to.
I don't know...I have a couple REAL good guy friends, 24+ yrs.,
but there is no way in hell I would ever mess with them.
Just can't and don't EVEN think of them like that!
If they ever told me stuff like that, I would tell them to
"get real" cut the crap, and slug them in the arm...hard!
But that's just me. I am older, and I know better.
Heck I have told guys that I dated, that I have some good friends,
I don't ever mess with them...so get that straight, and if you don't
like it, well, don't make me choose, cuz you will lose. My friends
are for life. They can either accept it, and believe it, or hit the road! JMO
[Edited 11/13/2007 9:13:18 AM]
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