| 4/12/2009 5:40:43 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | | 
mismatch
Cleveland, TN
age: 53
| all of the guys you've been with have done that? that just isn't right  sex should be a LOT more FUN!!
tell him how you feel and what you like/need...maybe he thinks you're satisfied if you haven't said anything...
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| 4/12/2009 6:22:24 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
weiszed
Huntsville, AL
age: 21
| It takes more effort for a guy to finish twice in a row than a woman. If you notice all these guys that list 5 times in a row or whatever all lasted hours. I dunno, sex is fun but not THAT fun. I'd rather go at it again later in the day or tomorrow instead of having ridiculous marathons. It gets raw. I'd say a girl can finish 2 or 3 times for a guy's one depending on his stamina so unless you're aiming to climax 20 times I'm not really sure what you're after. Maybe it's porno's fault for changing scenes after the guy's done? 
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| 4/12/2009 8:50:04 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
ladyog
The Dalles, OR
age: 54
| Cause I wore their a** out....thats why....
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| 4/13/2009 4:04:29 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
horsepassion
Altura, MN
age: 40
| Good thouts mismatch. Yeah they have all been the same... Good people. I just had no idea that it was possible to keep going. I am not looking for multiple on my part, just enough time for one. On the up side of this it gives me more time to do other things, and it sounds like I have a lot more to look forward to in bed. I am good at forplay. Maybe too good...
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| 4/13/2009 4:18:18 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
buttsmaker
Montgomery, IL
age: 66
| You have to make some allowances because of advanced age!!!   
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| 4/13/2009 4:19:45 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
mcloven28
Omaha, NE
age: 30
| WOW look at that hat
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| 4/13/2009 6:59:36 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
wendirayne
La Place, LA
age: 26
| i HATE that...... a few years ago i was actually engaged to a guy who would roll over and go to sleep after he climaxed...... he was lazy and never wanted to help me get mine...... needless to say that relationship is OVER................... but its ok, i've got a real man now....
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| 4/13/2009 8:27:34 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
flowerse
Bon Wier, TX
age: 46
| its a magical switch that god put in us,but i stay with it because i want to also satisfy my partner.do you like oral
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| 4/13/2009 10:29:40 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
wantsaman
Bakersfield, CA
age: 33
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lmao 
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| 4/13/2009 1:06:00 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
edgeofsandias
Placitas, NM
age: 41
| I like the foreplay, wear you out before I enter
and when finished just linger inside you till you push away
or untill you wake up and ask for more
either way, what is it you do in return?
or is it all about you?
Nice sensitive observation here. Concentrate on foreplay. This is where the first of my orgasms start. Think about giving pleasure first. The benefits of thinking of it this way are enormous! I can cum just from giving my man pleasure.
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| 4/13/2009 1:25:35 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
miamiflava
Aurora, CO
age: 33
| it not done at that point that is when the fun starts, especially if she get hers enough times before i get my one. I would love it if my lady keeps going cause i stay up until i pull out. Any way that is just me
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| 4/13/2009 1:44:50 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
sandra49ok
Shelton, WA
age: 50
| it doesnt sound selfish to me that you are tired of not getting satified it would be very frustrating to me also your guy sounds like a lazy lover or selfish
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| 4/13/2009 2:22:25 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
mangondracon
Magdalena, NM
age: 36
| Sounds like they don't know how to satisfy there partner or are selfish. JMO
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| 4/13/2009 2:26:50 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
horsepassion
Altura, MN
age: 40
| I do like oral... Maybe more time spent there.
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| 4/13/2009 3:07:36 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
jrebel
Manly, IA
age: 36
| guys are like dogs, we can learn how to sit, beg and rollover but learning to do it again is very hard just not imposible"just my opinion"
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| 4/14/2009 6:00:46 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
ryan1976
Wilmington, DE
age: 33
| Nice guys finish last. Because women hate it when guys finish first and fall asleep.
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| 4/14/2009 7:58:54 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
bbw46reader
Frederick, MD
age: 47
| Guide to Multible Male Orgasms
Orgasm and ejaculation are not the same thing.
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| 4/14/2009 8:02:41 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
goodgato
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 45
| Hey, it's New Lover Time! lol
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| 4/15/2009 12:09:51 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
drummaster777
Auburn, WA
age: 34
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Hmm....
*tagged for later*
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| 4/15/2009 12:25:00 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
mjw_6230
Louisville, KY
age: 32
| because it is ova. either come when i come or come 2ma. that simple. a man is only suppose to last 3 min anyway. anything more than that is a bonus.
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| 4/15/2009 12:25:53 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
mjw_6230
Louisville, KY
age: 32
| im gettin to old to be tryin to last all night. nut and lets go to bed.
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| 4/15/2009 12:28:31 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
bbg75
Houston, TX
age: 34
| You got to make hee get off a few times then you get yours and that's it. If it is just aone night stand does it really matter if she gets off? 
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| 4/15/2009 12:31:23 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
khamiltonzero
Henryville, PA
age: 21
| all you have to do is concentrate on pleasing her first(in your mind)... then you won't nut because all (your body) wants to do is make sure she feels good first..(make her cum) atleast a few times... then go ahead and let yourself go...
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| 4/15/2009 1:58:43 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
barbaraajo
Reston, VA
age: 53
| Because that is the best part!!!
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| 4/15/2009 2:17:21 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
porkchop24
Pryor, OK
age: 22
| because by then we can barely move
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| 4/15/2009 3:33:23 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
goodgato
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 45
| because by then we can barely move
But then, after you get like 5 minutes to catch your breath and she brings you some water or Red Bull and you use the bathroom...it's back in the ring again, right?
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| 4/15/2009 4:36:18 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
nc_male
Denver, NC
age: 60
| well let me say a couple of things about this i'm the type of guy that will not come until i make sure she has come first and only then would i come it is very selfish to not please the lady thats what i think about it maybe i'm wrong but thats the way it should be thanks.
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| 4/15/2009 6:25:43 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
nitecaller
Edmonton, AB
age: 47
| not to brag well ok ill brag i have different standards then most guys out there first even if i do pop my cork i keep going till i feel the female walls grip my shaft and see that look all femals get as they are haven their climax you know the one where your eyes roll the breathing is tighten and if a guy is good enough he can feel her cum pushing out onto his sack of course theres toy play food & ice play to keep the night alive and moveing
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| 4/15/2009 6:32:06 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
roadking77
Montrose, MI
age: 50
| there are many different things both can do to keep the mood going
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| 4/15/2009 7:07:27 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
handyman4020006
Winthrop Harbor, IL
age: 45
| ok i have to comment on this myself i make shure shes done before me everytime them i know shes satisfied and the only problem with that is if u want to get rid of them u cant
thair in lust or luv or what ever then thair mad because know they know that your new girl is getting something thats hard to find and then they try to come back
and if u dont let that happen they try to cause u problems
i always wondered why they always wanna come back after its to latby then they realize they had the best and then thair more pissed when they know they f---ed up
so all u women that have been deprived of this message me lol
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| 4/15/2009 7:10:47 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
kirbybme
Virginia Beach, VA
age: 24
| I normally go down on a chick to make her climax b4 penetration...been told it's more stimulating to them...no complaints yet.
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| 4/15/2009 8:22:24 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
justjelly
Cumberland, KY
age: 31
| seems like from my experience it drains all life from there limp bodies and then you gfotta lay there and wait untill they get enough strengh to climb off you lol ,but what is really good is when there ready for round two .
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| 4/15/2009 8:29:12 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
meufriend2
Hemlock, MI
age: 38
| seems like from my experience it drains all life from there limp bodies and then you gfotta lay there and wait untill they get enough strengh to climb off you lol ,but what is really good is when there ready for round two .
i agree. help me get ready. and its on. at least two more times
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| 4/15/2009 10:38:05 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
dchoyt82
Rumford, ME
age: 27
| Its like there is a trigger after we ejaculate we get tired and wanna sleep or relax....
Once in awhile We have the ambition and motivation to go again probabaly within 10-20 mins guess it depends on the women as well....
You want an honest answer you got it..
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| 4/16/2009 8:30:02 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
justmysay
Wichita, KS
age: 39
| Cause they can't handle it.. No, No... it's a two way street... I would totally be turned off... if my partner rolled over.. (that would be it for the sex) If you can't last I won't stay it's give give not give take n roll... My guy would have to be able to handle satisfying me as well...I'm just sayin.... LOL...
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| 4/16/2009 8:46:44 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
kinkycapitalist
Atlanta, GA
age: 55
| Because of the telltale sign of sperm oozing out of various orifaces?
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| 4/16/2009 10:23:29 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
swfseekingswm
Durant, OK
age: 36
| I have only been with a few (6)... So far they have all been done when they are done. From what I am reading there can be many climaxes in a session. Why are some people so limited? And what is your max number?
Well...I've had a few more than you...and no, you're not getting a number...lol...
I find that I orgasm more when I know that they have...
and it doesn't bother me if they are done after....
the best sex that I've ever had-after his climax....he fell asleep holding my tit....
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| 4/16/2009 10:27:17 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
preston1981
Festus, MO
age: 28
| Iam not I like to keep going and going if she is into it of course
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| 4/16/2009 2:03:14 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
nitecaller
Edmonton, AB
age: 47
| Because it is. 
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| 4/24/2009 10:03:15 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
itz_bronx
Bronx, NY
age: 24
| Some times what I do is if iam done before she is I cant leave her like that, Ill most likely finish her off with some oral and work some magic with my fingers.
[Edited 4/24/2009 10:04:36 AM PST]
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| 4/24/2009 10:07:44 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 36
| Because men do all the work in dating and sex.
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| 4/24/2009 10:12:35 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
edgeofsandias
Placitas, NM
age: 41
| Because men do all the work in dating and sex.
Not True! Well, at least not with me!
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| 4/24/2009 10:23:27 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
rjpoetic
Sioux City, IA
age: 38
| Wow so im glad I am not in a lot of your beds!! Granted I was with the same woman the last 8 years but I preferred to get her going first with playtime making her come before "we" really started. It was great she kept at LEAST a 2-1 ratio on me for years.
This question is crazy to me actually, why would you want to half step on something so FUN!!! 
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| 4/24/2009 10:37:47 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
awsumlover69
Corpus Christi, TX
age: 49
| Just glad U said "some guys"..hell I'm just getting started after the first one..and I never let a lady only cum once..that would just not be right !! Kiss kiss Lick...
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| 4/24/2009 10:57:00 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
shygirl1121
Raleigh, NC
age: 39
| one word selfish You are right on, because they only think about theirself.
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| 4/24/2009 10:59:51 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
bowlove
Morristown, TN
age: 29
| I gotta catch my breath ...then we can go again...
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| 4/24/2009 3:59:09 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
lsl2
Anderson, SC
age: 38
| sweetie, it's not about quanity, it's about Quality.....lol
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| 4/24/2009 4:19:56 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
steve5701
Alexandria, IN
age: 51
| I can't give you an answer as for myself even afterwards,I am still ready to give the woman more,if she wants it. And i guess it also depends on how mush you are into the person also.
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| 4/24/2009 8:37:44 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
4benjii4
Merced, CA
age: 53
| so the wives can go shopping
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| 4/24/2009 10:30:44 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
swift_t333
Apple Valley, CA
age: 36
| It's natural for a guy to feel relaxed after he comes, why try to stress him out with demands right away? Let him enjoy the afterglow, maybe massage his back while he recovers for round #(Fill in the blank). Maybe get up and bring a warm washcloth to wash him off so he feels refreshed, and why not bring some water or a Red Bull? (Hydration is energizing!) I can't imagine approaching sex with this counting mindset...it's tactile, sensual, tantric, blissful...the more pleasure you give, the more you get. It's just that simple. Focus on the giving and this "number of orgasms" thing will disappear; you'll both be feeling too good to be thinking about it.(goodgato Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 44)
Ya'll Better start taking notes....Professional in the house.! Id Knock her out the box all day & night ,(24/7).
[Edited 4/24/2009 10:34:57 PM PST]
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| 4/24/2009 10:40:57 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
ericjames85
Borrego Springs, CA
age: 24
| girl I do't stop when it stops I go until you stop!! I love to go down and I will go down until day break!!
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| 4/24/2009 10:52:32 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 43
| Because that's the guys mindset. Get a nut out and then get the nut out. Most guys don't develop their foreplay, sexual stamina or their afterplay or pillow talk skills.
A male orgasm expends a lot of energy and sometimes takes a lot of energy to achieve. And then there is usually a refractory period immediately following an orgasm. Some guys can recover quicker than others.
It's amazing to me how deprived some women feel after they've had sex. I mean if you can't tell if you've had an orgasm or if there is a creepy crawly bug on your skin knocking boots with your guy then something is seriously wrong...
Kegels and breathing men. Works wonders...
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| 4/26/2009 11:04:42 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
tataman
Jacksonville, FL
age: 41
| It's natural for a guy to feel relaxed after he comes, why try to stress him out with demands right away? Let him enjoy the afterglow, maybe massage his back while he recovers for round #(Fill in the blank). Maybe get up and bring a warm washcloth to wash him off so he feels refreshed, and why not bring some water or a Red Bull? (Hydration is energizing!) I can't imagine approaching sex with this counting mindset...it's tactile, sensual, tantric, blissful...the more pleasure you give, the more you get. It's just that simple. Focus on the giving and this "number of orgasms" thing will disappear; you'll both be feeling too good to be thinking about it. 
very good prospective my dear.....
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| 4/26/2009 11:54:12 AM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
youchoose1
Jacksonville, FL
age: 37
| It's not over as long as you can reload the luv-gun again. Just be creative.
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| 4/26/2009 1:54:44 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
firstquarter
Freeport, NY
age: 32
| well all men are different but its not over for me
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| 4/26/2009 2:08:07 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
luckyjax
San Antonio, TX
age: 45
| To the guy that state's 13 times in one hour .please till me what kind of drug are .you on I am Italian we cant do that .It's all about pace you dont even have to bust one and still go think pace Badda bing
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| 4/26/2009 2:50:47 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
beverduster
Chandler, OK
age: 64
| its been that way ever since they invented bob
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| 4/26/2009 10:05:31 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
ryan445
Fargo, ND
age: 37
| sweet.. another hate thread posing as a sex thread..the comeback to every male post on here is either:
1.) because all men are jerks
2.) that's what they all say
some would say I'm generalizing.. but that's what they all say
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| 4/26/2009 11:00:46 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
exploryourdream
Dundee, NY
age: 53
| i belive if thay think it the end after that climax ther think more of them all great to that time and no i belive in if your tuley in love or may just be dateing ther so much more loveing a woman and not say well i throw are you enjoy the love of your life to me i cuddle and love her so much be on ther no set time but to me most of these men that figher it over are thinking only of ther self and that wroung in every way   show her you ture felling of love .
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| 4/26/2009 11:03:15 PM | Why do some guys think its done as soon as they climax? | |
xsoundedmindx
Williston, SC
age: 27
| Psh I don't care either way. If I got to finish myself with him laying right there all exhausted I go at it. I NEVER not get mine!
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