Why did you leave your last mate?

4/18/2009 7:35:37 AM	Why did you leave your last mate?
jennyann71 Clarksville, AR age: 69	Or do you leave often?
4/18/2009 11:03:42 AM	Why did you leave your last mate?
ok1954 Okmulgee, OK age: 55	I grew up, he didn't. Has now, 25 years later. Couldn't wait that long. lol
4/18/2009 1:14:03 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
huntingyounow Searcy, AR age: 68	HAD TO TAKE CARE OF MY MOTHER AND I WOULD DO IT AGAIN. WE ONLY HAVE ONE MOTHER. NOW HUNTING NEW FRIENDS AND PERHAPS MORE.
4/18/2009 10:20:06 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
sassynstrong Mena, AR age: 49	cause after 9 years he couldn't remember what color my eyes were
4/19/2009 11:18:27 AM	Why did you leave your last mate?
waterlilly77200 Broaddus, TX age: 61	Thirty- seven yearas of physical and mental abuse.
4/19/2009 11:53:49 AM	Why did you leave your last mate?
arkielady Austin, AR age: 71	Sorry, some things I do not share with the public.
4/19/2009 12:14:22 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
angelfish1956 Benton, AR age: 53	I didn't. He walked out on me about 3 1/2 years ago. Guess he found more satisfaction in chasing women at an online Mexican dating site . I could change a lot of things, but ethnicity wasn't one of them.
4/19/2009 8:15:42 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
arkbb Jacksonville, AR age: 52	One time, after 20 years. Everyone in town knows why. That's enough!
4/19/2009 11:13:51 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
waterlilly147 Pocahontas, AR age: 64	HE left me,he died.
4/20/2009 7:34:08 AM	Why did you leave your last mate?
aboomer Hot Springs National Park, AR age: 52	What an asinine question!!!!!!!!!!!!
4/25/2009 2:47:41 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
rebeccatx Springtown, TX age: 53	He left me... he died from a rare cancer.
4/26/2009 1:32:08 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
xxxlibra75xxx Gateway, AR age: 34	I was in the process of leavin' cuz of her her drug habit, but she died before I had the chance to leave.
4/28/2009 11:19:12 AM	Why did you leave your last mate?
ggglove Minneapolis, MN age: 48	why he was a dog .s.e lie lot sleep with any one
5/17/2009 8:44:37 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
angeleyes8485 Grannis, AR age: 22	Cause he cheated on me with a fat ugly b*tch for drugs, and he's physically abused me
5/18/2009 5:42:24 AM	Why did you leave your last mate?
bloodydemon222 Pine Bluff, AR age: 23	i dont really know why she left me. I had plenty of reasons to leave her like the fact she chased me with knives, but i love her and wouldnt leave. kept thinkin she would change or somethin since she said she loved me. Now I know it was all a lie. its been 6 months and i still love her and havent even been with anybody since her. shes done hooked with about 4 ppl since we broke up, but oh well, i know im not a slut.
5/18/2009 8:41:27 AM	Why did you leave your last mate?
bgarrett Drasco, AR age: 59	Quote from angelfish1956: I didn't. He walked out on me about 3 1/2 years ago. Guess he found more satisfaction in chasing women at an online Mexican dating site . I could change a lot of things, but ethnicity wasn't one of them. There are online Mexican dating sites? Where?? (I never left my wife)
5/19/2009 6:23:05 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
kd8hho Anderson, IN age: 27	mine died 2001 aint been with anyone since.
5/19/2009 7:22:20 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
jbck Springdale, AR age: 54	She was an ahole, bad sex, and didn't swallow! She didn't understand me! She didn't do my bidding! She didn't work her a off to support my bad habits! What good was she? None. Point is, what good were YOU? This is a stupid thread. Boring and assinine! Silly. Really. If you want something go do something new and quit languishing over your failures. Pointless! Rediculous! Gimme and the rest of the world a break and maybe someone can do something new! Maybe even you, maybe for you. There are fat girls on here now and I favor them. Whooohooo. They's good! Meaningful....who knows....Boomer might even get a date! If he does I might get seconds from her friends and get lucky too. Never know? Ladies, get off yer high horses and see men as men and women as women, know we are different and take what is left or at least freely given. That's all we have and if it ain't good enough you will grow into an old maid, bitter because you didn't get your way. It's a two way street. If your ex was a druggie or alcoholic or some other such thing, why the hell did you get involved in the first place? You nuts or what? I sympathize but don't understand. I been drinking....."In vino veritas", "In wine is the truth". Go figure...........when is the last time somebody told you the truth?
5/20/2009 8:56:47 AM	Why did you leave your last mate?
dyezah North Little Rock, AR age: 38	He was a fantastic person that ended up being a control freak. I am not controlled well & clashed head on. I'm muy happier where I am now than where he & I were.
5/20/2009 4:12:10 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
cinnimini Bentonville, AR age: 40	Quote from jbck: There are fat girls on here now and I favor them. Whooohooo. They's good! Meaningful....who knows....Boomer might even get a date! If he does I might get seconds from her friends and get lucky too.
5/20/2009 8:18:05 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
bgarrett Drasco, AR age: 59	Quote from jbck: . If your ex was a druggie or alcoholic or some other such thing, why the hell did you get involved in the first Most of your posts are those of an intelligent person and I enjoy them. To answer your question, She started shooting crystal methamphetamines and acting crazy 5 years after we married. Even then I didnt know the cause of her craziness until a year later after she left and divorced me. I was informed by someone else. I had NO IDEA.
5/21/2009 6:07:37 AM	Why did you leave your last mate?
jbck Springdale, AR age: 54	Drugs are very bad. I have a friend who's son took something a couple years ago and it is just now causing some kind of brain damage according to the doctors. He has no attention span or short term memory and it is getting worse. I have known some people that were hooked on meth through my work. I pity them greatly. It is such a tragedy to see healthy people go totally to crap in a pretty short time over it. It is a terrible and destructive thing. You have my understanding and sympathy.
6/1/2009 9:45:32 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
burnkitty Fayetteville, AR age: 34	Left me over a petty fight she picked on Christmas night, after the exchanging of gifts. She wanted to get back together after that. I didn't. End of line.
6/6/2009 4:36:47 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
shysenior Conway, AR age: 60	After nearly 20 years of a very loving life, he died very suddenly.
6/6/2009 10:09:29 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
kcchiefsfan13 Fayetteville, AR age: 44	My ex left me at least emotionaly, she had several affairs during our 19 years together, I guess she just couldn't be happy with what she had. She was always looking for something better or more exciting. Well I always forgave her and took her back because I believe that marriage is until death do you part and you work the rest out. However the last guy she met wanted her as much as she wanted him or so she said and I moved out because she refused too do anything too fix the situation. I think your spouse should come first and if they dont then you have a major problem that is going too end your marriage, and it takes two to fix it.
6/6/2009 11:36:00 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
aboomer Hot Springs National Park, AR age: 52	Quote from kcchiefsfan13: My ex left me at least emotionaly, she had several affairs during our 19 years together, I guess she just couldn't be happy with what she had. She was always looking for something better or more exciting. Well I always forgave her and took her back because I believe that marriage is until death do you part and you work the rest out. However the last guy she met wanted her as much as she wanted him or so she said and I moved out because she refused too do anything too fix the situation. I think your spouse should come first and if they dont then you have a major problem that is going too end your marriage, and it takes two to fix it. After the first time your ex started screwing around........YOU.....no longer had a marriage!!!!!! Maybe by now you've come to realize that. Don't fret. As it takes two to make a marriage; It only takes one to ruin it. People dislike change so they try to tell themselves that things will work out if they only hang around long enough. NOT!!!!! Be happy you don't have to worry about some drunk stud beating on your door looking for his wayward girlfriend(Your wife?). Doesn't matter to me what the sex of the offender is. If their stupid enough to violate their promise to you and to themself, then they won't ever be trust worthy no matter how long you wait and hope!!! Too many out there looking to hope that the one you're hooked to will change. JMO.
6/7/2009 11:15:57 AM	Why did you leave your last mate?
jbck Springdale, AR age: 54	Quote from bloodydemon222: i dont really know why she left me. I had plenty of reasons to leave her like the fact she chased me with knives, but i love her and wouldnt leave. kept thinkin she would change or somethin since she said she loved me. Now I know it was all a lie. its been 6 months and i still love her and havent even been with anybody since her. shes done hooked with about 4 ppl since we broke up, but oh well, i know im not a slut. Mistake Boomie Boy. Be a slut. But a nice one.
6/14/2009 4:06:33 AM	Why did you leave your last mate?
groundedconcept Anderson, MO age: 29	because she turned into a cheating meth junkie!
7/1/2009 6:59:11 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
bcturner Jacksonville, AR age: 27	Because she asked me to pay for her to get implants, and like an idiot i did. I left to iraq 5 months later and she started sleeping with several people, got on meth, and became a stripper by the time i got back. didn't figure it was really worth sticking around after that
7/1/2009 7:24:09 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
jbck Springdale, AR age: 54	Quote from bcturner: Because she asked me to pay for her to get implants, and like an idiot i did. I left to iraq 5 months later and she started sleeping with several people, got on meth, and became a stripper by the time i got back. didn't figure it was really worth sticking around after that What a freaking mess. You paid for it and didn't get any of it? Well, as an old soldier all I can say is "Jody got your Cadillac, and I ain't coming back...one, two, three, four, I aint' gonna do no more...sound off, one-two, soung off- three four." Etc.
7/2/2009 1:44:46 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
buckethead4242 Reyno, AR age: 66	Quote from jbck: What a freaking mess. You paid for it and didn't get any of it? Well, as an old soldier all I can say is "Jody got your Cadillac, and I ain't coming back...one, two, three, four, I aint' gonna do no more...sound off, one-two, soung off- three four." Etc. Hey !!!!! somebody ""Hook"" me up with all of these ((Crack Heads))))) LMAO damn ((LOL))) ""You want the Truth""?? You cant handle the Truth !!!!!! LMBFAO !!!!!!!!!!!! you people are way to serious about this !!!!!!! You will get Lucky one day, ((Just keep going to the Free Clinic ))) Happy 4th buckethead
7/2/2009 8:12:32 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
hellodollie Little Rock, AR age: 42	He was swapping car repairs and yard cuts for sex! When I found out I ran!
7/2/2009 9:20:15 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
jbck Springdale, AR age: 54	Such a whiney thread, get real.
7/3/2009 5:46:13 AM	Why did you leave your last mate?
buckethead4242 Reyno, AR age: 66	Quote from hellodollie: He was swapping car repairs and yard cuts for sex! When I found out I ran! I wish I knew where all of these guy's got all of the ""extra Sex""" at damn I got divorced for a lot less than that, ((LMBFAO))) one of the reasons my exwife put down when she filed for the divorce was that I never paid any attention to her !!!! I forgot what the other ones were !!!!! well all you other ""Loney Hearts"" out there have a great 4th of July, someone needs to start another thread!!!! ""How Many People Would Remarry After Your Divorce"" ???????????? I would like to post on that one and the answer is !!!!!! (((NOT MANY )))) Dont feel so bad, all of you other ""Lost Souls""" you are not alone ((LOL))) I love this thread !!! buckethead [Edited 7/3/2009 5:48:19 AM PST]
7/13/2009 3:34:59 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
alkoa1974 Bryant, AR age: 49	kcchiefsfan, I should have married you! Well, except we're both men, so never mind that. But I sure could have used some forgiveness. I didn't do anything nearly as bad as have even one affair, and my sinless Baptist wife of 28 years threw me out. "I think it's about forgiveness" as Don Henley said, but she didnt seem to agree.
7/21/2009 7:30:46 AM	Why did you leave your last mate?
cinnimini Bentonville, AR age: 40	I really try to think about it as little as possible. I try to only look forward. Some things still haunt me but I'm working on only looking forward. Divorce is the most life-changing, painful thing I have ever been through. And I've been through some f-ed up stuff.
7/26/2009 5:03:53 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
razorbacksrule El Dorado, AR age: 37	Recon we were to young and immature!!!It's been about 15 years since I divorced,really ready to give it one more shot,but no big hurry.
7/26/2009 7:40:19 PM	Why did you leave your last mate?
jbck Springdale, AR age: 54	Quote from razorbacksrule: Recon we were to young and immature!!!It's been about 15 years since I divorced,really ready to give it one more shot,but no big hurry. There you go! Finally a rational response. Emotions can be irrational and those are fully expressed in earlier postings to this thread. It proves there are more than two sides to every issue. In divorce there are at least three. You, them, and the judge. Want four? Throw in the kids. Five or six? Add your extended families. Seven? What about medicaid and WIC? Eight? The rest of us still dwelling on this. Nine? You still reading it!