| 4/22/2009 1:06:08 PM | ladies only please need some advice | | kazper23
Summerville, GA
age: 23
| look got this girl that makes me feel things ive never felt before,and it kinda scares me because i want to show and tell her what it is that she does to me,i want her to be my girl,but im not sure how she feels about me or how to tell her i need all the advice i can from everyone girls just tell me how to im wanting advice or words of wisdom please
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| 4/22/2009 1:15:28 PM | ladies only please need some advice | |
b4urgone
Sherbrooke, NS
age: 41
| Try telling her how you feel......
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| 4/22/2009 1:17:51 PM | ladies only please need some advice | |
firstlight
Strasburg, VA
age: 49
| What is your relationship with her now?
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| 4/22/2009 1:19:51 PM | ladies only please need some advice | |
goodgato
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 45
| How long have you been seeing her?
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| 4/22/2009 1:22:37 PM | ladies only please need some advice | |
neo_52
Marathon, FL
age: 53
| I was once 22 and I can almost remember what it was like .
But ,since you only want advice from ladies ,I'm not about to
recommend what you might want to take into consideration ...
Forget it ,I ain't sayin' a word .
Oh ,good luck ,youngin'
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| 4/22/2009 4:07:04 PM | ladies only please need some advice | |
awakeing
Walled Lake, MI
age: 37
| And here men are always accusing women of wanting them to be
mind readers....why not just tell her the way you told us...
You make me feel things I've never felt before, I want you in my life.
See how simple it is. If she feels for you too man that will
make her heart melt for you.
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| 4/22/2009 4:27:03 PM | ladies only please need some advice | |
angelleyess
Middleboro, MA
age: 37
| well it depends on how long you have been seeing this girl
if it's really new DON'T SCARE her away by acting all gaga to fast and what ever you do dont tell her you love her YET. if she really likes you, she will call you everyday, tell you she misses you, want to talk and see you all the time.
try talking to her depending on where you are in the relationship or is it yet?
this is hard not knowing how long you have known her because time is everything when asking for this kind of advice
just tell her that she is beautiful, you love her smell,she makes you smile when you think of her and I think she will catch on and if she is acting the same way then you know she feels the same..
good luck
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| 4/22/2009 4:54:05 PM | ladies only please need some advice | |
barbaraajo
Reston, VA
age: 53
| Tell her how you feel.
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| 4/22/2009 6:04:36 PM | ladies only please need some advice | |
sensual_latin
Pleasanton, CA
age: 43
| How cute.. love at 22 awwwwwe nothing like young love
My advice?
Most women tend to send signals, specially at that age.
If this young lady has giving you the "green" light, then tell her right away.. green light don't stay on for ever.
If she's given you the "yellow" light.. she's probably wanting for you to make the first move and she can go either way (if you tell her or not, she'll be ok)
If she's given you the "red" light.. then is up to you to tell her how you feel but most likely she'll turn you down and you'll get hurt... (you'll get over it)
Definition:
Green Light = She flirts with you and she's always available for you when you call her or ask her out.
Yellow light = She's ok whether you call her or not and she works around your schedule to talk to you or go out with you.
Red Light = She's always busy or in a hurry when you call her or when you ask her out, she talks about how hot other guys are and have told you she only wants to be friends.
Good Luck!
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| 4/22/2009 6:19:27 PM | ladies only please need some advice | |
wiilnotgiveup
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 45
| puppy love thats so cute, first take off that batman tee shirt, change your underoo's and walk back to McDonald's where you saw her, And just ask her out, your a kid ..if she says no, just hang there all day, And play video games, 
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| 4/22/2009 6:21:04 PM | ladies only please need some advice | |
in_doubtalishis
Beaumont, CA
age: 34
| Did she make you get your first boner?
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| 4/22/2009 6:22:44 PM | ladies only please need some advice | |
th3realdeal
Aurora, OH
age: 34
|  phuck her good buddy
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| 4/22/2009 6:50:52 PM | ladies only please need some advice | |
kazper23
Summerville, GA
age: 23
| How cute.. love at 22 awwwwwe nothing like young love
My advice?
Most women tend to send signals, specially at that age.
If this young lady has giving you the "green" light, then tell her right away.. green light don't stay on for ever.
If she's given you the "yellow" light.. she's probably wanting for you to make the first move and she can go either way (if you tell her or not, she'll be ok)
If she's given you the "red" light.. then is up to you to tell her how you feel but most likely she'll turn you down and you'll get hurt... (you'll get over it)
Definition:
Green Light = She flirts with you and she's always available for you when you call her or ask her out.
Yellow light = She's ok whether you call her or not and she works around your schedule to talk to you or go out with you.
Red Light = She's always busy or in a hurry when you call her or when you ask her out, she talks about how hot other guys are and have told you she only wants to be friends.
thanks for putting it that way,it helped alittle but i guess ill just have to c but keep the advice
Good Luck!
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| 4/22/2009 6:54:28 PM | ladies only please need some advice | |
tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55
| look got this girl that makes me feel things ive never felt before,and it kinda scares me because i want to show and tell her what it is that she does to me,i want her to be my girl,but im not sure how she feels about me or how to tell her i need all the advice i can from everyone girls just tell me how to im wanting advice or words of wisdom please
if you have these feelings for a girl, why in the world are you on a dating site?
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| 4/22/2009 7:04:18 PM | ladies only please need some advice | |
kazper23
Summerville, GA
age: 23
| cause ive got some friends on here and get some good advice
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| 4/23/2009 6:41:55 AM | ladies only please need some advice | |
sweet_li
Orlando, FL
age: 44
| what b4urgone and awakening said.
communication is the KEY!  so, just be honest with her and tell her what you just told us. if she has any feelings for you at all, she will be so flattered and relieved that you trusted her enough to be open about your feelings towards her!
good luck and let us know how everything goes, okay? 
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| 4/23/2009 6:47:01 AM | ladies only please need some advice | |
mskitty57
Tucson, AZ
age: 59
| Be real to her..it's nothing to be shy about.
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| 4/23/2009 8:00:57 AM | ladies only please need some advice | |
kazper23
Summerville, GA
age: 23
| thanks for the good advice from the ladies maybe i'll beable to spit it out i guess ill try to tell he sat,so just wish me luck
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| 4/23/2009 8:19:31 AM | ladies only please need some advice | |
rrrsmile
York, PA
age: 46
| look got this girl that makes me feel things ive never felt before,and it kinda scares me because i want to show and tell her what it is that she does to me,i want her to be my girl,but im not sure how she feels about me or how to tell her i need all the advice i can from everyone girls just tell me how to im wanting advice or words of wisdom please
How long have you know her? Don't just put it out there take your time. Does she seem to be in to you as well? You don't want to chase her away. Are you dating? Just friends?
MAN give us details! You are asking advice from ladies!  Only then will you get a proper and fitting answer 
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| 4/23/2009 10:34:15 AM | ladies only please need some advice | |
kazper23
Summerville, GA
age: 23
| How long have you know her? Don't just put it out there take your time. Does she seem to be in to you as well? You don't want to chase her away. Are you dating? Just friends?
MAN give us details! You are asking advice from ladies! Only then will you get a proper and fitting answer
well ive known her for about 6months,and yes she seems to be into me too when she gets around me she cant stop looking at me in away thats hardfor me to explain and she cant take her hands off of me,and we've e dating for about a month now but we were friends before,i just dont wanna mess anything up you know so please help me
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| 4/23/2009 4:40:24 PM | ladies only please need some advice | |
rrrsmile
York, PA
age: 46
| kazper23
Ok ... deep breath.
Looks good for you =) You have had a chance to get to know her and she is "into" you like that. I guess make now you are thinking sex? My best guess =)
Yep, it's time for you to express a more one on one type relationship. Take your time...try to keep your cool. Yep, tuff at your age. Leave the "LOVE" word out for now tell her you care about her and would like to make your relationship exclusive or more physical or feel her like that.....Whatever you say these days. Ask her how she feels about it.....listen to what she says.
IMPORTANT >>>>>>>>>use condoms! Do you hear me? >>>>>>>USE CONDOMS! It matters not what she says it's your wanker.
Remember this tip: This will be one of several in a lifetime, be considerate and learn from each other. If you don't believe me, check out the ages of the folks posting on here. We ain't newbies at this stuff.
Oh.....keep your personal life private. No body like a kiss and tell sorta guy. Very tacky. 
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| 4/23/2009 7:04:01 PM | ladies only please need some advice | |
geminifire
Harrison, AR
age: 44
| Tell her. If she feels the same way then she will let you know. If she doesn't , then it's better to find out now before you get even more emotionaly invested. Good Luck.
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| 4/26/2009 2:07:02 AM | ladies only please need some advice | |
ssoozie21
Merced, CA
age: 21
| Well if you see signs of her interested. Then u should go ahead and tell her how u feel. She mite just be waiting for just that! Good luck!
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| 4/26/2009 2:13:32 AM | ladies only please need some advice | |
paisley51
Rochester, NY
age: 51
| I think you first must ask yourself, what kind of relationship do you want with this person? At 22 it may be just puppy love that will go away in a few weeks or months.
I would just play is cool with her and see how she responds. I really wouldn't take
a relationship too seriously at your age. You have to much living to do yet.
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| 4/26/2009 2:16:37 AM | ladies only please need some advice | |
marneenee
Perris, CA
age: 43
| Just tell her what you told us....About the way she makes you feel.
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| 4/26/2009 5:20:00 AM | ladies only please need some advice | |
life13021
Auburn, NY
age: 62
| look got this girl that makes me feel things ive never felt before,and it kinda scares me because i want to show and tell her what it is that she does to me,i want her to be my girl,but im not sure how she feels about me or how to tell her i need all the advice i can from everyone girls just tell me how to im wanting advice or words of wisdom please
These "things she makes you feel" does she put them in a bag or are you blindfolded and she lays them in your hands?   
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| 4/26/2009 5:24:13 AM | ladies only please need some advice | |
upnorthlady
Cloquet, MN
age: 45
| I would recommend talking with her and a lot of time talking with her. Just let her talk, talk & talk... Women at any age want a freind...
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| 4/27/2009 5:57:52 AM | ladies only please need some advice | |
kazper23
Summerville, GA
age: 23
| thanks for some good advice,think im just gonna wait and c where this goes,but keep the good advice coming
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| 4/27/2009 6:17:34 AM | ladies only please need some advice | |
countrysweet677
Waverly, NY
age: 49
| wait for some clues from her and if there the same as yours then tell her...
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| 4/27/2009 7:13:48 AM | ladies only please need some advice | |
special1too
Rockford, IL
age: 36
| Most women love a man that can come out and share his feelings with her. Just tell her what you said in your thread. After all, you will never know if you dont share what you feel if maybe she feels the same way.
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| 4/27/2009 5:50:47 PM | ladies only please need some advice | |
wizmom_00
Galatia, IL
age: 59
| well it depends on how long you have been seeing this girl
if it's really new DON'T SCARE her away by acting all gaga to fast and what ever you do dont tell her you love her YET. if she really likes you, she will call you everyday, tell you she misses you, want to talk and see you all the time.
try talking to her depending on where you are in the relationship or is it yet?
this is hard not knowing how long you have known her because time is everything when asking for this kind of advice
just tell her that she is beautiful, you love her smell,she makes you smile when you think of her and I think she will catch on and if she is acting the same way then you know she feels the same..
good luck
I agree with angelleyess....dont scare her off, take it easy, kind of work into the situation....casual talk at first. Dont just dump your guts all at once....flash her some smiles, keep some good eye contact...see how she responds to you. Kind of scary isnt it?? Maybe you will get lucky, and she'll make the first serious move..lol!! Just dont look "needie" and like a little puppy wagging his tail...keep control. (YOU know girls tell their friends everything...just dont open yourself up too much till you know your advances will be welcomed.)
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| 4/27/2009 6:36:53 PM | ladies only please need some advice | |
kazper23
Summerville, GA
age: 23
| thanksfor the good advice keep em coming
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| 4/28/2009 5:46:13 PM | ladies only please need some advice | |
rrrsmile
York, PA
age: 46
| Hey I thought this past weekend you were going to mention something to her...decided to wait?......Thats good to =) Just trying to keep up with your love life
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| 5/7/2009 9:45:41 AM | ladies only please need some advice | |
kazper23
Summerville, GA
age: 23
| hey ladies thanks for the advice but not to sure that she knowshow to act you know what i mean,so thank u for the advice even though it didnt work out,just gonna take it slow and find me a girl thatd ready for a life and kids with me,until then i guess the blames on me
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| 5/7/2009 10:46:29 AM | ladies only please need some advice | |
soucan59
Antioch, IL
age: 50
| Hello, Be agressive with those who interfer with the way you 2 do things, be protective and honest and she will be with you forever, have fun.....
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| 5/7/2009 8:16:54 PM | ladies only please need some advice | |
melinda_392000
Houston, MS
age: 45
| don't give up because she didn't feel the same way....you are so young,and you seem like a sweet guy.....be patient and find that right girl that will love you for who you are..
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| 5/7/2009 8:27:48 PM | ladies only please need some advice | |
tabbycat75
Orlando, FL
age: 35
| Dude your only 22, tell her how you feel, or hell,,even ask her for a date. If you get rejected, no worries. Cast again my friend, you will get bites and you will get bitten by sharks! Its called life in the dating scene!
Good luck!
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