| 11/17/2007 6:27:55 PM | why is it hard to find a good man? | |
chelseymarie
Moultrie, GA
age: 42
| I was in a 15 year marriage to what I thought was a good marriage,,only to find out my whole 15 years was a lie.All I ever wanted was to have a good man and have a happy home, sometimes I wonder if I will ever be happy.
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| 11/17/2007 6:33:34 PM | why is it hard to find a good man? | |
dg1260
Galion, OH
age: 47
| Chelsey,
Find out what makes you happy. Your happiness is yours. In the process of finding what makes you happy, you may meet someone along the way. In which case, you will be able to walk that path together.
I am divorced and I honestly say that I am happy. Perhaps one day I will meet someone where we can share our happiness together.
OK enough philosophy. Time to go back to the Breakfast Club Thread.
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| 11/17/2007 6:35:54 PM | why is it hard to find a good man? | |
lynn456
Martinsburg, WV
age: 39
| i wonder the same thing my self ,just dont give up.
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| 11/17/2007 6:40:49 PM | why is it hard to find a good man? | |
nicksterdemus
Little Rock, AR
age: 50
| Hell. I can't find a good man when I look in the mirror.................
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| 11/17/2007 6:40:56 PM | why is it hard to find a good man? | |
chelseymarie
Moultrie, GA
age: 42
| Just a great guy would please me,, and i am Happy and independent,,but i miss that special someone in my life...i am not a hard person to please,,,but it is hard to find a good man.
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| 11/17/2007 6:41:43 PM | why is it hard to find a good man? | |
chelseymarie
Moultrie, GA
age: 42
| Not giving up and thank you.
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| 11/17/2007 6:42:28 PM | why is it hard to find a good man? | |
chelseymarie
Moultrie, GA
age: 42
| why not nick?
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| 11/17/2007 6:58:10 PM | why is it hard to find a good man? | |
sincerity
Woodbridge, NJ
age: 48
| Chelsey: Hang in there take your time, I had a similar situation 16 years and he walked out, left the state with a old girlfriend. But when I really think about it, it has turned out to be the best thing. I wasn't happy in my marriage and he wasn't either. I am going to college now and I feel like a new person. I have met someone from my past and it is going great. I not looking to settle down with him, I just want to take my time and see where things go. If it doesn't work out, I am still okay and I will move on. Get positive about you first, good luck.
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| 11/17/2007 7:12:31 PM | why is it hard to find a good man? | |
gage4fun
Salt Lake City, UT
age: 54
| Not trying to be obnoxious, but it's the same reason it's hard to find good women.
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| 11/17/2007 8:15:55 PM | why is it hard to find a good man? | |
nonickname49
Belchertown, MA
age: 58
| I know a lot of advice is easier said then done chelsy..but only you can decide
the quality of your own life experiences. You are in control..in charge..
direct your thoughs and intentions inward..focus on your heart, wherein you
can hear your still, small voice.
Let go of self limiting thoughts as they just keep you in a negative frame
of mind. Negative self limiting thoughts creates an intention within you
to continue having similar negative actions occuring in your life.
Move forward with a positive attitude concerning all that you intend to
happen within your life. Believe..have faith and remain receptive that what
you desire in you life will come to you. Keep thinking only good thoughts..
even if you can only muster one good thought a day...it is moving forward.
Life is about choices and the resulting consequences of those choices. Aim
your life upwardss by looking within..draw from your Spirit..with whatever
intuition speaks to you.
Turn your thoughts inward as you have the power within to rise above..
to recreate yourself with your thoughts and choices of the life you so desire.
It can happen and be what you intend...simply choose it to be!
best wishes Paul
[Edited 11/17/2007 8:17:58 PM]
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| 11/17/2007 8:19:17 PM | why is it hard to find a good man? | |
chelseymarie
Moultrie, GA
age: 42
| Than you sincerty...But its not that i am hard up or anything,,I just have recently decided that i want to let someone into my life after 4 years,,and there dosen't seem to be any great guys in my home town,,, but I plan on takin it slow and I will be happy in time.
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| 11/17/2007 8:19:40 PM | why is it hard to find a good man? | |
chelseymarie
Moultrie, GA
age: 42
| True gage
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| 11/17/2007 8:23:21 PM | why is it hard to find a good man? | |
chelseymarie
Moultrie, GA
age: 42
| Thanks for the interesting reply paul,, when I married he was my first love and we have two great kids together and i was so in love with him..But strange as it seems we are the best of friends now. Bit i am positive and i am Happy.
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| 11/17/2007 8:40:26 PM | why is it hard to find a good man? | |
trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 51
| This seems to be the same question over and over and over again on this forum. There are plenty of good men and women in this world.. and many right here on this site. This question is useless. It is easy to find a good man/woman in this world.. on this site. The hard part is keeping one once you find them! Keeping an ego-filled, self-centered, lazy man/woman is easy. As long as you let them walk over you, you can keep them forever. BUT to keep a good one, you must work at it. The question is.. how badly do you want a good one? How hard are you willing to work on keeping them? What are you willing to do to have what you need and desire? It's not enough to sit back, whine and ask why. Focus on who and what you want, walk up to that life you want with all the hunger and fire from within and grab it for all it is worth! No matter what people think, such wealth as a good man or woman isn't going to fall into your lap. You want it bad enough? Than go for it! Don't worry about getting turned down. It wouldn't be your first time.. and not your last time. Great chance that the goodness you are seeking in another.. is exactly the same thing that person is seeking as well. Stop standing with your heart in your pocket.. risk it! You might be surprised. Trish
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| 11/19/2007 11:48:30 AM | why is it hard to find a good man? | |
southernsandy
Chester, SC
age: 41
| Better yet, where do you go to meet a good man? It sure as hell is not in the bar scene. I am a christian, however I'm not in church on Sundays.
Just wondering
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