chrisk1974
Bowling Green, OH
age: 34
| tens years ago i was crushed by a girl. we had been living together for 5 years, and i really thought we would be together forever. i was so completely in love with her and she decided she didnt feel the same. i didnt want anything to do with women for a long time after that. even after the pain lessened, i was i'n no hurry. i was comfortable being single. then several months ago i starting seeing a woman. i fell in love, and got past the fear of that hurt that held me back. as we got close, she shut down and ran. i was hurting all over again. but if there was anything positive to comeout of it, its that i know im ready again. problem is i seem too eager to jump back in. i feel i've wasted so much time, even though i know i needed it. but i dont want to be in such a hurry that i jump into the wrong relationship. i don't know my heads just going a lil crazy and though id put it out there for some feedback. ty
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emt854
Appleton, WI
age: 53
| sounds like desperation is showing its little head..but only you know if your are ready again..just start as friends with no expectations.
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chrisk1974
Bowling Green, OH
age: 34
| ty emt. i know im ready, but you're right, maybe a lil desperate. i've got to take a deep breath or ten thousand and calm down.
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falcon77
Eugene, OR
age: 42
| Chris,
The easiest thing to do is to let your life be very much like water. Just let it kind of flow along for a while without any attachments or expectations from anyone or anything. Just observe. You'll find you won't have the angst that is built up in any one spot of your life either. You can free yourself up to just be yourself again. When the time is right..a relationship will happen for you my friend. Remember..force is always met with resistance. We can't just make things happen.
[Edited 11/22/2007 10:11:02 AM]
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chrisk1974
Bowling Green, OH
age: 34
| falcon, thank you for the responce. force it met with resistance. i know that, but i needed the reminder. i've seen alot of your posts and you always seem to say what needs said, and in the right way. falcons a good name, but owl might suit you better wise one.
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chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| emt854 and falcon77 give great advice. Sit back and enjoy what you have. Eventually someone will peak your interest 
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sphere74
Jacksonville, FL
age: 33
| i'v been giulty of that my self its really hard to surpress deep emotions especially when were slap full of them i was confronted this weekend by a high school friend said i was to eager, she said and i acually got to chance to say this to some one else what belongs to you will make its way home to you.i felt real since of peace when she siad it to me may because it was eye to eye, but i hope it helps you.
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