| 5/26/2009 5:37:55 AM | what to do help me | | rgenuine
Rochester, NY
age: 31
| Iv e meet this lovely lady last tues.. I got her number adn gave a call. Left a message for a call back. Long weekend - no call still. Then invited to a gathering where bumped into her agian. She smiled and looked happy to see me. long story short. I asked if she got message. She did.. Before I left, I asked if she can call to let me know her availability would be like. She said she would. Now if she doesnt call. What do I do? Its hard to tell if she is really interested in me and maybe she just being nice.
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| 5/26/2009 5:39:31 AM | what to do help me | |
msbevzie
Oregon, OH
age: 46
| Well don't pester her, IF she doesn't call then I guess its safe to say she's probably NOT interested...
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| 5/26/2009 5:42:16 AM | what to do help me | |
rgenuine
Rochester, NY
age: 31
| then why give me her personal phone number from the start
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| 5/26/2009 6:07:28 AM | what to do help me | |
lotstdo
Henderson, NV
age: 48
| Just Ignore her untill you hear from Her,
She will get around to you If and when her current dating pool empties out a bit
Untill then Follow her example and keep looking for someone else
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| 5/26/2009 6:37:09 AM | what to do help me | |
wschaffer33
Easton, PA
age: 33
| My OPINION is this. You called, left a message, and saw her a few days later. Give her time. You do not want to come off as desperate or aggressive. I may be wrong, but it seems as though you are looking for this to progress into a relationship, yes? Well start as friends. Assure her, and YOURSELF, you would like to get to know her first, but that takes time my friend. I would say if she does not call within a few days, ask her to something less like a date, and more as an outing. After that, I would move on, but thats just me. Good luck!
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| 5/26/2009 10:09:03 AM | what to do help me | |
notdesperate36
Durant, OK
age: 36
| if she doesn't call...she's just being nice....
move on
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| 5/26/2009 11:26:26 AM | what to do help me | |
happylisa
Broken Arrow, OK
age: 43
| You've done your part in calling her and asking her to call you. If she doesnt call, I wouldnt call her again. Some women and men like playing games. When you pull back, seems like that's when they are interested. So just pull back and pretend like you dont care and maybe she will call then.
{Thank God I have someone who doesnt play those games}
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| 5/26/2009 12:52:02 PM | what to do help me | |
2sweetbitter
Orange, CA
age: 40
| you love her or want something ball is in her court always... sit on the sideline and practice untiil u can handle being a starter..asked if she got the message. just sit and wait 
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| 5/26/2009 12:54:15 PM | what to do help me | |
kinkycapitalist
Atlanta, GA
age: 55
| Well don't pester her, IF she doesn't call then I guess its safe to say she's probably NOT interested...
What she said
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| 5/26/2009 12:54:50 PM | what to do help me | |
neo_52
Marathon, FL
age: 53
| She's not interested ,
If she was she would have called .
It ain't that hard to make a call now a days.
Move on .
Sorry bud , the ways of the world .
And they apply to you ,too .
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| 5/26/2009 1:12:41 PM | what to do help me | |
goodgato
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 45
| If she doesn't call you, she's probably not interested.
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| 5/26/2009 1:14:23 PM | what to do help me | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 36
| You should have ignored her at the second meeting then introduced yourself for the first time to her again because a busy man like you doesn't keep track of all the p*ssy he's nailing.
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| 5/26/2009 2:50:38 PM | what to do help me | |
jamaican_choc
Brooklyn, NY
age: 25
| She may be busy or waiting for you to chase her....or she's just not that into you.
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| 5/26/2009 2:56:19 PM | what to do help me | |
steven030463
Newton Falls, OH
age: 46
| Well don't pester her, IF she doesn't call then I guess its safe to say she's probably NOT interested...
I agree
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| 5/26/2009 3:58:45 PM | what to do help me | |
thunderstorms62
Endicott, NY
age: 47
| Its hard to tell if she is really interested in me and maybe
she just being nice.
Men and women alike have these little "tells" that indicate
interest. If you have to ask...
there's probably little/no interest.
Move on dude and good luck!
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| 5/26/2009 4:10:19 PM | what to do help me | |
cinthianna01
Goshen, IN
age: 30
| Men and women alike have these little "tells" that indicate
interest. If you have to ask...
there's probably little/no interest.
Move on dude and good luck!
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