| 11/23/2007 5:34:48 PM | Should I continue to sleep with my old Boyfriend | |
alid4everypot
Littleton, CO
age: 52
| My ol boyfriend qand I dated seriously for a year then he
broke up with me because he was recently divorced and said
I was the first person he fell in love with after his divorce.
This 2nd year he has been dating around but he always calls me
because he says he likes the sex we have. This hurts me because
everytime we do it I become emotionally attached and he doesn't.
I don't understand why I have a problem just dating different people.
I'm more of a one person gal. What should I do?
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| 11/23/2007 5:38:00 PM | Should I continue to sleep with my old Boyfriend | |
inticingwitch
Lakeland, FL
age: 49
| no, he's using you as a back up if he wanted you he'd be with you JMO
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| 11/23/2007 5:38:12 PM | Should I continue to sleep with my old Boyfriend | |
truegrace
Hagerstown, MD
age: 52
| respect yourself stop sleeping with him/ he's using you for sex because the others won't give out and you will
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| 11/23/2007 5:39:46 PM | Should I continue to sleep with my old Boyfriend | |
kerob6521
West Terre Haute, IN
age: 43
| i agree hes just using you. why do people treat others like this i will never understand!!!
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| 11/23/2007 5:48:13 PM | Should I continue to sleep with my old Boyfriend | |
lonerbychoice
Fort Thomas, KY
age: 42
| Only if you can be his bed buddy, and nothing more. Otherwise move forward not backwards.
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| 11/23/2007 6:11:21 PM | Should I continue to sleep with my old Boyfriend | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| Called friends with benefits ... bootay call. The longer you allow the situation the more hurt you'll be. Time to kick him to the curb and move on.
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| 11/23/2007 6:52:12 PM | Should I continue to sleep with my old Boyfriend | |
9thstwonder
North Beach, MD
age: 50
| Yeah, you should keep sleeping with him. That attachment stuff only lasts until they are out of the driveway. Just think how special you are in his world, by providing him with a back up plan if things don't work out with him having sex with the woman he just bought flowers for, took out to dinner, then out to a few clubs for drinks and dancing. It's nice to be special......
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| 11/23/2007 6:59:33 PM | Should I continue to sleep with my old Boyfriend | |
comes2please
Tyler, TX
age: 29
| whats up littleton...i use to live on arrowhead...Leave him alone dont disrespect yourself like that...he is just using you that is it...Tell him to go get FU$KED...You are an attractive women i know that someone wants to treat you like the lady your are...
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| 11/23/2007 7:29:28 PM | Should I continue to sleep with my old Boyfriend | |
sweetfyr
Woodbridge, VA
age: 34
| If you have to ask what is the price...then you can't afford it. ...and for all those I just kinda lost...the price is "respect" and noone can not afford to lose that....
[Edited 11/23/2007 7:30:29 PM]
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| 11/23/2007 7:56:09 PM | Should I continue to sleep with my old Boyfriend | |
classy777
Tulsa, OK
age: 61
| You say he keeps coming back because the sex is good? "WAKE UP" He keeps coming back because the sex is there!!!!
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| 11/23/2007 8:00:06 PM | Should I continue to sleep with my old Boyfriend | |
dg1260
Galion, OH
age: 47
| He is a user, put a stake in it and call it done.
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| 11/23/2007 8:04:56 PM | Should I continue to sleep with my old Boyfriend | |
charger1973
Driscoll, ND
age: 45
| I agre with the others kick him to the curb and down the street he is not worth your time
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| 11/23/2007 8:07:30 PM | Should I continue to sleep with my old Boyfriend | |
aboveandbeyound
Doniphan, MO
age: 45
| Maybe all these post are right, and maybe their not. What is important is what you want. You've obviously stated your situation in such a way to get a desired response. But ultimately it is you that has to live with whatever discission you make. You have feelings for this guy, thats apparent. But I don't think you want just to dump him, you would be more please with a suggestion that would bring him around to wanting only you. Before you just toss away a relationship you already want, take the time to talk to him about how you feel. Maybe the thought of losing you can become a wake up call, instead of a booty call. Sex is easy, working through problems with a relationship is a blessing. If it's something you want then better to know then to wonder. Good luck hun.
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| 11/23/2007 8:16:46 PM | Should I continue to sleep with my old Boyfriend | |
boatingandhugs
Ruskin, FL
age: 52
| humans are like stray dogs if you keep feeding them they will keep coming back.
i think we try to avoid being lonly .even we know we deserve our own true love.
try looking for your love you deserve it...
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| 11/23/2007 8:39:41 PM | Should I continue to sleep with my old Boyfriend | |
bayougirl6969
Marrero, LA
age: 47
| no, i feel it's time for you to find someone who wants more,than half of a relationship.
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