Forums: Dating General Discussion: I still want to be your friend...Help here ladies!!!
11/23/2007 5:48:41 PMI still want to be your friend...Help here ladies!!! 
blooz2me
Amherst, OH
age: 59

I met a lady online and we talked, laughed and enjoyed each other immensely. She was close enough that we got together a number of times, had a blast together and were intimate with each other. I got comments like "you are the best thing that has happened to me in a long time". Now I have mentioned that she was close in distance to me but not THAT close. To make a long story short, she decided that there was too much distance between us and told me that she had met a guy in her town BUT STILL WANTED TO BE FRIENDS. This is where my question comes in. What would we have to talk about?

11/23/2007 5:51:46 PMI still want to be your friend...Help here ladies!!! 
heatherhoney
Middlesboro, KY
age: 51

Well depending on how bonded you were... you may not have anything to talk about. But if you got along well... you still have that friendship!



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11/23/2007 5:54:34 PMI still want to be your friend...Help here ladies!!! 
castertroy
Belmar, NJ
age: 38

Ok now , lets play nice guys.
Take it from someone who has been there and done that , resolve your problems in private email , the forums is no place for that.


11/23/2007 5:54:46 PMI still want to be your friend...Help here ladies!!! 
lynn456
Martinsburg, WV
age: 39

you could talk about sex

11/23/2007 5:57:41 PMI still want to be your friend...Help here ladies!!! 
heatherhoney
Middlesboro, KY
age: 51

You are so correct Troy... that's why I erased what I originally put!

11/23/2007 5:59:12 PMI still want to be your friend...Help here ladies!!! 
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47

I have male friends that are strictly platonic and we are just that ... friends. Getting a woman's point of view on things isn't such a bad thing since you are dating women.

11/23/2007 6:00:44 PMI still want to be your friend...Help here ladies!!! 
blooz2me
Amherst, OH
age: 59

I guess you entitled to whatever you think is right honey.

11/23/2007 6:07:09 PMI still want to be your friend...Help here ladies!!! 
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47

Yup

11/23/2007 6:32:23 PMI still want to be your friend...Help here ladies!!! 
heatherhoney
Middlesboro, KY
age: 51

Just for everyones knowledge... he is not talking about me!



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11/23/2007 6:34:42 PMI still want to be your friend...Help here ladies!!! 

wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37 online now!

i like having female friends so i can get inside info

11/23/2007 6:48:05 PMI still want to be your friend...Help here ladies!!! 
truegrace
Hagerstown, MD
age: 52

You like each other and had to the chance to share a part of ypurselves with each other, If you still like her be her friend nothing wrong with that maybe you'll have a friendship were you can seek advice from each other on things and help each other. Doesn't have to be a sexual thing my best friend was ex-lover he and I just couldn't make a love connection but a friendship we found is a whole lot nicer and there is now sex involved

11/23/2007 6:51:14 PMI still want to be your friend...Help here ladies!!! 

wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37 online now!

Just for everyones knowledge... he is not talking about me!

11/23/2007 6:52:05 PMI still want to be your friend...Help here ladies!!! 
blooz2me
Amherst, OH
age: 59

I agree with you Babe as I have female friends that give me input in a plutonic way and NO.........I was not referring to Honey.

11/23/2007 7:01:43 PMI still want to be your friend...Help here ladies!!! 
heatherhoney
Middlesboro, KY
age: 51

Wiley... you are sooooooooooooooo funny...