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6/6/2009 5:49:20 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
lil2sweet
Versailles, KY
age: 46


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6/6/2009 6:40:40 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 

twottitdo
Cincinnati, OH
age: 43


perhaps its lack of confidence...or fear of rejection...could be many varied reason..personally im comfortable in my own skin although i also know im far from a pretty boy too...http://www.datehookup.com/images/smiley/lol-034.gif

6/6/2009 6:43:41 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
lil2sweet
Versailles, KY
age: 46


Quote from twottitdo:
perhaps its lack of confidence...or fear of rejection...could be many varied reason..personally im comfortable in my own skin although i also know im far from a pretty boy too...http://www.datehookup.com/images/smiley/lol-034.gif

You may be right, I LOVE to look at someone I am talking too, Im comfy in my skin and I wish all others would be...........

6/6/2009 6:46:28 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
lil2sweet
Versailles, KY
age: 46


twottitdo............One should never let there self go unknown in a shadow, cause us girls are missing out on ALOT with no pics

6/6/2009 8:00:53 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 

retired_fireman
Louisville, KY
age: 60


Maybe they are not compute savy. I know that I had to have one of my kids show me how to download a photo. But before that I had to get some on a disc first. SO I had a photographer take some for me. It may not be that they dont want to post a photo. It may be that they dont know how. After having the internet for a few years now I am getting better at it. But there are still a lot of things I dont know how to do on this thing. So I chill out for a while and then try again.But still there are some things I just cant seem to get on this stupid thing. At times I feel like . So I wait till another time and try again. That is just one mans opinion.

6/6/2009 8:03:11 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 

cowboytrucker
Louisville, KY
age: 52


Quote from lil2sweet:
twottitdo............One should never let there self go unknown in a shadow, cause us girls are missing out on ALOT with no pics


Ditto from our side, too. Remember Darva Conger wanted to marry a millionaire till she saw him, but he picked her based initially on her looks as well.

6/6/2009 8:26:33 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 

lachtna
Louisville, KY
age: 47


Me I don't think I take good pictures.

The funny part is the picture I have now I was goofing off with a little tiny camera and I LIKED the pictures, I think it's a good one of me and shows off the fact I have a quirky sense of humor.

It kept one guy away who I think would be a jerk. He told me with my picture I would never find or date a man, take it down and I was freeke.

I told him I was looking for someone with a sense of humor and with his attitude he wasn't it and by the way it's spelled "freaky"....he emailed back "you're sick".

Not as sick as someone is who can't laugh...that person's just sad.

6/6/2009 9:44:07 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
lil2sweet
Versailles, KY
age: 46


Quote from lachtna:
Me I don't think I take good pictures.

The funny part is the picture I have now I was goofing off with a little tiny camera and I LIKED the pictures, I think it's a good one of me and shows off the fact I have a quirky sense of humor.

It kept one guy away who I think would be a jerk. He told me with my picture I would never find or date a man, take it down and I was freeke.

I told him I was looking for someone with a sense of humor and with his attitude he wasn't it and by the way it's spelled "freaky"....he emailed back "you're sick".

Not as sick as someone is who can't laugh...that person's just sad.

I just love this pic you are showing, I bet you could keep others in stiches a laughing, nothing more fun then to laugh, its really the best medicine

6/6/2009 9:47:01 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
lil2sweet
Versailles, KY
age: 46


Quote from cowboytrucker:
Ditto from our side, too. Remember Darva Conger wanted to marry a millionaire till she saw him, but he picked her based initially on her looks as well.

Please know I am not trying to base no one on there looks, it would be so nice to LQQK at
the person one is talking too. I know I am far from the best looking thing,
still it would be nice to see the one you are talking too, really thats not
asking too much

6/7/2009 1:50:34 AMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
coronashea
Elizabethtown, KY
age: 57


I have also learn some of them do have pic of them self, after you get to know them and you start talking, then up pops a picture.

6/7/2009 3:46:48 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
lil2sweet
Versailles, KY
age: 46


Quote from coronashea:
I have also learn some of them do have pic of them self, after you get to know them and you start talking, then up pops a picture.

Thanks, I will try your grat advice

6/7/2009 3:47:07 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
lil2sweet
Versailles, KY
age: 46


*great

6/7/2009 6:03:50 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
gvlaaa
Florence, KY
age: 72


I have pic.'S in mY phone.
They will not go into this site. They will go into other sites with ease.

6/8/2009 9:05:05 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 

slowandeasy1970
Middlesboro, KY
age: 40


Personaly! I think it's what's on the inside that counts also. I mean don't get me wrong it doesn't hurt to look your best.... Just depending on the situation.

6/9/2009 9:05:15 AMWhy do so many men have no pics? 

lachtna
Louisville, KY
age: 47


I agree, looks don't matter, it's the insides that count. Looks are just icing on a cake, you have have beautiful looking icing on a very bad cake just like you can have not so hot icing on a wonderful cake.

I just wanna see who I'm talking to, that's all. That's why I look at the pictures. If they are close and I see something I like (which could even be the background, it don't have to be the guy and how he looks, it could be an attitude) I'll look at him.

6/9/2009 12:28:51 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
lil2sweet
Versailles, KY
age: 46


Looks isnt what Im out for, I admire personality and Love humor, but as humane I kinda think we all like too see whom we are having a conversation with. I think everyone is Beautiful in there own way

6/9/2009 9:55:12 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
lil2sweet
Versailles, KY
age: 46


Quote from gvlaaa:
I have pic.'S in mY phone.
They will not go into this site. They will go into other sites with ease.

have you tryed photobucket with your phone camera? there account is free and I do believe
you can upload those there.....but I could be wrong.

6/12/2009 2:15:20 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
bluegrass_gal
Flemingsburg, KY
age: 55


Quote from lachtna:
Me I don't think I take good pictures.

The funny part is the picture I have now I was goofing off with a little tiny camera and I LIKED the pictures, I think it's a good one of me and shows off the fact I have a quirky sense of humor.

It kept one guy away who I think would be a jerk. He told me with my picture I would never find or date a man, take it down and I was freeke.

I told him I was looking for someone with a sense of humor and with his attitude he wasn't it and by the way it's spelled "freaky"....he emailed back "you're sick".

Not as sick as someone is who can't laugh...that person's just sad.


I agree with lachtna. I don't think I take good pictures either. It seems that men who look at your profile or wink don't have a picture. I'm not a shallow person but I do think there has to be a mutual attraction. I like to see who I'm talking to also!!! Don't listen to the jerk lachtna I think you're fine just the way you are.

6/12/2009 7:43:28 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
kingmeprince
Crestwood, KY
age: 26


What a minute I have pics, thank you very much, but some they wouldn't let through!!!

6/12/2009 8:30:30 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 

lachtna
Louisville, KY
age: 47


Don't worry bluegrass, I didn't listen to that jerk.

If I did I wouldn't have added in my profile "First of all laugh people, laugh at yourself, laugh at life. The picture is there for a reason...I want someone with a sense of humor...get it?" and left the picture just where it was.

If I listened to everyone that told me I was different or weird, strange or just bizarre I would have holed myself up in my room when I was young and no one would have met me.

I look at it this way...that guy missed out on a very loyal, sweet, kind and loving person, it sucks to be him.

6/13/2009 4:07:24 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
eonism
Louisville, KY
age: 32


Because... quite possibly... they're shy? I don't know, good question.

6/13/2009 7:16:54 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
lil2sweet
Versailles, KY
age: 46


Quote from bluegrass_gal:
I agree with lachtna. I don't think I take good pictures either. It seems that men who look at your profile or wink don't have a picture. I'm not a shallow person but I do think there has to be a mutual attraction. I like to see who I'm talking to also!!! Don't listen to the jerk lachtna I think you're fine just the way you are.

kuddos to you sweety!
I dont take good pics but dang Im ok with myself to say hey this is what I look like........like it or move on . not to mention since this thread I have gotten some nasty messages, not mean but NASTY.

6/13/2009 7:19:05 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
lil2sweet
Versailles, KY
age: 46


Oh this one guy wrote me with a pic and sayed "he wished his wife would die with cancer!"
OMG, how in the world can anyone be so cruel? that really upset me!!!

6/13/2009 8:20:29 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 

lachtna
Louisville, KY
age: 47


Oh, lil2sweet. that's horrible.

I remember watching this forensic files and this guy killed his wife and after he was arrested and the autopsy was done it was found out his wife had BAD cancer and would have probably been dead in a few months. So, the guy goes to jail for murder...karma's a b*tch.

Hang in there girl, ignore the stupid idiots. There are good guys out there. All we have to do is throw out the rotten ones.

6/14/2009 3:52:19 AMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
eonism
Louisville, KY
age: 32


The guy that said that to you, 2sweet, had to be severely disturbed or mentally retarded. Take your pick.

6/14/2009 6:05:39 AMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
caky
Over 1,000 Posts (1,069)
Walton, KY
age: 49


They do not own a camera but aren't resourceful enough to ask a friend who does
Sorry, in my opinion = lame excuse . . . which leads to they're hiding something.

I gave up the game of hiding as a kid . . .





[Edited 6/14/2009 6:18:51 AM PST]

6/14/2009 10:08:43 AMWhy do so many men have no pics? 

jphillips1963
Shelbyville, TN
age: 46


As mentioned it could be various reasons, One no camera, then they may not like there photo taken or as myself I am not photogenic at all. I only post a pic for the soul purpose of being polite and yes they are accurate but then thats not who I am it's only an image of who I am. But there are many reasons why photos are posted some tent to want to be someone they are not on the internet and with a photo it shows who they are or look like, I think mostly its either they are married or involved or the lack of know how of posting a photo of themselves. Same goes for women as well

James



[Edited 6/14/2009 10:09:23 AM PST]

6/14/2009 1:23:35 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 

thatgamerguy
Owingsville, KY
age: 34


I know for me personally - it took quite awhile for me to get up "the nerve" to try to take pictures of myself.

I've always been one to hide behind the camera and I'm just now getting comfortable in my own skin.

6/14/2009 3:53:47 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 

dkdeckmann
Taylorsville, KY
age: 51


A1 - It's not what's on the outside, it's what's in the inside - of his wallet!

A2 - I wouldn't want my wife to recognize me!

A3 - Trust me, they're doing YOU a favor!

Actually, in my case, when I signed up for DH I didn't have a camera handy. I did take a couple of off-the-cuff shots with a picturephone, email them to myself, download them from my mail server, then upload them to DH... Whew... A lot of work for a couple of poorly lighted, grainy photos shot in a hotel room... I think the results were so horrid it scared off too many right from the get-go. I think one needs to take the time to get a decent shot. DH needs to allow for bigger, higher resolution photos too. Postage stamp sized fuzzy itsy-bitsy pictures are really bad... Getting a decent shot can take someone who needs to work for a living and has other responsibilities than keeping a computer company a few days...

6/15/2009 6:30:44 AMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
lil2sweet
Versailles, KY
age: 46


Quote from lachtna:
Oh, lil2sweet. that's horrible.

I remember watching this forensic files and this guy killed his wife and after he was arrested and the autopsy was done it was found out his wife had BAD cancer and would have probably been dead in a few months. So, the guy goes to jail for murder...karma's a b*tch.

Hang in there girl, ignore the stupid idiots. There are good guys out there. All we have to do is throw out the rotten ones.

I kinda sorta told hem off before I hit that block button, but he deserved it!

6/15/2009 6:32:34 AMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
lil2sweet
Versailles, KY
age: 46


Quote from jphillips1963:
As mentioned it could be various reasons, One no camera, then they may not like there photo taken or as myself I am not photogenic at all. I only post a pic for the soul purpose of being polite and yes they are accurate but then thats not who I am it's only an image of who I am. But there are many reasons why photos are posted some tent to want to be someone they are not on the internet and with a photo it shows who they are or look like, I think mostly its either they are married or involved or the lack of know how of posting a photo of themselves. Same goes for women as well

James

The photos after clicking on them make them bigger, or alot I have looked at
does. have you tryed that?

7/2/2009 5:05:38 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
girllooking4
Eubank, KY
age: 56


Quote from lil2sweet:
I really wanna know!!!
yes i would like to know also lil2sweet why dont they put a picture up on here they all can see us and we would like to see them also .::

7/2/2009 11:45:45 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
faceit4u
Nicholasville, KY
age: 38


youve got great pics super hot i love it

7/3/2009 5:02:43 AMWhy do so many men have no pics? 

mdmagic
Henderson, KY
age: 54


'cause we be ugly. PEACE

7/4/2009 7:36:19 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
lenconnor
Erlanger, KY
age: 46


They're probably hiding something. It's the same with women who won't post a picture. It kind of blows the whole trust thing before it even starts.

7/5/2009 11:24:30 AMWhy do so many men have no pics? 

redbone1984
Lexington, KY
age: 25


maybe they just dont want the ladies all over there hot bodies

7/5/2009 3:00:23 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 

blueshortcake2
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,917)
Nicholasville, KY
age: 59


Take your choice: playing more than one lady on DH, has a girl friend, engaged or married. Whatever excuse you choose you can bet they are patting theirself on the back because they think they are soooooooooooo smart. NOT.

7/8/2009 8:26:07 AMWhy do so many men have no pics? 

budman_42320
Beaver Dam, KY
age: 54


lil2sweet....Where is your Pic ?

7/8/2009 3:42:52 PMWhy do so many men have no pics? 
kyman32
Cynthiana, KY
age: 33


why so many women have no pics? just asking