what to do when u mess up a good thing

6/12/2009 10:00:50 AM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
bossy1210 Cleveland, OH age: 27	what do u do when u mess up wit a person u really liked an now they want give u the time of day move on or try to prove your point
6/12/2009 10:01:17 AM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
insulting Houston, TX age: 42	Wait it out.
6/12/2009 10:02:19 AM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
rrrsmile York, PA age: 49	learn
6/12/2009 10:05:24 AM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
sea_1 Mesa, AZ age: 56	Move on.....brush myself off and found that better things come along ........just not worth the time and energy...Life is just too short.........Sea
6/12/2009 10:10:00 AM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
awakeing Walled Lake, MI age: 37	Get the biggest spoon you can find and eat tons and tons of humble pie. At some point you'll get sick and burst from your regret and vow to never make the same mistake. Then you have a chance of the person forgiving you when they can see you also feel their pain and are truly remorseful. [Edited 6/12/2009 10:10:35 AM PST]
6/12/2009 10:15:10 AM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
jedbourgh North York, ON age: 55	Instead of trying to prove your point, consider relaxing the issue; if you think you did wrong (why else would you call it mess up) then please do take the courage and apologize or make amends; admit to your wrong doing. Nothing is sexier to a lover than when in a spat the partner capitulates, and capitulates first. That's where the word "copulates" comes from, originally -- the guy was so ecstatic that his lover admitted that she was in the wrong, that he f=ed her on the spot. And that's why they call the "wet spot" that; it came from the expression "went spat", that is, a spat that left, due to some making-up subroutines in the program. [Edited 6/12/2009 10:17:23 AM PST]
6/12/2009 12:24:25 PM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
hitman_13 Paris, TN age: 41	They say that sometimes the best thing to say, is to say nothing at all.
6/12/2009 12:37:46 PM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
riqy Naples, FL age: 49	If you messed up,then why are you still wanting to prove your point? Could it be cause you are just way too"bossy"?
6/12/2009 3:39:11 PM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
thebestman Alpharetta, GA age: 35	Quote from bossy1210: what do u do when u mess up wit a person u really liked an now they want give u the time of day move on or try to prove your point Learn from your mistake and don't fugg up a good thing next time... Many people do this all the time. They want something good and when they are fortunate to get a good thing, they screw it up (pun not intended)...
6/13/2009 11:21:44 AM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
avalondreams Poulsbo, WA age: 49	hmmmm, If you already know you screwed up a good thing, then you already know that you are responsible for something. Why try to prove something when an apology might calm the waters? Amazing what a simple apology can do.
6/13/2009 11:49:29 AM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
wsprs0nthewind Powell, TN age: 45	Try to fix it. If you can't learn from it and move on. Next time you should know better.
6/13/2009 12:09:44 PM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
barbaraajo Reston, VA age: 53	Move on and start again
6/13/2009 12:42:31 PM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
bassguy1966 Pepperell, MA age: 43	Quote from rrrsmile: learn That is as accurate as it gets. Hard lessons are the best ones, so move on and don't forget....
6/13/2009 12:44:56 PM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
imakeepher Upland, CA age: 49	Try to fix it, but if he won't give you the time of day all you can do is move on and consider it a learning experience for your next relationship. Remember to always think before you act out with your emotions because words or actions can't be taken back once they are said or done. If he really cared for you as much as you did him he would be willing to forgive you. Maybe it was time to move on anyway?
6/13/2009 1:13:38 PM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
mikeclemente21 Bronx, NY age: 38	learn from youre mistakes that at times you might say the wrongest thing to another person and not realize that there human and have feelings like you do
6/13/2009 1:22:04 PM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
wisegirl33 Queensland Australia age: 45	Move on ........do not wait for them to forgive you. wisegirl33 - 14 June 2009 at 627am Aest
6/13/2009 2:31:35 PM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
bowlove Morristown, TN age: 29	Regret it forever .........
6/13/2009 2:34:56 PM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
yourfriendbob Fayette, OH age: 55	Live and learn. And, oh yeah.... OP...try not to live up to your profile name and you'll be fine...
6/13/2009 4:23:07 PM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
thunderstorms62 Endicott, NY age: 47	"It's a big shit sandwich and we're all going to have to take a bite." -Full Metal Jacket There's nothing to prove OP other than that you can learn from your mistakes and move on. Good Luck!
6/13/2009 4:34:27 PM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
luv2bum Milwaukee, WI age: 44	If it has to do with cheating.....give up they would be stupid to take you back, and probably won't. Messed up a good thing....probably too late now
6/13/2009 4:35:39 PM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
cinthianna01 Goshen, IN age: 30	Suck it up,... Apologize Let it go And, Move on..
6/13/2009 4:41:59 PM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
suann29 Miami, FL age: 48	You are still young Live and learn. Move on - get over it
6/13/2009 7:01:20 PM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
avalondreams Poulsbo, WA age: 49	LOL although I prefer a nice turkey sandwich, that was pretty funny. But yeah, sometimes eating crow is necessary.
6/13/2009 7:03:16 PM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
leadman_ Lake Dallas, TX age: 47	Move to Austrailia
6/13/2009 9:59:15 PM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
dawolfette Montgomery, AL age: 48	Say your sorry express your regret and profess your love,,then back off and let them deal.If they truely care for you they will forgive.
6/14/2009 5:24:41 AM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
tristen01 Minot, ND age: 43	try to win that persons heart back,and thats a hard thing to do!
6/14/2009 4:50:43 PM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
bubbadb Waterloo, IA age: 47	How important is it to prove your point? How big did you blow it with this perosn? Let's face it there are somethings that just can't be taken back.
6/15/2009 9:41:42 AM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
bossy1210 Cleveland, OH age: 27	Quote from bubbadb: How important is it to prove your point? How big did you blow it with this perosn? Let's face it there are somethings that just can't be taken back. i just want to prove that i really did not mean what i said an no i did not cheat on him
6/15/2009 1:06:27 PM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
hot_water Warren, MI age: 29	Personally, I'd explain my reasons right away. But YOU should start kissing a** immediately.
6/15/2009 1:28:59 PM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
jocelynn1959 Middlesboro, KY age: 49	If it was just something you said, an apology should work, unless of course he is looking for a good reason to dump you. That way he can put the blame on you, when he's already ready to get outta the relationship. If he really cared he'd forgive your words.
6/15/2009 1:39:22 PM	what to do when u mess up a good thing
bombdiggity22 Palmer, MA age: 47	Kick myself in the Ass...