| 11/26/2007 7:34:06 PM | Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... | |
kazyka
Hudson, NH
age: 38
| I see a big whole in the chair he was sitting in. Police all around him. I am walking by the police, but its like I am invisible, no one can see me. Blood is everywhere. It looks like I killed him, and then myself. What does that mean?
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| 11/26/2007 7:42:48 PM | Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... | |
goldarnit
Saint Paul, MN
age: 48
| no offense,but get some therapy..soon.
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| 11/26/2007 8:01:53 PM | Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... | |
chrisk1974
Bowling Green, OH
age: 34
| please seek help. these dreams arent gonna go away on there own.
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| 11/26/2007 8:08:57 PM | Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| Means you have a lot of anger inside and you want revenge. Best revenge is to let him live a miserable life. I was angry inside besides hurt but I did heal and in time you will as well. You are allowing him to control you with your anger. Don't let him win ... it will only destroy you and everything you love in life. If you have kids, think of them. They need you more.
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| 11/26/2007 8:17:12 PM | Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... | |
fab4bird
North Augusta, SC
age: 51
| kazyka, just because your dreams are crazy, doesn't mean you are!
It could be your dreams are playing-out what you were unable to consider in real life.
Dreams are a coping mechanism, like a way of dealing with your stress in a fantasy world.
If they are in fact nightmares, which make you wake up screaming or in a cold sweat, then you might want to consider a professional opinion.
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| 11/26/2007 8:21:03 PM | Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... | |
kazyka
Hudson, NH
age: 38
| I thought the dreams would go away on their own. I thought when time went on and I started to heal and find happiness within then hopefully they won't be there. I have only had about 9 to 10 hours sleep in the pass 3 days. So, the dreams have been more often than before. I also thought everytime someone dies in a dream you just extended their life. I am trying not to panic about the dreams, because I usally do. I am looking at it this way, in the eyes of a child, what would I say to my child if she was having bad dreams, because her father moved in with the girlfriend. Say She was having a dream that her father was no longer here. He dies and goes to heaven. I would think it was feeling of abandement. I would probably tell my daughter something like this will pass and we will get though this. I am here for you every step of the way. It is kind of the same thing but less violent. In my dream, I am express hurt, anger, loss and abandement issues. Thanks for letting me talk it out with myself. I appreciate it. That really helped.
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| 11/26/2007 9:09:19 PM | Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... | |
neverlie
Saint Joe, AR
age: 52
| Dream interpretation can be symbolic, if you or someone you'll contact knows those symbols, in my opinion, like for instance: if you happened to be a non-resistor and you were using a weapon like a sword or a knife, the indication there is that you will be waging spiritual warfare, not carnal, because it would be nonsense to interpret it in the physical for a non-resistor. It is written, "He who hates his brother is a murderer", as though you can become guilty of it without performing murder.
Hope this helped.
Don't listen to "professionals" about dreams, i think would be a good course.
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| 11/26/2007 9:24:18 PM | Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... | |
krupa1
Abilene, TX
age: 40
| If you just want good people to talk to....you came to the right place.
You may consider trying to find a different topic to get to know people and have them like you for the person that you truly are.
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| 11/26/2007 10:50:43 PM | Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... | |
ylekiot
Stateline, NV
age: 52
| It means that you were asleep! Don't over analyze it and let it rent space in your head.
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| 11/27/2007 10:23:13 AM | Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... | |
kazyka
Hudson, NH
age: 38
| ylekiot: like what you had to say - moving on and thats it - thanks
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| 11/27/2007 2:56:43 PM | Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... | |
mr_passion_2009
Texarkana, TX
age: 45
| KAZYKA
i use to have dream close to that and to be honest with u most dream come from thing that had already happen and other thing u see on TV and with thing u might be thinking
in dream is a mixer of alot of thing hate arger and even worng doing but i do know without a doubt that u are not crazy not in a long shot like built a block in everyone mine that from time to time has to let go deep in your mind u still care for him but at the same time you hate him the only way to stop those dream is to let him go and move on find some that make you happy and soon your forget him and make new dreams
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| 11/27/2007 3:13:28 PM | Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... | |
lunawoman01
Whittier, CA
age: 46
| You really need someone to console you at this time..breaking up is like death. I know what both feel like.
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| 11/27/2007 3:34:02 PM | Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... | |
mr_passion_2009
Texarkana, TX
age: 45
| come on lol woman01 i've had dream like that to you think i need help too lol
no wait don't answer that lol
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| 11/27/2007 3:38:57 PM | Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... | |
bamabob
Crane Hill, AL
age: 55
| KAZYKA... it is definitely like dealing with death of a spouse, sometimes only worse. You need closure. My first ex-wife haunted me for 12 years. When I was told that she had a child by her new husband everything just seemed to lift from me and I no longer had the pain and wanting and longing for her any more. It was the most wonderful thing to be able to let go! I've had comparable dreams before too and not over analyzing is very good advice. Sounds to me like it only is symbolic that you want revenge and him out of your life. Do not take it in any way whatsoever that it is a map of a course of action you should take...it's a DREAM and not REALITY! Finding what will release you from this spiritual connection will not be easy. But take comfort in the fact that it is coming and will take time, maybe a long time, but it will come.
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| 11/27/2007 9:05:28 PM | Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... | |
nicrkitty36
Lake Worth, FL
age: 37
| still feeling angry...from the past.....wanting to hurt him as much as he hurt you......the fact that no one else notices you in the dream...means....it wasnt your fault.....and to move past it
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