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6/25/2009 9:18:02 PM	Warning about vulgar user
jmiller30 Hermiston, OR age: 35	I got a wink from someone last night username cdp7961. I hadnt responded by this morning and this is what I woke up to :I figured with a plastic puss like yours you ,would be shallow but thats ok now that I know you go by looks your not even worth knowing your just another EGO trip!!!!!!!...SO of course I responded to this because its pretty rude to talk to someone like that. I also told him not to contact me again, so yet again he responds with this: Thank you at least I'm not a BTCH that just blows people off due to looks or age YOU ARE SHALLOW face it and a rotten fk as well Go ahead and report me I will just make a new profile and haunt you to you leave this site how does that sound??? So fk off you fat Plastic cnt!!! Now since I didnt respond right away to the wink he immediately said this shit to me..so ladies beware of this guy. Threatening to haunt me on here, I have never encountered someone so rude on this sight. No one deserves to be spoke to like this guy spoke to me.
6/25/2009 9:24:59 PM	Warning about vulgar user
wildbluemist Battle Mountain, NV age: 48	Your right this guy is insecure and he is getting his jollys by you emailing him back! He probably has your pic in his hand right now and the other hand.....He's still getting his jollys.
6/25/2009 9:31:42 PM	Warning about vulgar user
jmiller30 Hermiston, OR age: 35	Ya I am going to block him but his threats make me nervous..I dont want to be harrassed by this guy,
6/25/2009 9:35:14 PM	Warning about vulgar user
321tmj Oklahoma City, OK age: 49	jmiller ~ The same jerk winked at me with almost identical responses... Don't let it bother you! Clearly he has emotional issues. Block him and forget about it. I think warning others is a great idea, wish I had cause I am certain he is the type to just go down the line purposly to offend for reactions sake. How sad, he only gets "action" from ill reaction. Glad you gave him a piece of your mind... don't allow him any more.
6/25/2009 9:37:45 PM	Warning about vulgar user
rusty_shorts West Palm Beach, FL age: 36	I agree... we should be able to warn others, BUT untill the powers that be change their policy, posting someones username will get you suspended..
6/25/2009 9:38:59 PM	Warning about vulgar user
jmiller30 Hermiston, OR age: 35	Ya he is definitely a creepy guy..i will block him thank you for the advice.
6/25/2009 9:40:02 PM	Warning about vulgar user
jmiller30 Hermiston, OR age: 35	oops I didnt know that, but I will take my chances if it will help someone else. I have been on this site over a year and never treated like he treated me.
6/25/2009 9:40:55 PM	Warning about vulgar user
kgearly1021 Valdosta, GA age: 49	Quote from rusty_shorts: I agree... we should be able to warn others, BUT untill the powers that be change their policy, posting someones username will get you suspended.. Rusty--Yeah but sometimes you have to stand up for what you believe in and post without worrying about suspension. DH jail be damned.
6/25/2009 9:46:13 PM	Warning about vulgar user
dutchboy4u Huntington Beach, CA age: 46	That Rat Bastard!
6/25/2009 9:46:15 PM	Warning about vulgar user
avalondreams Poulsbo, WA age: 49	jmiller, hi hon. I hear ya. I have had a similar experience, in fact some of the things that man said to you, sound eerily familiar. Not only that, but the narcissist (that I dealt with) got his friends together, and they followed me all over the net. Freeked the holey ned outta me. I am aware that it is only a matter of time before they catch up to me here at dh. Don't let it get you down, and don't ever let it stop you from seeking your dream. illigitami non carborundum = latin for "don't let the bastards get you down" take good care.
6/25/2009 9:46:50 PM	Warning about vulgar user
lust4love Atco, NJ age: 39	sounds like a jilted lover found you.
6/25/2009 9:48:05 PM	Warning about vulgar user
sacred78 Nashville, TN age: 31	A few weeks ago...some dude I had never chatted with sent me a pic of his privates...I blocked him and reported him...Hopefully, he is GONE! All ladies need to be careful, safety first~ always!
6/25/2009 9:54:45 PM	Warning about vulgar user
jmiller30 Hermiston, OR age: 35	ya i have had men do that to, its creepy its one thing if u ask for a pic like that but some just send it all proud and stuff
6/25/2009 9:57:14 PM	Warning about vulgar user
jmiller30 Hermiston, OR age: 35	Im so sorry to hear about your stalkers that is awful and scary..there really should be something more we can do
6/25/2009 10:00:27 PM	Warning about vulgar user
lust4love Atco, NJ age: 39	there is something you can do.Delete your profile if youre all scared.You cant start playing internet police here.but i have to say that guy was a little nuts.
6/25/2009 10:00:41 PM	Warning about vulgar user
avalondreams Poulsbo, WA age: 49	if it gets too freaky contact my dh email, and I can tell you some things you can do. Another thing, is save the emails for documentation. Additionally, have a close friend read what's being written as a witness. good luck, and look me up if needed.
6/25/2009 10:09:14 PM	Warning about vulgar user
jmiller30 Hermiston, OR age: 35	thank you for the advice, i blocked him and hope that does the trick!!
6/25/2009 11:20:05 PM	Warning about vulgar user
moraldk325 State College, PA age: 45	He sounded nice enough to me. Perhaps he just needs a hug.
6/25/2009 11:38:20 PM	Warning about vulgar user
jenamp88 Morris, MN age: 25	Everybody is right, block him and move on. The internet is a playground for crazy people, so we can't take what one person says to heart. Sure, they are offensive and crude, but we will all get that once in awhile. Ppl are crazy!
6/26/2009 12:48:08 AM	Warning about vulgar user
yourfriendbob Fayette, OH age: 55
6/26/2009 3:24:42 AM	Warning about vulgar user
curvesahead70 Saint Petersburg, FL age: 39	I had this same thing on another site. I was at work saw the email had to suddently get off and do an important project so no time to respond. Forgot and didn't log on again till the next day. I got the nastiest email I ever saw...I did not respond back. I refuse to justify what he said with an answer and I blocked him. Guys like that are very insecure and I would rather know this than not know this....shows how they would be if you were actually dating them. I had to laugh he said I had illegimate children who actually all my kids were born in my marriage with my ex husband and that I was fat pig yet I only wear size 6 jeans now so I had to laugh he was just spewing anything he thought would hurt.
6/26/2009 3:34:05 AM	Warning about vulgar user
summer4us New London, CT age: 52	I had the same prolem so I changed my user name and took off my picture.
6/26/2009 5:23:20 AM	Warning about vulgar user
msbevzie Oregon, OH age: 46	I hope he leaves you alone actually you can report these people there are seriously internet police yes they are actually police officers and they do get these fools...it IS considered harassment, and they can be locked up...like another female said to you keep the things if it continues its very simple to find out who its coming from the police do know and are pros at this... I wouldn't care less IF I got suspended for posting about a person I feel they NEED a place we can warn others...afterall people DO get killed from being online...
6/27/2009 3:01:39 AM	Warning about vulgar user
cdp99130 Moscow, ID age: 40	Hey bulldog face Face it you are shallow and not to mention a c u n t Remember I can hack!
6/27/2009 3:08:46 AM	Warning about vulgar user
caky Walton, KY age: 48	Quote from jmiller30: Now since I didnt respond right away to the wink he immediately said this shit to me..so ladies beware of this guy. Threatening to haunt me on here, I have never encountered someone so rude on this sight. No one deserves to be spoke to like this guy spoke to me. Sorry this happened to you. As a heads up, messages that are sent to you privately are meant to be kept private - especially since you also mentioned his profile name (and can get your profile suspended). It's best to report him to the list administrator and be done with it vs. escalating and making it public with the potential to suffer further consequences. Better luck to you in the future. [Edited 6/27/2009 3:17:12 AM PST]
6/27/2009 8:02:34 PM	Warning about vulgar user
atomichand Wellington, NV age: 45	hey friend, want me to take care of this low life piece of crap for you?? god if we all got so pissed if someone did not respond, as fast as they think we should, i guess we all would be like this jerk. some people just can't respond right away. so d*ck less look me up sometime, she is a nice girl leave her the hell alone. anytime pal
6/27/2009 8:35:14 PM	Warning about vulgar user
snowbird02s Siena Italy age: 45	Sorry this happened to you. As a heads up, messages that are sent to you privately are meant to be kept private - especially since you also mentioned his profile name (and can get your profile suspended). It's best to report him to the list administrator and be done with it vs. escalating and making it public with the potential to suffer further consequences. Woooooooooooohhhhhhhhh Better luck to you in the future. [/quote,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, And, why are you scolding her as if she were a little girl. MYOFB ..................................... ..................................... I'm glad you blocked him, I would not have even answered a nasty email. I had a couple of stalkers..One would follow me all over the forum, and email my friends, and lie to them. There will always be some people that you will have to block. But, It's only the internet, it's not a neighbor or co-worker. Good luck P.s. I know you ment well but, crazy people enjoy seeing you make a thread about them. Yeah, she is right about putting the user name here. [Edited 6/27/2009 8:44:39 PM PST]
6/27/2009 8:54:59 PM	Warning about vulgar user
iamalwaysjustme Olathe, KS age: 50	cdp99130Hey bulldog face Face it you are shallow and not to mention a c u n t Remember I can hack! Boy the TROLLS are out thick tonight
6/28/2009 10:33:53 AM	Warning about vulgar user
sundanceforu Grantsburg, WI age: 38	what he wrote to you was not right in anyway or form..But the simple jesture of returning a wink..is harmless..same goe's with emails also..i have witnessed this myself upteen times how either a delete without reading or read and never respond or even look profile out..just easier in the long run with no hard feelings to return a yes or no..or a wink..simple things that make a world of differance in the charactor of the person on either end..so dont think im agreeing with what he wrote..becuase im not..but feel what he feels when u delete others next time..goe's for alot of folks on here also..
6/29/2009 2:27:26 AM	Warning about vulgar user
dray4tigers Memphis, TN age: 36	What he did to you and to the other users he has victimized is totally immature and completely uncalled for. He definitely has serious emotional and mental issues.. I understand that you could get banned on the site for posting his username, but in this circumstance I would hope that the moderators of DH would be understanding and get him banned permanently. They should have the ability to trace his IP address and ban it from the site to prevent this from occurring in the future. Personally, if someone threatened me in that way I'd most likely just ignore them. Several of the posters are right in that he is getting his jollies off by your responses. If someone like that ever came into personal contact with me in a physical situation I have 15 reasons why they need to rethink their actions. I hope that you and the other women out there aren't still being harassed by this psycho.