| 6/25/2009 11:02:06 PM | I love my self too much to love you. | |  monkeylovin Los Angeles, CA age: 34
| Can some one please explane why 98% percent of the women on here are looking for love . I think that's sad first of all the name of this sites is called date hook up.
What part of hook up don't you ladies understand . It seems like every chick is trying to find love on line . Men . I don't know bout the rest of you but I'm getting tird of these dames . I say flag em lets keep this sites for us indepented folks who Like being single . keep dating keep hooking up .. Thank god for the one night stand
Peace ..
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| 6/25/2009 11:15:57 PM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
trev_42 Laverne, OK age: 43
| Hey dude, whatever works for you...go for it!
Ive sowed my wild oats in my day, and now I am looking for
that one certain woman that can fill all my needs, and I fill
everyone of hers!
I have found that kind of woman right here on Dh, and I look forward
to the coming days that we unite in what we both feel destiny has brought
us!
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| 6/25/2009 11:36:14 PM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 monkeylovin Los Angeles, CA age: 34
| Well maybe in laverne OK I would chose love
But here in LA CA I'll choose to stay single to much BS plus I think love is something that hapens while dating most of these chick say that they are looking for love or that speacial some one . I compare it to me saying I jus wanna f**k . I but they get all mid evil when you say that to them well I think we should react the same way when we hear or read thst old maid reddrick but that's jus me .. But thanx for your response I do appreciate it
cheers 
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| 6/25/2009 11:53:42 PM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
trev_42 Laverne, OK age: 43
| Well since you brought it up well I was born in Long Beach, and am
the product of all that free love you are talking about!
You see my mother screwed with the sixth fleet of the Navy and bore
7 children from 7 different Naval men, and not one of them stood up
to their responsibilities...I for one was given up for adoption at
birth, because mother could not feed another mouth at that time.
I have also lived in Oceanside in Marines,Onterio, Fontana, Rancho Cucomonga,and
Escandito...I chose to leave California for a more conservative, and
quiet lifestyle....
As For California, well I have bought ocean fron property in Arizona, waiting
for that place to fall in the ocean....
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| 6/25/2009 11:56:50 PM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 rrrsmile
 York, PA age: 49
| Someone's not getting any
Well Trev might be 
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| 6/26/2009 12:08:13 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 monkeylovin Los Angeles, CA age: 34
| I get the whole having kids by diffenrt daddys in all I too come from a family with diffent daddys I'm raising 3 girls by my self 1 is my dughter the other 2 are my half sisters witch is why I'm not getting any .. No time or money to waste & the women on here aint helping any
With that thay got to have this & that you got to buy this ask me out listen to me . Don thay understand that I don't have the time to BS I jus wanna kick it 
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| 6/26/2009 12:12:58 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 jenamp88
 Morris, MN age: 25
| Go on craigslist, there are plenty of ppl just wanting to get laid on there.
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| 6/26/2009 12:23:11 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 monkeylovin Los Angeles, CA age: 34
| I tried I got a bunch of bull shit spam replys over & over again DAM nigerens
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| 6/26/2009 12:31:25 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
libra007 Gold Beach, OR age: 46
| Dude...you're better off just jacking off, or scanning the backstreet alleys for some tottering woman drinking out of a paper sack. Your lack of humanity is astounding.
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| 6/26/2009 12:34:01 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 photodude111
 Sedona, AZ age: 45
| Lets see eharmony nothing harmonious about that site, true.com a lot of un true people there and so on.
You join in June 2009, wow i see that you have really given it a chance. The hookup is relative not all women are here just to get laid, some, most are looking for the real deal or something more than a one night stand. As ypu get older they become more and more less important.
If you are having a miserable time, try a different approach. There is always Fling.com or a few others that like and engage in one night stands.
Karl in Sedona
Hey Trev I was in the 62 area 7th Marines back in the day, Our party area was San Clemente, When i was 25 I went to Recruiters school, I asked for LA San Deiego or Sna berdu and they sent me to phoenix, the best move the military ever made for me. I moved further north to get away from the crap.
[Edited 6/26/2009 12:38:33 AM PST]
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| 6/26/2009 12:41:08 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
trev_42 Laverne, OK age: 43
| Yeah, stay away from Craiglist!
You stand better chance
of getting computer virus, than catching a disease from
anyone on that site...lol
All I can say is, there are plenty of women on this site looking
for the same thing you are...Just be patient!
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| 6/26/2009 12:45:19 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 photodude111
 Sedona, AZ age: 45
| One has to be willing to work and put a little time into it to make it work. It does not take a ton of money to have fun.
I made a romantic dinner tuesday night for $9.58, Safeway sales are great, but then again I have a 40K free culinary education.
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| 6/26/2009 12:53:23 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 monkeylovin Los Angeles, CA age: 34
| I still don't get it
Love me love me
sounds sad & weak your basicly saying your life sucks & you can't stand to be alone . Why the f**k would I want to be stuck with if you can't stand to be with you self
& I've tryed some of those other site & most of them want $$$ & like I said I got 3 kids plus a dog I aint got nun 
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| 6/26/2009 1:01:10 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 monkeylovin Los Angeles, CA age: 34
| I'm trying its not like I hav'nt had a chance to hook up but they older & determined to get married I guess I'll have to stick with the 20 thru 26 yr olds they never let you down
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| 6/26/2009 1:06:46 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
trev_42 Laverne, OK age: 43
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Hey Trev I was in the 62 area 7th Marines back in the day, Our party area was San Clemente, When i was 25 I went to Recruiters school, I asked for LA San Deiego or Sna berdu and they sent me to phoenix, the best move the military ever made for me. I moved further north to get away from the crap.
Way off topic....oooh well
He Karl in Sedona,
Yeah you know me...lol aka oklahomaoilman
Yea I was 0481 Shore Party based at Camp Delmar- Camp Pendelton, and spent
many hot summer days in 29 Stumps, El Toro Air Station, Yuma Air Station,
and a Westpac tour. Great places to visit, but sure was glad to come back
to Texas and Oklahoma...lol
on topic...
I'm trying its not like I hav'nt had a chance to hook up but they older & determined to get married I guess I'll have to stick with the 20 thru 26 yr olds they never let you down
I have personally found that women over the age of 35 and have raised
their children are more likely to be in their second wind sexually, and are more
open to just messin around...JMO
[Edited 6/26/2009 1:10:24 AM PST]
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| 6/26/2009 1:15:44 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
libra007 Gold Beach, OR age: 46
| Yes, dude, stick with them. It's the best option you have.
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| 6/26/2009 1:26:44 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 monkeylovin Los Angeles, CA age: 34
| Good idea women who are dun raising they kids thanx
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| 6/26/2009 1:44:25 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
libra007 Gold Beach, OR age: 46
| Raising kids is one thing...saying, "I love myself too much to love you" is another. You need to reconcile the two, but not with the answer that "friends with benefits" is the ONLY answer. If that's what you want, then I suggest you approach women who aren't looking for anything else than what you want...but first, you have to have "friends" who want benefits. It sounds like you're here to drag the strip. That was something we did in our teens, eh?
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| 6/26/2009 2:11:40 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 monkeylovin Los Angeles, CA age: 34
| I'm 34 still to young to think bout seddaling down besides after I get the last kid into collage I'm off to see the world backpack around the world I'm gonna drag the strip the rest of my life or at least till I'm 60 than I'll marry a 20 yr old striper & die happly on top of her 
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| 6/26/2009 3:48:10 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
summer4us New London, CT age: 52
| Somebody sounds angry. I just saying if I looked at your post I would think....who needs that... even for one night.
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| 6/26/2009 4:05:25 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
quitesassy
 Massillon, OH age: 39
| People are here for all sorts of reasons, just because you are not finding those
that match yours is no reason to suggest other people should not be here.
There are plenty of sites that will cater to what you are searching for. Don't
they have street corners where you live with lovely, accommodating ladies just
waiting for gentleman like you?
Oh, right, the money issue.
Certainly hope you don't run around your house spouting this crap - what an
example to set for the 3 girls you are caring for. 
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| 6/26/2009 4:11:43 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
lovesillusion Moab, UT age: 26
| it's guys like you that really don't give me any hope on there being "good guys" out there anymore!
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| 6/26/2009 5:34:55 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 msbevzie
 Oregon, OH age: 46
| I'm 34 still to young to think bout seddaling down besides after I get the last kid into collage I'm off to see the world backpack around the world I'm gonna drag the strip the rest of my life or at least till I'm 60 than I'll marry a 20 yr old striper & die happly on top of her 
YOU just came on this site UMMMM wow I've heard more so its females whom are just looking for sex, or one night stands on here and NOT love or "the one" where have you been?
I wouldn't think you'd have no problem hooking up just for Monkey sex...YOU sound like a next Hugh Heffner BUT hey dude GO FOR IT!!! Whatever floats your boat or her little man in the boat if ya wanna just bang I'd think you'd have a ton of offers...
BUT maybe get a better attitude first!!!
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| 6/26/2009 5:38:42 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
sea_1
 Mesa, AZ age: 56
| Monkeyluvin...old maid reddrick????????????
....... ...Ok what's a Reddrick??.....This is a new one on me......Sea
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| 6/26/2009 7:58:40 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
tataman Jacksonville, FL age: 41
| Go on craigslist, there are plenty of ppl just wanting to get laid on there.
really???? cool.. 
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| 6/26/2009 8:06:35 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 cajunmister
 Kinder, LA age: 59
| Seen something on TV about Bootycall.com? Sounds like what your after. Men can just be men and say up front what they want, females have to hide their adgenda with words like love. Same game just different ways to play/score. JMO
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| 6/26/2009 8:18:30 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 photodude111
 Sedona, AZ age: 45
| I'm 34 still to young to think bout seddaling down besides after I get the last kid into collage I'm off to see the world backpack around the world I'm gonna drag the strip the rest of my life or at least till I'm 60 than I'll marry a 20 yr old striper & die happly on top of her 
What makes a stripper better than the girl next door. In you mind you believe that because she is a pro she will be better. Probably not in my humble opinion. It seems to me that someone has done a number on you, don't take it out on the women here. Younger is not always better. There is nothing like a mature woman that know what she wants. You seem to have a warp sense of reality, start enjoying life now. I hear so many people say, when the kids go to college, when I get that raise, that day may never come.
If you love yourself too much to love someone else then move on and get over it. There are a lot of great ladies here, give it a chance. Just because you sound your trumpet that you have arrived does not mean that anyone will notice.
Change your attitude and you will change your life.
Karl in Sedona
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| 6/26/2009 8:23:03 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
leftyl8
 Waverly, NY age: 44
| dude....quit whinning and go to adult friendfinder....leave the love to the adults
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| 6/26/2009 8:28:31 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 metu
 Mansfield, TX age: 48
| Can some one please explane why 98% percent of the women on here are looking for love . I think that's sad first of all the name of this sites is called date hook up.
What part of hook up don't you ladies understand . It seems like every chick is trying to find love on line . Men . I don't know bout the rest of you but I'm getting tird of these dames . I say flag em lets keep this sites for us indepented folks who Like being single . keep dating keep hooking up .. Thank god for the one night stand
Peace .. 
The solution is clear...
You just wanna go queer...
Leave the ladies to the real men who love them.
Disclaimer: This is a JOKE! I wouldn't wish this guy on anyone...gay or straight...
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| 6/26/2009 8:31:10 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 photodude111
 Sedona, AZ age: 45
| The solution is clear...
You just wanna go queer...
Leave the ladies to the real men who love them.
Disclaimer: This is a JOKE! I wouldn't wish this guy on anyone...gay or straight... 
Good point metu
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| 6/26/2009 8:33:42 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 wolfi
 Albuquerque, NM age: 44
| Dating sites : Overweight single mothers with 'tude out the wazoo.Lots of fakes.
Craigslist : Scam, Spam, Fake & Phony.
Real world: Girls looking for a tall guy with drugs & a better cell phone plan.
OP : Over 32 and therefore dating dogmeat.
Advice: hang out in bars frequented by 50+'s or on cruise ships.
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| 6/26/2009 8:47:29 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
insulting
 Houston, TX age: 42
| OP...your mistake is thinking about it.
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| 6/26/2009 8:47:37 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 pokerface_68 Springfield, OR age: 31
| I really hope that if you are raising three girls your attitude changes and you show those girls they are worth alot more than one night stands and men like you who have no respect for women. What kind of screwed up life are you setting them up for if you teach them that they couldn't love themselves because wanting to share a life with someone makes you weak. Think what you want about people looking for love and happiness because the second someone comes to one of those girls with the attitude you have now your going to think twice about the way you treat people. I would really hope that you would make it a point to raise them up to be a lady someday and show them what a real man looks like so they don't end up with a shit bag who treats them bad.
Anyway...its ok not to want to settle down but, you can be a little more respectful about it. Maybe the dames are sick and tired of men like you who think they are some kind of prize and think it would be some kind of honor to let you use them for your little 2 seconds of glory! 
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| 6/26/2009 8:48:59 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 dutchboy4u
 Huntington Beach, CA age: 46
| You need go go trolling in the sex forums.
It's a good thing you love yourself....looks like that's the only lovin' you'll get around here.
Now why would I sat that? It's all about your attitude and methodology.
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| 6/26/2009 8:50:12 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
pleasurepirate
 Shreveport, LA age: 48
| Can some one please explane why 98% percent of the women on here are looking for love . I think that's sad first of all the name of this sites is called date hook up.
What part of hook up don't you ladies understand . It seems like every chick is trying to find love on line . Men . I don't know bout the rest of you but I'm getting tird of these dames . I say flag em lets keep this sites for us indepented folks who Like being single . keep dating keep hooking up .. Thank god for the one night stand
Peace .. 
The solution is clear...
You just wanna go queer...
Leave the ladies to the real men who love them.
Disclaimer: This is a JOKE! I wouldn't wish this guy on anyone...gay or straight... 
Succinct and deadly, as usual, metu.
Be careful what you wish for OP. If you got your wish and the women seeking love left the site, you'd see mostly a bunch of horny guys like you sitting there holding their d*cks.
Not a pretty picture. 
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| 6/26/2009 10:14:21 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 stl1
 Saint Louis, MO age: 55
| I don't think you should be condemned for what you are saying although I do think you will get eaten alive if you keep that attitude. A lot of women on here play rough and a lot of men will jump on the band wagon to be politically correct or think it will get them noticed by the women.
If all you want is a piece of ass, that is your decision and we've probably all been there at one time or another in our lives but most people don't want to live their whole life like that. I don't understand why you are having such a problem getting laid in a metropolitan area the size of L.A. unless, of course, we come back to your attitude. The only person who will give it up without getting any respect is either a hooker, a psycho, a nymphomaniac or someone with some very serious self-esteem issues. Are you sure this is the pond you want to fish?
What I really don't understand is that you are such a stand-up guy and are raising not only your daughter but also your step sisters two daughters by yourself. Tough gig. KUDOS TO YOU. You are probably understandably super stressed out and angry about the situation with not only having to care for children that aren't even yours but also all that was involved in getting you to have custody of your own daughter. I suspect you have some serious, and probably justifiable, issues with women especially adding in your own childhood history.
I think you may benefit from some counseling. Don't take this as a put-down as it just appears that you have some issues you may need to work through and the counselor may be able to advise you to some assistance you may be available to receive. Even if you aren't doing it for yourself at first, do it for those little girls. With any luck, you may end up loving yourself enough to let someone else love you.
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| 6/26/2009 10:23:56 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 tryagaindj68
 Evansville, IN age: 41 online now!
| OP, congrats on doing a great job making a difference in those little girls' lives.
Wanna get laid? Go to the sex forums.
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| 6/26/2009 10:28:44 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 rrrsmile
 York, PA age: 49
| OP - I see you a very new to DHU. As such, you probably have not deciphered much of the jargon and code used in the forums. Please allow me this opportunity to enhance your DH experience.
1) Most humans are looking for love in some form. You might define love as allowing a girl you have just met at the bar to give you blow job in the restroom to show gratitude for the drink you bought her. The women on the forums will not admit to that sort of behavior. Most of them will not have any kind of sex until they "get to know you" or are comfortable having you as a friend first. Read that to mean you'll have to babysit them before you get laid.
2) In the main, people in the forums are living in a fantasy world and are not really interested in meeting anyone face to face in real life. Their online "friends" give them all the emotional support they need to supplement their medications.
3) Always keep in mind these women have been discarded for reasons that include, but are not limited to: They have no common sense, they talk too much, they are fat, they are illogical, they are terrible in bed and according to Eddie will not do A2M.
That is all I have time for now. Best regards,
someone else needs to get laided. 
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| 6/26/2009 10:31:20 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 tater79
 Springfield, IL age: 30 online now!
| Whatever floats your boat OP.. Myself I'm looking for only one person.. not the one night stand thing...
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| 6/26/2009 2:12:37 PM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 susansheart839
 Port Saint Lucie, FL age: 61
| I am a former Los Angeles chick now living in Florida. I gotta ask one question: who would date a guy whose screen name is MONKEYLUVIN???? Good luck with your one night stands. Be sure to wear protection cuz one of em is gonna call you the baby daddy!!!!!

[Edited 6/26/2009 2:14:35 PM PST]
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| 6/26/2009 2:32:49 PM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 conchgirl78 Key West, FL age: 31
| I'm not looking for love I'm looking to date... That does not mean I'm going to hook up (i.e. screw you) if we go on a date either.
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| 6/26/2009 3:19:15 PM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
xcitement2
 Durham, NC age: 52
| Go on craigslist, there are plenty of ppl just wanting to get laid on there.
yep... didn't they just arrest a serial murderer who was picking up women on
Craig's List?? sure go on that site... have at it. 
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| 6/26/2009 3:24:33 PM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
xcitement2
 Durham, NC age: 52
| Seriously.. if you just want a one night stand go to the sleeziest Bar you can
find and pick up the Drunkest Chick there.
Thats what most guys like you do. 
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| 6/26/2009 3:34:07 PM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 conchgirl78 Key West, FL age: 31
| I might be the drunkest chick at the bar but not the easiest lay or pick-up that's for sure.
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| 6/26/2009 3:57:52 PM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 ladybugg180 Bronx, NY age: 53
| Can some one please explane why 98% percent of the women on here are looking for love . I think that's sad first of all the name of this sites is called date hook up.
What part of hook up don't you ladies understand . It seems like every chick is trying to find love on line . Men . I don't know bout the rest of you but I'm getting tird of these dames . I say flag em lets keep this sites for us indepented folks who Like being single . keep dating keep hooking up .. Thank god for the one night stand
Peace .. 
hellloooo!!!! its called date hook up meaning that you just might find and date ON HERE the one you will HOOK UP WITH for life {like seriously} ... maybe what you need is a porn site .. I'm sure you'll find ALOT of one night stands there sweety 
[Edited 6/26/2009 4:03:39 PM PST]
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| 6/26/2009 4:14:02 PM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
butt_ugly Las Vegas, NV age: 49
| I don't think you should be condemned for what you are saying although I do think you will get eaten alive if you keep that attitude. A lot of women on here play rough and a lot of men will jump on the band wagon to be politically correct or think it will get them noticed by the women.
If all you want is a piece of ass, that is your decision and we've probably all been there at one time or another in our lives but most people don't want to live their whole life like that. I don't understand why you are having such a problem getting laid in a metropolitan area the size of L.A. unless, of course, we come back to your attitude. The only person who will give it up without getting any respect is either a hooker, a psycho, a nymphomaniac or someone with some very serious self-esteem issues. Are you sure this is the pond you want to fish?
What I really don't understand is that you are such a stand-up guy and are raising not only your daughter but also your step sisters two daughters by yourself. Tough gig. KUDOS TO YOU. You are probably understandably super stressed out and angry about the situation with not only having to care for children that aren't even yours but also all that was involved in getting you to have custody of your own daughter. I suspect you have some serious, and probably justifiable, issues with women especially adding in your own childhood history.
I think you may benefit from some counseling. Don't take this as a put-down as it just appears that you have some issues you may need to work through and the counselor may be able to advise you to some assistance you may be available to receive. Even if you aren't doing it for yourself at first, do it for those little girls. With any luck, you may end up loving yourself enough to let someone else love you.
Well put! I couldn't agree with you more on this one. I too believe you are a 'stand-up' guy for doing what you are doing, it is very hard to raise children on your own never the less 3 girls. You sound very frustrated and in emotional turmoil. Are you getting any type of emotional support from family or friends? Sounds like you need some down time and a person to lend an ear. Have someone take the girls for a weekend and go do something for yourself, be it nothing or hang with some buddies and blow off some steam. Try and make arrangements where you can do that once a month. You will feel so much better and have a different perspective on things. Having one nite stands with sleezy women is not the route to take (or will solve your problems), this will only worsen things and may even put you at risk in catching some STD or impregnating some careless (and very fertile) woman. I feel for you, honestly. And yes, you need to fine tune your attitude just a bit (Ok, alot!). Otherwise you will become just another sinking ship. Think of your girls - they want a Dad they can look up to, someone who is emotionally strong and healthy. You need to work on yourself and once you have you will be amazed with the results! Once you get to that point then you will be ready to find what it is you are looking for and no, I am not meaning love, but merely someone who will find you attractive and want the same things as you do, be it casual sex, etc. Who knows, maybe once you change your way of thinking and doing things you may suddenly find yourself open to love once again! I wish you luck and happiness and keep the faith!
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| 6/26/2009 4:18:25 PM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 skeptyc Plato, MO age: 33
| It's DATE hookup. If you're looking for SEX I'm sure there's a site for that too.
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| 6/26/2009 5:20:25 PM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 thunderstorms62 Endicott, NY age: 47
| "Hook Up" means a lot of different things to folks here
so I won't go too far into that.
I'll give you credit for having the stones to be honest about what you're
looking for dude. Good luck!
P.S. Many don't know WTF they're looking for.
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| 6/26/2009 5:26:09 PM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
luv2bum Milwaukee, WI age: 44
| You just wanna f**k for the night. There's a thing called prostitutes. Go pay for your f**k!
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| 6/26/2009 5:33:50 PM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
midnightgambler
 Memphis, TN age: 32
| I couldn't care less about hooking up despite the site name. Most people here actually seem uninterested in finding anybody for anything at all honestly. But either way what's the point of one night stands anyway?
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| 6/26/2009 5:36:39 PM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
easygoinalways Coloma, MI age: 37
| Dude GET A LIFE!!! Dont even talk about raising kids! I have 3 children all young and also raise my 1/2 sister.. So what do you do? Bring all the stanks to your home or leave your children unattended? Dont b*tch about not having money for real women it is obviously your chose to raise those children. Show them that you respect yourself and other women as they are NOT a peice of property.
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| 6/26/2009 6:12:02 PM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 mjkittredge
 Nashua, NH age: 28
| OP - don't pay any attention to the people bashing you here. They are prudes and repressed people.
You are clear about what you want, and that is the way to be. And there are woman that want the same thing you do. Although, those who express their desire for it openly are inundated with emails.
So I would recommend, for your date hookup, to simply establish contact with a few girls who live nearby. Get em talking, get to know them, eventually get to the meeting. After a while, they might turn into just what you want them to be. It's happened to me more than a few times.
It's funny, how if you said right off the bat to some of these women "I'd just like to hook up from time to time." they'd act all repulsed by the comment. But if you don't say it and end up getting together, that's exactly how it ends up. You're not crashing headlong into their idealistic walls, you're going around them. Their dream of love and unicorns and chocolate doesn't conflict with what you're saying, and the hooking up is just a temporary thing because they are so busy with work and school, ect ect.
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| 6/26/2009 6:31:18 PM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
xcitement2
 Durham, NC age: 52
| Quote from skeptyc:It's DATE hookup. If you're looking for SEX I'm sure there's a site for that too.
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I believe there is one called Booty Call.com.
not that I have ever been there... 
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| 6/26/2009 8:51:52 PM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 monkeylovin Los Angeles, CA age: 34
| First I would like to thank everyone for there coments I enjoyed them all I laughed my a** off .. Funny shit .. Oh yeah F U metu.. Jus kiddin .. Anyway much thanx for the advice .. Maybe I am desrepectful . But @ least I'm honest .. Most women I beleave put up a front . They like the bad boy . But want to be treated like a lady .
They want to make love but want you to f**kem longer harder & faster . Want you to ask them out plan the date pay for dinner tell they look & smell good . basicly want you to live up to every romance book or love movies that they've been watchin since child hood like cinderala .. & we as a society accepte it there monthers tell them to marry doctors or lawyers .not janitors or manuale laborers.. I tell my girls to look thru the bull shit you don't need to follow the rules you can break them bend them or just ignore them completely as long as your happy I'm cool with it jus be as idependent as you can be . Be free . Be free of a sexless relationship be free of a 9 to 5 life work kids bills f**k that don't waste your time . like I said as soon as the last one is off to collage I'm selling it all me & the dog are travalin when the girls get done we can meet up in euorpe or africa . Or brazil where ever I'm at & we can travle to gether free free of debt collector free of people who say they love you but want you to raise kids work your self to death stressing bout deadline & buddgets . Cut backs . Inventory . Shit that don't f**king matter. your jus working to make some one else rich what so that thay can fire me or cut my hours f**k that if I wasn't raising kids I be hoboing it accross the globe yeah I do think love is over rated espeacily when more than half of marriges ends in divorce
So maybe I'll save love for those I do care about famliy & good friends my dog my caddalac . Not for some girl trying to sucker me into a life of strees jus so she can full fill some prophcy her mama told her would come true.. .. Once again thanx for the advice 
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| 6/27/2009 10:20:09 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 metu
 Mansfield, TX age: 48
| F yerself, Monkey...you'll get more poosie that way! Oh yea...just kiddin'...
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| 6/27/2009 10:27:39 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 photodude111
 Sedona, AZ age: 45
| WOW! need help bad.
Hope you find what you are looking for!
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| 6/27/2009 10:29:50 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
lovesillusion Moab, UT age: 26
| there is another site for just "hookin up" called adultfriendfinder!
or craigslist!
hahahaha the ads on those sites are kinda amusing to read expecially if you are bored and need a good laugh!
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| 6/27/2009 10:46:14 AM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 longhairedgal Lakeland, FL age: 53
| I really hope that if you are raising three girls your attitude changes and you show those girls they are worth alot more than one night stands and men like you who have no respect for women. What kind of screwed up life are you setting them up for if you teach them that they couldn't love themselves because wanting to share a life with someone makes you weak. Think what you want about people looking for love and happiness because the second someone comes to one of those girls with the attitude you have now your going to think twice about the way you treat people. I would really hope that you would make it a point to raise them up to be a lady someday and show them what a real man looks like so they don't end up with a shit bag who treats them bad.
Anyway...its ok not to want to settle down but, you can be a little more respectful about it. Maybe the dames are sick and tired of men like you who think they are some kind of prize and think it would be some kind of honor to let you use them for your little 2 seconds of glory! 
Very well said! In addition, I hope this young man is using protection against STDs. Don't you? Imagine where he has been. Now he isn't going to get lucky here unless he finds the girl with the same outlook on it as him. YIKES!!!
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| 6/27/2009 1:00:08 PM | I love my self too much to love you. | |
 mjkittredge
 Nashua, NH age: 28
| there is another site for just "hookin up" called adultfriendfinder!
or craigslist!
hahahaha the ads on those sites are kinda amusing to read  expecially if you are bored and need a good laugh!
For those who don't know, Adultfriendfinder is a scam site, all the female profiles are fake. Craigslist it's all spammers and scammers.
They are both a complete waste of time.
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