Guess People Were Right

6/26/2009 10:10:12 PM	Guess People Were Right
midnightgambler Memphis, TN age: 32	Dunno if anyone even remembers that girl who posted on ehre asking to rate her and I kept taking up for her, but obviously people were right about her. i've talked to her for a while and to say she is a typical teenager is a huge understatement. I fking went out of my way to be nice to her for a long time and really all she does is just play games and she gets mad when I don't go along with them. What the fk is up with people who waste everybody's time by coming here to BS everybody? I mean seriously doesn't anyone here have a life or any integrity? I mean wow it was becoming obvious how she was so I stopped feeling the same about her when it was obvious that she was just ehre to get as many guys' attention as possible and throw out BS lines to me as if I am stupid and believe them. I couldn't even talk 10 minutes to her without her rushing off without saying bye where she could go talk to yet another guy. I really just feel bad for her honestly. But hey I shouldn't. She's been EXTREMELY immature so i should just be glad she's going through some shit. Then atl_chick18 is "supposedly" her sister, but it's just honest something's going on with that username too and even if there really are two people they're both playing games so just don't get fooled by them. i obviously got fooled enough to be into her and want to help her through some things, but I'm done letting these immature people waste my time and add stress when I have enough as it is. Yeah it's only a site, but I don't treat it that way. I think people are pretty low when they just wrecklessly act the way these people do. Ya know I've got to the point where even as nice as I am I'm almost tempted to be glad she is going through shit. That is if she even IS going through anything since she can't be straight with me on any damn thing. This is why you've gotta just not give a shit about online people at least until you meet because they don't take it seriously like some do and then it's wasting everybody's time. [Edited 6/26/2009 10:12:05 PM PST]
6/26/2009 10:15:42 PM	Guess People Were Right
jrsomebody Fairmont, WV age: 53	The Best Lessons In Life, Are Usually Learned The Hard Way...
6/26/2009 10:16:05 PM	Guess People Were Right
destiny007 Dahlonega, GA age: 58	(((((Midnightgambler))))) I'm sorry you got hurt. That wasn't nice, nor ethical of her. You seem like a nice Guy...you deserve better!
6/26/2009 10:17:14 PM	Guess People Were Right
onyx660 Atlanta, GA age: 21	The more you think you know about someone the less you truly know.
6/26/2009 10:23:29 PM	Guess People Were Right
jrsomebody Fairmont, WV age: 53	I Tried To Get To Know Myself Once... But Was I Mis-Lead...
6/26/2009 10:23:34 PM	Guess People Were Right
midnightgambler Memphis, TN age: 32	Thanks. I hate to make these because enough people already think i just always want drama. But I get sick of this same pattern. It's what I get for ever trying to trust a teenager. I still feel like deep down she's a sweet girl, but who knows. She's such a liar and attention wh*re that it's hard to tell what's true about her as a person anyway. It just gets old that if you're nice you get used. It's just how things go. One day I started seeing how she is so I was going to stop tlaking to her and she begged me not to and what was accomplished??? All that happened by me fighting through how I felt was for her to keep ignoring me and she got MAD because I wasn't comfortable with calling her yet. Maybe if she didn't give off a vibe of being into 1,000 guys at once I would have been more comfortable with it. It's one thing to be interested in people, but another thing to just flat out make it so obvious that she's talking to other guys and will drop a convo with you the second the others get on. She gave me all these lines about how different I am and made her feel better about herself blah blah blah and then made it so obvious it was just BS. I'm extremely picky in who I care about and obviously it's not good to feel anything towards someone online so I should have held back from the beginning, but then it's 100 times worse when the person ends up how she ended up. Wouldn't be so bad if not for the fact that this has happened before. lol So I must not be doing too great of a job at recognizing what I ened to recognize. i did think she was playing games, but I then forced myself to stick through it because stupid me actually cared about the kid.
6/26/2009 10:25:24 PM	Guess People Were Right
jrsomebody Fairmont, WV age: 53	Caring Is Good, Cautious Is Wiser...
6/26/2009 10:28:58 PM	Guess People Were Right
midnightgambler Memphis, TN age: 32	and by the way atl_chick18 seems to have guys after her too (or maybe it's really katie always on there, not sure) so just be careful with her is all I'm saying in case the guys who are interested in her are reading this, by chance. Really there are reasons to assume both of them are just playing, but no point just going into it all or bashing them. I just hate to see other people being into them. But hey I 100% guarantee that the other guys are just into them because they want sex anyway. I'm torn between my nice side and actually being glad they're going to just keep being used as for a while. As far as Katie goes, it's her own fault. i can't speak for her sister since I don't know if she's the same or not other than she has some things going on also.
6/26/2009 11:59:51 PM	Guess People Were Right
sophos8 Milledgeville, GA age: 28	Consider it lesson learned. Date people your own age. Teens are best left to other teens who are on the same immaturity level as them.
6/27/2009 2:34:55 AM	Guess People Were Right
midnightgambler Memphis, TN age: 32	Not interested in people my age. They're even worse in some ways. I want someone in-between. Around 22-25. Sucks that I really do care about this girl. Wish i didn't because she's not going to magically learn what's her fault.
6/27/2009 6:20:01 AM	Guess People Were Right
jonas35 Dahlonega, GA age: 35	Nice guys always lose, just pretend your an a**hole, thats what I do!
6/27/2009 6:22:07 AM	Guess People Were Right
br289 Buford, GA age: 43	or just be one, Like I am! ( or going to start being ) Hell, women love "Bad Boys"....
6/27/2009 6:24:15 AM	Guess People Were Right
jonas35 Dahlonega, GA age: 35	We would not steer you wrong my friend!
6/27/2009 12:45:59 PM	Guess People Were Right
midnightgambler Memphis, TN age: 32	The funny thing is most people here do think I'm an a**hole. lol I'm what people's actions ask for really. I like the combo I am, but doesn't ever get me what I want anyway. And this particular girl I was ALWAYS nice to. She went from talking to me constantly to talking toother guys in the middle of a convo and almost never talking to me anymore. So yeah I complained about that since she led me on before that and said all the things someone wants to hear (of course). So I had a right to be a little pissed that she was playing games. But either way I STILL wasn't mean. All I can say is she's supposedly going through some things and good luck to her going through it with 1 less person caring because she doesn't exactly have the whole world on her side. She causes practically everyone, including family, to be mad at her and then I look past shit and sincerely want to make her feel better about things and I'm the one who gets tossed? Whatever. She can just keep going for the guys she goes for and keep getting the same result. Dunno if anyone from here saw it, but she also posted another controversial topic where she said she doesn't see anything wrong with cheating because all guys have cheated on her and she thinks they all will so she's fine with it.