| 8/11/2009 12:28:30 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | | tater2009
 Evansville, IN age: 38
| OK I understand the theory of let the man lead. However, things have changed. What is wrong if I want to put the shoe on the other foot. I want to be the one to just snatch the lollipop. When doing this . . . women are looked and called names. Does a man like a woman to be the candy snatcher?
You can snatch my lillipop anytime.
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| 8/11/2009 12:31:09 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
 runtan Minden, NV age: 56
| hey iam in charge here grrrrrr I'll lead us into temptation!! haa haa
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| 8/13/2009 11:15:55 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
 semperfideliswm
 Anchorage, AK age: 39
| The only way a man can prevent me from taking the lead If and when I want to is by restraining me! That is so hot!
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| 8/14/2009 7:28:18 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
jacob808 Honolulu, HI age: 26
| I dont see a problem with women taking the lead. Besides you guys been fighting for equal rights for how many years now. The questions is, how many of you actually the balls to step up to the plate..
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| 8/14/2009 8:48:08 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
fran4305 Bennington, VT age: 71
| I love to have the female take the lead. Early on too - say the 2nd or 3rd time we are together!!
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| 8/16/2009 5:18:58 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
 jholmes27 Allen, TX age: 28
| By all means take the lead..... I love things that are easy to conquer! Lol
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| 8/16/2009 6:22:50 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
 semperfideliswm
 Anchorage, AK age: 39
| I dont see a problem with women taking the lead. Besides you guys been fighting for equal rights for how many years now. The questions is, how many of you actually the balls to step up to the plate.. 
I guess you can say...I GOT BALLS BABY! lol
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| 8/16/2009 7:15:23 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
bluebird2004 Tulsa, OK age: 59
| TOO FUNNY...LOL!
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| 8/16/2009 7:51:37 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
 love81 Sterling, VA age: 51
| I lobe it when the female takes the lead. As a guy i sopend my whiole life chasing. Its great to find a feaml who has enough confidnce to make the first move. guys are insecure too. its nice to feel wanted once in a while
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| 8/16/2009 7:54:07 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
 grenweft Palmetto, FL age: 41
| I think that a woman who takes the lead reduces ALOT of pressure on their partner. A woman that takes the initiative in introducing themselves to a guy they are interested in reduces the whole "pepper spray" scenerio!
A woman in the act of sex that is a talker is a real turn on to me because I get turned on KNOWING I am turning on my partner, and not just wasting my time. Too many times the female partner is silent (probably for fear they would be considered "slutty"), and the guy they are with is doing EVERYTHING wrong! They leave thinking he is a bad lover, and he thinks he is "all that". It is ESPECIALLY difficult with a new partner that you are inexperienced in what they enjoy. To me, women's bodies are very complex- what works one day may NOT work the next, and without a leading communication from the woman, the sex becomes a one sided affair. I believe sex should be enjoyed by both partners or it isn't "fair". Women need alot more time to be brought to the point of climax than a man, and believe it or not men can't read minds. A woman who taked the lead (in my point of view) is someone who is sincerly interested in helping her partner overcome the changing obsticles of a woman's body so that they can both reach "that point" together. Finally, I also believe that if a man has issues with his woman taking the lead, he has power issues and is inconsiderate of his mate- those are usually the name callers.
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| 8/16/2009 7:55:44 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
 tjer1l Jacksonville Beach, FL age: 55
| I'll take the lead but too many men get scared when they see where I'm taking them
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| 8/16/2009 7:59:55 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
 scottiscool
 Mayville, WI age: 50 online now!
| Tjer, I am not scared of you.! Bring those big TA-TA's along.!!
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| 8/16/2009 10:56:39 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
hersheymann Harvey, IL age: 52
| if you have to ask the question it because you know. that you came from the side of man, so you belong on the side man of man. dont fight nature. use the force!
[Edited 8/16/2009 10:59:47 AM PST]
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| 8/16/2009 11:07:04 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
astonishing Tucson, AZ age: 29
| Wow umm really?
I am guessing cause they cannot lead!
Well it seems like that unless i have been meeting the wrong gals but i like my women sexy and girly and mostly innocent.
Not some broad who blows the whole block and has a nasty STD!
If a woman can lead it right and do it right than im all for it.

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| 8/16/2009 1:50:48 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
 semperfideliswm
 Anchorage, AK age: 39
| I'll take the lead but too many men get scared when they see where I'm taking them
REALLY?? I have no issue scaring men. lol Can't say I have ever scared one yet!!
I just do what comes naturally...things tend to fall right into place once they see what you want and are willing to go for.

[Edited 8/16/2009 1:51:38 PM PST]
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| 8/16/2009 11:16:50 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
helikestowatch Little Rock, AR age: 39
| Women should take the lead these days. clears up the confusion! 
Yeah and that goes duoble if we are at work. 
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| 8/16/2009 11:17:19 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
niterider2 Sun City, AZ age: 61
| It turns me on when a woman takes the lead, nothing wrong with that, excites me when I know a woman wants my body.
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| 8/16/2009 11:38:23 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
lola_girl Olympia, WA age: 45
| Quote from: Semperfideliswm: The only way a man can prevent me from taking the lead If and when I want to is by restraining me! That is so hot!
Oh yes! And cuffs work well to subdue the ones that keep trying to take the lead back!
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| 8/17/2009 9:12:37 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
edgeofsandias
 Placitas, NM age: 41
| Waaaaaa, quit whining!
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| 8/18/2009 12:13:56 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
 budelyisdon Mountain View, CA age: 47
| Take the lead ? look at these words, what do they say to you ?
If you really interested let them know, or dont and wait untill the next time " you dont". Your lose. 
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| 8/18/2009 2:07:55 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
 mowfuka Daphne, AL age: 22
| I find it to be a massive turn on for a girl to just attack me from out of no where. it makes us men know you want it. I have never had this happen.
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| 8/18/2009 2:39:50 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
 asleepatthewhee Las Vegas, NV age: 47
| if a woman wants to be a candy snatcher go on, get after it, take the whole dam bag for all i care....
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| 8/18/2009 11:30:49 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
 byron1987 Compton, CA age: 22
| shit I would love for a woman to take the lead 
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| 8/18/2009 2:16:43 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
lollipoprockz
 Jacksonville, FL age: 31
| OK I understand the theory of let the man lead. However, things have changed. What is wrong if I want to put the shoe on the other foot. I want to be the one to just snatch the lollipop. When doing this . . . women are looked and called names. Does a man like a woman to be the candy snatcher?
Hey.....lol...did someone say lollipop?
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