| 7/3/2009 8:05:29 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | | 
wing23fish
Eaton Rapids, MI
age: 25
| agressive sometimes is good
i wouldnt complain
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| 7/3/2009 8:30:04 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
teck6959
Prospect, KY
age: 46
| I love aggressive women, lets me know that they are really attracted to me. Since i can be passive at times (and suck at reading hints from girls) it can be a very good thing for a girl to be aggressive.
Not only is it a good thing it just works out better.
I will state it again for the record; In all the long term relationships I have had the women has been the first to make the advances.Be it the date to the bed room they always lead.
Damn the name calling and let the emails be sent.
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| 7/3/2009 8:41:38 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
fosplicer
Hiram, GA
age: 48
| No reason at all, in fact I find it a refreshing thing when a female takes charge.
All though that may be a little difficult in my case. All of my training in life has been to be agressive, to be in charge, to control the situation.
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| 7/3/2009 8:50:00 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
kenneth07
Warsaw, IL
age: 20
| Power to the aggressive women lol
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| 7/3/2009 9:17:13 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
faux_punk
Belton, TX
age: 21
| I'm completely clueless. Unless the woman takes the lead then chances are nothing will happen.  
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| 7/3/2009 9:39:57 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
davieboy84
Hempstead, NY
age: 24
| women dont take the lead because they would be looked at differently.......personally i like a woman who isnt afraid to go after what she wants. i think more women should take the lead more often
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| 7/3/2009 10:20:27 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
shorinbj
Monrovia, MD
age: 27
| I'll weigh in and say I wish women would take the lead more often.
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| 7/4/2009 2:12:35 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
easydaddy2loveu
Dayton, OH
age: 40
| yea i think if you want a 50/50 relationship then dont come off as if wanting a control freak .. take the reigns from time to time after all in truth we want to please you as much as you do us.. thats my humble opinion
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| 7/4/2009 4:18:08 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
decaf09
Warren, MI
age: 50
| take the lead and run with it i cant wait to find a woman like that
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| 7/4/2009 6:53:07 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
suzeq103
Purcellville, VA
age: 53
| I've been know to say "drop your drawers, I need some loving" and it worked out well. I don't do that in the mall, just with someone special. However, there are situations when you are with someone new that passion overcomes me and I have to move in for the first kiss. AAAHHH
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| 7/4/2009 6:56:59 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
serenityfrank
Toms River, NJ
age: 51
| Whatever!!!... If your partner does not have aproblem with you asserting yourself from time to time then what anyone else says does NOT matter.
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yes we are all equals dosent matter whos driving,,as long as the journey is fun,,,
and sometimes i need a big pushstart,,to get me rolling,,got your tootsie pop 
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| 7/4/2009 7:08:34 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
lost528
Smithfield, RI
age: 23
| however you look at it like its been stated before in a 50/50 relationship you both need to take charge. Believe me it sux when your left to make all the advances you start to wonder if your partner even thinks of you like that but to be truthful theres something about an aggressive gurl  
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| 7/4/2009 9:38:12 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
concordeman
Quincy, MA
age: 77
| We are in the 21st Century, and in today's society, it should be a 50/50 chance to start something that both partners want.
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| 7/5/2009 12:08:43 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
lostman151
Clearfield, KY
age: 28
| I think it's a turn on for a girl to take the lead
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| 7/5/2009 12:14:48 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
longlastingwife
Grand Rapids, MI
age: 35
| some men do like it when the woman takes the lead, i guess what i'm getting at is it's not what you do it's how you do it and for me i just talk in one of my sexy voices, give him a little sexy eye shot, stare at him for a few seconds and then........................... i put it on him
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| 7/5/2009 1:10:25 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
puzzybreath
Osage Beach, MO
age: 31
| op,, you can take my candy any time you want it baby. 
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| 7/5/2009 7:48:22 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
horsepassion69
Rochester, MN
age: 40
| I do best in the lead and have never had complaints, however I like to switch it up frequently.
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| 7/5/2009 7:55:22 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
wyoming001
Lyman, WY
age: 55
| All is fair in love and play
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| 7/5/2009 10:54:03 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
racergrl4u
Gulf Breeze, FL
age: 19
| I take the lead all the time. Ive never really met a guy that didnt like it or didnt think its sexy. Its perfectly okay to take the lead when you want. Dont hold back because of what people call you. Names are just names, how you feel is a different story. If you feel like taking the lead, Damn girl take the lead. Put matters into your own hands 
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| 7/7/2009 2:00:20 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
notdesperate36
Durant, OK
age: 36
| i have often been the aggressor....and i've never been put down for it....
i have found men are actually receptive to women that speak their mind....most of the time....now, every once and a while-you'll come across the man that gets offended-he's the one at the restaurant all by himself wondering why he's the only one without a date....
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| 7/7/2009 3:11:50 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
serenityfrank
Toms River, NJ
age: 51
| As Slow as i normally move i Need a Kickstart gal ha ha
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| 7/8/2009 5:01:18 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
archer77
Big Rapids, MI
age: 31
| We all want women to be more assertive but it just isn't so.
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| 7/8/2009 2:32:23 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
wiseguy2009
Brooklyn, NY
age: 30
| I wish could find woman to take lead word! I don't mind please do. 
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| 7/8/2009 5:50:37 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
snuggle82
Hattiesburg, MS
age: 26
| hay just want 2 snuggle ohey u can take charge if u want 2
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| 7/8/2009 5:56:33 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
ladybugg180
Bronx, NY
age: 53
| I love taking the lead and I often do
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| 7/8/2009 7:49:07 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
tdh1989
Burlington, WI
age: 20
| I think given the occation and the set mood at that moment its sexy when a women isnt afraid to take charge and takes what she wants and u want to give it to her that much more!!!
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| 7/8/2009 8:02:24 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
niceguy4tlc
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 52
| For various reasons ranging from the Bible to simple Tradition, things are the way they are. What we manly want is not to feel subservient, disrespected or as though we are in a competition with you.
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| 7/9/2009 11:16:18 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
jonnie2893
Ventura, CA
age: 22
| I'm all for lettin the woman take the lead. After all, wat makes her happy makes me happy.
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| 7/10/2009 6:57:36 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
blueskies1966
Fort Dodge, IA
age: 43
| I always let the lady take the lead. In this wild internet world, a mis read gesture could be dire for a man. So I let the lady let me know and then things work the way they should. One should never over step one's bounds
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| 7/10/2009 7:22:50 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
bigpoppa1007
Dallas, TX
age: 25
| nono me as a shy guy i love when a girl know what she want and goes and gets it but if you come on way too strong it does look bad just like it would if a guy would
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| 7/11/2009 7:01:56 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
raen
Sunman, IN
age: 40
| practice, practice, practice
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| 7/12/2009 5:24:31 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
thisguy23
Chattanooga, TN
age: 35
| you must share and take turns. Sometimes it would be nice for the woman to take the lead
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| 7/12/2009 5:27:39 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
alphalover
Elkhart, IN
age: 38
| it causes a break in my perception.I like to come off smooth and romantic,I know I shouldn't feel this way,but I do...
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| 7/12/2009 7:48:50 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
kermit222
Atwater, CA
age: 27
| I love aggresive women
sticks and stones may brake my bones but wipes and chains excite me
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| 7/12/2009 8:52:05 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
lifer13
Sharon, PA
age: 30
| I like when women have power, and take a stand, the lead.
Makes my mouth drop, I love it, shows me that they have respect and pride for them selfs
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| 7/13/2009 5:45:22 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
skytrout
Lilburn, GA
age: 30
| She can take the lead, but the man is more appealing to women if he is dominant.
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| 7/13/2009 6:07:16 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
oceandive
Cartersville, GA
age: 52
| lead, follow or get the hell out of the way....somebody's gotta do it....
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| 7/13/2009 7:15:26 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
mark311
Mentor, OH
age: 27
| shit i like a woman who knowa what she wants!
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| 7/25/2009 11:40:36 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
joshypoo9
Las Vegas, NV
age: 38
| That would require her to do too much, and she doesnt want that. The least amount of work she can do, and gain the most from it, is usually the way they do it.
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| 7/26/2009 12:29:32 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
wizmom_00
Galatia, IL
age: 58
| LOL...couple of you guys have a few things to learn...LOL!! Go for it honey, men love it!! Most of the men who have posted agree they like it...just dont take lead too much, as in multiple relationships...or then you will earn a name. On a 1:1 relationship...at first its kind of "baffle and dazzle"...but it keeps the spice, and relationship hot!!
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| 7/27/2009 12:26:56 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
azureeyes08
Duxbury, MA
age: 45
| I have always loved it when M'Lady takes the lead and take what she wants when she wants it. If your with each other, then why not!!!!????!!!!!! I woman of seof confidence is a sexy thing in my mind!!
   
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| 7/27/2009 1:18:57 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
2sweetbitter
Orange, CA
age: 40
| i dont mind
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| 7/27/2009 7:26:57 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
unique14u
Roanoke, VA
age: 56
| I never a woman that wants to lead once in a while ... IM game !!
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| 7/27/2009 7:31:27 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
mbucko
Saint Cloud, MN
age: 40
| I think that it would be cool for the woman to "take the lead" like Rodeny says I'm not always sure if the lead is there for the taking...
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| 7/29/2009 9:01:53 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
swm4you
Murfreesboro, TN
age: 63
| I,m with you. More women should take the leed ! It lets a man know she wants him !
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| 7/31/2009 12:31:18 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
rinnz
Brattleboro, VT
age: 21
| I like to take the lead.........
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| 7/31/2009 12:33:27 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
pshark09
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 24
| I love for the woman to take the lead. HUGE turn on
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| 7/31/2009 1:29:20 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
biker29isback
Arlington, WA
age: 30
| she can start it but im sure as hell going to finish it
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| 7/31/2009 2:11:58 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
devilangel24
Stillwater, OK
age: 24
| I've taken the lead plenty of times, I see nothing wrong with it.
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| 7/31/2009 11:40:38 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
denbroni
Portland, OR
age: 31
| Its actually a blessing when women take the lead. Personally when it comes to women im clueless. You could be staring at me forever, but unless you come over and tell me that you think im hot chances are that im not going to notice. Im really shy when it comes to meeting new women This happen just the other day... I was at a coffee shop with a friend and it was not until after we left did he say " dude whats the matter with you, that chick in the blue shirt was checking you out the whole time we were there"
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| 7/31/2009 11:53:25 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
akjustlmao
Anchorage, AK
age: 43
| Scares me to death to make the first move but once I get the hin't, a smile, wink, flirt I can be bold. Just need the slightest hint of an invetation and I'll make a move.
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| 8/1/2009 9:47:50 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
varabbits
Farmville, VA
age: 61
| For various reasons ranging from the Bible to simple Tradition, things are the way they are. What we manly want is not to feel subservient, disrespected or as though we are in a competition with you.
I think that in this thread this response hits the nail on the head ...
But in the mean time - tell me what you want .....
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| 8/1/2009 11:46:44 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
pattilee3
Norfolk, VA
age: 50
| we do take the lead many times with a smile, a look or a gesture to show interest
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| 8/1/2009 12:14:37 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
littlee442
Mount Dora, FL
age: 59
| Scares me to death to make the first move but once I get the hin't, a smile, wink, flirt I can be bold. Just need the slightest hint of an invetation and I'll make a move.
Yo, hey, H E Y !  
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| 8/1/2009 12:30:13 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
outcruzin2
Schaumburg, IL
age: 44
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| 8/1/2009 12:36:34 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
northphxhiker
Phoenix, AZ
age: 47
| Lets be honest here... women, how do you feel when a guy moves in too fast on you?
Usually the only time a man doesn't like a woman jumping right and taking the reigns is when he isn't that much into her
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| 8/1/2009 1:35:40 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
goodtime444
Centre, AL
age: 67
| take the lead ladies frist and then me lick lick
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| 8/1/2009 4:36:15 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
akjustlmao
Anchorage, AK
age: 43
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Lol..
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| 8/1/2009 5:45:04 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
78will
Stratford, NJ
age: 30
| Take it from a guy who not only feels this way, but has had this conversation with countless other guys(I spent 9 years in the Marine Corps... And our conversations ALWAYS end up talking about women)... Guys LOVE when a woman takes charge, either in the bedroom, or when making the first move. It has NOTHING to due with insecurity, but everything to do with most women not making the first move, so we do it by default.
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| 8/1/2009 6:46:33 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
spacecowboy56
Porterville, CA
age: 53
| Hell yea!!! I don't see anything wrong with a woman going for what she wants. Makes it kind of interesting.
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