| 7/5/2009 1:10:25 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | | puzzybreath
Osage Beach, MO
age: 31
| op,, you can take my candy any time you want it baby. 
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| 7/5/2009 7:48:22 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
horsepassion69
Rochester, MN
age: 40
| I do best in the lead and have never had complaints, however I like to switch it up frequently.
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| 7/5/2009 7:55:22 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
wyoming001
Lyman, WY
age: 55
| All is fair in love and play
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| 7/5/2009 10:54:03 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
racergrl4u
Gulf Breeze, FL
age: 19
| I take the lead all the time. Ive never really met a guy that didnt like it or didnt think its sexy. Its perfectly okay to take the lead when you want. Dont hold back because of what people call you. Names are just names, how you feel is a different story. If you feel like taking the lead, Damn girl take the lead. Put matters into your own hands 
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| 7/7/2009 2:00:20 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
notdesperate36
Durant, OK
age: 36
| i have often been the aggressor....and i've never been put down for it....
i have found men are actually receptive to women that speak their mind....most of the time....now, every once and a while-you'll come across the man that gets offended-he's the one at the restaurant all by himself wondering why he's the only one without a date....
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| 7/7/2009 3:11:50 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
serenityfrank
Toms River, NJ
age: 51
| As Slow as i normally move i Need a Kickstart gal ha ha
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| 7/8/2009 5:01:18 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
archer77
Big Rapids, MI
age: 31
| We all want women to be more assertive but it just isn't so.
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| 7/8/2009 2:32:23 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
wiseguy2009
Brooklyn, NY
age: 30
| I wish could find woman to take lead word! I don't mind please do. 
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| 7/8/2009 5:50:37 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
snuggle82
Hattiesburg, MS
age: 26
| hay just want 2 snuggle o hey u can take charge if u want 2
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| 7/8/2009 5:56:33 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
ladybugg180
Bronx, NY
age: 53
| I love taking the lead and I often do
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| 7/8/2009 7:49:07 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
tdh1989
Burlington, WI
age: 20
| I think given the occation and the set mood at that moment its sexy when a women isnt afraid to take charge and takes what she wants and u want to give it to her that much more!!!
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| 7/8/2009 8:02:24 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
niceguy4tlc
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 52
| For various reasons ranging from the Bible to simple Tradition, things are the way they are. What we manly want is not to feel subservient, disrespected or as though we are in a competition with you.
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| 7/9/2009 11:16:18 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
jonnie2893
Ventura, CA
age: 22
| I'm all for lettin the woman take the lead. After all, wat makes her happy makes me happy.
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| 7/10/2009 6:57:36 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
blueskies1966
Fort Dodge, IA
age: 43
| I always let the lady take the lead. In this wild internet world, a mis read gesture could be dire for a man. So I let the lady let me know and then things work the way they should. One should never over step one's bounds
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| 7/10/2009 7:22:50 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
bigpoppa1007
Dallas, TX
age: 25
| nono me as a shy guy i love when a girl know what she want and goes and gets it but if you come on way too strong it does look bad just like it would if a guy would
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| 7/11/2009 7:01:56 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
raen
Sunman, IN
age: 40
| practice, practice, practice
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| 7/12/2009 5:24:31 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
thisguy23
Chattanooga, TN
age: 35
| you must share and take turns. Sometimes it would be nice for the woman to take the lead
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| 7/12/2009 5:27:39 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
alphalover
Elkhart, IN
age: 38
| it causes a break in my perception.I like to come off smooth and romantic,I know I shouldn't feel this way,but I do...
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| 7/12/2009 7:48:50 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
kermit222
Atwater, CA
age: 27
| I love aggresive women
sticks and stones may brake my bones but wipes and chains excite me
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| 7/12/2009 8:52:05 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
lifer13
Sharon, PA
age: 30
| I like when women have power, and take a stand, the lead.
Makes my mouth drop, I love it, shows me that they have respect and pride for them selfs
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| 7/13/2009 5:45:22 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
skytrout
Lilburn, GA
age: 30
| She can take the lead, but the man is more appealing to women if he is dominant.
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| 7/13/2009 6:07:16 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
oceandive
Clonfert
Ireland
age: 52
| lead, follow or get the hell out of the way....somebody's gotta do it....
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| 7/13/2009 7:15:26 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
mark311
Mentor, OH
age: 27
| shit i like a woman who knowa what she wants!
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| 7/25/2009 11:40:36 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
joshypoo9
Las Vegas, NV
age: 38
| That would require her to do too much, and she doesnt want that. The least amount of work she can do, and gain the most from it, is usually the way they do it.
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| 7/26/2009 12:29:32 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
wizmom_00
Galatia, IL
age: 58
| LOL...couple of you guys have a few things to learn...LOL!! Go for it honey, men love it!! Most of the men who have posted agree they like it...just dont take lead too much, as in multiple relationships...or then you will earn a name. On a 1:1 relationship...at first its kind of "baffle and dazzle"...but it keeps the spice, and relationship hot!!
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| 7/27/2009 12:26:56 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
azureeyes08
Duxbury, MA
age: 45
| I have always loved it when M'Lady takes the lead and take what she wants when she wants it. If your with each other, then why not!!!!????!!!!!! I woman of seof confidence is a sexy thing in my mind!!
      
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| 7/27/2009 1:18:57 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
2sweetbitter
Orange, CA
age: 40
| i dont mind
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| 7/27/2009 7:26:57 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
unique14u
Roanoke, VA
age: 56
| I never a woman that wants to lead once in a while ... IM game !!
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| 7/27/2009 7:31:27 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
mbucko
Saint Cloud, MN
age: 40
| I think that it would be cool for the woman to "take the lead" like Rodeny says I'm not always sure if the lead is there for the taking...
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| 7/29/2009 9:01:53 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
swm4you
Murfreesboro, TN
age: 64
| I,m with you. More women should take the leed ! It lets a man know she wants him !
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| 7/31/2009 12:31:18 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
rinnz
Brattleboro, VT
age: 21
| I like to take the lead.........
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| 7/31/2009 12:33:27 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
pshark09
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 24
| I love for the woman to take the lead. HUGE turn on
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| 7/31/2009 1:29:20 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
biker29isback
Arlington, WA
age: 31
| she can start it but im sure as hell going to finish it
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| 7/31/2009 2:11:58 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
devilangel24
Stillwater, OK
age: 24
| I've taken the lead plenty of times, I see nothing wrong with it.
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| 7/31/2009 11:40:38 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
denbroni
Portland, OR
age: 31
| Its actually a blessing when women take the lead. Personally when it comes to women im clueless. You could be staring at me forever, but unless you come over and tell me that you think im hot chances are that im not going to notice. Im really shy when it comes to meeting new women This happen just the other day... I was at a coffee shop with a friend and it was not until after we left did he say " dude whats the matter with you, that chick in the blue shirt was checking you out the whole time we were there"
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| 7/31/2009 11:53:25 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
akjustlmao
Anchorage, AK
age: 43
| Scares me to death to make the first move but once I get the hin't, a smile, wink, flirt I can be bold. Just need the slightest hint of an invetation and I'll make a move.
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| 8/1/2009 9:47:50 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
varabbits
Farmville, VA
age: 61
| For various reasons ranging from the Bible to simple Tradition, things are the way they are. What we manly want is not to feel subservient, disrespected or as though we are in a competition with you.
I think that in this thread this response hits the nail on the head ...
But in the mean time - tell me what you want ..... 
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| 8/1/2009 11:46:44 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
pattilee3
Norfolk, VA
age: 50
| we do take the lead many times with a smile, a look or a gesture to show interest
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| 8/1/2009 12:14:37 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
littlee442
Mount Dora, FL
age: 59 online now!
| Scares me to death to make the first move but once I get the hin't, a smile, wink, flirt I can be bold. Just need the slightest hint of an invetation and I'll make a move.
Yo, hey, H E Y !     
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| 8/1/2009 12:30:13 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
outcruzin2
Schaumburg, IL
age: 44
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| 8/1/2009 12:36:34 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
northphxhiker
Phoenix, AZ
age: 47
| Lets be honest here... women, how do you feel when a guy moves in too fast on you?
Usually the only time a man doesn't like a woman jumping right and taking the reigns is when he isn't that much into her
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| 8/1/2009 1:35:40 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
goodtime444
Centre, AL
age: 67
| take the lead ladies frist and then me lick lick
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| 8/1/2009 4:36:15 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
akjustlmao
Anchorage, AK
age: 43
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Lol..
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| 8/1/2009 5:45:04 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
78will
Stratford, NJ
age: 30
| Take it from a guy who not only feels this way, but has had this conversation with countless other guys(I spent 9 years in the Marine Corps... And our conversations ALWAYS end up talking about women)... Guys LOVE when a woman takes charge, either in the bedroom, or when making the first move. It has NOTHING to due with insecurity, but everything to do with most women not making the first move, so we do it by default.
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| 8/1/2009 6:46:33 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
spacecowboy56
Porterville, CA
age: 53
| Hell yea!!! I don't see anything wrong with a woman going for what she wants. Makes it kind of interesting.
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| 8/1/2009 6:49:47 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
akjustlmao
Anchorage, AK
age: 43
| Lets be honest here... women, how do you feel when a guy moves in too fast on you?
Usually the only time a man doesn't like a woman jumping right and taking the reigns is when he isn't that much into her
Thats why we just need the littlest hint that you are..We will take it from there!
[Edited 8/1/2009 6:50:22 PM PST]
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| 8/1/2009 7:20:44 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
littlee442
Mount Dora, FL
age: 59 online now!
| Thats why we just need the littlest hint that you are..We will take it from there!
Yo, hey, HEY,   
I'm still waiting
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| 8/4/2009 11:43:04 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
jrapocalypse
Canton, MI
age: 33
| I like when women take the lead over me it shows aggression and i like that in a woman.Women or men who do not take the lead over one another just make sex uninteresting and boring.
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| 8/4/2009 12:46:07 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
jd_1982
Mishawaka, IN
age: 27
| it doesn't matter to me.. lol..
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| 8/4/2009 12:47:26 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
sweetman77
Norman, OK
age: 39
| sometimes its hard to read a womens signals.Them coming on strong like that definitly makes it easier to tell.No telling how many wonderful opportunities they passed up because they were afraid of being too forward.But theres always a risk of rejection,but at least then you'll know for sure how it really is.
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| 8/4/2009 4:28:36 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
lorenz7
Saginaw, MI
age: 19
| depends. If you mean during sex or on a date or whatever that's cool. Sex can be really hot if every now and then you switch it up, like that song Trading Places. It's hot when a woman tells you what she wants or just does what she wants. Or on a date it's cool too because we it's less effort on our part for once, and two it's nice to be treated instead of doing the treating. Some women, including my mom has said it lol, think it's the man's JOB to treat women to this and that and treat them like royalty, like they earned it as a birth right or something. It's nice to be catered to and relax and let someone else take the wheel for once. or as far as the name calling if you mean like how some women ask, why can women be sluts and men can't? simple. You take an average woman and 10 average men. When asked by that woman, at least 9 of those men wouold sleep with her. 10 women and 1 man though? He'd be lucky yo leave without bruises
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| 8/9/2009 3:53:58 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
1968ladybug
Houston, TX
age: 41
| I prefer switching back and forth at random. If I have had a blah day but it was not obvious it might be a good idea to take the lead. If it is obvious that I have had a stressful day then a good guy taking the lead in the bedroom might be what I need and verbally communicating it is not what I feel like doing. I have taken the lead but when you are always the aggressor it is boring.
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| 8/9/2009 10:22:49 PM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
gilleyja
Dallas, TX
age: 26
| For me, personally, I'm really shy at first, but I open up if everything seems to click. Most women (in my opinion) are reserved because we know what most men are vying after. Women love sex just as much as men do. If we weren't so stigmatized because of it, then we would be more aggressive and seductive. However, If we come on too strong, then you all think we're sluts. If we're reserved then we are a challenge to you. Men don't like something that they can easily conquer. That's just my opinion though. But what do I know, i'm just a woman.
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| 8/10/2009 4:49:19 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
iamhere1970
Trenton, NJ
age: 39
| Because a man is in charge
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| 8/10/2009 7:05:12 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
dorval
Harrington Park, NJ
age: 54 online now!
| if it's your turn to lead it does not take much to have him relax and enjoy the ride.......very simple process
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| 8/10/2009 8:21:12 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
nitecaller
Edmonton, AB
age: 47
| As a str8 male-Switcher i just do not ever have any problem what so ever
with the the woman being a Dom ie.the one who is in charge,the candy snatcher
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| 8/10/2009 8:33:27 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
blondsmartarse
Redmond, OR
age: 30
| Yes, guys can be aggressive and domineering...
But sometimes we want to be ridden like a rented mule! Relationships become extremely stale when it's always the same person initiating sex. I know that I don't want to be with a totally passive, obsequious woman. Christ, how boring! I don't want a woman to feel too repressed or stigmatized to cut the she-wolf loose. I LOVE getting woke up in the middle of the night because my partner is feeling frisky and isn't afraid to show it. HUGE turn on.
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| 8/10/2009 8:33:28 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
moneydb8
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49
| Obviously because you are asking permission, if he stops you then he is just not that into you............ the right man loves it when his woman takes control, hell yeah then they don't have to wonder, if, when, where, and what they are doing.., it's hella sexy......... in my situation, I would love to share the reigns with the right man we could take turns leading. better yet do it together, get er done!
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| 8/11/2009 7:50:49 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
tone412
Braddock, PA
age: 20
| Most Def Real Men Love It When A Women Can Take Lead, It Shows That Shes Not A Push Over In The Bedroom, Its 2009 Ladies Take Charge I Like That Shit Tell Me Wat 2 Do 4 U
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| 8/11/2009 10:55:58 AM | Why can't the female take the lead? | |
semperfideliswm
Anchorage, AK
age: 39
| I have to admit, when I was much younger and less experienced...No I would not have taken the lead. But now that I am older, I have much more experience and know what it takes to satisfy me and the confidence to take it home! I love to take control...but also love to be taken control over! This sort of sexual power struggle is very erotic to me.
Besides all relationships have to have a give and take! I can give it and I will sure as hell can take it. I just hope you can keep up with me!!
~ Donna
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