Forums: Dating Stories: leave the light on for me.
12/5/2007 8:38:15 PMleave the light on for me. 

beimbee
Augusta, GA
age: 34

I was just out of a divorce and found out that the woman that I was dating was currently seating me as fith fiddle meening that she had four other lovers besides me. well I was a little pissed off and I decided to try the online dating thing. I met a couple people and decided that like everyone else that tried to date me, I should just go for the gusto and as they say "just bang" its just sex it doesnt meen anything.

so one night I found out that this lady I met made a yearly trip to my area with her friend to meet up with one of thier old friends at the motel 6. she invited me for a meeting. I gladly agread the timing was perfect and I had no other trouble to get into that night.

this lady told me she was single no children 170 pounds at 5 foot 7. I thought there was a little extra pounds there but just a little and she sounded very apealing. I personly like a woman that is fit not to skinny but not to many extra pounds. a fit woman turns me on. so anyway. I agree to meet with them thinking that it was going to be my first "just bang experience".

when I got there I looked down at the thing that opened the door and realized that I was lied to once again. this woman was 170 pounds in her left boot. I wanted to ask how she got in the Damn room. she opened it wearing what I can only describe as a black satin sheet draped over her. she opened her mouth and one of the nicest voices said we just came to have a good time. well my night was already a sham so I decided to be nice and give her a chance. I said "you want to have a good time, get some cloths on I take you to go have a good time" after I noticed there was another very large woman sleeping face down on the bed. LARGE woman. After about 15 mins she had her jeans on and was ready to go. I took her down the street to a bar I hadnt bean to in about 3 years. you know I just couldnt have a "just bang" experience sober with this woman but she was nice so I was going to give it a try.

After about the 7th double shot I still wasnt ready to go and low and behold a group of my old frat brothers walks in and all of the sudden it turned into a blast. The little lady decided to use the restroom so I quickly explained myself to one of my brothers, letting him know That I was lied to again and that little lady wasnt so little and still wasnt looking good enough to waist the time getting down with. I was told she was single, but no, she was married, she said she was 170p, no she was at least 250. I told him I was trying to be nice and that I wasnt trying to hurt her feeling but I was lied to. thats when my brother Paul said, "Bart, sometimes you just have to be rude". about the time he said that, the most beautiful little woman walked out from the shadows and started to walk by when I shouted at her. "Hey, where are you going, Come here. she walked over smiling so bright glowing. I was amaized that a lady so beautiful could be drawn in by me. I explained the whole story to her and she said tell her to go home and I'll be back in 20 mins. well when Bign came back I explained I was upset that she was married that she was cheating and I would not have areed to come if I knew she was married. I didnt want to be that guy. I truely hate adultry. well she left not too too upset because she called her friend and the other guy she was supposed to meet was already at the room.

20 minutes had gone by and my Brothers wer all heading out so I decided to take the walk of shame back to my truck that I had parked on the other side of the parking lot away from the hotel room. On the way out of the door this beautiful voice said "Hey, Where are you going? come here" it was dream girl so of course I picked my jaw up off the ground as soon as possible and walked back. when she turned away and tried to drag one of her friends over to meet me I had to through my hands up in the air and try to spit. she was pulling out a very feminen male and I really wasnt in the mood to go there with a little man. I was looking for a little WOMAN. so I took the walk of shame back to my truck far worse off from were I was before.

Does everyone cheet on there spouses? " but far to many people do"

Does it really make that much of a difference if you show up to the bar with a member of the opposite sex. "I though it Did for 20 minutes but she tried to hook me up with a homosexual"

Do a majority of people lie on thier internet profiles. "I try not to but it happens sometimes I guess if you think about it hard enough"

is this valad reason to request a time stamped photo before you agree to meet.
"HELL YES with proof of singlness" there must be a voucher or somthing out there that we can come up with"

is it ok to lie if you have been lied to? "no" maybe if your hiding a supprize party or somthing for a birthday.

is it common practice to get drunk for a "just bang experience". "if there is a lie involved maybe".

where is the love? "its not in any of my pockets I'm sure"

12/9/2007 7:57:37 AMleave the light on for me. 

shyblonde
Alexandria, VA
age: 40

I guess I am old fashion. I still believe once you take the vows, you don't cheat. I guess she lied about her weight, because she felt no one would talk to her. The old saying is look never really matter, it is the personality of the person you must look for. But, none of us truly follows that. There has to be some type of attraction, what ever it maybe. I think how you got out of the date, was very nice (you are a kind person). However, one never meet another person when you out on a date (even a bad one). Only bad things come of it

12/9/2007 8:00:37 AMleave the light on for me. 

kinkycapitalist
Atlanta, GA
age: 52

So then being old fashioned means cheating before the vows but not after? iSN'T CHEATING, cheating? dON'T YOU CHEAT ON YOURSELF, MORE THEN SOMEONE ELSE?

12/9/2007 8:05:51 AMleave the light on for me. 

klassykitten
Toccoa, GA
age: 50

Sorry I'm not laughing at you, I'm laughing with you...Gawd Dawg...Motel 6... woman pimp with gay manho...lying married women...Baby...try another side of town to hang out in....JMO

12/9/2007 8:24:25 AMleave the light on for me. 

stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 50

I agree, gotta laugh about it!

There are good, bad and ugly everywhere!

If you are looking for a drunk and "bang experience" are you any better? Go to craigslist casual encounters, then you know that's all they expect, too.

The more you post in forums the more you get to know people. Go to their profile and read last posts, too. Web cam?

There are true people, trust me.

I was very lucky after hearing these stories! Mine's all he said and more!

sb

12/12/2007 4:11:04 PMleave the light on for me. 

shyblonde
Alexandria, VA
age: 40

I never said anything about cheating before or after. I believe your read my message wrong.

12/15/2007 6:28:01 PMleave the light on for me. 

phatnsassy69
Spencerville, OH
age: 38

Oh man I don't know what to say to that night, No not everyone cheats and no I don't believe in it either if you want to cheat break it off with your mate and go out and do your thing, but don't hurt people that way, but I am overweight so I am not hitting on you, I am a great person though. I believe in treating people the way I would expect to be treated. It never ceases to amaze me at what people do to one another, Hope you have better luck next time and I wish you all the luck on your search for happiness, don't think we are all liars, please, there are some honest people out there.

12/15/2007 6:34:50 PMleave the light on for me. 

potentloveslave
Dade City, FL
age: 41

Damn dude, If that so called gorgeous woman would have answered the motel room door, you would not have thought twice about banging her, even if she was married. But because she was overweight, you led her on, and then dropped her like a rock, because your precious imagine with your frat brothers was at stake.

You had a chance to meet and be with what probably would have been the best lover you probably ever would have in your life. Yet, due to your image, another man possibly got the girl, and you got a homosexual. Thats what you get for leading people on.

12/16/2007 4:10:34 PMleave the light on for me. 

sylviasmatch
Winter Springs, FL
age: 50

poetent

i think u read his post wrong.

he didnt drop her cuz she was FAT, he said he would have done it anyway, but he found out she LIED.

HE SAID:

this lady told me she was single no children

I decided to be nice and give her a chance

That I was lied to again .... I was told she was single, but no, she was married, she said she was 170p, no she was at least 250. I told him I was trying to be nice and that I wasnt trying to hurt her feeling but I was lied to



He wasnt trying to IMPRESS his frat brothers.

do I need to continue?
re-read his post before you bash him further.

S

12/30/2007 5:51:49 PMleave the light on for me. 

stelastar
Burlington, WA
age: 40

This is like the most bizarre story I have ever heard, can't help but laugh! I am sorry it went down that way though, but you know what?... men do they same thing too!