| 12/7/2007 5:23:53 PM | Should I or shouldn't I? Would you? | |
blondie1946
Lockhart, TX
age: 62
| Okay. He's 42. I, as you can see, am 61. We've known each other about six months and he wants me - bad. It's not all about just sex. We laugh a lot, have common interests, likes, dislikes. We have a pretty good friendship going and I'm afraid sex will ruin it. Not to brag, but I know I could rock his world, show him things he's only fantasized about. And believe me, I would really enjoy the process.
I'm fairly new to DH. I have only posted once, on the Introduction Forums, but I've read a lot of QA's. Most of you have some really good insight into the whole sex/dating thing. I would really like some honest feedback. Should I or shouldn't I? 
Thanks for your input.
Blondie1946
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| 12/7/2007 5:25:12 PM | Should I or shouldn't I? Would you? | |
malicai
Edmonton, AB
age: 33
| I think you should stop asking 'should I' and ask instead 'why not?'
If u can only come up with 'Afraids' then your prob ok.
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| 12/7/2007 5:43:25 PM | Should I or shouldn't I? Would you? | |
goldarnit
Saint Paul, MN
age: 48
| what he said..i agree
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| 12/7/2007 5:47:01 PM | Should I or shouldn't I? Would you? | |
italianlady05
Omaha, NE
age: 53
| wow malicai...great answer!
And blondie, if you get along that well, and the sparks are flying, and you WANT to take the next step, then do it! 
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| 12/7/2007 5:49:02 PM | Should I or shouldn't I? Would you? | |
emt854
Appleton, WI
age: 53
| Why not..Have you dated or even met in person?
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| 12/7/2007 5:49:36 PM | Should I or shouldn't I? Would you? | |
1mt
Johnstown, PA
age: 54 online now!
| go for it
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| 12/7/2007 5:50:51 PM | Should I or shouldn't I? Would you? | |
kfab1023
Jacksonville, FL
age: 51
| I agree go with it why not?
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| 12/7/2007 5:52:06 PM | Should I or shouldn't I? Would you? | |
italianlady05
Omaha, NE
age: 53
| Blondie, you DO realize that some of us haven't had sex in a while, so we, of course, are ALL FOR IT!!!! 
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| 12/7/2007 5:55:01 PM | Should I or shouldn't I? Would you? | |
lifesaver4u
Lakewood, WA
age: 37
| Go For it make to where he's the one walking bow legged in the am
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| 12/7/2007 5:57:49 PM | Should I or shouldn't I? Would you? | |
dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 45
| Jump on in girl!.. Do it. Don't hold back on him either. 
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| 12/7/2007 5:59:22 PM | Should I or shouldn't I? Would you? | |
njlady920
Bridgeton, NJ
age: 45
| Sorry have to disagree here , becareful with this one sounds like maybe he needs a mom instead of a girlfriend ?
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| 12/7/2007 6:10:50 PM | Should I or shouldn't I? Would you? | |
peregrina
Lumberton, NC
age: 52
|  I don't know hon. Asking myself to many question usualy gets me confused and undecided, so I'm not affraid of the unknown anymore. It makes you feel good, go for it, you only leave once and darn it this years catch up with us fast. If you still have it, use it before you loose it .
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| 12/7/2007 6:54:49 PM | Should I or shouldn't I? Would you? | |
butterfly58
Arcadia, MO
age: 59
| Take the chance!!! I had a chance with a really great guy about the same age--apparently he was more mature than I was on the subject and I bailed on him. Something I regret immensely!!!!
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| 12/7/2007 6:57:40 PM | Should I or shouldn't I? Would you? | |
tac252
Seattle, WA
age: 44
| and after tell him your friends at Dh made ya do it!...hehehe
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| 12/7/2007 7:04:15 PM | Should I or shouldn't I? Would you? | |
blondie1946
Lockhart, TX
age: 62
| EMT we see each other almost every day. We talk, laugh, mostly flirt.
njlady - I don't think a Mom is what he's after. He's definately a take-charge guy.
Dutch - If we do this, I don't plan on holding back anything. Do you think he can take it? I don't want to scare him.
So far, I am hearing "Go for it" more than "Stop that".  I would like to hear from some of you guys whether or not you think the age difference is a big deal or not.
Thanks all.
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