| 12/9/2007 3:51:06 AM | " When you Fall in Love " Do you need a crane to get out ? | |
seanathon
Mechanicsburg, PA
age: 36
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Recently , I was seeing a woman that was very much in love with me ..
She has everything that she needs in life and holds that against me sometimes .
after 10 months that makes me wonder ? I have been alone for 5 years " By Myself " Before her I worked all over the world and had no time for a realationship..
And now she included me in her life after one month of dating her ... Why ? she seemed unhappy !! I did not meen to take that path .. "AT ALL"
I broke up with her yesterday ... She was a kind hearted person at times , she had times that were rough, and then again lately she has putting her stress from work, home and money problems on ME ... The people that know us see that, and told me I have changed because of the fact ...
My problem is that she is not far from me , she constanly calls me , and I asked her not to , this is a very big problem because I still have a place in my heart for her ..
I was out last night , and was talking to a woman " she was very much insterested in me "but" My heart was still not there , my laughter, jokes, and smiles went on , " NOT MY HEART "
She keeps calling, IM ing me , and E-mailing me ..
She keeps telling me that she Loves me
If she did , I would think things would change...
I need to move on , If I am single or not ? It's nice to hold someones hand and have a partner to laugh and cry with , but I guess things change , thats life ...
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| 12/9/2007 4:08:38 AM | " When you Fall in Love " Do you need a crane to get out ? | |
arreis
Cottonwood, AZ
age: 46
| I think you both still feel something good, for each other. And life has its problems. Part of being a couple is working together to get through the troubled times. Which is why she is still trying to contact you. It sounds like you both are sucessful people in work and life but not in love. If you really want the relationship to end, it will take time, just like it took time to build. Good Luck!!!
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| 12/9/2007 6:16:57 AM | " When you Fall in Love " Do you need a crane to get out ? | |
arreis
Cottonwood, AZ
age: 46
| ....I am a dumb ass....Is this lady married to someone???? Leave her alone, all together and let her deal with her own crap. What goes around comes around. You are doing your time served!!!!
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| 12/9/2007 7:26:59 AM | " When you Fall in Love " Do you need a crane to get out ? | |
lotus3
Venice, FL
age: 56
| Ask yourself the question I always ask myself..."Is this the way I want to spend the rest of my life?"
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| 12/9/2007 7:27:24 AM | " When you Fall in Love " Do you need a crane to get out ? | |
angieangel40
Tillsonburg, ON
age: 40
| hey Sean, I think you'll always have a place in your heart for her wether you're
together or not because love doesn't go away over night
but if she's bringing you down definitly time to move on
you did the right thing ..let go move on and be yourself
JMO
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| 12/9/2007 9:19:16 AM | " When you Fall in Love " Do you need a crane to get out ? | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| Plain and simple - I'd tell her either you want me or you don't. If she doesn't then tell her that you need to move on to find someone who does want you. Otherwise you are allowing her to control you with her games. Either she shits on the pot or she gets off.
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| 12/15/2007 10:56:49 PM | " When you Fall in Love " Do you need a crane to get out ? | |
phatnsassy69
Spencerville, OH
age: 38
| when a person falls in love they can't help it and of course we all do dumb things to hold on to the one we fall in love with, yes I tend to fall hard, thing is it takes two to make love work. 
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| 12/16/2007 3:03:52 PM | " When you Fall in Love " Do you need a crane to get out ? | |
warmtouch
Lakewood, OH
age: 38
| I think you should move on, and yeah she will hold a place in your heart for a while. Before you move on though, I think you need some time to heal and be able to give the other woman your whole being, without wondering what the other women is doing. Maybe you should sit down and figure out what you really want in a relationship. Spend time for you right now, I believe you have to love yourself before you can love someone else.
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