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8/19/2009 2:17:23 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
stargazer74
Murphy, NC
age: 76


Hey ladies, - - - This is not a joke - - - - I met and married a lady that did not know how to even "clean" herself, What gives ? Don't their Moms teach the female teens anything ? My wife had 6 kids before I married her and I had to teach her about oral sex and how to "clean" herself. Then it was ignored. That's really sad. What gives with these Moms ? Comments welcomed from either gender.

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8/19/2009 2:22:20 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

kinkycapitalist
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,795)
Atlanta, GA
age: 55


Didn't the fact that she had 6 kids before you married her tip you off to the fact that she didn't know about blow jobs?



8/19/2009 2:40:07 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
sweet_li
Orlando, FL
age: 44


your wife falls into the minority, stargazer. i can assure you that most women absolutely DO know how to practice good hygiene. i take a shower every day as most people do; so there's no logical or valid reason why a person wouldn't want to bathe or shower daily to keep themselves clean and fresh. i can believe the part about you having to teach her about oral because most of the women in that generation didn't really know about such things but, it was absolutely shocking to read that you had to teach her how to keep herself clean!

8/19/2009 3:44:26 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

lburfar
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,390)
Hale, MO
age: 49 online now!


i have come across men with poor hygiene as well and i can venture to guess that low self esteem could be one factor. even depression might be taken into consideration,and a lot of times it is environmental as well.

8/19/2009 4:43:09 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
milas83
Over 2,000 Posts (3,088)
Philadelphia, PA
age: 27


Oh my, not funky old p*ssy.


I cannot be with a woman with bad hygene. Period.

8/19/2009 5:11:24 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

drumrman
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,184)
Las Cruces, NM
age: 45


stop marrying the homeless.

....or farrah fawcett.

8/19/2009 5:35:29 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
calli_in_durham
Durham, NC
age: 35




8/19/2009 5:39:20 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

wsprs0nthewind
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,559)
Powell, TN
age: 45


If she was nasty why did you marry her?

8/19/2009 5:44:59 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
strib867
Chillicothe, OH
age: 53


Quote from stargazer74:
Hey ladies, - - - This is not a joke - - - - I met and married a lady that did not know how to even "clean" herself, What gives ? Don't their Moms teach the female teens anything ? My wife had 6 kids before I married her and I had to teach her about oral sex and how to "clean" herself. Then it was ignored. That's really sad. What gives with these Moms ? Comments welcomed from either gender.
smells like fried chicken to me

8/19/2009 6:06:35 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

th6231
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,271)
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
age: 62 online now!


If you are really offering a true account of the woman ----if you aren't it is disrespectful---but if this is true---why did you marry?? You must have spotted these few issues--they must have crossed your mind once in a while. plenty of men marry a woman with children from previous relationships--they get along OK--why are you having a problem and why are you even asking us?? You need to deal with her!! Its part of married life--communicating!! Not everyone is dirty--not everyone fits the mold you wrote about. I can't offer anything about anybody--it isn't fair to make a judgement along these lines. I still wonder what was the attraction for Y O U ??

8/19/2009 6:11:37 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

lust4love
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,718)
Atco, NJ
age: 39


Well you married her, Even trade as i see it.You taught her how to clean her kootchie.And she laundered your crusty soiled underwears.


Buy her some of that fancy french toilet water to freshen up.



[Edited 8/19/2009 6:14:19 PM PST]

8/19/2009 6:33:35 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

sandra49ok
Over 1,000 Posts (1,458)
Shelton, WA
age: 51


i am a very clean woman that bathes daily without fail and have never had any complaints from any man i have ever been with as far as my personal hygiene goes

8/19/2009 9:19:54 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

hugsnlaughter
Over 2,000 Posts (3,496)
McKeesport, PA
age: 49


There must have been something clean about her, you married her!

8/19/2009 10:34:55 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

faust_n_furious
Bakersfield, CA
age: 27


Well, I dunno why you wouldn't check before you made your move. Perhaps the fact you were going to have sex was ok at the moment, and then you later realized what a dire mistake you have made. I know that I have been with women who didn't smell pleasant either, and my nose is very sensitive. In those cases, if they are nice, I do not have the heart to tell them that they smell, and so I just stop talking to them.

8/19/2009 10:38:45 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

yourfriendbob
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,252)
Fayette, OH
age: 55


Quote from wsprs0nthewind:
If she was nasty why did you marry her?

Like most of us....it seemed like the thing to do at the time...

8/19/2009 11:55:19 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

ladyvirtue1955
Magalia, CA
age: 54


I can't imagine anyone not keeping good hygeine..it makes no sense to me at all..when they walk past me in public, I want to gag..smelling a woman that is on her period is the worst! Ick!..I keep myself as clean as humanly possible..have received many compliments about it too!..

8/20/2009 4:34:11 AMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

gloriaschild
Atlanta, GA
age: 54


Quote from stargazer74:
Hey ladies, - - - This is not a joke - - - - I met and married a lady that did not know how to even "clean" herself, What gives ? Don't their Moms teach the female teens anything ? My wife had 6 kids before I married her and I had to teach her about oral sex and how to "clean" herself. Then it was ignored. That's really sad. What gives with these Moms ? Comments welcomed from either gender.


WoW!...........


8/20/2009 4:43:23 AMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
nicksterdemus
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,120)
Bastelica
France
age: 50


"did not know how to even "clean" herself"

I'd have thought the constant crotch scratchin' would've been a dead give away...

In the future try to position yourself downwind after the "dirty deed" coz the eye can be deceived but, the nose knows...

8/20/2009 4:54:03 AMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
10_2ur_biz
Over 2,000 Posts (3,169)
Highland, CA
age: 44


sounds like my second wife.......OMG , was she a mess.

8/20/2009 4:57:11 AMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
stargazer74
Murphy, NC
age: 76


Thanks for the comments, as all of you can tell - - - I'm frustrated . Like I said - - even after teaching her which was difficult for me not wishing to hurt her feelings or to embarrass her - - - it was ignored. No I did not have oral sex before I married her. Wish I had. A person never knows what's in a package until you look and examine the contents.

8/20/2009 5:12:02 AMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
stargazer74
Murphy, NC
age: 76


I'm sorry - - after reading the comments again - - I realized I didn't write the question correct. Her body was always clean and she did shower every evening and at many other times. What I meant was she did not know how to clean her p*ssy - - -then ignored my teachings .

8/20/2009 5:59:17 AMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

green00zrx
Lowell, MA
age: 43


my personal rule is if she doesn't smell good enough to lick, she sure isn't good enough to have intercourse with...



[Edited 8/20/2009 5:59:54 AM PST]

8/20/2009 10:20:00 AMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

barbaraajo
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,487)
Reston, VA
age: 53


I think it is very important to be clean!!! People who are not clean are a bug turn off to me! Personal Hygiene is VERY important



[Edited 8/20/2009 10:20:11 AM PST]

8/20/2009 11:52:38 AMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

chicaboom59
North Bergen, NJ
age: 60


Quote from stargazer74:
I'm sorry - - after reading the comments again - - I realized I didn't write the question correct. Her body was always clean and she did shower every evening and at many other times. What I meant was she did not know how to clean her p*ssy - - -then ignored my teachings .


I read your first post and must say got a little sick.... but now you made it over the top. I really find it hard to believe that a woman who has had six children and I would assume had her monthly period did not know how to clean herself, no disrespcted intended but that is truly disgusting

I would think that someone in the hospital or her doctor would have told her that she was not clean and explained to her how to clean herself. There seems to be something missing here.

8/20/2009 11:58:46 AMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

kgearly1021
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,080)
Valdosta, GA
age: 49


So let me get this straight, she washed everything but her wa-hoo? Maybe you should have gotten in the shower with her and led by example.
From your profile I see she has Alzheimers. You should be ashamed of yourself, telling us her business.

8/20/2009 12:01:24 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

gm3250
Over 2,000 Posts (2,572)
Columbia Falls, MT
age: 36




8/20/2009 12:51:12 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
redyifur
Hicksville, NY
age: 48


Just curiuos what exactly does it smell like. Low tide at the harbor, propane gas leaking from a forklift, the shrimp boats pulling into dock or maybe an old can of worm bait you forgot to through out, my personal favorite is the shrimp boats a coming home.

8/20/2009 1:45:27 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

jimmmmm1022
Over 1,000 Posts (1,361)
Saint Louis, MO
age: 40


That is so nasty!
Pardon me while I puke.

8/20/2009 3:16:36 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

pornstargood
Palm Beach Gardens, FL
age: 20


im gunna have 2 agree wen im in sum koogie i dont wanna be
at the fish marcket 2.
if it smells i do not dwell.
gatta b a clean koogie. so i kan taste it like some cottn candy pink
haha

8/20/2009 3:34:56 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

susansheart839
Over 2,000 Posts (2,773)
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 62


Hey Norman!!! Are you still married to her? Your profile conveniently omits yes or no, but your little story is asking for a long term relationship. I cannot believe a man 75 years old is looking for sex! Did you buy out the Canadian Viagra supply or what?

Insofar as your wife's cleanliness is concerned, all I can say is...YOU MARRIED HER. To even show her how to keep herself clean is an insult, if not downright controlling. Well, it'll be over for you soon...you are disabled (I wonder if she stinks when she is helping you SURVIVE DAY TO DAY.) At 75, your days are numbered.

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!

P.S. I read the rest of your profile...poor woman is in her last sunset of life and instead of taking care of her, you give her back to her daughter? Wow, you're even a better prince than I thought - NOT!



[Edited 8/20/2009 3:42:48 PM PST]

8/20/2009 5:46:31 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
stargazer74
Murphy, NC
age: 76


After reading these last comments - - -Ive just got to add part of the real story of what's happening. First of all , I'm not any where on my last legs in this stupid world. How many of you macho men can work a chainsaw cutting trees all day then can still carry trimed logs 8 " in diameter at 10 feet long. Give it a try and see how long you've got to - - -I'm disabled and no one needs to take care of me. I have one lung and a burst fracture of my lower spine. Pain - - - yes but I deal with it and without pain killers. Try it. I'm a disabled vet and at times can't even get off the floor and still no one takes care of me. The not cleaning part I spoke of was before the Diease got her. She wasn't shipped off to her daughters but they believed what she was telling them - - - -Did I say she also has dementia ? Just perhaps before you start calling me names you should ask more questions. You "so called men" that did the name calling would not do that to my face. Only my God knows when anyone is on their last legs. People with this diease have lived up to 20 years longer. Ticked off disabled vet - - - oh my outfit was the 101 airbourne- - - -any takers ? The screaming eagle outfit.

8/20/2009 6:16:11 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
stargazer74
Murphy, NC
age: 76


If some of you macho men need to be told what outfit the 101st is look it up on the computer and see just to whom you're name calling.

8/20/2009 6:39:47 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

drumrman
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,184)
Las Cruces, NM
age: 45









8/20/2009 6:42:22 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

thebestman
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,737)
Alpharetta, GA
age: 36


I can't stand a nasty woman that doesn't care about her hygiene.

I love feminine women and I know at least 35% of the women on DH already know my fetish


That being said, no stinky cookie, bad odor, bad breath need not apply. I will shoot them to the curb in a hot second.



8/20/2009 6:45:09 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
hunter12gauge
Over 1,000 Posts (1,563)
Bellaire, OH
age: 47


Hey stargazer..... Did anyone ever tell you that you look like Hugh Hefner.

8/20/2009 7:50:34 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

bbw47reader
Over 2,000 Posts (3,823)
Frederick, MD
age: 47


I hope you are not talking about douching. Because women should not douche, period. Look it up.

Some people don't like the natural, normal smell/taste of a woman. If that's the case just don't go there.

Women can smell/taste different/better/worse depending on a number of factors including smoking.

If there is a bad smell unlike a normal, unperfumed vagina, then something is wrong that requires a doctor visit and treatment. NOT a douche.

The vagina is a self-cleaning oven. Douching messes up the process. Messing up the process can create problems leading to infection, discharge, and stink. So the woman douches more - making the problem worse.

Washing all parts of the vulva daily/after sex/after heavy perspiring is all that is necessary.

If it seems like something else is necessary then either you don't like the normal smell/taste, or a doctor visit is called for.

8/21/2009 3:59:43 AMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
stargazer74
Murphy, NC
age: 76


No - - - My comments are also intended for some of you "crude" ladies We- - - NOTICE I said we always went to the doctor on a regular basis . Every 2 - - 3 months. My "sick" wife would scream and shout as loud as she could about 12 inches in front of my face. This went on about 2 1/2 years and I couldn't say a single word. It would have been like throwing gas on a fire. Some of you on this site should learn about some of these dieases before you cut someone to peices. I guess a person could say that I loved my wife is the reason I accepted this abuse. It got too much for me when she got physical with me and all I could do was stand or sit and "take it" without a word spoken by myself. I wonder how many of you "name callers" could have taken that and still love your wife ? She's been gone now since 11 April 2009 and it still hurts me but she was killing me[as the doctor said]. Due to this abuse I've had two majure surgerys due to " U C " . You've heard of "chrones" well what I have due to this abuse is in the lower part of the intestine and am told I can't have any more removed. No Susan I'm not on viagra - - - just miss having sex for so long I don't even know that what I have even works any more but the desire is not dead. Some have even called me a victim - - - - sorry if my spelling isn't the greatest. I would't wish this on anyone. It's a living death. Oh - - - all my friends were just as in the dark about this diease as many of you - - - so I went this alone without friends either. All I wanted to know was why don't the parents teach their teens about the properway to stay clean - - - someday they will grow up without that knowledge. If any of you have any more comments - - - leave off the name calling or crude put-downs. I was only looking for answers. I don't go hoping in bed with women like so many of you suggest that you do. What many of what you do would scare the hell out of me. My wife was the 3rd women I've ever had sex with in my 75 plus years.

8/21/2009 5:59:50 AMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

susansheart839
Over 2,000 Posts (2,773)
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 62


Great victim mentality you've got going there.



8/21/2009 6:02:06 AMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

kinkycapitalist
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,795)
Atlanta, GA
age: 55


Self cleaning oven, reader? I thought it was an E Z bake. Now I know what you do with all that yeast. Hot cross buns! Yummy.



[Edited 8/21/2009 6:02:36 AM PST]

8/21/2009 7:21:04 AMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

crzyblubttrfly
Fort Smith, AR
age: 50


Calling bullchit on this one. The problem hinges more on laziness than cleanliness.I work downtown and get nasty people in the shop on occasion. Anyone can wash. If soap and water ain't cutting the stench there must be a STD. You mention she had this problem when you signed on. Now that you want to date be more careful what you are handling!!It's never too late to learn !!

8/21/2009 7:30:15 AMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
sweet_li
Orlando, FL
age: 44


Quote from stargazer74:
No - - - My comments are also intended for some of you "crude" ladies We- - - NOTICE I said we always went to the doctor on a regular basis . Every 2 - - 3 months. My "sick" wife would scream and shout as loud as she could about 12 inches in front of my face. This went on about 2 1/2 years and I couldn't say a single word. It would have been like throwing gas on a fire. Some of you on this site should learn about some of these dieases before you cut someone to peices. I guess a person could say that I loved my wife is the reason I accepted this abuse. It got too much for me when she got physical with me and all I could do was stand or sit and "take it" without a word spoken by myself. I wonder how many of you "name callers" could have taken that and still love your wife ? She's been gone now since 11 April 2009 and it still hurts me but she was killing me[as the doctor said]. Due to this abuse I've had two majure surgerys due to " U C " . You've heard of "chrones" well what I have due to this abuse is in the lower part of the intestine and am told I can't have any more removed. No Susan I'm not on viagra - - - just miss having sex for so long I don't even know that what I have even works any more but the desire is not dead. Some have even called me a victim - - - - sorry if my spelling isn't the greatest. I would't wish this on anyone. It's a living death. Oh - - - all my friends were just as in the dark about this diease as many of you - - - so I went this alone without friends either. All I wanted to know was why don't the parents teach their teens about the properway to stay clean - - - someday they will grow up without that knowledge. If any of you have any more comments - - - leave off the name calling or crude put-downs. I was only looking for answers. I don't go hoping in bed with women like so many of you suggest that you do. What many of what you do would scare the hell out of me. My wife was the 3rd women I've ever had sex with in my 75 plus years.



as i've recently stated in my first post in your thread stargazer, your wife is of a generation that wasn't open about such things; even things as important and healthy as good oral/physical/reproductive hygiene. back in those days, people hardly talked about sex or the human body, never mind parents telling their children how to keep their reproductive parts clean and fresh! i admire your 'love' and 'patience' to marry and stay with someone who was that unkempt between their legs. i can honestly say i absolutely would NOT be in a relationship with or marry someone who didn't know how to keep themselves clean on every level! cleanliness is next to Godliness. to me, if a person doesn't care enough to keep their body (their temple) clean, then that will make me wonder what else they didn't care to keep clean about themselves...

8/21/2009 9:29:48 AMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

th6231
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,271)
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
age: 62 online now!


STARGAZER--you better tell all the details in the very beginning--not as the story goes on and on and on. This question is simply a topic that does not belong on here. It should have been handled by the professional medical staff. You bringing it here was not a great idea--and changing the details made it even worse. You are not Ernest Hemingway--YOUR STORY STINKS--I think this is from a bored, backwoods, disrespectful, lonely, thrill seeker. It was a lowlife attempt to get people to pay you some attention. Get off the computer and take care of your wife and the children. I only want to know one thing--you knew going in that there was this problem---no one could be this dense--and then complain about it later on. This is YOUR issue......if it exists at all---don't bother to write me--you pissed me off!!



[Edited 8/21/2009 9:30:52 AM PST]

8/21/2009 10:21:27 AMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

susansheart839
Over 2,000 Posts (2,773)
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 62


Atta boy, TH. His ever changing story to make himself out to be the victim gets old, doesn't it...



8/21/2009 10:29:42 AMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

th6231
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,271)
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
age: 62 online now!


Quote from susansheart839:
Atta boy, TH. His ever changing story to make himself out to be the victim gets old, doesn't it...

Its too hot to read a story like his. I somehow see complete disrespect for his wife--OR--a lame attempt to get some attention. If he is married--why is he posting a profile?? He seems to be looking for a gal but who would contact him after reading his thread?? Its not making him seem very mature. ANYWAY--have a nice weekend.

8/21/2009 10:32:25 AMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
lolsmile
Over 2,000 Posts (2,244)
Everett, WA
age: 48


Quote from stargazer74:
Hey ladies, - - - This is not a joke - - - - I met and married a lady that did not know how to even "clean" herself, What gives ? Don't their Moms teach the female teens anything ? My wife had 6 kids before I married her and I had to teach her about oral sex and how to "clean" herself. Then it was ignored. That's really sad. What gives with these Moms ? Comments welcomed from either gender.


RFLMFAO, just thinking, probably her way of showing you what she really thought of YOU. As in you weren't worth the trouble, now why do you suppose that was? Were you any good in bed, so that she would have had any incentive to entice you there? Think about it. Lots of men THINK they are better than they really are.

8/21/2009 10:35:10 AMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
insulting
Over 2,000 Posts (3,248)
Houston, TX
age: 42


75....how old was she??!....damn most 75 year olds can't feed themselves never mind clean themselves!

It's normal for the old folk to smell of stale piss.



[Edited 8/21/2009 10:35:20 AM PST]

8/21/2009 10:38:12 AMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

msbevzie
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,796)
Oregon, OH
age: 46


Well Honey I don't understand YOUR question...

Why in God's name didn't you know she wasn't clean beforehand I mean really I'd not just marry someone and not know anything about them

What are ya telling me ya went muff diving and found out she stunk?

THAT is quite nasty, and for one I'd not let anyone near that unless i knew it was clean GROSS

OH for F*ck sakes I should have read before I posted YOU should be emabarassed IF your wife has Alzheimers and your asking this she isn't capable of taking care of herself let alone you eating her nasty nasty man YOU!!!



[Edited 8/21/2009 10:43:05 AM PST]

8/21/2009 7:47:51 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

drumrman
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,184)
Las Cruces, NM
age: 45


The vagina is a self-cleaning oven. Douching messes up the process. Messing up the process can create problems leading to infection, discharge, and stink. So the woman douches more - making the problem worse.

hmmm....if the vajajay is a self-cleaning oven, does that mean that douching is like using easy-off?

i'm confused.




8/21/2009 7:48:53 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
hotdoggy13
Over 2,000 Posts (3,082)
Nazareth, PA
age: 51


or maybe... easy in?

8/21/2009 7:58:40 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
soltera08
Bronx, NY
age: 48


Perhaps, as a rule of thumb , your first date should always be to a Walgreens, down the personnal hygiene section.

8/21/2009 8:03:53 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

bbw47reader
Over 2,000 Posts (3,823)
Frederick, MD
age: 47


Quote from kinkycapitalist:
Self cleaning oven, reader? I thought it was an E Z bake. Now I know what you do with all that yeast. Hot cross buns! Yummy.


Beaten biscuits, baby.

8/21/2009 8:06:17 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
2sweetbitter
Over 1,000 Posts (1,047)
Orange, CA
age: 40


i find that hard to believe ol timer

8/21/2009 8:07:57 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
rain_drop
Seattle, WA
age: 57


Can't believe some of the subjects that come up, but isn't it called douching?

8/21/2009 8:59:30 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
stargazer74
Murphy, NC
age: 76


I thought I could get an answer or two here, How about some of you turkeys just " shove it " I'm the one pissed off at a bunch of jerks that don't know up from down.

8/21/2009 9:02:11 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

bbw47reader
Over 2,000 Posts (3,823)
Frederick, MD
age: 47


What is it you want to know?

How to make an old woman with Alzheimer's wash her cooter and have sex with you?

Why have horrible things happened to you?

Do other women teach their children how to wash 'down there'?

What???

What is your question????

8/21/2009 9:10:20 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

kgearly1021
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,080)
Valdosta, GA
age: 49


Quote from stargazer74:
I thought I could get an answer or two here, How about some of you turkeys just " shove it " I'm the one pissed off at a bunch of jerks that don't know up from down.


My Me-ma might just roll over in her grave but I have to tell this old coot what I think.
You are unbelievable, you come in here asking what is probably the most asinine question I have ever read. Shame on you, you are a disgrace to all of the wonderful people we have on here in your age bracket. You should go to your wife and beg her forgiveness, she is not even gone and you are talking trash about her. I do not even know you and I have not one ounce of respect for you. You make my a** want to suck a lemon.

8/21/2009 10:47:20 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

maddingo
Mankato, MN
age: 33


Star, you could have left out the oral sex comment. The rest is pretty straight forward. You did get answers. Strange question for here I think, I’m not sure I’m new here. Her ignoring the lesson could have been her passive aggressive act towards you even mentioning it to her. Lines of communication should be open but often they are not there is a theory going around called “Cognitive Dissonance.” Read up on it, it may help shed light on things. Don’t keep punishing yourself, get some help or friends, or both.
Thank you for your service.
This book " MISTAKES WERE MADE (BUT NOT BY ME) " is an excellent place to start.





[Edited 8/21/2009 10:52:25 PM PST]

8/22/2009 11:55:53 AMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
im_single_again
Saint Louis, MO
age: 78


Quote from wsprs0nthewind:
If she was nasty why did you marry her?


Maybe he didn't find this out until after he married her

8/22/2009 3:39:06 PMWhat gives with not being clean ? 
stargazer74
Murphy, NC
age: 76


I see now that most of you don't read the questions or you're too Fu**** stupid to understand the question. I asked the question about some women not knowing about how to clean their p*ssy. That was BEFORE my wife had Alzheimer's. No I did not have oral sex with her before marriage so there was no way for me to know before hand. I'm not like some of you turkeys and jump into bed with any woman READ my question if you can understand American English. As far as some of you go Shove it up your stupid ass.

8/23/2009 7:47:31 AMWhat gives with not being clean ? 

1414u
Nashville, TN
age: 48


Quote from kgearly1021:
So let me get this straight, she washed everything but her wa-hoo? Maybe you should have gotten in the shower with her and led by example.
From your profile I see she has Alzheimers. You should be ashamed of yourself, telling us her business.


I agree...this is much too personal for a husband to be sharing with a bunch of strangers. And if she is ill double shame on you! NOT COOL!