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12/11/2007 11:58:26 AM3 types of chemistry you should look for 
energyguy
Houston, TX
age: 39

I'm not a doctor, but I play one on here! Just teasin, but here's what one must look for if they want a short term sign of how long term they would last with a particular person:
1) Conversational chemistry 2) Intellectual chemistry 3) Kissing chemistry
It's been proven that when those 3 aspects of chemistry exist you're more than 80% more likely to have a lifetime together. Also, note that when those exist, sex is also some 266% better! Woohoooo.....

12/11/2007 12:01:02 PM3 types of chemistry you should look for 
energyguy
Houston, TX
age: 39

BTW- how long does it take for my picture to post on my profile? Geeze...I know you're going, "Good data, but whats this guy look like?" LMAO

12/11/2007 12:01:35 PM3 types of chemistry you should look for 

salem1234
Omaha, NE
age: 36

I like what you said

12/15/2007 5:54:39 PM3 types of chemistry you should look for 

phatnsassy69
Spencerville, OH
age: 38

great point I hope to find all three types they are all important.

12/17/2007 12:44:17 PM3 types of chemistry you should look for 
texas_belle
Red Rock, TX
age: 37

I will definately keep those in mind...sounds logical.

12/17/2007 2:53:48 PM3 types of chemistry you should look for 
gabrielle3669
Philadelphia, PA
age: 38

Thank you for the advice but you forgot just plan chemistry, physical, you look at a person and know that they are someone you would really like to meet and get to know. Then the bonus is that everything else is there too

Now tell me where the single guys are in Phila?



[Edited 12/17/2007 2:56:06 PM]

12/18/2007 12:06:23 AM3 types of chemistry you should look for 
lindacharles
San Angelo, TX
age: 36

Thanks for the advice.

12/19/2007 10:51:06 PM3 types of chemistry you should look for 
lovetolaugh7878
North Richland Hills, TX
age: 40

I like the three chemistries and I really think that you have something there! I know that I love to have a great conversation with someone and if they can say a few things that keep my interest then I am ready to spend more time with them. I think that one of the most important thing that I was missing from my past relationships was a really good kiss. I love to kiss and if it is with a good kisser, I enjoy it more than anything else we could be doing!!

12/23/2007 6:44:06 PM3 types of chemistry you should look for 
missyrose
Oakwood, GA
age: 36

so now that you've got the solutions to finding chemistry....how do you find them all in one ........that 's the CATCH

12/24/2007 2:19:28 PM3 types of chemistry you should look for 

thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34

Physical, Communication, Hygeine

Physical - if there's no desire or physical attractiveness, well

Communication - if you can't communicate well with each other, then

Hygeine - as strange as this may sound, it does prevent potential relations from going further

I will add a fourth - ATTITUDE is everything. It can make or break a relationship or marriage



[Edited 12/24/2007 2:21:53 PM]

1/5/2008 12:03:14 PM3 types of chemistry you should look for 
advance4000
New Britain, CT
age: 38

I like this post! Bestman, you are DEAD ON with the hygeine point!

1/5/2008 7:09:12 PM3 types of chemistry you should look for 
dolphin28678
Stony Point, NC
age: 33

I LIKE WHAT YOU SAID TO ABOUT THE CHEMISTRY ITS TRUE

1/5/2008 9:22:28 PM3 types of chemistry you should look for 
carmelkiss
Evansville, IN
age: 33

I completely agree!
But yall (I got southern roots okay! ) forgot one. Family mental history. I have dated guys who were amazing, but after meeting his family i wanted to do this really hard and this . And the whole hygene thing goes both ways (soap, toothbrush, comb and pedicures)

1/6/2008 3:48:46 AM3 types of chemistry you should look for 
alphascan1
Superior, WI
age: 33

You know if what you said was true. It would be a really great way to explain it. But unfortunatly, I have had 2 relationships that match those three things perfectly. And guess what. It didn't happen. But thanks for trying to help.


Oh and another thing, If it were true love for anyone. Guess what. What the family is like and what they say or do. Shouldn't matter.



[Edited 1/6/2008 3:50:26 AM]

1/6/2008 8:06:25 AM3 types of chemistry you should look for 
carmelkiss
Evansville, IN
age: 33

In a pefect world it shouldn't but when the family are insane, self-rightious, bible thumping a-holes who all believe that you are the evil incarnate. And have no problems telling you that to your face, in detial, while is standing there. It is a huge turn off. Especially when the guy is actually close to his screwed up family.