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9/21/2009 6:24:57 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 
specialmisslady
Philadelphia, PA
age: 29


Today I saw that the powerball lottery was at $111 million dollars.....

The first thing I thought of was how many men would try to be with me if I had that much money.

Honestly, If I had to chose between $111 million dollars or being in a wonderful relationship, I would chose the relationship.

This is because a lot of beautiful experiences can come from being with a good man, but all that money would bring too many fake people into my life.


Which would you chose?

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9/21/2009 6:26:48 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

i_am_bill
Over 2,000 Posts (3,069)
Astatula, FL
age: 50


Money.

I could fix alot of peoples' problems with that money. And then I could find a relationship when the money has been spent and put to good use.

Mmmmmm, bourbon.

Bill

9/21/2009 6:26:55 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

surrealone
Over 2,000 Posts (2,749)
Overland Park, KS
age: 39


I'll take the money.

It may not buy me happiness or the perfect relationship ... but it'll buy me something so damn close I won't know the difference or care.

-- SR1

9/21/2009 6:30:46 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

122750again
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,399)
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 59


$$$$$$$ Nuff said

9/21/2009 6:32:28 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

rocket000
Over 1,000 Posts (1,888)
Murrayville, GA
age: 51


Show me the money.....

I would eliminate all my debt, help my loved ones and then endow the causes that are closest to my heart.

9/21/2009 6:35:20 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

wolfmanart
Minneapolis, MN
age: 60


Take the money! Head straight to Amsterdam and party party party!

9/21/2009 6:41:54 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

amber1011
Harrisburg, PA
age: 27


I'd take the money. Invest the bulk of it, pay off what I need to pay off, keep a fun job to look productive and kill some spare time, live "normally," then enter into a relationship with someone that never heard of me...

9/21/2009 6:46:49 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

josh_p
Over 2,000 Posts (3,701)
Los Angeles, CA
age: 23


Give me the 100 million dollars. I would want the be in a relationship though but being a multi millionaire is just too hard to pass up.

And im not a "show it off" kind of guy meaning if I was a multi millionaire, you wouldn't know it.



[Edited 9/21/2009 6:53:43 PM PST]

9/21/2009 6:50:19 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

stasisbane
Irondale, MO
age: 39


Have to go with the money. Once everything else is taken care of and investments made, foundations started, then I could find a relationship. Granted the weeding out process would be tougher, and true it would bring it's own brand of problems, but I would also be free to travel and spend as much time as I felt to seek a worthy relationship to develope.

9/21/2009 6:59:14 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

trueblkmann
Atlanta, GA
age: 55


The relationship

Give me real love over some stinky money anyday !
true
For Real



[Edited 9/21/2009 7:00:11 PM PST]

9/21/2009 7:01:36 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

kinkycapitalist
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,807)
Atlanta, GA
age: 55


I'll take the cash and rent.



9/21/2009 7:03:11 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

redinnevada
Over 1,000 Posts (1,157)
Wadsworth, NV
age: 49


I'll take the money. Relationships will happen regardless of luck in the other areas of my life, if they're supposed to happen..that is.

9/21/2009 7:04:39 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

oceandive
Over 2,000 Posts (3,045)
Atlanta, GA
age: 53


well,,,,,,it appears i'm the only dumbazzzzz here that would walk 'away' from the money....would rather have someone who loved me either way......

9/21/2009 7:12:49 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

dutchboy4u
Over 2,000 Posts (3,317)
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 46


Quote from oceandive:
well,,,,,,it appears i'm the only dumbazzzzz here that would walk 'away' from the money....would rather have someone who loved me either way......


Awww! You're not a dummazzz!

Although, you may be a bird brained romantic.

9/21/2009 8:20:12 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

ava_adore
Over 1,000 Posts (1,516)
Concord, CA
age: 20


The money.

9/21/2009 8:28:38 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

maniacmassager
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (16,471)
Lawrence, MA
age: 44


You cant be serious? hell, id take one million over a relationship, nevermind a hundred million.

9/21/2009 8:35:22 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

redebony
Spokane, WA
age: 51


I would take the money! I would pay off my bills, buy each one of my kids a house. The I would retire from even thinking about working, and I would travel and travel. It would be great! I would also help some needy families during the holidays.




9/21/2009 8:45:08 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

doreen1111
Over 2,000 Posts (2,469)
Brenham, TX
age: 46


First of all, if you have that kind of money you wouldn't tell people about it. PRENUP!!

I'm not so lucky in love it seems ... so maybe I'd go for the money!

9/21/2009 8:58:38 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 
kerdol
Dearborn, MI
age: 38


off the top of my head I would say money, if I used my heart I would say relationship. It would have to be to be a pretty damned Wonderful relationship for me to pass up money...I don't think I have ever put a man before money before......mabey thats why im single again.

9/21/2009 9:13:55 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

lovethelake17
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,574)
Henderson, NV
age: 90


Yep, I'm with the money, honey.

Then I could travel all over the globe, after setting up my foundations and family, looking for love.

9/21/2009 9:17:23 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 
richardcollier
Upper Marlboro, MD
age: 51


Count me in with the money!

9/21/2009 10:19:34 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

celticdelight
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,169)
South Jordan, UT
age: 41


First the money, then the honey.

If you're worried about someone recognizing and/or finding you by name, do a legal name change and disappear.

9/21/2009 10:24:20 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 
pablo_cruz
Chicago, IL
age: 40


No brainer

9/21/2009 10:26:14 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

librajason
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,483)
Gateway, AR
age: 34


I ain't no good at relationships, so I'll take the money on this one. That way, If my accountant screws up, I can just drop him in the flaming pit of death

9/21/2009 10:54:19 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 
beto30
La Porte, TX
age: 21


I didn't even hesitate. I honestly made up my mind before I finished reading the title.

Wonderful relationship. No f**king contest.

Only because it says "wonderful" relationship. If it was just another relationship, I'd take the money..

9/22/2009 3:58:32 AMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

trueblkmann
Atlanta, GA
age: 55


Took me to be the age 55 to learn people will take money,dogs and pet gold fish over people.
true

9/22/2009 4:05:45 AMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 
cinisky
Ft Mitchell, KY
age: 48




Both

First the relationship as it could lead both of them to earn/create/win those $$$ or start a business to make that kind of a profit.



[Edited 9/22/2009 4:07:49 AM PST]

9/22/2009 4:18:27 AMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

bludawn
Overland Park, KS
age: 39


Really wish I could be alturistic enough to say relationship but going to have to go with the money...

9/22/2009 4:41:59 AMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 
itsclear
Over 1,000 Posts (1,014)
Fort Mohave, AZ
age: 47


Hell even if I were in a relationship already

I would STILL take the Money!

And put most of it in a trust fund for my children and future generations
Of My loin

9/22/2009 4:42:18 AMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

kinkycapitalist
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,807)
Atlanta, GA
age: 55


Is this another IQ test?



9/22/2009 4:45:54 AMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 
2sweetbitter
Over 1,000 Posts (1,047)
Orange, CA
age: 40


what would the difference be

9/22/2009 4:46:25 AMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 
special122987
Dayton, OH
age: 22


money all the way.. people suck.. money rocks

9/22/2009 5:32:44 AMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

3asygoing
Dearborn, MI
age: 41


Id take the relationship due to the fact a relationship with money is kinda like make somone wondering is it the money or me they are with. Money isnt everything is it? Not to me would rather have a real life.



Those without it want it those with it are a slave to it.

9/22/2009 6:12:42 AMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

spider77
Over 1,000 Posts (1,582)
Adamsville, AL
age: 58


Show me the money.

9/22/2009 6:21:28 AMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 
cinisky
Ft Mitchell, KY
age: 48




Sorry folks, but the $$$ hungry responses reek of "all about me" and greed.
Yet, you're all "trying" to find a connection ? That = an oxymoron.

9/22/2009 7:44:48 AMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

surrealone
Over 2,000 Posts (2,749)
Overland Park, KS
age: 39


Quote from cinisky:


Sorry folks, but the $$$ hungry responses reek of "all about me" and greed.
Yet, you're all "trying" to find a connection ? That = an oxymoron.


Clearly you didn't actually check the profiles of all of those who would accept the money. If you did, then you wouldn't have said we're "all 'trying' to find a connection" because not all of us are.

If I happen upon one, fine. If I don't, that's fine, too. It'd be nice but it's not why -I- am here. (Go read my blog posts if you want to know why -I- am here.)

Moral of story:
You might want to watch applying generalities to people to whom they don't apply.

Also, it's not all about me and greed. It's just practical as well as funny. Perhaps you should relax a little and find the humour in life rather than being so judgemental about others.

-- SR1



[Edited 9/22/2009 7:46:10 AM PST]

9/22/2009 7:46:47 AMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 
settee_for_2
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,921)
Flower Mound, TX
age: 56


Kink, it is another hypothetical...some people haven't figured out as of yet that money doesn't buy happiness...it does, however, grease the wheels..

9/22/2009 8:23:09 AMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

mike1847
Murfreesboro, TN
age: 62


i pick a wonderful relationship money can buy sex a good woman can give you a life time.

9/22/2009 9:38:06 AMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

tapout143
Ceres, CA
age: 26


Not much of a gambler(gold digger), besides I wouldn't have the slighest clue of what to do w/$$$$

Money is the trick that keeps trickin you into doin things you regret-later!

"Wonderful" Relationship- lasts a lifetime...!
(w/out the legal battles)

9/22/2009 9:49:38 AMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

celticdelight
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,169)
South Jordan, UT
age: 41


Most relationships fight about money at some point. If you had money like that, all of your physical worries can be taken care of and it can reduce the number of arguments in a relationship. IF it doesn't reduce the arguments, then it's not a relationship you want to be in because it is about the money and not being together.

Imagine: early retirement with your sweetheart, travel, doing charity work, being able to stay in bed all day with each other instead of needing to punch a time-clock, being able to afford little gifts you want to give each other just because, less time at work, get projects done around the house, take time to develop talents you're passionate about...

Money won't buy a wonderful relationship, or even buy happiness, but to quote settee_for_2: it does, however, grease the wheels..

9/22/2009 10:17:10 AMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 
cinisky
Ft Mitchell, KY
age: 48


Quote from celticdelight:
Imagine: early retirement with your sweetheart, travel, doing charity work, being able to stay in bed all day with each other instead of needing to punch a time-clock, being able to afford little gifts you want to give each other just because, less time at work, get projects done around the house, take time to develop talents you're passionate about...

Money won't buy a wonderful relationship, or even buy happiness, but to quote settee.




Yes, that's fantastic . . . share/spread the wealth and enjoy it !

9/22/2009 11:07:09 AMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 
dghorn
Over 1,000 Posts (1,222)
Assiniboia, SK
age: 46


Sorry to say but yes I would take the money. Sucks that I would say that but reality is that money would fix so much now right now. Also I am single so the love can come after.

Ok but here’s another twist how many would give up there relationship after they got the money hummmmmmmm with that kind of money you could get almost any thing.

9/22/2009 2:36:19 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

celticdelight
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,169)
South Jordan, UT
age: 41


The word "almost" is the catch. You could get almost anything (a hot, younger lover) but the money isn't going to buy the wonderful relationship. If you've got both and you're still not satisfied, you're not looking at the right place to fix the problem.

Time for a despair-ism.

Photobucket

edit: corrected picture



[Edited 9/22/2009 2:48:31 PM PST]

9/22/2009 2:43:53 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 
allischalmers
Milford, CT
age: 47


I'd take the money, pay off everything I owe, help out my kids. Then I'd invest the rest live comfortably and not advertise that I had any money. If I end up in a good relationship great, but that might happen even without the money ( at least I hope so !! ).

9/22/2009 2:48:00 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

trueblkmann
Atlanta, GA
age: 55


Quote from specialmisslady:
Today I saw that the powerball lottery was at $111 million dollars.....

The first thing I thought of was how many men would try to be with me if I had that much money.

Honestly, If I had to chose between $111 million dollars or being in a wonderful relationship, I would chose the relationship.

This is because a lot of beautiful experiences can come from being with a good man, but all that money would bring too many fake people into my life.


Which would you chose?

The loving awesome relationship
Man makes the money!!!!
Money don't make the man or woman!
check it out look around.
true

9/22/2009 2:48:38 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

kinkycapitalist
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,807)
Atlanta, GA
age: 55


Quote from settee_for_2:
Kink, it is another hypothetical...some people haven't figured out as of yet that money doesn't buy happiness...it does, however, grease the wheels..


Poverty definitely doesn't buy it, ever!



9/22/2009 3:31:01 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

alluringpoet
Lynchburg, VA
age: 36


Quote from redinnevada:
I'll take the money. Relationships will happen regardless of luck in the other areas of my life, if they're supposed to happen..that is.




I agree with your response 100%. The money would set so many things in my life straight that then I really could concentrate on "finding that right love". As so many other people in this crazy country, I can't afford to even take myself out anywhere, much less a date. So, the $100,000,000 would solve all of that for me & then love would follow whenever it chances to follow.

9/22/2009 6:17:02 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 
specialmisslady
Philadelphia, PA
age: 29


Quote from mike1847:
i pick a wonderful relationship money can buy sex a good woman can give you a life time.



I agree....

A wonderful relationship can bring;
-Children
-Support
-Extended family
-A travel partner
-A lifetime best friend
-Steady Income
-Health Insurance
-Home ownership
-Celebrations (anniversaries, baby showers, birthdays, valentines, etc...)
-Good sex (STD free)
-Security


My OP reminded me of movies such as "Indecent Proposal" & "It could happen to you"... Both movies showed that love prevails over money.

9/22/2009 6:18:32 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 
1ladodgerfan
Beverly Hills, CA
age: 30




9/22/2009 6:21:15 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

bigjay2000
Ketchikan, AK
age: 41


I hate to say it but I think money can by happiness.

9/22/2009 6:22:00 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

dreamcatcher00
Over 1,000 Posts (1,734)
Plainview, TX
age: 31


i would take the money at the moment and stay real to myself. I would then not use the money or tell any female i would try to date and still make that perfect connection with her.. then when we decide to be exclusive to me... well then there would be two winners

9/22/2009 6:28:20 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 
specialmisslady
Philadelphia, PA
age: 29


Quote from 1ladodgerfan:


I'm guessing you mean you would take the money....

9/22/2009 6:29:48 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

lovethelake17
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,574)
Henderson, NV
age: 90


Quote from specialmisslady:
I agree....

A wonderful relationship can bring;
-Children
-Support
-Extended family
-A travel partner
-A lifetime best friend
-Steady Income
-Health Insurance
-Home ownership
-Celebrations (anniversaries, baby showers, birthdays, valentines, etc...)
-Good sex (STD free)
-Security


My OP reminded me of movies such as "Indecent Proposal" & "It could happen to you"... Both movies showed that love prevails over money.


Please don't believe that movies reflect real life accurately. I realize that you're using them as an example.

You do not necessarily get
-Children
-Support
-Extended family
-A travel partner
-A lifetime best friend
-Steady Income
-Health Insurance
-Home ownership
-Celebrations (anniversaries, baby showers, birthdays, valentines, etc...)
-Good sex (STD free)
-Security
with a wonderful relationship.

Not at all. This is rosy, pie-in-the-sky, happy bunny thinking. It'd be nice to have this within your wonderful relationship, but it is not guaranteed.

Things happen, you endure hardships, life throws you all sorts of curve balls, and if you get through those hardships with a wonderful mate at your side, that's the wonderful thing. But you don't get these things as if it's the prize for finally finding the one.

9/22/2009 6:29:53 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 
txbelle11
Houston, TX
age: 29


I would take the money, relationships are subject to change.

9/22/2009 6:34:42 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

rinnz
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,259)
Brattleboro, VT
age: 21


The money. Who says I have to tell people I have it?

9/22/2009 9:30:57 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 
beto30
La Porte, TX
age: 21


I think everyone isn't seeing the word "wonderful".

9/22/2009 9:52:00 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 
dghorn
Over 1,000 Posts (1,222)
Assiniboia, SK
age: 46


Quote from beto30:
I think everyone isn't seeing the word "wonderful".



hahahha we did see it,we have also been in them,but I KNOW I could have a wounderful new relationship with $100 000 000

9/23/2009 12:37:07 AMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

3asygoing
Dearborn, MI
age: 41


hrmm just thinking and had this idea, whats really important is whats being asked money or a significant other. Maybe this seperates the serious lookers from the one that arent very serious about finding somone. Just a thought i was having. how many went for the money over a wonderfull relationship, to bad this wasnt a pole question.

9/23/2009 1:30:17 AMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

peckpate
Clinton, AR
age: 56


LOL,, This one is a no brain'er,,, show me the money,,, i have always heard, you dont buy anything that Flys,Floats or F**ks,, your better off renting them,, put the money in my pocket and rent me a beautiful sexy woman for the weekend

9/23/2009 2:24:24 PMA wonderful relationship or $100,000,000 lottery? 

gritsarebest
Kannapolis, NC
age: 46


Love wins out every time with me. They don't even come close to each other. This is a decision I had to make a long time ago....choose the man who could give me anything I wanted and hope the feelings would grow in time or choose the man who couldn't provide for me as well but all the feelings and emotions are there. I learned a long time ago that my love cannot be bought for the highest dollar...so although having the money would make life easier...it will not make ME happy. I am going for the gold..want the happiness. Money doesn't buy happiness. You know the head over hills in love passion and happiness. Love like that is rare...a gem...and not replaceable with the green stuff.