| 9/25/2009 8:55:56 AM | dating troubles | |  kikib80 Chaska, MN age: 29
| Why is it so hard to meet a good guy thats wants a relationship and has similar interests?
| | 9/25/2009 9:29:08 PM | dating troubles | |  alwaysfishin878 Waubun, MN age: 45
| just keep looking ..
| | 9/26/2009 2:17:38 AM | dating troubles | | mommarin Anoka, MN age: 23
| I dunno, most I meet want... well what 99% of them want.
I ain't so sure about internet dating, seems like they talk up all this hype for us and none of them really want what they say. 
| | 9/26/2009 2:44:59 PM | dating troubles | | pleasureflow Grand Forks, ND age: 22
| Although guys think about sex all the time deep inside we want something more.
| | 9/26/2009 4:08:16 PM | dating troubles | | mommarin Anoka, MN age: 23
| Although guys think about sex all the time deep inside we want something more.
Prove it.
"pleasureflow" doesn't help your arguement dear.
The few I've met want sex audomatically and if you do not give in they mark you as a lost cause and never see you again, so you say this but I'd like to see some proof. Chivalry is dead if we let it, but you men these days sure are letting it die!
  
| | 9/29/2009 8:17:51 AM | dating troubles | |  puck1337 Osseo, MN age: 32
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That's not true with all guys. Heck, I love sex just as much as the next guy. (As long as the next guy isn't a 40 year old virgin). But I know that sex with someone I'm interested in makes me feel things that aren't really there (yet). But because of the way my lifestyle was for a while, I'm fairly easy to get in bed, which sux because I want to find a relationship that's not based on sex like it usually is.
Problem is, if a guy doesn't want sex, then you women think its because you're ugly, or over wieght, or "a lost cause" as you put it. It doesn't matter that its finally about us and not you, you still believe its you. But from personal experience, I know guys feel the same. Oh, you don't wanna sleep with me? Too fat for ya? Too ugly? Not a nice enough car, job, cloths, etc for ya?
What happens when you do find someone you like? So you sleep together because you think its different this time? Then feel he or she used ya and lied about it? Or you feel you're not the only one he or she is sleepin with? Then they say they can never be with someone like "insert reason here" and you fall into one or more of those categoroes? Now what do you do? You know they wouldn't be with you but you've already had sex, so if you give up then you're a jackass for sleepin with em then not wanting to "waste your time" if they don't wanna relationship!
Ok, I've lost track of the point here. I'll shush now. 
| | 9/29/2009 5:36:01 PM | dating troubles | | mommarin Anoka, MN age: 23
| Pucker, are you atalking me?! Cuz that'd be super!
I am going to just dismiss this post, as you read far too much into what our discussion was (outside of here!) and took things out of context! I still <3 you hun **pat pat** It will be okay.
That's not true with all guys. Heck, I love sex just as much as the next guy. (As long as the next guy isn't a 40 year old virgin). But I know that sex with someone I'm interested in makes me feel things that aren't really there (yet). But because of the way my lifestyle was for a while, I'm fairly easy to get in bed, which sux because I want to find a relationship that's not based on sex like it usually is.
Problem is, if a guy doesn't want sex, then you women think its because you're ugly, or over wieght, or "a lost cause" as you put it. It doesn't matter that its finally about us and not you, you still believe its you. But from personal experience, I know guys feel the same. Oh, you don't wanna sleep with me? Too fat for ya? Too ugly? Not a nice enough car, job, cloths, etc for ya?
What happens when you do find someone you like? So you sleep together because you think its different this time? Then feel he or she used ya and lied about it? Or you feel you're not the only one he or she is sleepin with? Then they say they can never be with someone like "insert reason here" and you fall into one or more of those categoroes? Now what do you do? You know they wouldn't be with you but you've already had sex, so if you give up then you're a jackass for sleepin with em then not wanting to "waste your time" if they don't wanna relationship!
Ok, I've lost track of the point here. I'll shush now. 
| | 10/12/2009 9:56:31 AM | dating troubles | |  debizi1 Cloquet, MN age: 44
| Elementary; We are all unique individuals. We all precieve a same experience differently. With that being said, think of all the different experiences you have had in life thus far, which in turn, have shaped you to how you are to day. You put meaning to the thinkgs you have experienced through out life. An individaul personality is completely developed by the age of 6 yrs old. Interesting wouldn't you say. Now, think of twins that grow up in the same house hold. They experience many of the same experiences yet they think and behave in their unique way. I could go on for hours and hours. what's your favorite color? what are the chances of your next partners color beiing the same. thats just one example.
| | 10/27/2009 3:01:57 PM | dating troubles | |  harleydave3350 Minneapolis, MN age: 47
| Hello and good day to all. One thing for sure is that men do think about the beauty of a woman quite often. I was a single man for many years and made the mistake of putting sex as a number ONE. Never to find true love, What I then did was dig down inside of the empty heart of mine and get rid of all the lies, and forgive my first wife, my high school sweetheart for being unfaithful to me. Once I let go of the resentments I was ready to give love a chance. I am no longer a cheater, hateful, user of women. Thankful to forgive, and to be forgiven.
| | 10/27/2009 6:37:36 PM | dating troubles | |  scuffer
 Saint Paul, MN age: 49
| their simply lyin cheap cheats..i for one am sick an tired of these mn men...good riddence to them...do yourself a favor...go out in the real world an find a non cyber....
| | 10/27/2009 8:05:56 PM | dating troubles | |  alwaysfishin878 Waubun, MN age: 45
| cmone scruff you know you like us cheap lying cyber mn men..
| | 11/1/2009 7:57:29 AM | dating troubles | |  letusing Saint Paul, MN age: 55
| Good morning all nice thread Hummmmm?Take your time meeting men folks is easy strike up a confersation all over town!on here say hello to a few click<< on there profile and tell that person you enjoyed reading it!it works ive meet some great men as friends and who knows ive had a few dates to!.im not bitter but be carefull out here to!{welcome} do enjoy yourself.
sing just something to ponder on!<<<<<<   
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