| 12/16/2007 4:08:02 PM | Meeting online contacts in "real life" | |
t4lkabyte
Richland, WA
age: 39
| Hey. I did something daring the other night. I made contact with someone online and we decided to meet in real life. It was 10 o'clock at night at a well know park in the area.  Was that daring or dangerous? Nothing happened (my choice). Have you ever met online buddies in real life?
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| 12/16/2007 4:11:00 PM | Meeting online contacts in "real life" | |
nashoba_miko
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 39
| Yep.....had a blast!!! He's like my best bud right now! 
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| 12/16/2007 4:13:20 PM | Meeting online contacts in "real life" | |
mountainangel
Charmco, WV
age: 39
| I think it was alittle of both,i would have met them but always in a populated place and early evening for saftey purposes.well how did it go afterall?
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| 12/16/2007 4:19:31 PM | Meeting online contacts in "real life" | |
fishfreak44
Bokeelia, FL
age: 45
| please be more carefull in the future. make sure you trust them.nighttime not the best idea. try to talk to his friends in the real wold 1st. they are usually a good indication.
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| 12/16/2007 4:28:31 PM | Meeting online contacts in "real life" | |
mochaflower
Indianapolis, IN
age: 68
| I thought that was the whole point in being here, to meet someone in real life. Was it dangerous meeting at a park at 10:00 at night? Apparently not, since it turned out alright. I think that if you have talked with a person, and developed a certain amount of trust, you just kind of play it by ear. I've met men at my home before, but only after I felt comfortable with it. Never made a wrong judgement about it yet. Just depends on the people involved. Go with your head and your heart.
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| 12/16/2007 4:33:33 PM | Meeting online contacts in "real life" | |
mikesfunfarm
Holland, MI
age: 56
| Ted Bundy was a great talker, one of the many women he murdered he met in a park. Be careful. If the park had a lot of people, thats cool. Much better if you met in a coffee shop, Mall, or other populated place. You don't have to be scared, just careful. Meet people and have fun.
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| 12/16/2007 4:57:26 PM | Meeting online contacts in "real life" | |
brnidscorpiox2
Moscow, TN
age: 35
| I have met a couple now, in public places first though.
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| 12/16/2007 5:02:48 PM | Meeting online contacts in "real life" | |
eroticartist
White Plains, NY
age: 49
| ALWAYS take a friend!!! NEVER go by yourself
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| 12/16/2007 5:04:03 PM | Meeting online contacts in "real life" | |
sorprano
Wayne, NJ
age: 56
| daring or dangerous and death all begin with a "d"...i'd say what happens if that park closed early--most parks do to protect anyone from prey after it closes--i'd advise --emails--phone contact until one's ready-- saying nothing happened was that the mutual plan or yours...i believe he did try and you stopped him--what i'm saying the more you heard his voice or read his emails should have built up a trust with your thread here: nothing happened--and there's been no mention of of this guy post time...he must have felt disappointed perhaps as you didn't mention anything after you said : nothing happened--where is he now in dating heaven???
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| 12/16/2007 5:20:21 PM | Meeting online contacts in "real life" | |
thankuvets
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 40
| Nashoba_Miko,
   
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| 12/16/2007 5:23:23 PM | Meeting online contacts in "real life" | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| I totally agree with eroticartist ... NEVER go alone.
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| 12/16/2007 5:24:55 PM | Meeting online contacts in "real life" | |
lust4love
Atco, NJ
age: 38
| Chopper shows up with her cycle gang friends. no thanks chopper
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| 12/16/2007 5:26:58 PM | Meeting online contacts in "real life" | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| How do you know it's not knives ... CHOPPER
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| 12/16/2007 5:27:02 PM | Meeting online contacts in "real life" | |
thankuvets
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 40
| Heeeeeyyy, whats wrong with us biker friends??
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| 12/16/2007 5:40:44 PM | Meeting online contacts in "real life" | |
cntry8hrt
Hermiston, OR
age: 52
| Oh T4 - when I read what you did I got chills - and not the good kind. I am familiar with the area you met in and please, please, please....don't do something like that again. You never meet someone alone after dark and especially in a park even if there are other people around. Everything around you isn't as visible as it is in the daytime. I have met a few people from online and things have gone very well. BUT - I have always met them in the daytime first. If they suggested a night time meeting, I made sure it was at a coffee shop or ice cream shop or some place very visible and with lots of people around. I also had a g/f nearby just in case. And you never, ever let them pick you up in their vehicle....always go in yours and leave in yours. I don't mean to sound like a nut case here, but it isn't only the women that need to be safe. Men need to be careful too. Now that I have done the "mother act", I wish everyone safety, lots of fun and good luck.
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