8/12/2007 3:34:40 PMapproaching men or the opposite 

trublu5ft2
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,124)
Enfield, NH
age: 51


Mtn... I am a very shy creature by nature. It takes me time to warm up to most. It's an awful trait to have.. gets in the way of things I want sometimes

8/12/2007 3:34:59 PMapproaching men or the opposite 
luvinlifetothem
Over 1,000 Posts (1,752)
Biddeford, ME
age: 42


Knighty, how old are you? You DONT look over my limit baby....
(not that Ive caught my limit up to now, its not like Ive been throwing them back or anything,lol)

8/12/2007 3:35:36 PMapproaching men or the opposite 

knightnyte2
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,090)
Spring, TX
age: 56


luvin.. how funny.. i'm 54, but they tell me I dont look a single day over 91..

8/12/2007 3:36:31 PMapproaching men or the opposite 

trublu5ft2
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,124)
Enfield, NH
age: 51


Well knight.. I had no clue! I'm very perceptive to what others thing and feel.. often before they are aware of it themselves... except when it comes to me personally. Than I'm not always so positive. Hell.. my sons say I wouldn't know if someone was flirting with me if it smacked me in da head lol

8/12/2007 3:36:35 PMapproaching men or the opposite 
luvinlifetothem
Over 1,000 Posts (1,752)
Biddeford, ME
age: 42


Hmmm, I answered my own question, (duh, looked at your profile...)
So, maybe I need to change my age range!
sometimes I get emails from young men who say they want someone 18-35, and I wonder if they even look at the profiles, this happen to anyone else?

8/12/2007 3:41:30 PMapproaching men or the opposite 

knightnyte2
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,090)
Spring, TX
age: 56


girls.. if you ever ever learn one thing, it should be this. Men are not hard of hearing.. we are hard of LISTENING. Big difference.. subtle hints do not always work

8/12/2007 3:52:40 PMapproaching men or the opposite 

trublu5ft2
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,124)
Enfield, NH
age: 51


That I already knew and I would let him know , without a doubt, that I'm attracted to him

8/12/2007 4:09:10 PMapproaching men or the opposite 
mtnhiker1000
Tacoma, WA
age: 51


[blocked site] - In person you probobly are shy. I would not know so I iwll take your word for it. One thing is for sure, you do not come across as shy in this type of forum.

Interesting isn't it?

8/12/2007 4:14:21 PMapproaching men or the opposite 

trublu5ft2
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,124)
Enfield, NH
age: 51


I think that is typical for alot of shy people. I love to write and express myself well in writing so this comes very natural to me... and I have been chatting since 95. This has actually helped me alot with shyness! There was a time I would not go into a restuarant if there were alot of people inside. I have gone into one, eat and notice that alot of people walked in after I did and place is crowded. I would NOT leave til the restuarant was pretty much cleared out at lunch

8/12/2007 4:20:40 PMapproaching men or the opposite 
mtnhiker1000
Tacoma, WA
age: 51


[blocked site] - I perfer this type of setting to approach someone else. A lot of the same rules seem to apply. But doing it, essentially annonomously, seems to make things easier. And if things do not work out. You never have to deal with the person again. Block, Ignore, delete.

And as I said it is annonomous. The face to face stuff never has to happen, then over time you can feel more comfortable about the person you are chatting/e-mailing.

Just a thought

8/12/2007 4:21:01 PMapproaching men or the opposite 

knightnyte2
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,090)
Spring, TX
age: 56


i'm the quiet and shy sort too.. takes forever for me to get the courage to ask a girl to dance. By the time i get the courage up, the bar closes...

8/12/2007 4:21:47 PMapproaching men or the opposite 
missmatch
Over 1,000 Posts (1,252)
Cleveland, TN
age: 52


knight...i don't believe you...lol

8/12/2007 4:21:59 PMapproaching men or the opposite 
mtnhiker1000
Tacoma, WA
age: 51


cande - but what about on line? they guy cannot see your eyes (no matter how nice they may look).....

8/12/2007 4:22:36 PMapproaching men or the opposite 
rain_or_shine
Over 2,000 Posts (2,573)
Columbia, SC
age: 45


Id just come over and get you, even if you were wearing that pink short, Knight...lol

8/12/2007 4:27:51 PMapproaching men or the opposite 

knightnyte2
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,090)
Spring, TX
age: 56


awe.. shine.. now, that might be an exciting event. i'd look up with a shy expression.. who, me??

missmatch.. you dont think me shy?? gosh, who sent out my most embarrassing moments to myspace???