| 4/19/2007 6:42:45 AM | approaching men or the opposite | |
lastchance620
Rocky Hill, CT
age: 44
| I'm new here, but I couldn't find a thread that pertained to this qtn, so I'm "taking a poll"
Do you women find the best results when you approach a man first or do you let the guy initiate a new relationship or date or whatever ? Guys, what do you like better?
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| 4/19/2007 7:22:53 AM | approaching men or the opposite | |
windroper
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 48
| Last year some coworkers insisted that a service rep was flirting with me & I had just been out of circulation too long to know it. They encouraged me to approach him. So I wrote a note on the back of a business card & put it on his windshield. He came to my office & verbalized interest, but then he never returned my call. My ego wasn't shattered or anything, but taking the first step sure was scarey. I would use a similar approach again if the opportunity presented itself. It has been much easier online to initiate a conversation with men & say "I find you attractive" or "Noticed we shared similar interests."
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| 4/19/2007 7:47:11 AM | approaching men or the opposite | |
chucky_t
Akron, IN
age: 60
| It is always flattering when a woman shows that she has a interests in you. I would suggest that if you find someone interesting, do not be afraid to approach them. They may have no idea that a beauty like yourself could possibility be interested in them.
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| 4/19/2007 9:41:55 AM | approaching men or the opposite | |
jojo05101
Brattleboro, VT
age: 42
| If you wait for the guy, you may never get the chance to have any relationship. 
[Edited 4/19/2007 9:45:02 AM]
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| 4/19/2007 11:23:02 AM | approaching men or the opposite | |
wolfy9459
Dayton, OH
age: 46
| If you wait for the guy, you may never get the chance to have any relationship.
JoJo That is so true. Im all ways flattered when a woman makes the first move. Being rather shy myself I find it hard to make the first move some times. However I am getting better at it. From the help of a female friend who told me: "If you like her tell her the worst that can happen is she says NO"
I have found a lot of friends here on this site, male and female. Most of them said the same thing.
Kenny
[Edited 4/19/2007 11:23:34 AM]
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| 4/19/2007 11:45:50 AM | approaching men or the opposite | |
air_pirate
Lompoc, CA
age: 60
| I will have to agree with everyone else up to this point. Having a woman show interest first is great for the ego. Beside it make her more interesting. Like I always say, I can resist everything except temptation.
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| 4/19/2007 2:32:55 PM | approaching men or the opposite | |
miss_murder
Winamac, IN
age: 21
| Why is everyone so old? LOL. Just kidding.
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| 4/19/2007 2:41:01 PM | approaching men or the opposite | |
windroper
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 48
| Cuz when you're young, dumb & full of cum everything is easier & much more fun.
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| 4/19/2007 4:25:06 PM | approaching men or the opposite | |
air_pirate
Lompoc, CA
age: 60
| No, No, No, it is much more fun now.
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| 4/19/2007 10:24:23 PM | approaching men or the opposite | |
jondalar
Reno, NV
age: 54
| When you are young everything is new. As we mature we find some things we did once and that was enough. I have more fun now because i am less self conscious of what other people might think.
Now getting back to the topics before windroper buZZZZes me..
I like a woman to let me know she would like to know more but it feels awkward when she thinks she is in love after a few e-mails, phone call or a meeting for coffee. Friends first is not a come on it is a desire. As much as I appreciate all of you gals who have expressed the wish to come out here for a visit you should wait until we get to know each other better. I appreciate the very explicit photos but My son is 27 and I would not feel right dating a woman his age or younger but I am truly flattered. I prefer to be the one that makes the first move to sex.
Jondalar
[Edited 4/19/2007 10:28:48 PM]
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| 4/19/2007 11:21:09 PM | approaching men or the opposite | |
aproudparent
Milford, OH
age: 48
| This site is pretty good size,and new people everyday,i say if you see a profile that intrest you go for it!
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| 4/19/2007 11:56:54 PM | approaching men or the opposite | |
brocknct
Newcomerstown, OH
age: 31
| If you wait for the guy, you may never get the chance to have any relationship.
Especially if the guy is me.
Ehh always nice to have the woman approach, though good grief at least say what yer thinking. I mean there are dumbies out there (like me) who think 'aww that was nice of her to try and make me feel good about myself'.
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| 4/20/2007 2:24:46 AM | approaching men or the opposite | |
elfinmagic75
Ardmore, OK
age: 33
| I agree with all here, it is nice to have someone say they find you attractive and would like to get to know you better. I don't do well with rejection, wich is odd because you would think as much as I have gotten i would be a pro at it by now hehe. But like was said earlier what's the worst they could do? Say no? then you just go on to the next no and on to the next until eventually hopefully someone will say yes, and who knows one of those no's could always come back and say yes, and you never know one of them yes' may actually be "the one" wich would make all them no's well worth it compared to never asking and never having to deal with rejection, but yet never getting that one yes. and we aren't old we are just experienced, "Youth is wasted on the young."
Eric
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| 4/20/2007 8:16:26 AM | approaching men or the opposite | |
wolfy9459
Dayton, OH
age: 46
| Very well said Eric.
Kenny
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| 4/20/2007 10:12:04 AM | approaching men or the opposite | |
lakesman
Canyon Country, CA
age: 54
| I have to say I pretty much feel like Eric, especially if the woman is very good looking or maybe younger looking. I always think I will hear dream on grandpa! As many women color their hair you may think they're much younger as well. Although until lately I looked very much younger than my age, but a divorce will do that to you.
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