Possessiveness, how do you feel about it?

9/30/2009 4:03:22 PM	Possessiveness, how do you feel about it?
fisherman76 Aurora, MO age: 77	I'm only that way if situation of relationship is a personal one on one style, if open to all comers, no problem. Meet singles in your area here at DateHookup.com, we're 100% free for everything! Join now!
9/30/2009 4:13:11 PM	Possessiveness, how do you feel about it?
aliveankickinto Tucson, AZ age: 78	It's a scary thing for me. Years ago I was married to a very possessive man. I couldn't go anywhere alone. He checked the angle of my tires to see if the car had moved. Every day I was accused of something I hadn't done. Treatened with knives and guns. So I'm leary of someone who is possessive.
9/30/2009 4:47:19 PM	Possessiveness, how do you feel about it?
jennyann71 Clarksville, AR age: 69	Not really into it as I think I must trust my mate to do the right thing even when I am not watching """" and If I cannot do that then I am out of there."""
9/30/2009 5:35:29 PM	Possessiveness, how do you feel about it?
rebel_rose37 San Marcos, TX age: 72	No no no....I do not like it....period...
10/1/2009 8:39:46 AM	Possessiveness, how do you feel about it?
gusnaz Tucson, AZ age: 70	The only thing I own is my truck and home and personal possessions. One doesn't "own" another person. Just my 2¢ worth. Gus
10/1/2009 11:06:49 AM	Possessiveness, how do you feel about it?
waltaz Coolidge, AZ age: 80	I've never known it so I really can't comment. But my life style has changed and I'm not sure I'd change back. That might be a stretch any lady.
10/1/2009 11:18:07 AM	Possessiveness, how do you feel about it?
arkielady Austin, AR age: 72	Quote from gusnaz: The only thing I own is my truck and home and personal possessions. One doesn't "own" another person. Just my 2¢ worth. Gus Amen to that!
10/1/2009 5:22:23 PM	Possessiveness, how do you feel about it?
fisherman76 Aurora, MO age: 77	Good grief ! I'm not possessive to the point of being over bearing or mean & hateful & sure would not threaten or harm a person who strayed , just do same or part company peacefully .
10/2/2009 4:33:51 PM	Possessiveness, how do you feel about it?
cactusflower13 Fredonia, TX age: 74	For me, it would be a matter of degree. Just a bit of possessiveness would be flattering and make me feel loved. Humans are pretty possessive of things that matter to them. I'm not sure I can equate possesiveness with super controlling behavior, and would not tolerate that. I expect loyalty, but I guess I want my man to entertain just a bit of "unsure". I'd want my man to be a bit jealous. My ex husband would not have turned a hair if he'd caught me on the couch in a compromising position with his best friend. Damn !! I hated that ! Being that sure of your partner is pure arrogance. [Edited 10/2/2009 4:37:00 PM PST]
10/11/2009 9:25:43 PM	Possessiveness, how do you feel about it?
kittysu Stillwater, OK age: 69	I dated a guy that didn't want me out of his sight and when I tried to go home he thought I was seeing someone else... That was the end for me... but he was like a stalker and wanted to call and tried to come by and see me.. Finally rid of him.
10/12/2009 8:09:00 AM	Possessiveness, how do you feel about it?
fisherman76 Aurora, MO age: 77	Good for you , Kitty Sue , hey Cactus maybe the EX - hubby wanted a reason to buy a new couch ,I wrecked several over the past 25 years .... as they for most part can't hold up to often use , when used by active hefty folks a makin whoopie!
10/12/2009 8:18:07 AM	Possessiveness, how do you feel about it?
gloriajune Waterford, CA age: 74	why should anyone be possessive with one they love? If both parties care for each other and have excluded all others. Then what is there to be possessive about? My late husband had the attitude of " let gj handle it. she can shoot them down faster and with less trouble than I can". In short each take care of the interference on their side and respect one another.
10/12/2009 3:06:26 PM	Possessiveness, how do you feel about it?
fisherman76 Aurora, MO age: 77	WOW! GJ , you nailed it.
10/13/2009 12:46:30 PM	Possessiveness, how do you feel about it?
gloriajune Waterford, CA age: 74	Fish I personally feel it is the only way to go. I never needed backup one time in all those years. I do think if someone lays claim to you it is nice and loving to know Possession is a looser situation. Just my thoughts. gj
10/14/2009 5:44:30 AM	Possessiveness, how do you feel about it?
foreveralady Tioga, PA age: 68	MY LATE-husband was so possessive I COULDN'T GO ANYWHERE ALONE.He would check if I went to my kids..he'd be looking in the window... We sold our home up on the hill and moved to town because of this. I WANTED TO BE ABLE TO BREATHE AT LEAST. It is not something I would ever want again. If it were a light case because he loved me that would be a whole new ball game.........