12/17/2007 4:23:52 PMwhy do nice guys finish last? 

medman11123
Dayton, OH
age: 32


why do nice guys always get walked on and finish last?

12/17/2007 4:24:48 PMwhy do nice guys finish last? 
soultrynights
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,314)
San Clemente, CA
age: 39


somebody has to finish last . better you than me

12/17/2007 4:27:31 PMwhy do nice guys finish last? 
lonesomeloser
Over 2,000 Posts (2,936)
Louisville, KY
age: 50


You only get walked on if its allowed to happen and its just not "nice guys" who get hurt or as you stated, walked on...if you dont stand for something, you will fall for anything...

12/17/2007 4:30:11 PMwhy do nice guys finish last? 
chopperbabe
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,878)
Overland Park, KS
age: 47


Awesome comment lonesomeloser

12/17/2007 4:30:25 PMwhy do nice guys finish last? 

ellezia
Pflugerville, TX
age: 26 online now!


Lonesome is right, its not just "Nice Guys" Its just that nice guys care. Jerks get steped on all the time and they just move on to the next.

12/17/2007 4:33:00 PMwhy do nice guys finish last? 
soultrynights
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,314)
San Clemente, CA
age: 39


med , all bullshit aside. ive said this before , some women take kindness for weakness. you have to stay away from them . most women have phycological problems you have to learn to keep away from them too . i think bottom line youve been picking the wrong chicks bro . as all of us have in the past . keep your head up , and dont give up

12/17/2007 4:38:17 PMwhy do nice guys finish last? 
msr32
Williams, IN
age: 49


Women seem to want a challenge most of the time. Act like you don't care & don't try too hard. Women don't want to be smothered; do you have hobbies other than finding someone? I work with a guy that once he gets someone to go out with him, he is absorbed in her & wants her to do everything with him...he gets dumped every time. You really should as yourself whatyou are doing. Women like nice guys....HONEST.

12/17/2007 4:41:22 PMwhy do nice guys finish last? 
soultrynights
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,314)
San Clemente, CA
age: 39


good way to put it msr

12/17/2007 4:43:07 PMwhy do nice guys finish last? 
lonesomeloser
Over 2,000 Posts (2,936)
Louisville, KY
age: 50


msr, you are correct on many levels with your comment and i commend you for your stance, but sometimes we as men misconstrue the difference between being invloved with someone and smothering her. In any relationship it is paramont that there is space given and more importantly when love and nuturing is mandated...I know I sometimes forget that also...and yes it will rear its ugly head.

12/17/2007 4:52:23 PMwhy do nice guys finish last? 
emt854
Over 2,000 Posts (2,166)
Appleton, WI
age: 54


You only get walked on if its allowed to happen and its just not "nice guys" who get hurt or as you stated, walked on...if you dont stand for something, you will fall for anything...

What lonesome said..

12/17/2007 4:54:39 PMwhy do nice guys finish last? 

sylviasmatch
Winter Springs, FL
age: 51


I would love to have a nice guy...

Im currently looking

12/17/2007 5:29:43 PMwhy do nice guys finish last? 
lonesomeloser
Over 2,000 Posts (2,936)
Louisville, KY
age: 50


Look no furthur...lonesome is here....and got a condo down there in the ole sunshine state....get there often....

12/17/2007 5:51:06 PMwhy do nice guys finish last? 

the_infamous1
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,609)
Ridgeville, SC
age: 34


nnice guys do finish last .. women like the bad boys for a couple of reasons 1) women for some reason always think they can change someone ..quick note ladies you can't change anyone and most people DON'T change unless they see something wrong with themselves..2) women like a challenge if you ignore them or act like you could care less they can't stand it ..thats why when your with someone you get hit on more you carry yourself different and they can tell your not interested so they want you or at least until they get you....3) bad boys , jerks , a**holes they don't care enough to even consider thinking about anyone but themselves and it comes off as assertive and strong at first anyway then later they all say i wish i was with someone who really cared but they passed on that guy then and will pass on him again as soon as they start dating..

12/17/2007 5:54:50 PMwhy do nice guys finish last? 

yooperchuck
Kinross, MI
age: 60


Noone can walk over us or hurt us unless we let them do it. If we want more and desire and obsess over a relationship that is one sided,..no matter how hard we try or want to think it is for real.......when the carpet comes out from under us we wonder fut the wuck happened. Gotta keep both eyes open and live in the moment. When shit happens.....WIPE....and move on.

12/17/2007 6:14:40 PMwhy do nice guys finish last? 
kboxlover
Victorville, CA
age: 38


I don't know, because that's all I want. I'm the one that the nice guys dump. They think I'm too wild for them.