10/16/2009 8:54:02 AMMake sure the woman you date is in fact divorced! 

justuamdme
Nutley, NJ
age: 49


Yes, unfortunately I was drawn into a pathetic situation, Where a woman from Athens Ohio
clearly stated she was not married and available. As it turned out I failed to check the facts based on trust. Long story short, not only was she married, she was still with her husband. I guess when we went to bed and I noticed a closet full of mens clothing, I should have left immediately but there was an "explanation" for that.I have never slept with a married woman in my life, I have never cheated in my life. Now I have to live with this disgusting feeling of being "dirty". I should have seen the writing on the wall, but again, I relied on honesty and trust. I wish I could just erase this memory from my mind, but I can't. Why do woman (and men) do this???

10/18/2009 6:10:48 PMMake sure the woman you date is in fact divorced! 

cowboyupphx
Over 1,000 Posts (1,231)
Phoenix, AZ
age: 43


Well at least you learned a lesson...now tell on the b*tch to get even

10/18/2009 6:21:07 PMMake sure the woman you date is in fact divorced! 

izzy37066
Gallatin, TN
age: 37


I agree with the previous post, the truth shall set you free. You feel bad about it so that means you have a conscience about it, obviously she didn't. But really the clothes should have set off an alarm that no explanation should have silenced.

10/19/2009 4:31:56 AMMake sure the woman you date is in fact divorced! 

wsprs0nthewind
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,451)
Powell, TN
age: 45


OP, even though you feel bad about what happened, I admire you because you do. That tells me you have a conscience.

10/19/2009 9:57:22 AMMake sure the woman you date is in fact divorced! 

srose1986
San Diego, CA
age: 23


Quote from justuamdme:
Yes, unfortunately I was drawn into a pathetic situation, Where a woman from Athens Ohio
clearly stated she was not married and available. As it turned out I failed to check the facts based on trust. Long story short, not only was she married, she was still with her husband. I guess when we went to bed and I noticed a closet full of mens clothing, I should have left immediately but there was an "explanation" for that.I have never slept with a married woman in my life, I have never cheated in my life. Now I have to live with this disgusting feeling of being "dirty". I should have seen the writing on the wall, but again, I relied on honesty and trust. I wish I could just erase this memory from my mind, but I can't. Why do woman (and men) do this???



You shouldnt feel bad u didnt cheat she did and u didnt know better if u had I am sure u wouldnt of so its not on u but when u start seeing the signs next time ay attention and get outa there.

10/21/2009 8:54:39 AMMake sure the woman you date is in fact divorced! 

potpie71
Over 1,000 Posts (1,337)
Gig Harbor, WA
age: 38


Agree...you didn't do anything wrong~ we, as humans, want to give the benefit of the doubt & still have hope that there are decent, honest people in the world.

Don't rat her out here...if you feel that bad, tell her husband.

10/23/2009 7:06:03 PMMake sure the woman you date is in fact divorced! 

truckdriverjohn
Branson, MO
age: 53 online now!


Quote from justuamdme:
Yes, unfortunately I was drawn into a pathetic situation, Where a woman from Athens Ohio
clearly stated she was not married and available. As it turned out I failed to check the facts based on trust. Long story short, not only was she married, she was still with her husband. I guess when we went to bed and I noticed a closet full of mens clothing, I should have left immediately but there was an "explanation" for that.I have never slept with a married woman in my life, I have never cheated in my life. Now I have to live with this disgusting feeling of being "dirty". I should have seen the writing on the wall, but again, I relied on honesty and trust. I wish I could just erase this memory from my mind, but I can't. Why do woman (and men) do this???
Hell while you were there. You should have check his Jacket size and load up lmao. His would say honey were is my Jackets? Like to hear that story lol.

10/26/2009 4:49:37 PMMake sure the woman you date is in fact divorced! 
josiemae
Fayetteville, NC
age: 53


It's unfortunate that the games people play and endanger the lives of others. Try hard to let it not happen to you again.

10/26/2009 6:09:34 PMMake sure the woman you date is in fact divorced! 

bones01
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,118)
Morehead City, NC
age: 60


If you feel the need, then contact her and let her know that you are going to tell her husband. You don't have to really tell him but it will let her feel the discomfort of her actions. Let her Squirm.

10/26/2009 6:50:51 PMMake sure the woman you date is in fact divorced! 
josiemae
Fayetteville, NC
age: 53


bones01:

Why would you want the situation worst than it is. Ket sleeping dogs lie.

10/27/2009 3:24:44 AMMake sure the woman you date is in fact divorced! 

bones01
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,118)
Morehead City, NC
age: 60


Quote from josiemae:
bones01:

Why would you want the situation worst than it is. Ket sleeping dogs lie.


Josie, the gal is out sleeping around while married. Think her husband needs the STDs and such because of her pathetic lifestyle? She is no victim here but her hubby could sure be. This woman needs to end her marriage or stop her behaviour unless her hubby knows what's happening and is fine with it.

10/27/2009 3:38:26 AMMake sure the woman you date is in fact divorced! 
josiemae
Fayetteville, NC
age: 53


bones01:

For the husband's protection form STD, I will agree with you.

11/17/2009 12:38:48 AMMake sure the woman you date is in fact divorced! 
porgy123
Pueblo, CO
age: 65


How do you know "THEY" weren't playing a game with you?

Maybe he was hiding taking a movie of you d*cking her.
Ever hear of such things? I have.

Put it out of your mind, it's done & over, move on.